Chapter 62: A Girl's Happiness
If you think about it carefully, from the perspective of wages, with the economic conditions of Yu Baochen's family and Aunt Huang's consumption level, the salary of oilfield workers has no economic significance at all - in other words, according to the customs of Japan and other Western countries, Aunt Huang can now be a full-time housewife. Similar Bai Fumei-level employees who take their work as leisure www.biquge.info not only government agencies, state-owned enterprises, but also private enterprises -- in fact, although this type of female employee has her own job, her life is still family-focused, even if she is not a housewife, in fact, there is not much difference.
But thanks to the women's liberation movement in the Taizu era, Chinese values still usually feel that regardless of family background, lesbians should still have their own jobs - of course, if the family situation is better, Bai Fumei naturally does not need to work too hard, as long as there is a job, something to do - but in the end, there must be something to do.
"About Xiaoqi, your current living situation, I have such an idea," After opening these joints, Jiang Yucheng's thoughts suddenly became much clearer-he turned to Xiaoqi, "I don't know whether to say it or not-"
"Well, Brother Yucheng, you can say it. Xiao Qi nodded quietly.
"I think, Xiaoqi, your current living situation is a bit similar to that of a housewife-"
Jiang Yucheng paused and continued, "Although I am really happy that you can take such good care of me and Shanshan at home, and now that we are both undergraduates, we don't have to think so far for the time being, but I think that in the future, Xiaoqi, you should indeed go out to work - the specific reason is not clear, I think if you really become a full-time Jiajiating, it may not be a good thing for your spirit and personality......
ββ¦β¦ Since Brother Yucheng said so, then I will listen to Brother Yucheng's ......"
Xiaoqi still seemed a little unable to accept Jiang Yucheng's suggestion, but she still agreed, "But in that case, shouldn't I just accept my father's arrangement?"
"No, no, it's just a tactical retreat, not a surrender. Jiang Yucheng shook his head, "Our bottom line must be adhered to, and Uncle Zhou's arrangement is absolutely unacceptable - a lot of what I just said is to define writing as Xiaoqi's "side business" that you will engage in in the future, and Uncle Zhou's arrangement is Xiaoqi's "main business" in the future, which is not the same thing at all." And if you really follow Uncle Zhou's arrangement, Xiaoqi, you will definitely be busy to death in the future, and you won't have time to write again......"
"Then how are you going to convince Uncle Zhou to give up the arrangement he made for Xiaoqi?" Yu Baochen said.
"Well...... this"
"I see!Attack the shield of the son with the spear of the son-" Xiao Qi said suddenly, "If you think about it carefully, even according to the values of the elders, my father's arrangement is too outrageous......
"Yes, yes, that's it!" Jiang Yucheng slapped his thigh, "Even according to the values of the previous generation, Uncle Zhou's arrangement must be messing around-forcing his daughter to find a boyfriend to marry is quite reliable, what is the matter with forcing his daughter to go abroad?"
Jiang Yucheng paused and continued:
"Uncle Zhou's whole set of arrangements is nothing more than a typical elite route, the one that was promoted to become CEO and married Bai Fumei - if this set was arranged for me by my father, it would indeed be the right way, because boys would have to struggle and start a family. But the question is, Xiaoqi is a girl, why should she follow the path of a boy? Xiaoqi, you yourself are Bai Fumei, why do you have to work hard to marry Bai Fumei?"
"Oh, that's still the case......" The natural god will have a thoughtful look.
ββ¦β¦ What do you say?" Jiang Yucheng asked Yu Baochen.
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"It would be nice if it was really that simple" Yu Baochen muttered in his heart, and his face unconsciously showed a gloomy color, "If things go wrong, there must be demons, and Uncle Zhou will naturally not understand these truths, but why did he get to this point? He is so anxious, it must be ......"
"But wouldn't that be even worse?!...... For him and Nana...... Forget it, after all, you can't get angry......"
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I saw this guy open his mouth, paused for a second or two, and then suddenly changed a look of flying eyebrows, "Nana, I've decided-not only do I want to defeat you and become a famous writer, but I also have to find a way to marry a watery cute girl!
"What, how long have you stopped taking medicine......" Jiang Yucheng looked at Yu Baochen and asked.
"I haven't taken any medicine lately, and now I feel like I'm full of cute!
This third general, has he been dancing too much with the little apple recently, and his brain is a little abnormal? Jiang Yucheng sneered--No, no, it should be said that this guy has never been normal at all......
"No, I mean to say, do you have a normal understanding of girls' happiness?" Jiang Yucheng asked.
"My perception of happiness is normal, isn't it?" Yu Baochen asked rhetorically, "For a person, the greatest happiness isβ"
"What could it be?"
"Go and blow up the bunker like Dong Cunrui!"
"Huh?!"
"Don't you think that when he lifted the explosives bag, his heart must have been filled with a lofty sense of mission and satisfaction?" Facing Jiang Yucheng's surprise, Yu Baochen asked rhetorically, "At that moment, he must be the happiest person in the world!"
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ββ¦β¦ In general, Xiao Qi, you should understand what I mean, right?" Jiang Yucheng ignored Yu Baochen, who had a big brain, and said to Xiao Qi.
"How do you say it......" Xiao Qi smiled apologetically, "I can vaguely feel what Brother Yucheng is talking about, but I can't understand the specifics......"
"Well, that's the case--" Jiang Yucheng said, "let's take a step back and admit that writing is really not a proper job--but who stipulates that girls can't afford not to do their jobs? Who says that girls must struggle?"
"Of course, I'm not saying that it's better to marry well than to do well, girls must revolve around the family. Considering that Xiaoqi is a very assertive and strong girl, in order to avoid ambiguity, Jiang Yucheng added, "But the question is, Xiaoqi, is your family situation so difficult that you have to fight for your family?"
"Apparently not!" Xiao Qi shook her head, "To put it mildly, even if I stay at home and eat my old age, my family can actually support me - not to mention that I still make so much money myself......"
"Uncle Zhou arranged a lot for you, and you transferred to business school and studied abroad, do you meet your ideals, can you realize the value of your life?" Jiang Yucheng continued to ask.
"Of course not!--Brother Yucheng, don't you know this......" Xiao Qi seemed a little impatient with Jiang Yucheng's knowingly question, "Only writing is where the value of my life lies--if it weren't for the god Wu Nana, I would really be nothing." β
"Isn't this enough?" Jiang Yucheng spread his hands, "Since you don't have to work so hard objectively, and subjectively you don't have this ideal, then what reason does Uncle Zhou have to force you to follow his line? Could it be that the diploma of the National People's Congress is so worthless these days? Or is it that your family lacks money and must support your family by yourself?"
"Oh...... Brother Yucheng, I really understand a little bit when you say this-" Xiao Qi showed a look of sudden realization, "I really didn't think about this before......"
"And in the final analysis, the girl who struggles is itself an existence that does not conform to traditional values-" Jiang Yucheng continued, "Do you remember what my mother said yesterday? A girl's happiness depends mainly on the object -- and a girl who is devoted to her career will not find her ideal partner in the end." Don't you see that those leftover women are mainly based on this so-called "successful person"? Not to mention, isn't Teacher Ye a recent example?"
Although Ye Wenjie can't get married, it has nothing to do with her career...... Jiang Yucheng secretly slandered.
"Ahh Since my dad also forced me from the perspective of traditional values, then we will fight back with the same values!"
"That's right-" Jiang Yucheng nodded, "From this point of view, struggle has side effects on Xiaoqi's happiness - if you follow the path arranged by Uncle Zhou, then Xiaoqi, as a girl, you must have to throw the best years on your studies and career, otherwise it will be meaningless - but when your career is successful, you will have to be at least twenty-eight or nine, and at that time, won't you become an older leftover girl? Could it be that in Uncle Zhou's values, a "success" The leftover girl who can't marry is what he expects of his daughter?"
"Brother Yucheng!" Speaking of this, Xiaoqi was anxious, "My dad is not like this!"
Hehe...... Although the relationship between father and daughter seems to be stiff, Xiaoqi still cares so much about Uncle Zhou's image - Jiang Yucheng sighed. It seems that this plan of his own should be successful......
"That's itβthe two of us went to Uncle Zhou together and had a good talk. Jiang Yucheng smiled and gently touched Xiaoqi's head, "Xiaoqi, you don't have to be afraid, I will help you get these things......"
"Hmm......" Xiao Qi blushed and nodded, "I believe Brother Yucheng ......"
"I~~~I am ~~~Yamano~~~A casual idler~~~~"
Just when the atmosphere was developing more and more in the direction of LOVELOVE, Yu Baochen suddenly began to raise his throat and babble......
"Which one are you singing this again...... Jiang Yucheng slandered -- this cliff is deliberate! She saw that she had brought the cute girl, and she was jealous, and wanted to disturb herself and Xiaoqi! If Nima continues like this, won't the golden light of Juche's ideology shine on the entire FFF group?!......