Chapter 358: We Are Not Suitable
"What?" Huang Fei really wanted to give himself a few mouths, he said to Ye Ning like that to encourage Ye Ning to pursue his love bravely, but how did he know that the object of his pursuit was himself.
"I've had a very strange feeling about you ever since I met you, but I didn't know what it was, and I always wanted to see you, and I always thought of you. At first, I thought it was probably because I had too few friends of the opposite sex around me, so I would feel fresh and curious. But I haven't seen you again recently, I don't know where you've gone, I don't know what you're doing, and I don't dare to call you, but the most I do every day is to miss you, today I can't help it, I sent you a message, we met, the moment we met, I suddenly understood, I liked you. I can't deceive myself, and I don't want to deceive this feeling in my heart, so I want to tell you plainly, I like you. Ye Ning said affectionately.
Huang Fei was completely speechless, this life is really full of routines, and now even girls like Ye Ning have begun to play tricks, at first they pretended to be very painful and helpless, and they were stupid to give advice to her and help her weave the rope, and when the ropes were all braided, I realized that I had tied myself in.
"Huang Fei, I like you, do you like me?" Ye Ning stood up, stared at Huang Fei's eyes with straight eyes, and asked bluntly.
"You, I... Huang Fei stammered and couldn't speak, he couldn't believe that the person standing in front of him was Ye Ning, who was shy as soon as he spoke.
"You don't speak, you like me too, don't you? Ye Ning took a step forward and got closer to Huang Fei.
"Ye Ning, what's wrong with you? You can't think like that, we are friends, there can be no other relationship. Huang Fei hurriedly waved his hand, and his body involuntarily retreated.
"Is it something that you can control emotionally? Besides, who stipulates that friends can't have other relationships? Aren't boyfriends and girlfriends also friends?" Ye Ning retorted to Huang Fei.
"Don't get excited, okay? Calm down first, let's sit down and talk. Huang Fei felt that Ye Ning's emotions were a little excited now.
Finally comforted Ye Ning and sat down, Huang Fei also sat opposite her, after what happened just now, both of them seemed to be a little embarrassed.
"Ye Ning, I'm older than you, it stands to reason that you should call me brother, now I'll stand in my brother's perspective to tell you about this problem, it's actually wrong for you to do this. Huang Fei hoped to be able to make Ye Ning change her mind by reasoning.
"It was you who made me do this, and now you say that I did it wrong, what do you want to say?" Ye Ning, who was rejected by Huang Fei, didn't seem to have a very good temper, and he spoke very impulsively.
"It's right that you pursue love, I just said, everyone has the right to love and be loved, you like someone, or someone likes you, it's not wrong, but the problem is to find the right object, you say you like me, this is you chose the wrong person, and there is another sentence I didn't say just now, that is, everyone also has the right to refuse and be rejected. Huang Fei tried to express himself as tactfully as possible.
"What the hell are you going to say?" Men who like a woman go back to pursue her, and if they are rejected, they will feel that this is a normal thing, and they will only continue to work hard to find a way to continue the pursuit, but women are different from men, if women are rejected, then they will only regard it as a shame.
Now Ye Ning had a strong sense of shame, she felt that she was insulted, so she wanted to escape from this place as soon as possible.
"I mean, I'm honored that you liked me, but I turned you down, and that's normal, I don't know why you chose me, but I know you made the wrong choice. Maybe as you said, you have very few friends of the opposite sex around you, so as soon as I appeared, I brought you a lot of things that you haven't been exposed to before, or a very fresh feeling, you think this is liking, in fact, it's just curiosity, maybe when you pass this freshness, you will find that in fact, you don't have that feeling for me. Huang Fei put together all the words he could think of about feelings, and he hoped that he could give Ye Ning a perfect and vivid lesson.
"I'm such a big person, I like to drink curiosity or it's clear, besides, I've been thinking about it for a long time, I know what I want, you can refuse me, but you can't doubt my sincerity. Ye Ning was a little annoyed, how did Huang Fei speak, did he think he was playing with children?
"Okay, I'm sorry, it was my mistake, then let's put it another way, you can like me, but I remember that you should know that I have a girlfriend, do you think it's appropriate to do this?"
"Yes, I know you have a girlfriend, and it is for this reason that I have been delaying until today to show you my intentions, I once had a deep sense of guilt, I felt that I was a wicked person, I was destroying the relationship between you and your girlfriend, I know that this kind of behavior is called meddling, and it is looked down upon by everyone. I also thought about giving up, and I persuaded myself, but it wasn't until later that I realized that I was a very selfish person, and I had no way to convince myself that if I could get this relationship, I would rather bear the infamy of the rest of my life. Ye Ning said resolutely.
Huang Fei didn't expect Ye Ning, a girl, to be so stubborn, why didn't she see it before?
"Yes, you can stick to your own ideas, but have you ever thought about the consequences of doing this? If you put a stick between me and my girlfriend, maybe three people will be hurt. The two of us haven't known each other for a long time, and you don't know me very well, maybe it's what I usually do that makes you have a good impression of me, which I'm really honored, at least it shows that I'm still a charming person. Speaking of this, Huang Fei paused, and saw that Ye Ning was listening very seriously, so he continued:
"But these are just what you usually see, and there are many things you don't know, to take the simplest example, the relationship between me and my girlfriend, you don't know it, you don't even know what my girlfriend looks like. The relationship between the two of us is really deep, so deep that we can give each other's lives for each other, and you don't think I'm exaggerating, because we did that. Now that you're in, who will be the saddest? Of course, it's my girlfriend, and I'll be sad if she's sad, and I can't promise you, so in the end, the only people on my hands can only be the three of us. Love is a fate, they all say to meet the right person at the right time, I met, but you didn't. You have been in contact with the opposite sex too little, so you will think I am good, but when you really open your eyes, you will find that in fact, I am not as powerful as you think, there are many good men in this world, and there are many better than me, but you haven't met it yet, I think you should try to contact more boys, maybe you will meet the one you really want to find. You're a good girl, I know that, but we're really not suitable, and if it's appropriate, I'm not a fool, and I won't miss you. Do you see what I mean?"
Huang Fei's words were very profound and reasonable, every word went deep into Ye Ning's heart, she was a shy girl, she was able to do this today, she had great courage, but she was rejected, she knew that she would not have such a bold time in the future.
Maybe she didn't think about so many problems after she found out that she liked Huang Fei, liking someone didn't make sense in the first place, and the truest feeling in her heart was the direction that led her to walk. Pursuing a relationship, no one is right or wrong, as for whether there will be a result in the end, it is not just hard work, there are many things that cannot be explained, because people are in a daze to control their feelings.
Just like Huang Fei said, liking is a right, but rejection is also a right, since they are all rights, then we should be more rational, don't resentment because we like it and are rejected, you know, they are equal.
Ye Ning knew that she had no chance, she was very sad, although Huang Fei told her so many truths, but she was still very sad, the first relationship in her life was like this, it ended before it started, should this be considered a tragedy?
She thinks no, it's better to end before it starts than to start and then end, maybe it's just a few tears of sadness now, but if it waits later, maybe it's the heart that really hurts.
"You go back first, I don't want to be seen by you when I cry for a while. Ye Ning lowered his head and said to Huang Fei.
"Actually, you can't, although I think I am suave and dashing and boundless to charm thousands of girls, but I still have a little self-knowledge, so I won't let you cry like this. At this time, Huang Fei felt that making the other party happy was the most important thing.
"Huh. Ye Ning really laughed, but only she knew how bitter this smile was.
"Look, that's very good, don't cry, you know, this is a public place, if you cry, then I'll be finished, others will definitely think that I bullied you, now the social atmosphere is so good, there are countless people who are righteous and brave, in case of fighting, although I am not afraid of them, but what should I do if I want to hit those flowers and plants? I don't even have an ID card, how do you say I should explain it?" Huang Fei continued to play his nonsensical style.
"Can you please stop being so funny, I was really going to cry, how can you make me cry like this. Ye Ning sighed, he really didn't know what to do, all the sadness that had just brewed was ruined.