370, enjoy your old age
370, enjoy your old age
At this point, the old lady's funeral was finally completed. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
According to local customs, the three classes of drummers blow, the filial sons and grandsons weep and mourn, and the old lady enters the soil after 11 days, and this life is completely over. Although it was difficult and difficult, although there were groups of children, although it had survived several dynasties, everything was dusty and returned to dust, and the old lady who went deep underground returned to nature, leaving behind the thoughts of her children.
The grassland in late autumn is gray, depressed, and desolate, and the north wind blows tightly in the early morning, and a few pieces of plastic paper nailed to the window frame outside the window make a "bang" sound, like countless ghosts scratching the doors and windows to squeeze in to warm up.
Tie Dan'er didn't sleep well all night, she got up in the morning, thinking about changing the window paper, and then re-ordering the plastic paper, winter is coming, the cold wind in the north of the country is pervasive, and the cold wind will enter the house through the doors and windows that are not tight, very cold.
Erlian didn't go home after sending her grandmother away, so she got up early in the morning and began to be busy with her mother, removing the original plastic paper to clean and dry, sweeping the loess that was blown into the window crack with a broom, and then using a fine wire to pick out the loess in the crack little by little, and then carefully pasting and framing it with white linen paper. The mother and daughter were busy all morning before sealing the windows, so that the glass inside would not grow too much ice after winter, and the ice and water would not cause the elm window frames to deform wet and dry, and the deformed window frames would break the glass.
Shandan called back and asked about his grandmother's funeral, and Erlian understated the process.
Shandan was surprised: "Yo, no one is making trouble this time?"
"Hahaha! Are you afraid of making trouble, or are you looking forward to making trouble?" said Erlian.
"I'm afraid! I'm always worried that my mother won't be able to stand it. Shandan replied with a smile.
"It seems that this group of uncles in Grandma's family didn't make a good impression on you, and this time it took Mom a lot of effort to coax this group of 'grandfathers'. Erlian said in a low voice.
"If I hadn't used all my strength this time, it would have been like the time I sent your grandfather to break his head and bleed. Which one do you see is a fuel-efficient lamp?" Although Erlian whispered to Shandan on the phone, she was still heard by her mother, who was busy on the side, and she said.
"My sister's phone, Mom, do you want to answer it?" Erlian simply handed the phone to her mother.
"Shandan, are you busy at work?" asked her mother on the phone.
"I'm at work, I'm not busy. Mom, my grandma sent you away? This time you're tired again, wow? My group of uneasy uncles and aunts can you just bluff a little. Shandan asked.
"Alas, every family is the same, and a family doesn't know how difficult it is. This is the last time I've bothered to worry about it, and I don't have a chance to worry about it anymore. My mother choked up on the other end of the phone.
"There is always such a time, my grandmother is already very old, don't be sad, this is her old family is liberated, and the next reincarnation may be a good family, and you don't have to suffer so much. Shandan comforted his mother.
"Oh, that's right, after a lifetime of hard work and a lifetime of sin, I finally got through, and I will be blessed with a good family in my next life. ”
"It's time for you to arrange your personal life, eat and dress well, have time to play cards, take care of your and my big body, and enjoy a lot of happiness. Shandan said softly.
"Oh, there's nothing I have to worry about now, just get our bodies in good shape and don't cause you any trouble. "My mother was very melancholy.
"Yes, you don't have to think about who to help, you can take care of your personal body, you can be happy every day, it's best if you don't have a problem, you can't help but you can't make a mess, you know?"
"Yes! Now I can't help anyone else if I want to, and now the farmland is contracted out, and everyone has nothing to do, only to eat and wait for death. "The mother is still depressed.
"How can you say that? You've worked hard for most of your life, and it's time to rest, and now you're only in your 60s, and when you're in your 80s, you still have 20 years to live. If you take care of your health, I will take you on a trip to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. Shandan consoled.
"What is traveling? Be at home steadily, don't get sick, don't be sad, just have good tea and good food. "Mother's wish is so plain and humble.
"I'll let you take a plane, fly to the sky to see the clouds and Yang Po, and then look at the sea, waterfalls or something, I can't get out of the house with motion sickness, you take advantage of the good health of both of you, you have to walk around and see." I see I'll take you out for a walk when I have time to go back. Shandan planned.
"He, look at that hairy hair, can I rest assured that he is at home?" said the mother.
"Isn't there still my brother and Erlian to take care of? It turned out that my grandma dragged you and couldn't leave, this time let me stay a few days, you come out to let the wind out, no problem. Shandan really wanted to give his mother a chance to come out and relax alone, and after most of her life's work, she finally had a chance.
"Alas, don't tire you up, the two of you live well, and it's our task in the future not to make trouble for the dolls. Mother sighed softly.
The mother still blindly dedicates without asking for anything in return, thinks about others in everything, and never plans for herself, when she is old and has no burden, and when it is time to enjoy life, she thinks that she must not become a burden to her children.
Shandan heard his mother's words, his heart was a little more sour, his mother was competitive all her life, not falling behind, relying on her own efforts and not admitting defeat, her rigid bones, atmosphere, and reasonableness are also bitter herself, even if she is wronged, she has to go through Dali, and she doesn't give people a handle to say irresponsible things.
Since I was a child, I have seen my mother grit her teeth and persist no matter how difficult it is, never shouting bitterness or tiredness.
Shandan's tenacity and unyielding also inherited her mother's character, and she can understand her mother's personality and character more and more, so she also feels very sorry for her mother, who has been strong all her life.
"You have to think like this: If you have been worried about us for decades, you will trouble us for dozens of days, who dares to say anything? You don't have to get over it psychologically, and those who should be tired will be tired, don't you often say that you have to have dealings? It's the same between parents and dolls, you raise our young, and we raise you old, this is a matter of course. Shandan said with a feeling of wanting to cry.
"Alas, Mom doesn't think so, as long as you're all right, it's Mom's happiest thing. Since ancient times, they have been kissed from the top down, how can they reciprocate with the dolls? Mother babbled.
"Look at the old people in the village, don't they want this and that from the dolls? they can ask for you if they want, this is not lacking in reason, it should be. You have suffered for most of your life, and I will give you a walk first. It turned out that there were no conditions, no way, but now that we have the conditions, let's enjoy it. Shandan said with a smile.
"Mom is not the same as them, Mom is like a mirror in her heart, Mom knows everything, they feel wrong to be like that, the filial piety of the dolls is voluntary by the dolls, and they can't be forced or disrespected for the old. Even if you are voluntary, you can't give anything you want, and my mother has a rod and scale in her heart. You have to pick up your mom to go out for a walk, and mom has to arrange the house before you can go. Besides, if you think about it, if you are left alone at home, where can your mother rest assured? It's not that he can't let go of his kiss, it's just that he looks like a ghost, and he accidentally bumps into it, not to make trouble for other people's iron eggs, people don't say anything, and Mom can't get over it. Mother said slowly.
Shandan didn't say anything for a while, her mother's idea was right, and it was also her habit for most of her life, she would rather suffer herself than drag anyone down. (To be continued.) )