Chapter 374: Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously

"Where did you put your eyes last night?"

Faced with Liu Mei's questioning, Chen Sen laughed and said: "Of course, I put it where it should be, I promise, I just put it where it shouldn't be." Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 ο½‰ο½Žο½†ο½β€

Puff~

As soon as Liu Mei heard Chen Sen's gag-like justification, she couldn't help laughing, did you explain it like that?

Chen Sen was in the room, and continued to add with a light smile: "Actually, I still want to look at it twice, aren't I afraid that Senior Sister will be angry? So I restrained myself with difficulty, and even I myself was a little incredible~"

If you continue to be out of tune, anyway, with a woman, don't take her too seriously, whether it's a goddess or a female demon, in the final analysis, it's a woman, you talk to women seriously about politics, military, this and that, and what you say is like a river, crazy and self-congratulatory.

But when you look back, the next moment, the goddess will put you on death row, and you will never be able to turn over.

In the final analysis, when chatting with a woman, don't be nervous, be presumptuous, be natural, take the right to speak in your own hands, of course, hand her the words at a suitable time, so that she can participate in your topic, then naturally you will have countless words to talk about, and then everything will fall into place.

And Chen Sen has always pursued a truth when dealing with women, that is, don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take the other party too seriously.

Humor is an essential element of communication and a good catalyst, how to make yourself have a sense of humor?

The so-called ridicule is actually self-deprecation, that is, self-mockery, self-deprecation. (It can also be called self-blackening)

For example, he is obviously good-looking and has a wide range of knowledge, but he always puts "ugly people and little reading, don't lie to me" on his lips, which forms a dramatic difference from the image he usually estaboos, which makes people laugh.

This is actually a humorous element born of self-mockery, in fact, there are many similar ways of self-deprecation, to sum up in a word, don't take yourself seriously.

In practical application, you also need to control the heat, otherwise it will make people feel that you are too fake and too pretending.

Chen Sen, who pursues this theory, even if he has nothing in his previous life, has never lacked women, which is actually the reason, a casual, free, natural, and not lacking a sense of humor of a man, as long as your vision is not too high, there will never be a lack of women's favor.

After all, ordinary people's love is not a life-and-death parting, it is nothing more than feeling good together, happy and passionate, and then you and I are willing to mix together.

The difficulty of the operation inside is not high, it is nothing more than to show your own advantages, just like a peacock opening the screen, so that the opposite sex can pay attention to you, so as to discover your advantages, and then be naturally attracted.

Therefore, if a man has good enough traits, it is absolutely impossible to lack the favor of women, opposites attract, everyone has needs, whether it is physical or psychological.

Longing for attention from the opposite sex, this is what most people have in common, but it's just that some people are still relatively simple, and the means are still a little naΓ―ve, and old birds like Chen have basically passed the initial stage.

So in the process of communicating with Liu Mei, he also applied for the second point, don't take the other party too seriously.

That's right, you're a goddess, good-looking, well-figured, or a big star, so what?

Lao Tzu is rich!

Not enough?

Lao Tzu has a lot of money!

That's not enough, then you can get out. (The above is purely a complaint)

In reality, no matter who the other party is, your boss, your teacher, your dream lover, or our Jack Ma father, remember one thing, everyone is equal.

No one owes anyone, this earth is without you, it will still turn, my life is still colorful without you, in the final analysis, an attitude that is neither humble nor arrogant is the most important point in interpersonal communication.

Of course, the necessary respect for some people is still needed, such as the courtesy of men to women, the flattery of subordinates to superiors, etc., a series of small details determine the success or failure in the process of communication.

"Uh-huh, is this difficult?" asked Liu Mei with great interest, seemingly believing Chen Sen's exaggerated words at all.

"It's difficult! If a beautiful woman like my sister usually appears in front of me, I guarantee that my eyes will stick to her. The last time I ate, I used peerless perseverance to restrain it, do you think I'm easy?" a certain man continued to open his eyes and say nonsense, no, this is a good thing.

Just listening, Liu Mei giggled again, and a trace of gloom on that beautiful face seemed to dissipate a lot.

You know, such a pleasant mood has not appeared on her for a long time.

When she finished filming the movie, she was blocked when it was released in China, which really frustrated her, and what happened at the dinner a few days ago also made her know that her love life is also fragile, and her career, relationships, and even today she has encountered irritating little troubles.

In general, everything is not going well, and even if her heart is extremely strong now, it is inevitable that she will feel tired of coping.

But she didn't want to, just chatting with this little junior brother for a few words, she was able to laugh so happily.

Chen Sen said that just now, he was changing flowers and praised her for being beautiful.

This is actually not new, what is fresh is this way of speaking, just like a routine, others use it that is vulgar, and people with brains use this cheesy routine, but it is fresh and refined that can be played.

This is actually the gap.

"It's not easy, it's really not easy, then I don't want to thank you, otherwise I have a pair of eyeballs stuck to my body, how disgusting. Liu Mei happily continued.

"Don't mind, you don't have to be grateful, helpfulness has always been a little little shining point in me, as long as my sister can understand me, I will be satisfied. ”

"Okay, I'll understand you a lot. Liu Mei smiled and nodded pleasantly.

Chen Sen saw that the time was almost up, so he ended the chat, "Long live understanding, then senior sister, you are busy, I won't bother." ”

"Huh, this is hanging?" Liu Mei frowned, listening to the blind sound from the mobile phone, she felt a little unfinished.

This little junior brother is an interesting person~ but he is also a chicken thief, God knows how much tofu he stole from her that night~

Liu Mei, who was in a sunny mood, chuckled twice, then shook her head, put away her mobile phone and walked towards the previous modeling room, although she was in a good mood, it didn't mean that she would let Xiao Rose this blue pool today!

On the other hand, after a certain man hung up the phone, he received a notice from Qi Ping, and hurriedly rolled over to do the styling! You are going to walk the red carpet, maybe you can go to the podium to receive the award, why are you nesting in the hotel like no one?

The above is Qi Pingyuan's words, these words really made Chen Sen a little speechless, does this mean that the emperor is not in a hurry and the eunuch is in a hurry? But he can't shirk it anymore, he can only deal with it quickly, otherwise Gonggong Qi will have to go crazy again.

PS;Indirect TJ,Ben is also very helpless.,Actually, I want to write.,But sometimes there's a lack of inspiration.,What you write is dry.,It's not cool to look at.,I don't want to write.,Sometimes the thoughts are springing.,When I can write a satisfactory word.,I especially want to continue writing.。 Anyway, the thief is a little uncomfortable, I think I may be sick, lazy cancer-terminal, but I think I can save it...... I'll come back later.,These days, I've been working hard at home.,See if you can hold back a few chapters to save the manuscript ==、