Chapter 386: The Role of Women
"I'm sorry? I'm sorry and that's it??? "If it had been before, Xiang Nan would have laughed at this kind of thing, and at most it would have made them apologize, and he was not the kind of person who would not have done things too badly.
But today is different, because of Huang Fei's affair and Fluttershy, Xiang Nan's mood can be said to be very bad, and he is holding back the fire in his stomach and has nowhere to go, and the two of them hit the muzzle of the gun, so he must ask for an explanation, otherwise this matter will not be over.
"So what are you going to do? It's not endless. The two receptionists, except for the one who apologized, the other didn't seem to have a good temper, and when they heard Xiang Nan say this, they went back directly.
"Yes, I'm just going on and on today, go, call your manager over. "The fire to the south burns at once, or the woman's mouth is like a barrel of uncovered gunpowder, which is always poured into the fire at the most inopportune time, so that the fire that should have been extinguished will continue to burn, and burn more vigorously.
It's very common for men to fight with others outside, and who hasn't lost a bit of temper? But there is a very real problem, and that is that 80 percent of the reasons why men fight outside, especially on the street, are because of women.
If the same thing happens, a man and a woman are four or five times more likely to fight together than a man alone.
The reason is very simple, most women have no brains when they encounter contradictions, what is reason? They don't know, sister just follows feelings.
What was originally just a matter of looking at each other and smiling and saying sorry to each other, as long as there is a woman, it will immediately escalate to the point of quarreling, and then from quarrel to fight.
There are some things that can't be helped, you have to quarrel with both sides, vent the anger in your heart before you are willing to give up, as long as there is a woman present, then okay, just save saliva and do it directly, so as not to waste time.
For example, if a man A and another man B are quarreling, then usually they will not fight, at most they will scold each other for two sentences to get angry, and then go their separate ways, but please note that this situation can only happen to two men who are not accompanied by a woman, if the man who is quarreling has a woman next to him, then it is basically impossible to solve this matter in peace, unless the woman is the kind of woman who understands the general and the righteousness, but such a woman is really rare.
Once there is a conflict between man A and man B, assuming that man A takes his wife, then his wife will play the role of a general peacemaker at the beginning, and she will fight next to her, saying something like "forget it, don't quarrel, what a big deal, it's not necessary".
It looks harmonious, right, but be aware that this is just a superficial phenomenon, or that this is just a mask worn by a woman.
Studies have shown that women are more likely to be impulsive than men, and it is easier to do things without thinking about the consequences.
The mask on a woman's face is like a thin piece of paper that rots when blown by the wind. After the wife persuades man A, unless the man A who is arguing is the kind of man who is obedient to a certain point and unconditionally obeys his wife's orders, and immediately follows his wife and leaves, then maybe nothing will happen, but usually men are not like this.
How can a man who wants to save face, especially in front of his wife, be able to give up just because of a word?
So at this time, man A usually does two things, the first is to push his wife away and say something like "you get out of the way". The second is to say two more harsh words to man B, such as "I'll kill you" or "you wait and see" or something like that. The purpose of man A is very simple, that is, to show his manhood, and at the same time to earn some more face, to prove that he is not afraid of the other party and the person who quarrels with him.
If at this time, A's wife obediently gets out of the way, and man B no longer talks back, then this contradiction will not develop anymore.
But the truth is, will the woman obediently get out of the way, and can man B really be frightened by these two cruel words?
It turns out that it is impossible, and what women usually do is rush up, push their man, return the moment he pushed herself, and shout, "What are you pushing me for?" to show that she is also dignified.
At this time, the other party will generally return two more cruel words or more unpleasant words, which is originally a matter of two men quarreling, but at this time, the woman will join in, rush to man B or point to his nose and start scolding, it seems that she is defending her man, but the fact is that it directly leads to the escalation of the war.
Compared with scolding, the gap between men and women is not half a star, and the last sentence of man A's wife may be worth ten sentences of man A's scolding. How can man B stand it? There is only one thing he can do, that is, he points at man A's wife and starts scolding, and at this time, what was originally just a matter between man A and man B suddenly becomes a matter between man B and man A's wife.
As a man, he has to defend his wife no matter what, and things have developed to this point, even if man A is reluctant, he can only rush up and use his fists to protect his wife, so the quarrel becomes a fight.
There is also a situation where man A is really sensible, or cowardly, and he just pulls away his wife and then wants to take her away to end this pointless quarrel. But at this time, women usually only have one line: "What's the use of you? ”
Come to think of it, women have talked about this, can men have any other choice but to do it?
Some women are like magnifying glasses, turning something the size of a sesame seed into the size of a watermelon, and then causing a war for the watermelon.
Xiang Nan has met such a woman now.
"Our manager is not there. The woman said angrily, in her opinion, the old man in front of her just wanted to have nothing to do, purely to make trouble for herself, but she ignored one point, why did this old man come to find trouble in a dignified manner?
"The manager isn't there, okay, then find your boss." "Xiang Nan is not going to give up.
"The boss is not there either, all year round. The woman put her hands to her chest and looked at Xiang Nan defiantly.
"It's not there, okay, then I'll wait here, they'll have to come back. Xiang Nan nodded, turned around, and leaned directly against the front desk.
The woman who had apologized to Xiang Nan had been quietly tugging at her companion's clothes in the back, suggesting that she should be polite and not escalate the conflict, so it can be seen that although the woman's mouth is not very good, her brain is still enough. Of course, it may also be because of her timidity.
"You're still endless, deliberately looking for trouble, aren't you?" The woman became angry all of a sudden, crossed her hands to her waist, and put on a posture of wanting to quarrel.
"I'm looking for something?" Xiang Nan was surprised, he didn't expect the other party to say this about himself, this is simply slander.
"You forgot what you said, and you are embarrassed to say that I am looking for trouble, who are the two of us looking for trouble?" Xiang Nan felt that if he didn't have an explanation for this matter, he would really live in vain.
"What did I say?" the woman pretended to be dazed and recalled, then suddenly smiled: "Oh, you mean sleeping? What? Do you really want to sleep with me? You're so old, can you do it? If you think you're okay, let's go now, but I can remind you that you have to pay for the house." ”
Xiang Nan was speechless all of a sudden, he was really stunned and afraid of the horizontal, the horizontal was afraid of not dying, he was not afraid of anything, he was afraid of being shameless, and when he encountered this kind of goods, Xiang Nan was also served.
"People are afraid of faceless ghosts. Xiang Nan shook his head helplessly, ready to raise his hand to surrender and leave, facing such an opponent, he knew that he had no hope of victory.
"What are you talking about? Shameless, you tell me what to say. Xiang Nan just said to himself, but he didn't expect to be heard by the woman, she suddenly got out of the front desk like crazy, and grabbed Xiang Nan's clothes to prevent him from leaving.
"What are you doing with you letting go of me and pulling me? I can't afford to hide from me, I'll always go, right?" Xiang Nan shook off the woman's hand, turned around and left.
It's a pity that he didn't leave, because the woman sat on the ground and hugged his legs and began to howl: "Hit someone, help." "I don't know if it's specifically for this, anyway, the voice is loud enough, full of shrews. For a while, everyone in the hotel looked over this way.
"You let go of me, you. Xiang Nan wanted to pull his leg out, but the woman was holding it too tightly, and he couldn't move at all.
Soon, a man in a black suit ran over and glanced south at his badge, which read Manager. It seems that this manager is not absent, but this woman is fooling herself.
The manager didn't pay attention to Xiang Nan when he came, but first helped the woman up from the ground.
"What's going on?" The manager's eyes didn't seem to see Xiang Nan, and he didn't even pay attention to him, just talking to the woman.
"Husband, he bullied me. The woman's shrewd appearance suddenly disappeared without a trace, and turned into a delicate little girl who had been greatly wronged, and she didn't know when tears flowed from her eyes, and Xiang Nan wondered if this woman had just taken advantage of her inattention to put eye drops in her eyes.
And listening to the woman's name for this manager, the relationship between the two seems to be unusual.
"Why did he bully you?" the manager's business suddenly became rougher, and he turned his head and waited to the south, finally discovering his existence.
"He played hooligan, wanted me to sleep with him, and scolded me for being shameless. The woman cried and said at the same time, and the truth was completely turned on its head in one sentence.
"Don't get me wrong, what she said isn't true, I was going to leave, she was talking about me, I'm so old, how can I let people say that for no reason... Xiang Nan hurriedly explained, but was interrupted before he could finish speaking.
"You also know that you are so old, so you dare to do this kind of thing, and bully my wife, you are tired of it. The manager didn't listen to Xiang Nan's explanation at all, and directly escalated to the stage of ruthless words.