169. The north and the south are very similar

Think about that time when I was in college, several people in the dormitory couldn't get along, although it was the indiscretion of classmates, but they also had less tolerance, if they knew that there were only so few years of fate on the road of life, and they might never see each other again in their lives, would they be more tolerant and tolerant?

Slowly, the days are passing, Shandan is also getting along with people and after experiencing some things, compassion is gradually awakened, especially after arriving in Yongcheng, the colleagues in the unit are so peaceful and friendly, so that Shandan original kind nature is more revived, she can empathize everywhere and be considerate of others. There is less arrogance and sharpness when he was young, more peace and tolerance, and he is more open-minded in doing things and behaving.

When people reach middle age, they are no longer so rash and sharp, maybe everyone is the same, right? Everything in the world may be the same, and it should be the scene of which season it is. Like people, at any age and season of life, they will have the same state of mind and cultivation.

Shandan can be conscious of the changes in his mood and personality over the years, of course, Gu Haiping understands that there are a few days every month that Shandan will fall into a low ebb of love, and in those days, Gu Haiping will be silent and dare not offend Shandan in the slightest, otherwise Shandan will explode like a balloon full of gas that can't withstand the pressure, this kind of power is not something he can bear, so it is wiser to follow her temper and slowly accompany her through those days.

In the past two years, Gu Haiping found that Shandan no longer seems to have such a strong emotional change every month, and when asked, she knew that Shandan was self-conditioning, as a doctor, she knew that this was the reason for the influence of endocrine hormones, but as a doctor, she also knew that she should adjust herself and should not be controlled by hormone levels, and slowly divert her attention to calm her heart, and use her busyness to relieve physical discomfort and psychological pressure.

Gu Haiping looked at Shandan in a daze, thinking that he was a little disappointed that he didn't see Yao Xiaoling Shandan was a little lost, so he comforted: "It's okay, next time we come back and arrange two days to catch up with Yao Xiaoling, what do you think?"

Shandan came back to his senses from his self-reverie, "Oh, no! I didn't think about it that much, next time, there is time and opportunity, with your income, and the chance that we will fly back in the future is great!

"That's! it's my money, which you spend it with. Gu Haiping turned his head and winked mischievously.

Mao Dan'er also laughed out loud when she heard Gu Haiping's words, the intimacy and jokes between her brother-in-law and brother-in-law are reasonable things in the riverbank grassland.

Shandan will also laugh in his heart, Gu Haiping is so likable, he will appropriately express what you like. "That's it, I'm not the only one to spend it in the future, and Xiaoyu has a share! Isn't it, Xiaoyu?" said Shandan as he looked at the sleepy Xiaoyu.

"Yes, won't the place where you spend money in the future will be Xiaoyu?" Mao Dan'er also nodded and said.

"In this life, I just want to earn some belongings for Xiaoyu, and there is nothing else. Think about it, we have worked so hard to come out, and when we reach this situation, the ideal that should be realized can be considered to be realized, and it is almost over, and the rest is how to cultivate children," Gu Haiping said.

"Yes, my little fellow is the same, very naughty! Mao Dan'er said with a loving face.

"Boys have to be naughty to have a chance, if you want a boy to behave like a little girl, then it's troublesome, you see that Xiaoyu is not a quiet little girl, your sister is raised as a boy." Gu Haiping looked at Xiao Yu, who was already asleep.

"Hehe, I think it's the same, Xiaoyu doesn't have the quietness of a southern girl, and she still has the same personality as us. Mao Dan'er said with a smile.

"Do you think that if you were born in the south, you will become a southerner? Is that something that can't be changed, or is it the temperament of a Mongolian? Shandan teased.

"Hehehe, the environment also has an impact, right? But Xiaoyu's Nanpu (Southern Mandarin: Northerners jokingly call Southerners' Mandarin is not standard) can't be seen to be our child. Mao Dan'er said playfully.

I remember that Xiaoyu called a crew in Beijing last year to participate in the screening of other young actors, and the other party emphasized: Please speak Mandarin. Xiaoyu waited for us to learn from work, and it amused me—" Shandan smiled.

"Hehe, often correct it, when I go home, your sister and I keep correcting her pronunciation, but after I get to school, everyone is a mouthful, no way. The locals also speak a local dialect called vernacular, which is even more outrageous, you can't understand it at all, let alone learn it, we can't understand much for so many years, it is 108,000 miles different from Mandarin. Xiao Yu learned to say 'ponder yes?' is what does it mean, how much is it different from Mandarin?" Gu Haiping explained with a smile.

"Hey, look at the Nanban people who came to our side, they talked to each other, it was a bird language, where do we understand?"

"Although our local dialect is not Mandarin and belongs to the Northwest language family, we have to speak it slowly, it is still close to Mandarin, and southerners can understand it, unlike southerners, the dialects and language families of each place are different, and you can't understand any of them if you have one pronunciation in one place. I have been to many places over the years: Guangzhou, Fujian, Hainan, Guizhou, Sichuan, Yunnan... I have been to these southern places, and I can't understand the local dialect there, and the Sichuan dialect is easier to understand. Unlike the north, we can't fully understand the words of places like Henan, Hebei, Shandong, Shanxi, Northeast Provinces, Beijing, and Tianjin, but we can also hear it. You are in the same language family as Gansu, Ningxia, Shaanxi, Qinghai and other places, as long as you speak Chinese, you don't need to speak, we all understand it. Especially when you take the train, from north to south: as soon as you arrive at the border of Anhui, Hunan, Hubei, and Jiangxi, the people who come up begin to 'chirp and croak'. Gu Haiping said while gesturing.

"Hehe, one side of the water and soil supports the other side, the language and culture of the southerners are completely different from the north, even the personality and temper are completely different, and the race I think is different from our north. Shandan said.

"You see: the northerners are all rough in appearance, all of them are five big and three thick, even if they are not big enough, they are also square and rough faces, and even most women are like this. Southerners are different: all of them are thin and capable, and their facial features are very delicate, especially women, and the gentleness and ability of Jiangnan women are gathered together. "Shandan analysis.

"I think that most of the northerners are rough-minded, grasping the big and letting go of the small, broad-minded, and don't care a lot. You have to deal with southerners, you can't do that. Southerners, both men and women, have a meticulous heart and do things very finely, of course, they are naturally not so broad-minded and calculating. Especially the lean and cautious men of the South are very typical. However, although the people of Yongcheng are small-minded, they are all peaceful and kind, do not exclude xenophobies, do not bully the weak, and everyone gets along with each other amicably. Shandan continued.

"That's because Yongcheng is basically an immigrant city, they have very few indigenous people, no culture and beliefs of their own, although it is a minority settlement, but it has long been sinicized, plus the foreign population has increased dramatically, naturally there is no national self-esteem and unique self-awareness, so I have to go with the flow. It's good that we live in a city like this, and we don't feel like outsiders at all, but we feel like locals. Gu Haiping analyzed.

"Hey, Mao Dan'er, you don't know, the people of Yongcheng sell things but they surprise you, no matter what you can eat, they will give you a taste, and you can take it for granted that you don't buy people after eating. If you were with us, would you dare to taste it or not? Also, do you know how people sell meat? If you want one or two, you can make meat wherever you want, and people will enthusiastically cut and package it for you and sell it to you, and if you want us to be here, if you don't buy more than a pound of meat, you will ignore the meat seller? Do you want to pick it up and pick it up? There is no door! And when you buy vegetables, people have already picked it up and washed it for you, and when you go home, you can simply wash it and fry it in the pot. With us, you can only buy those sloppy-looking dishes in a pile and clean them up when you get home. People can break the chickens and ducks to sell, and they can cut them for you wherever you want, unlike us who can only buy them one by one, which is also the difference between southerners and northerners in daily life. Shandan continued.

"Hehehe, they're not too troublesome?" replied Mao Dan'er.

"Then you don't understand, I have analyzed: people buy and sell so finely, the profit is more profitable than we are talking about selling here, the price of different parts of his meat is different, this kind of trading, people make more money is not too troublesome. The price of the finely picked vegetables is three times higher than ours, and you say that the little rotten vegetable leaves you pick up can be more than doubled? That's why I said we have to learn from the shrewdness of the southerners. "Shandan analysis.

"Hehe, in fact, it is estimated that you are going to do business with this piece of material, and you have bought so many truths and ideas just to buy vegetables over the years, which should really support you to start a business. Gu Haiping said with a smile.

"Hehe, everything makes sense, isn't it? I analyzed it with my little toes, I want to do some business, although the work is easy now, but it is worthless, if your monthly income is more than 10,000 yuan, I plan to open my own shop to do business." Shandan said with a smile.

"Hehe, if you say you're fat, you'll breathe! Do you really want to do the most business? Just you, I don't think you'll have to pick and choose in less than two days, and you're still doing business with your small body? Every day, you're tired of daily housework, and you still want to do business?" Gu Haiping disagreed.

"Hmph! You stupid! Which one do you see that the boss does the work himself? Isn't that a subordinate? A successful boss is not how much work she can do, but how many people she can do, how much work she can make others do, do you understand? "Stupid bastard!" Shandan shot back aggressively.

"Hahaha!" Mao Dan'er was amused by Shandan's wittiness.

"Hehehe, look at your sister's mouth, it's amazing, right?" Gu Haiping pointed to his mouth and asked Mao Dan'er.

"Hehehe, you guys are needle-to-needle, no one is worse than the other! It's really not a family that doesn't enter the door," Mao Dan'er said with a smile.

Talking and laughing along the way, the car has reached the Yellow River Bridge