Chapter 218: Daughter's Forgiveness Parents are tolerant

(For the marriage of the daughter, the mother is heartbroken; the father is open-minded and understands the daughter's boredom;

It is not only a sign of determination, but also a sign of parental affection. Originally, the heart was knotted, and the heart turned into floating clouds. ）

"Daughter, in fact, your mother is completely for your good. I don't know if others believe it or not, but your father and I are the first witnesses. Father Xie also helped to explain and persuade. "I couldn't sleep all night before I worked for you. Recently, it has added wrinkles to your face for your marriage. Since you willingly went to the remote Yuannan City two years ago, there has not been a day when your mother has not nagged in my ear and said, 'It seems that your daughter is not your own child? She grew up beside her parents in the capital, and she can endure the hardships of the countryside there? When she found out that you were slow to act, this matter became a problem for her again. So don't blame her for lying to you about being sick today. ”

"My respectable and lovely parents, thank you for 'pitiful parents in the world'! For the sake of their children's marriage, they do not hesitate to gamble on their health and confidence. After listening to her parents' words, Xie Yuan couldn't cry or laugh, but also said helplessly. "Actually, my daughter doesn't blame you two elders, in the end, I blame myself for this matter, I didn't tell my parents in time, and revealed my heart of 'starting a business first and then starting a family'. Just now, you always said that my mother was in a hurry when she saw other girls in the courtyard getting married one after another? To use an inappropriate analogy, this is called 'the emperor is not in a hurry and the eunuch is in a hurry'!

"Your daughter is no longer one of those homely girls who are illiterate in the hospital, nor are you unemployed young people waiting in line at the employment office. At best, she is still a master's student at Beijing Normal University, a famous school, and although she only works for a city newspaper, she is also the director of the business department responsible for compilation. I have my own life's priorities to consider. But there is one thing that must be insisted on: if you can't meet the opposite sex who is in love with each other, you would rather keep the empty door alone, and never marry yourself casually like a promotional product. In this regard, parents are also requested to understand and cooperate. ”

"Hey, you kid, just said 'understand the good intentions of parents to care for their children and be happy in the future', why is this going off the center again?" Hearing her daughter talk about her views on marriage and love, and her resolute attitude, Xie's mother immediately came up and said. "Hmph, what is 'the two sexes are happy'? What is 'love and affection'? These chaotic concepts and ideas are all bourgeois consciousness. Girl, this was not the case when you were at home and at school. How long has it been since I been in the tabloid of the former southern border city? It seems that the interpersonal environment far away from the capital is like a big dye vat, and the children of decent families cannot stay for long.

"Dad, just take advantage of this time when your daughter comes back from leave, mobilize your contacts when you went to work before, and find another job for her in the capital. Let's not go to that place again. As the old saying goes, 'the prime minister's girl is a seven-grade official'; although I don't talk about those feudal hierarchical concepts now, but with my daughter's academic ability, I can find a clerical errand in any ministry of the central government, and work for a year or two, at least at the level of a regular department, no lower than your tabloid business director. ”

"Mom, it seems that you have been a doctor for a long time, and you only study people's physical diseases, but you don't pay attention to the thoughts and feelings between people. The concept of marriage and love between our mother and son, not to mention let my brother and sister-in-law evaluate it, you will let your contemporaries and my father identify who is right and who is wrong?"

"Hey, heh, what kind of appraisal is used for this? Isn't it all obvious?" Father Xie said with a soft snort. "The 'concept of marriage' in which men and women marry without paying attention to their feelings is an old concept that was criticized and discarded as early as the May Fourth Movement. Lao Yue, you doctors usually don't read books or read newspapers, but only study cases and patients' bodies, and you will be outdated after a long time. But after a pause, he said to his daughter: "Ayuan, although I don't agree with your mother's view of marriage and love, and I don't plan to interfere with your siblings' freedom of marriage, as parents, we still have the responsibility and power to screen and check the marriage of our children." Since we don't care what means we use to get you back, in order to make this trip worthwhile, you also give us a clue: If you have not been engaged to get married for a long time, then the saying that you will start a business first and then start a family is just a retreat; after all, have you not met a person who is 'happy with each other and in love'? Or can you never let go of your 'Brother Zhong'?"

"Mom and Dad, I'll tell you the truth, at the beginning of my work at the newspaper, the reason why I wasn't in a hurry to fall in love was indeed influenced by the idea of 'starting a business first and then starting a family', but in the past two years, I really haven't met a suitable partner. Moved by the love of his father and mother, Xie Yuan immediately said from the bottom of his heart. As for mentioning that Brother Zhong, to be honest, it was really out of gratitude to him at the beginning, but he was also conquered by his personality charm. However, not long after I went to work at the newspaper office, in order to work in the Tongjinshui County Party Committee and Government, many people had frequent contact, and finally found that I was not the only female colleague and subordinate who admired and admired him like me, and all of them were more competitive than me. My parents know me, and I have had a weird temper since I was a child, even if I love the toys again, as long as they are loved by other partners, I will take the initiative to give up. The same is true for people. It's not interesting to compete with someone else for the same man. ”

"Good boy, knowing that you have such a mind and attitude, parents will have a bottom in their hearts. Father Xie immediately said with satisfaction and reassurance. Even so, my parents also expressed their attitude: that is, from now on, we respect your choice and believe in your vision, and in the future, we will only check you in a big way, but do not do anything subjective. Old woman, do you agree?"

"Your father and son have said this, and if I were to pick any more questions, wouldn't it seem too unreasonable? Xie Mu also gritted her teeth and finally made up her mind to say. "But there are two things that I must bring up first. First, you must hurry up, and strive to find a partner as soon as possible, get married and have children early; when your wife still has energy and physical strength, you can also help you take the child, or pick up and drop off school or something; the second is that after choosing the object, you must bring him to meet the prospective mother-in-law as soon as possible, so that your parents can check your staff at any time. ”

"Then please rest assured. Xie Yuan said seriously and sincerely. "First, I will definitely do my best to grasp it as much as the country does in the 'third-line construction'; Second, when the phase is selected one day, it will be brought back immediately, and you will be asked to visually identify and check it. ”

Time goes back to the present, and it is still in a private room in a hotel near the city TV station. Zhong Jingliang was still quite interested, listening to Xie Yuan talk about his love experience with relish, and at this moment, when he heard this, the originally tense nerves were finally relaxed.

"Xie Yuan, just after listening to your account of your personal emotional experience, I can't help but be deeply moved and touched by the middle-aged people who have learned a lesson. Zhong Jingliang couldn't help but say from the bottom of his heart. "We've known each other for about three or four years, right? In my impression, you used to be a straightforward girl who did whatever she wanted. However, from what you just said, properly handling family conflicts and satisfactorily resolving the relationship between parents and relatives at home, I can't help but be impressed by your re-evaluation. This shows that after three years of work practice in the newspaper, you have not only become an outstanding business backbone, but also have become mature and sophisticated. But I still have a little regret when I hear this: the above still seems to be related to Xiao Ai, you two love?"

"Brother Zhong, you still boast of being mature and sophisticated, why don't you understand the saying 'you can't drink hot porridge in a hurry'?" Xie Yuan immediately sneered. "Anyone who likes to listen to stories and read novels knows that before every vivid story, there must always be a background! ”

"Why don't you hurry up and say it backwards?" Zhong Jingliang immediately urged anxiously. "Procrastinating is not afraid of the listener waiting impatiently?"

"The main scene should invite the actor to appear. Xie Yuan glanced at her boyfriend Xiu Meng and said. As the saying goes, 'it's hard to kick the first three feet'; I've already done a good job of playing the 'mat field' for you; now it's your turn, you have to speak hard, and if you speak well, I will reward you if the audience is satisfied; if you don't speak well, the audience is not satisfied or if you fail to speak, be careful to turn back, the boss will deduct your salary, and I will compensate me for the loss of reputation. ”

So, under the combination of soft and hard work of the heroine and director, Ai Xiumeng, a doctoral student at Beijing Normal University, drank saliva to moisten his throat, and began to talk slowly and honestly------

"Secretary Zhong, I'm not afraid of your jokes, speaking of which, my reverence and love for Ayuan originated before we met and met, but after her deeds were published in the school newspaper. Actually, it was just my unrequited love at the time. Under Zhong Jingliang's encouraging gaze and Xie Yuan's critical gaze, Ai Xiumeng finally mustered up the courage to start his story. "At that time, I was a third-year student in the doctoral program of the Graduate School of Journalism of Beijing Normal University. Because the journalism major of Beijing Normal University is the first in the country, and our doctoral students are the 'pride of the sky', they have already been hired by the major media in the capital before they graduate. As for me, I was fortunate enough to be selected by the Xinhua News Agency. And just when we were full of ambition, looking forward to graduating early and going to work, and becoming the uncrowned king of journalists as soon as possible, the school was shocked by the number one news ------"

As Ai Xiumeng was excited, he still spoke slowly, and the time went back to the summer of two years ago, before the annual summer vacation of colleges and universities, on a weekend evening. In the spacious and picturesque campus of Beijing Normal University. The vast number of teachers, students, and staff who had just finished school in the afternoon, in the crowded school courtyard, there were groups of three people here, and five people there; everyone rushed to circulate them, and they were all hotly discussed, and there was a "special report" in the school newspaper that day -- "Thousands of miles to drive to the south of the Yuannan to visit the "uncrowned" girl of our school.