351, raising children to prevent old age?

When Tie Dan'er received a call from her brother, she was cleaning up the soil that the wind blew into the two layers of windows. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

The brother's phone was very anxious: "Eldest sister, come and see, what's wrong with our mother?" ”

"Don't you worry, make it clearer, what's wrong with our mother?" Tie Dan'er's mother pressed her panicked heart and asked.

"I don't talk to people, I laugh all the time, and... Also ......." seems difficult to say.

"What's wrong? You say. Death in a hurry! Tie Dan'er mother jumped off the ground and hurriedly walked out, asking in a loud voice.

"It's still pooping in your pants." Brother said.

"I thought something was wrong! Isn't it just in your pants? I'll come right away, you guys take care of it first. Tie Dan'er's mother hung up the phone, so she hurriedly ran to Tie Dan'er's house in the west courtyard, and shouted outside the gate: "Tie Dan'er, you come out, your grandma is sick, you are ready to take me to your grandma's house on a motorcycle." ”

"Huh? Mom, what do you say? Tie Dan'er came out of the room and asked.

"Your grandma is not good, you send me a motorcycle, I have to wait, I will go back and get a few changes of clothes first, you send the motorcycle first." Tie Dan'er's mother hurried home again, opened the big red cabinet and took out a few daily clothes, wrapped a package, and picked it up and left.

"What is this doing? Rush like this. Tie Dan'er came back from outside, saw Tie Dan'er's mother who was hurrying out, and asked.

"My mom is not good, I'll go and see. You feed the pigs well, just two meals a day, you can't move the pig food bowl, call Tie Daner to help, you must not touch the person! I guess I'll have to walk for a few days, and it looks like I'll have to wait for a while. "Iron Egg Mom climbed into the back seat of the motorcycle.

Grandma Tie Daner is 85 years old, her body has always been fine, she can basically take care of herself and live alone. Next door is the yard of the sons, who come to visit the old mother every day.

This morning, after the ten babies got up, they came to see their mother as usual, and found that their mother was sitting on the ground, looking like she was preparing to make a fire and cook. People leaned against the big kang wall and giggled, and people had a stench of stool.

Hurriedly went in and helped him up and asked, "Mom, what's wrong with you?" ”

The mother just smirked and didn't answer.

"What are you talking about? In the pants? Come, I'll help you get on the kang first. Shiwa hugged her mother to the kang, and at first glance, this person seemed to be stupid, and he couldn't speak.

Hurriedly ran to the gate of the eldest brother's house next door and shouted: "Big brother, sister-in-law, come and see, mom is not good!" ”

Yuan Qing and his family ran out and asked, "What's wrong?" ”

"Go and see, mom is not good." Shiwa said cryingly.

"Mom! Mother! The fourth and third children who rushed to hear the news also shouted together.

The old lady's smirking expression has never changed, and her body is what the ten babies look like when they are placed on the kang, or what they look like, motionless.

"Is this in your pants? It stinks! I see that this old lady is half-paralyzed, you go out first, I will take off these pants and clean them up first. Yuanqing's daughter-in-law said.

"I called my eldest sister and she said she would come right away." Shiwa said.

"Mom, what's wrong?" Tie Dan'er's mother, who arrived in a few minutes, jumped off the motorcycle quickly and asked the rows of brothers squatting in the corner.

"The is in the pants, my sister-in-law is cleaning it, you go in and take a look." Shiwa replied.

"Ouch!" As soon as Tie Dan'er mother entered the house, she was choked by the smell and almost vomited, and hurriedly opened the door: "Open this door to dry!" Does this still stink? ”

I saw that my sister-in-law was helping the old lady clean her buttocks, and her pants were thrown on the ground.

Tie Dan'er's mother picked up her pants and threw them out of the door, and said, "Sister-in-law, I have a pair of rubber gloves here, I'll wash them." ”

"I don't need you, I'm almost done washing, that's how people are always like this, it's not dirty." Yuanqing's daughter-in-law replied.

Tiedan's mother is grateful in her heart, how difficult is it for a daughter-in-law to do this?! Not to mention that the old lady was very strong when she was young, and she took several daughters-in-law to death, she said that others did not dare to say two, and if she was unhappy, she was scolded, and the old lady's scolding words were not to be repeated for three days and three nights, and no daughter-in-law dared to challenge the authority of the old lady.

However, the old lady is just a knife-mouthed tofu heart, kind-hearted, and very good to her sons and daughters-in-law.

Everyone understands the old lady's temper, and they don't want to provoke her, everyone follows her.

The old lady, who had no illness in her life, suddenly died.

Tie Dan'er's mother knows in her heart: This kind of person who has been tough all his life will not work all of a sudden.

85 years old is also considered a long life, but it is still a little younger than her parents. Her mother was 96 years old, and her father was 88 years old, both of whom died of old age. Grandpa Tie Dan'er also died at the end of his life: 87 years old, this is a family with longevity genes.

The old people fell asleep in a daze and didn't wake up, and passed away without any discomfort. I don't know how to pass this level for an old lady? Tie Dan'er's mother soaked her mother's pants in the basin, first rinsed them with a stick, and then put on rubber gloves to wash them, and a burst of nausea came up, and she was even more full of love, gratitude and respect for her sister-in-law.

After cleaning up, change the old lady's clean clothes, light a few incense sticks to expel the smell, and everyone sat on the big kang to discuss the old lady's affairs.

"I'd better go to the hospital to take a look, although I'm old, but what if I can save it?" Tie Dan'er mother proposed.

"What to save? If you are saved at this age, if you are half-paralyzed and can't take care of yourself, who will serve? Half-body failure is that people can't die for a while, who has the time to serve for half a year and six months with our conditions? Serving and urine? Yuan Qing said.

"I think so: I am a grandson, and I have no right to speak, but I just want to say my opinion, my grandmother gave birth to ten of your dolls, although she did not train you to be talented, but she also brought up your hard work to build a house for you and marry a daughter-in-law. Although I am not young, I am considered to be a long life at this time, but I think I still have to go to the hospital to see, if she can be saved, let her live for two more years, if she can't save us, we don't feel sorry to be small, if half of the body is lost, ten children take turns to serve, except for my second uncle, one person is more than three months in ten days, what are you afraid of? If you don't go to the hospital and wait for death at home, you will be laughed at. That's all I have to say, what to do, your brothers and sisters' deliberations, look at it. After Tie Dan'er finished speaking, he lit a cigarette and squatted on the ground and stopped talking.

"The problem is that there is no difference between seeing this disease and not seeing it, it may be a little better if you see it, and it's just like that if you don't see it, at such an age, it's impossible for you to get her to stand up again like before. I see it this way, what about you? Yuan Qing said this as the eldest brother.

"We're looking at Big Brother." Several brothers echoed Yuan Qing.

"Take a look, look at it, we're not doctors, and we don't know how bad this disease is. We just listened to other doctors, people said that we could cure it, we would treat it, and people said that we would go home and wait for death, we would not be cured, you said? "Tie Dan'er's mother has the same idea as Tie Dan'er.

"I dare to promise: it is the same whether it is cured or not, and it costs money to treat the disease, how can this money come out? Mom, she doesn't have a penny to save. Shiwa said.

"Equally, the nine of you are evenly shared, if it is not enough, our grandchildren will have some more. When people are sick, they have to be treated, and when they are old, they don't see a doctor and wait for death? Isn't that a joke? People will laugh at our children and grandchildren as waste. Tie Dan'er stood up and said with some indignation.

"It's easy to say, it's not that you don't know everyone's situation, you see who of us can get the money? It's just your mom who is more lenient. Siwa said.

"If you can't get the money, you have to wait for death?" Tie Dan'er asked rhetorically.

Several uncles lowered their heads and didn't dare to look into Tie Dan'er's eyes, and didn't speak.

Tie Dan'er threw the cigarette butt in his hand on the ground, rubbed it out with his foot in hatred, and slammed the door out.

"Otherwise, Shiwa, you call all the sisters and brothers, let's discuss it, see everyone's opinions, if everyone agrees to be treated, go to the hospital, and if you don't agree, you will be raised at home." Tie Dan'er's mother looked at Tie Dan'er's sad face when she slammed the door and went out, and cried.

Tie Dan'er walked out of the door, came to the east wall, and squatted in the corner of the wall and cried.

He remembered the hardships and difficulties of his grandmother's life, and thought that when he was in elementary school, he was close to his grandmother's house, and often ran to his grandmother's house to eat at noon.

At that time, the food was not sufficient, and grandma never disliked him for cooking, but several uncles and aunts had a slight complaint, but they were all stopped by grandma's glare.

As his eldest grandson, his grandmother is very fond of him, even if he gives his doll a bad meal, he has to give him a better meal.

At this time, he really wanted to send his grandmother to the hospital, even if there was a little hope, he had to give it a try. However, he knew that he could not disobey the decision of four or five uncles.

Even the mother, who has always been very tough and a daughter, can't do anything, and he can't do anything as a junior, and he can't afford to pay all of his grandmother's medical expenses. Besides, people have a group of children, and they will never allow you to have a grandson to point fingers, even if you have money, your uncles still want face.

He wiped his face and thought of giving Shandan a call to see what Shandan thought.

Shandan received a call from his brother, briefly learned about his grandmother's situation, and agreed with his brother's idea, so he wanted to persuade his uncles to go to the hospital for a check-up to see the situation.

She dialed the phone of the fifth uncle and ten children: "Fifth uncle, I heard my brother talk about my grandmother's illness, as a doctor, I suggested: go to the hospital first to do a simple CT to see the situation of the brain, my grandma may have a cerebral infarction, if it is not very serious, thrombolytic treatment is good, it should still recover some, and life self-care should also be able to recover." As for the cost, if you don't have it, I'll pay part of it, and my brother will pay part of it. ”

"Oh, I see." Shiwa only said this sentence and hung up the phone.

Shandan called Tie Dan'er again: "Brother, I can understand your feelings, I'm the same as you." I just called my fifth uncle, who was very cold and clearly didn't want us to meddle in this matter. Maybe they don't want to go to the doctor. If we insist on letting the elderly go to the hospital, the consequences may be thankless, and the uncles will leave it alone, and then you will be in your hands. To be honest, at such an age, once you have a cerebral infarction, it is difficult to recover. The best result is that he is half paralyzed, and he has to be served by someone to eat, drink, and Lazar, you look at these uncles, concubines, and aunts, which one will serve? That's another trouble for my mother. Mom is also in her 60s, and she will be tired of serving alone. So I think we should not interfere too much, although we can't bear to let grandma suffer, but, people have all children, or they decide, we respect others, can contribute money, can contribute. ”

"Oh, okay. Don't be too sad, every man has his life. Hearing the nasal voice of the iron egg, Shandan couldn't help but burst into tears.

In the afternoon, all the children had arrived, and a family meeting was held.

"I mean: we'll send my mom to the hospital to see what is going on and then make a decision." Tie Dan'er mother took the lead in saying.

"I don't think it's the same whether you send it or not, it's all blind money." Big brother Yuanqing said.

"I agree with my eldest brother, this disease can't be cured at all, my mother is so old, it's even more impossible, instead of sending the money to the hospital, it's better to buy my mother something delicious to eat." It was the five girls who spoke.

The fifth girl is a well-known miser, she doesn't come to see the old man a few times a year, and she comes once during the New Year's holiday, and she just takes a little bit of something.

Hearing her words, Tie Dan'er's mother was very unhappy and scolded loudly: "You don't say a word." ”

"Why should I say less? I'm not a girl? "The five girls are not to be outdone.

"When the money is paid, you can talk more, it's not up to you to decide now. I haven't seen you buy anything delicious for your mother! Tie Dan'er said sternly.

"Why? The money is also paid by everyone. The five girls were also angry.

"Don't argue, I agree with the eldest sister, we have so many brothers and sisters, the old lady is sick and doesn't go to the hospital to see a doctor, so she is here to talk nonsense! If you don't go to the hospital, how do you know what disease your mother has? If you have been to the hospital, we can only judge whether you are dead or alive, right? We took my mom to the hospital for a check-up first. The second girl said.

"I also agreed to take the hospital first." Sanwa said.

"I am my daughter-in-law, and I agree to go to the hospital." The daughter-in-law of the third baby agreed.

"Then whoever wants to pay for the hospitalization." The fifth girl said disdainfully.

"Mom didn't give birth to you?" Sanwa turned around and glared angrily at the fifth sister behind her.

"Obviously, I can't see my mother, and you still have to send it to the hospital to waste money, so if you are willing to send you, you can pay for it." The five girls replied hard.

"Your money is always more important than your life!" Sanwa said angrily.

"My money is all hard-earned money, and I don't want to waste it in the hospital." The five girls are right. (To be continued.) )