Chapter 152: Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren
Xuan Chunhua became angry when she mentioned the old thing: "Is there a stupid person like your father, others said that he was older than him, let him catch up with the next batch, but he kindly agreed, and did not discuss with me, as a result, there was no more next batch." Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info Your dad is looking for a job all over the place, how bitter, that person has a stable salary, and said that your dad is good. ”
This is all an old rotten grain, it happened when Xu Shuangchuan had no memory, to put it bluntly, her father was honest and simple, and gave a good opportunity to others, resulting in no one caring when he moved from the sea to the land, during which the family had a hard time, her mother had recited this matter several times, every time it was word for word, even the tone was the same, Xu Shuangchuan's ears were cocooned.
"Mom, you say Dad is stupid, but you're actually talking to Dad. Xu Shuangchuan commented bluntly.
Xuan Chunhua choked: "Don't say it, don't say it." Everyone says that your mother is blessed, your father is honest, smokes a few cigarettes, drinks a little wine, does not rub mahjong and does not have those fancy things, goes out is busy with work, and squats at home when you come back, but you see, if you are too honest, you can do things that anger people for a lifetime. Mom didn't say that your dad was bad, I just said that people are not afraid of shortcomings, but they are afraid that shortcomings will be magnified. ”
Xu Shuangchuan blinked her eyes and looked at her mother, this sentence was probably the essence of her mother's simple life philosophy.
What shortcomings does Chen Chi have that will be magnified to the point that she can't bear it in a few years? Xu Shuangchuan thought for a moment and retorted in a low voice: "Mom, Chen Chi has no major shortcomings. ”
Xuan Chunhua snorted angrily, and took the opportunity to move the topic to Chen Chi: "Looking at it now, Chen Chi's character is okay, but what about his family? I'm good with your father, so I won't treat Chen Chi well, but what about his family, will I be nice to you? Do you dare to marry without knowing anything? What if the elders have a tendency to domestic violence? What if there is any genetic disease on the ancestor? Don't stare at it, saying that it is not bad, I am reminding you to pay more attention. ”
"His parents seem to be very affectionate, and the family is quite healthy. Xu Shuangchuan muttered with her head down, muttering in her heart, her mother boasted that she was good and would not do anything to Chen Chi, this sentence was too watery.
"Don't use words indiscriminately, remember, don't say affection in front of the elders in the future, so that others will think that you don't speak lightly. ”
Xu Shuang pursed the corners of his mouth and whispered, "I'll say it in front of you." ”
Xuan Chunhua glanced at her daughter, half annoyed, half sweet, her little padded jacket was still hers after all.
"Our two families are so far away, in the future, the two of you will run around and tire people to death, and if you don't get it right, you will have a conflict, have you thought about it?"
"These are small things, just be considerate of each other. ”
"Considerate? You say it lightly, when the time comes, will you be considerate of him, or will he be considerate of you? are all raised by your parents, are you willing to let go or he is willing to let go, if you refuse to let go, you have to quarrel, and if you quarrel too much, it will become a knot. If you can't solve it, you have to cut through the mess quickly, one word, leave. ”
Xu Shuangchuan looked at her mother in surprise, secretly thinking that her mother's logic was so smooth that people were speechless, and she didn't know what subjects her mother went to the university for the elderly.
Xuan Chunhua continued: "You see, this small shortcoming is magnified, and it is not good. If you want me to say, if you find a native of your hometown, you don't have this problem. ”
Xu Shuang glanced at her mother: "I didn't have a chance to know my hometown, so I knew Chen Chi." She grinned, rushed over and knelt behind her mother, pinching her mother's neck and shoulders, "Mom, you said this, I think Chen Chi's conditions have some small shortcomings, do you actually agree with me and Chen Chi in the general direction?"
Xuan Chunhua was silent and let her daughter pinch it.
Xu Shuangchuan worked very hard, pinched for a while, and her mouth was sour, so she picked up her fist and beat it gently.
Xuan Chunhua couldn't bear her daughter in the end, Xu Shuangchuan only came back from a long-distance flight yesterday, and she didn't sleep well at night, and now she is still massaged. She asked faintly: "Shuangshuang, my mother didn't say anything against Chen Chi, why do you have to come back this time? Time is so tight, marriage is a lifelong event after all." ”
Xu Shuang knocked on her mother's back regularly, and explained in her mouth: "Mom, it turns out that we are going to come back for two months, I think, whatever you do, you should have more money." She tilted her head, rested on her mother's shoulder, wrapped her arms around her neck like she had done when she was a child, and said coquettishly, "I still want him to stay in our house for a month and give you a good look." ”
Xuan Chunhua gently patted Xu Shuangchuan's forehead and said with a sneer: "It's so big, it's still hanging on me, and my mother's old bones are crushed by you." ”
Xu Shuang smiled shyly and let go of his hand, and continued to knock on his back obediently: "Chen Chi has a job next month, and our vacation has to be shortened." Mom, if you think that our marriage registration this time is too sudden, then I will discuss with Chen Chi and move it to next time. She paused slightly, lowered her eyes, and said, "However, we may not be free to come back next year, and it may take a little longer."
Xuan Chunhua was silent, daring not to do it this time, next time she has to urge them to do it, who told the two children to fly outside, it is indeed not easy to come back?
I don't know what car honked its horn and came from the road outside the community. Xuan Chunhua subconsciously looked at the window, and through the gap where the pink curtains were not closed, she could see signs that the sky was a little open. She thought of the previous girl standing by the window in the dark.
That's it, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Now she is planning for her in a thousand ways, and her life is still to be lived by herself, and a happy marriage is not planned in advance, but two people have to work together to manage it.
Xuan Chunhua was knocked on her back by her daughter, and her heart was recalculated.
She didn't ask how the Chen family was, anyway, the family background was ordinary, don't expect too much. It's okay to do this way, the in-laws do it easily, and the two families have the same right to speak. As long as it doesn't suffer enough for her daughter, it's a great good. After the Chen family's parents finished eating and drinking, if there was more than enough, it would all be Chen Chi's after all, and there would be no concubines to jump out to fight with her daughter in the future.
The two parents' homes are far apart, in fact, there are also advantages, occasionally they can be polite when they meet, in case the small couple fights, at least one party is too late to get involved in person, so that the contradiction does not need to escalate instantly.
Xuan Chunhua evaluated them one by one, sighed, and if her heart was flat, Chen Chi's external conditions were properly on the passing line. Look at him again, there is no disdainful inferiority that Xuanchun Hua is most disgusted with, such as being a big traitor, oily and slippery, and a vain head, and he is roughly a young man who can handle things. Xuan Chunhua sighed again, I can't see any obvious advantages and disadvantages now, but as long as there are no intolerable major shortcomings, it can be regarded as passing.
Her analysis of Chen Chi is very clear, and she doesn't plan the long-term vision, but no matter how good the long-term vision is, he must be willing to share it with the people around him, so she only asked one sentence in the end: "Shuangshuang, how does Chen Chi treat you?"
"Good. Xu Shuangchuan pursed a shy smile and said softly, "Mom, don't worry." (To be continued.) )