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I'm really surprised, I can still have full of blood and mood, and I met love unexpectedly.

He is a Cancer man, delicate, sensitive, lingering, and a great believer in love, and his writings often keep me awake at night or make people grief-stricken.

The lover's home is probably always a warm harbor supported by his hard shell~

I built a nest for both of us by his side!

Once, I thought that he would regard this home, that is, my home, as his tender and sweet home, and at least I would spend the rest of my life without regrets. Then, we, either to my country or to the seaside, grow old together and spend the rest of our lives.

Once, I thought that in this strange country, as long as I devoted myself to love, I could also cry ghosts and touch the world, at least I could compare my heart to my heart and dedicate myself to each other, in order to give each other a family affection, a love, and a comfortable and warm new home.

Then, I was high-profile, deliberate, and humbly longing for recognition or understanding.

Now it seems that perhaps I am too flamboyant, too extravagant, and too phased.

Where there is love, there is everything, that is my romantic feelings in the past, not all recognized by the world.

I can also discard the high hopes in my heart and wander through life like a human being.

If, even this, I can't give warmth and quiet, then I have to fulfill my decision over the years:

One person, traveling the world;

Alone, escaping in the corner;

Alone, continue to do what you want to do most - revenge!

For yourself, the soul is enriched and at peace. Let my soul truly gain a refreshing and empty mind. Let all the worries, sadness, depression, confusion, pain and fear over the years be relieved.

On Valentine's Day, he gave me a diamond ring.

He said that the wedding ring should be worn on the ring finger of the left hand, but I will put it on the middle finger of the left hand for you.

Why do you want to put it on your middle finger?

Since it's a diamond ring. It should be worn where it should be worn most, on the ring finger, not on the middle finger.

What does it mean to wear a ring on my middle finger?

As we all know, there is a point in wearing rings. According to British tradition, the left hand is a sign of God's luck, so a ring is usually worn on the left hand.

As for the right hand, there is also one finger that traditionally makes sense when wearing a ring, and that is the ring finger. It is said that when worn here, it means that she has the heart of a nun.

In ancient China, rings were not originally used as ornaments, but as a special taboo for the concubines in the court to avoid the king's "luck" every month, so they were called "rings". Now, the ring is not only an ornament to beautify life, but also a token of love.

There is a well-established way to wear it in the world:

The ring should never be worn on the thumb, but on the other fingers of both hands.

The ring is worn on the index finger to indicate that I have a lover and want to get married but are not yet married.

A ring is worn on the middle finger to indicate that you are looking for someone or that you are in love.

When a ring is worn on the ring finger, it indicates that you are engaged or married.

When the ring is worn on the little finger, it indicates that I am determined to live a single life, that is, I will never marry or never marry.

I said, "Well, in that case, you might as well put the diamond ring on my little finger." ”

My him, laughed, scratched my nose, and said, "Then it's up to you~"

So, I put this beautiful diamond ring on my left ring finger, with infinite hatred, but my heart was faintly aching. I said, "You know? Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families." In particular, it is very difficult for two men and women from different nationalities and countries to come together, and there are so many problems to solve. So I know what you mean, I'll be the one who has sex. For the sake of this love, I will never marry!"

He was pale and embarrassed, and said, "Why? In our France, the person you love can not get married, but you still have to register it at the town hall." Why don't we go and register?"

I smiled and said, "No, we just need love."

You see, I can present my evidence again: First, please stretch out your hands and bend your middle fingers downwards and press them together, that is, the back of your middle finger is pressed against your back.

Then, touch the other five fingers to each other.

Before you get to the point of the game, make sure that only one pair of fingers is allowed apart for the five fingers in the following process.

Let's get down to business.

Please open a pair of big fingers, the big fingers represent our parents, can be opened, everyone will have birth, old age, sickness and death, and parents will leave one day, just like my mother, who left me early.

Please close your finger and open your index finger, which represents your brothers and sisters, who will also have their own family history and will leave us.

Please close your index finger and open your finger again, the finger represents the children, and when the children grow up, sooner or later, they will have their own family life and will leave us.

So, close your thumb finger and try to open your ring finger again.

At this time, you will be surprised to find that the ring finger cannot be opened, because the ring finger represents the husband and wife, and they will not be separated for a lifetime.

In other words, true love, after being glued together, is inseparable from eternity and eternity.

Since we don't want to be husband and wife, it's okay, as long as there is love. ”

Yes, I hope and desire that I will be with him for the rest of my life.

But fate is still nothing more than a bubble, an illusion, a nightmare. At that time, the cultural differences made me completely forget that he was a European from France. The French, on the other hand, wear a diamond wedding ring on the middle finger of their left hand. Because they believe that among the ten fingers of a person, only the blood of this middle finger leads to the heart, which is dedicated to feelings, and is called the heart finger. And the wedding diamond ring, only when worn on this finger, can it be "heart-to-heart".

At that time, I only knew that the British wedding ring was worn on the ring finger of the left hand, and I took it for granted that Westerners were like this.

It's useless to regret it at the beginning, a man loves a woman, it's all time-sensitive.

missed the opportunity to reap the fruits of love happily and sweetly, and can only blame yourself for being too ignorant and shallow.

Think about it, at that time, a thirty-year-old woman finally achieved a positive result, had a heart-to-heart lover, and was no longer alone in the face of everything in the world, hehe, this kind of feeling of being cared for and pampered, how beautiful and charming!

A white diamond ring and a red rose, the "bride" is not unemotional! Not to mention that this "bride" has been single all her life!

I'm like this, I've always been careful not to touch marriage, and I don't even dare to involve love in a big way, I'm always worried about this and afraid of that.

Although I also longed, pondered, longed, and pursued an excellent man, deep in my soul, I no longer fully believed in any man.

They should be my eternal enemies.

Don't cast yourself into a jade girl just because of a diamond ring.

Facts speak louder than words.

Now, I have to find my place again.

I've got to wander.