Chapter 1151: Mother Lan is worried
"Well, I, I'm fine, don't be careful, I'm a person, my heart is strong, I don't want to fall behind anyone, but in fact, I can't compare to others...... This is fate!" Lan Mu quickly interrupted Qin Yafu's words and let out a long sigh.
"Why do you want to compare yourself with others? People have their own lives, let's live our lives, the past is over, there is nothing to say, in the future, according to our own thoughts, live a good life in peace and stability.
Aunt Lan, over the years, you have done well enough, not every 'woman' can be like you, endure many hardships, cultivate such a 'beautiful' son, and harvest a good daughter-in-law like Sister Xiaolian. ”
Qin Yafu softly persuaded that her dislike for Lan Haijun was decreasing day by day, but it didn't mean that she didn't recognize his excellence, not to mention, she didn't want Lan Mu to be upset.
"Out of 'color'?" Lan Mu repeated these two words softly, a little in a trance, then nodded, as if talking to herself, "Well, it doesn't matter if you can't have 'color', the most important thing is to live happily, no matter what, just keep a good mood." ”
"Yes, people live in a mood, and when they are in a good mood, they will be extra energetic in everything they do. Qin Yafu worked hard to dismiss Lan's mother, and it could be seen that the old lady, who had always been proud of her son, was very depressed today, and she was no longer as proud as she was when she even mentioned her son.
"Yaf, I only have one child in the navy in my life, and besides him, the closest person is you, you can be regarded as half of my 'daughter'. Lan Mu didn't seem to feel much about Qin Yafu's words, but after being silent for a moment, she suddenly smiled bitterly.
"For a long time, I couldn't accept the fact that you didn't be my daughter-in-law', not to mention that he, including myself, was so troubled, on the one hand, I resented your vanity, I didn't think that a simple child like you would climb the branches, and on the other hand, I felt sorry for the navy, I know his thoughts on you......"
"Ahem, Aunt Lan," Qin Yafu couldn't help but feel extremely embarrassed when she heard Mother Lan mention the old things many years ago so bluntly, and hurriedly coughed to stop, "That, it's all a misunderstanding, Aunt Lan thinks too much......"
"Ha, what kind of person my son is, I don't know?" Lan Mu's expression was bitter and dark, and her eyes were slightly red when she looked at Qin Yafu, she blinked quickly, trying to force back her tears, but she didn't bother with this question anymore.
After Lan Mu seemed to calm down a little, she said to Qin Yafu in a sincere tone: "Yafu, you have known each other for so many years, you are like brother and sister, but you have a friendship beyond brother and sister, just this point, it is not comparable to others. ”
"Well," Qin Yafu replied awkwardly, always feeling a little uncomfortable, so she said bluntly, "We have a lot of playmates who grew up together, and there are many good relationships, like Ding Yan and Qiao Yi......
"They are them, you are you, how can they be the same?" Lan Mu was not very satisfied with Qin Yafu's ambiguous attitude, but after interrupting her words, she also realized that she was too domineering, so she hurriedly softened her tone, looked at her with admiration in her eyes and said frankly, "Yafu, there are many children of the same age as you, but I like you the most, the 'temperament' is gentle and gentle, well-behaved and sensible, and the most temperamental in the navy." ”
Qin Yafu bit her lip and listened to Lan Mu's words, displeased, what is this for? Life is good, she is obviously more and more satisfied with Tang Xiaolian, but she just looks at people standing not far away, saying these foolish words, it is too unkind, right?
"If, I mean if, Yafu, don't get me wrong," Lan Mu naturally saw Qin Yafu's displeasure, and smiled reluctantly, but her expression was desolate and sighed, "I can see the reality clearly, even if I have complained about you, I actually know that there is no possibility, but I always feel that if you were my daughter-in-law', the Navy's temper should not become so bad." ”
"Aunt Lan, don't say that, Sister Xiaolian......"
"It's not about Xiaolian," Lan Mu also knew that her words were too 'revealing', for so many years, she had been holding back, thinking that the past didn't have to be ignored, but it turned out that nothing had changed, and she couldn't help but shake her head, "I know that Xiaolian is a good child, so good that it couldn't be better."
I haven't even seen any daughter-in-law more than hers, even when I was young, I didn't get along with my mother-in-law as much as she cared so hard, but it's a pity that ......"
"Yafu, can you come over and talk? Xinyi is going to pee, I have to take her to the bathroom. Tang Xiaolian, who had been accompanying the children, suddenly beckoned to this side.
"Well, it's coming!" Qin Yafu glanced at Lan Mu, vaguely uneasy about her words, but she couldn't ignore the children, so she discussed, "Let's go over first, shall we?"
"Good. "Mother Lan also seemed to have plucked up a lot of courage to open her mouth, but now she was interrupted by her daughter-in-law', and she didn't know if it was a good thing, but she was also relieved, and slowly followed behind Qin Yafu and came to Lin Yi's 'Chun' and Lin Yihe's side.
Tang Xiaolian smiled at her mother-in-law: "Mom, Xinyi has grown up, and she doesn't want to pee on the side of the road......"
"Go, the child is older, you should pay attention to this aspect, I used to be too unparticular and always asked you with the same old ideas.
Peeing in public places not only affects public health, but also is not conducive to the cultivation of children's shame, I have been talking about this recently while watching TV, I understand, I will not ask you unreasonably in the future, you should supervise me more, and remind me at any time if I have unreasonable ideas. ”
Lan Mu's words were sincere and natural, and came from the bottom of her heart.
"yes, I see. Tang Xiaolian had adapted to her mother-in-law's increasingly gentle attitude, she smiled and nodded, picked up Lan Xinyi and went to the public bathroom.
Qin Yafu looked at Tang Xiaolian's back as she walked away, and then looked back at Lan Mu, she was still secretly happy for Tang Xiaolian in her heart, of course she knew Lan Mu's 'sex', in the past, on the issue of different parenting concepts, the old lady was angry with Tang Xiaolian, and it was rare that she was more and more aware now.
"In the past, I always found fault with Xiaolian, which was not good, that was not right, until now, think about it calmly, the real problem is obviously me!" Lan's mother withdrew her gaze at her daughter-in-law', looked directly at Qin Yafu, and asked calmly, "Yafu, to be honest, is your mother-in-law not as bad as me?"
"This, the individual has a personal mind, and there is nothing comparable to 'sex'. Of course, Qin Yafu knew the difference between her mother-in-law and Lan's mother, but how could she say it?
"If you don't admit it, I know," Lan Mu smiled clearly, "In the past, I loved to complain about the heavens and people, and I felt that everyone was sorry for me, so I was tired of living and put a lot of pressure on the people around me, not to mention Xiaolian, including the navy, although he didn't say it, but the stubbornness in his heart was not 'forced' by me? I asked him to do his best in everything, and I always hoped that he would get ahead."
He'd done it, but so what? He wasn't happy, and he always had a big pimple on his brow, even though he was smiling on the surface, but ...... Alas, don't talk about him, it's just that he was destroyed enough by me, in fact, the person I can't stand the most is Xiaolian.
The longer I get in touch with Xiaolian, the more I find that such an excellent 'girl' child can endure everything for the sake of her beloved, but I am still unreasonable and have broken her heart so many times, I, I am really a 'bastard' ......"
When Lan's mother said that later, she inevitably choked up, she never mentioned this feeling to anyone, including her daughter-in-law who felt guilty, and she didn't have the face to say it to others, but the irrelevant Qin Yafu became her best confidant.
"Aunt Lan thinks too much," Qin Yafu held the stroller with one hand, grabbed Lan's mother's hand with the other, and persuaded softly, "Sister Xiaolian is indeed a good 'girl', she is good enough to be a person and do things, and she has no other bad 'faults', but Aunt Lan is just as good, this is called 'not a family, not entering a family', you are all good people, so you can meet together." ”
This is Qin Yafu's heart, in her opinion, Lan Mu and Tang Xiaolian can afford the three words "good 'woman'", the same kindness, loyalty, tolerance, and generosity, when they can be compatible, they are like their mother's 'daughter', and they can be happy for a long time.
"The three words 'good' female 'person' are well-deserved to be given to Xiaolian, I'll forget it," Lan's mother waved her other idle hand, looking at the twins in the stroller in the sunshine, her face softened, "Your child is very good, but my Xinyi is getting better and better under Xiaolian's careful care, even if she gets sick occasionally, it is much better than when she was a child." ”
"Yes, it's getting better and better after all, the days to come will be longer, the older Xinyi is, the healthier she is, slowly, when she is older, Sister Xiaolian can also go out to work, Aunt Lan accompanies the little grandchild, and enjoys your family happiness with peace of mind!" Qin Yafu finally saw that Lan's mother's mood was better, and she hurriedly took the opportunity to say good things.
"Family happiness?" Hearing these four words, Lan Mu's smile decreased again, such a blessing seemed unattainable to her, making her both yearn for and fear.
Today's Lan Mu seems to be suffering from serious gains and losses, and her joy and anger are too clear.
"People can't be greedy, as the old saying goes, 'you can't have both fish and bear's paws', I've got enough now, especially when I'm older, living a day is considered to be a day of earning, there is nothing to regret. ”
After Lan Mu was stunned for a moment, she still calmed down and changed the topic.
"My only concern is that I want the children to be well, Xiaolian to be happy, and my Xinyi to be healthy...... I know that if I am not there one day, Xiaolian will definitely be able to take care of her, but she should not be too wronged and too tired. ”
Lan Mu was talking to Qin Yafu, her expression was a little dazed, her eyes were 'confused', and she lost focus, she tilted her head, blinked her eyes, pondered for a while, and then suddenly 'pulled' out the hand that Qin Yafu was holding, slapped it with the other hand, and said loudly: "Yes, I know what to do!"