Chapter 292: The Talent of Leadership
"Well, that makes sense, you go on." Murong Zejian nodded again.
As for the third point, it is necessary to learn, keep learning, and it is said that living to learn is very reasonable. A leader will only do his career better if he continues to learn, and the measure of the success of the team he leads is the ability to innovate, and innovation comes from continuous learning. Leadership, decision-making, these are all learned. Society is developing, human civilization is also progressing, if the original set of tacit and stereotyped thinking is still retained, it will soon be eliminated. Huang Fei talked to Murong Ze like this, and he also found some feelings, and his thoughts were constantly sublimating.
"Learn, yes, learn." Murong Zejian has always listened to what Huang Fei said, and he felt that what Huang Fei said was perfect, and he couldn't give a different opinion at all.
"The fourth point is to know how to communicate, the reason why people can cooperate with each other, the most important way is communication, only good communication can understand each other's ideas, just like the two of us, isn't it also communication now? Effective communication between a leader and his subordinates is the essence of the art of management. The perfect leader spends most of his time communicating with others, leaving less time analyzing problems and dealing with related issues. Through extensive communication, subordinates become good followers and assistants who serve their careers. Huang Fei's idea is like a silver needle, and the needle can be pierced to the vital point.
The current Murong Zejian is like a student with an explosive thirst for knowledge, eager to learn new knowledge from Huang Fei, which perfectly reflects the third point that Huang Fei just said.
"The fifth point I think is very important, that is, to win the support of others, and only by letting subordinates support you can they make them follow you faithfully. No matter how great a leader's dream is, if there is no recognition and support from his subordinates, his dream can only be a dream. If there's one special talent that leadership needs, it's the ability to feel the purpose of others. In a sense, a leader is like holding up a mirror and reflecting back to the subordinates what they desire most. When they see something reflected, they recognize it and are immediately attracted so that they do their best. Huang Fei's mouth was a little dry, and he took the teacup and drank it all, and Murong Zejian immediately filled the cup with tea for him.
Now Murong Zejian is no longer speaking, just a quiet listener.
"Sixth, you must have a strong self-control, the self-control of a leader is a rare virtue, self-control is the compass that guides a person's actions, and it is because of your enthusiasm and self-control that you achieve balance. This balance helps your actions without disrupting them. In the practice of management activities, a person who has the ability to manage others well is not necessarily a good leader, and only those who have the ability to manage themselves can succeed. Therefore, a person can easily see the shortcomings and advantages of others, but often cannot see what is in himself.
The seventh point is to have a good body, many leaders are busy with work, spend all their efforts on work, maybe the work is indeed done well, but they ignore their own health, every day is riddled with diseases, pain, can not do anything, hard to the end, can only be a vain. Originally, Huang Fei wanted to talk about the family again, and a good leader's love for the family is also indispensable. However, remembering what Murong Xianglong said to him, he still dispelled this thought.
Isn't talking about family affairs to this kind of person just slapping him in the face?
"Incisive." After Huang Fei finished speaking, Murong Zejian couldn't help but applaud, as if he had just heard a wonderful speech.
"My gibberish made my uncle laugh." Huang Fei said with some embarrassment.
"Nonsense, you are too modest, if you are talking nonsense, then everyone else will become dumb. Young people, it's really not simple, I originally thought that young people of your age are most interested in how to have fun, but I didn't expect your view and opinion of things to be so unique, have your own set, you are a talent. Murong Zejian couldn't hold back the excitement in his heart, Huang Fei had changed from a child about the same age as his son to a talent in his eyes, and he had become a treasure.
"Uncle, you've really won the prize, I'm a little embarrassed to say it." Facing Murong Zejian's praise, Huang Fei really felt embarrassed.
"Well, yes, yes." Murong Zejian looked at Huang Fei and nodded with a smile on his face.
Huang Fei felt as if he was a woman waiting for the guests to choose in the ancient Qinglou, and he was a little embarrassed to be looked at by Murong Zejian.
So he could only smile awkwardly.
"What are you doing in the South China Sea with Xiang Long now?" Murong Zejian looked at Huang Fei for a while and then asked.
"Oh, I'm in charge of the docks over there." Huang Fei hurriedly replied.
"There's nothing technical about things on the docks, so it's really humiliating to let you go." Murong Zejian said with some regret.
"It's okay, I'm already satisfied that I can do my job now." Huang Fei didn't know what Murong Zejian was thinking again.
"Otherwise, you leave the affairs of the South China Sea to someone else to do, you come here and follow me." Sure enough, Murong Zejian's two acres of land were soon exposed.
Huang Fei was stunned for a while, this Murong Zejian is too good, Huang Fei, the father who blatantly dug into the corner of his son's wall, is really the first time he has met him, maybe it is really just like Murong Xianglong said, in Murong Zejian's heart, he has never regarded him as his own son.
Can you agree to such a thing? Of course not, although Huang Fei also wanted to come over and establish a good relationship with Murong Zejian as soon as possible, but now is not the time, there is still a Murong Xianglong behind him.
Murong Zejian was waiting for Huang Fei's reply, but Huang Fei didn't know how to answer him, it was not okay to agree, but directly refusing was a bit too blunt, and it was not good for future development, what should I do?
Huang Fei was in a dilemma, neither advancing nor retreating.
Just when Huang Fei was in a dilemma, his savior arrived.
"Huang Fei, why did you come here, I'm still looking for you everywhere." Murong Xianglong walked over from the path and stood on the edge of the stone table.
"I..." Huang Fei opened his mouth, not knowing how to explain it.
"I'll bring him over for a chat, what, what's the matter?" Murong Zejian drank water from a teacup and said without raising his head.
"It's nothing, I just miss him." Murong Xianglong's words almost didn't make Huang Fei cough, and what he said was a little too ambiguous.
"I just left for a while and thought, when will you grow up, can you be a little promising?" Murong Zejian rolled his eyelids and glanced at his son, and said with a sneer.
If this is seen by people who don't know, how can it be believed that these two people will be father and son? It's almost the same as saying it's sad.
"Let's go, Huang Fei, let's go back." Murong stretched out his hand to Long and pulled Huang Fei's arm, and Huang Fei immediately stood up and prepared to follow him.
Who knew that at this time, Murong Zejian spoke again: "I was telling him just now, I want this young man to come to my side to help, what do you think?" ”
"You're a professional robber, right? Why do you want to intervene in everything? It's all dug into my head, and you're good enough. Murong Xianglong let go of the hand holding Huang Fei, propped his hands on the stone table, looked at Murong Zejian face to face and said.
Huang Fei thought that Murong Zejian would be furious when he heard this, but he didn't expect him to be like a nobody, so he even smiled and said: "People don't kill the heavens and the earth for themselves, of course everyone wants good things." ”
"Then it's up to you to have the ability." After Murong finished speaking to Long, he straightened up and pulled Huang Fei out.
Huang Fei didn't speak, he didn't have anything to say at this time, he was not a woman, he let two men quarrel for himself, what was going on?
"Why are you with him?" After returning to Murong Xianglong's room, Murong Xianglong said with some dissatisfaction. As soon as she opened her eyes, she found that Huang Fei was gone, and she called twice but no one answered, so she came out of the house, and when she asked people, she found out that Huang Fei was called away by her father.
He was in a hurry for a while, and he couldn't care so much, so he hurried to this small garden.
"I saw that you were asleep, so I came out and stood in the yard to breathe, I didn't expect to meet your father, I had to pull me to talk, and I couldn't refuse him, so I followed him to the small pavilion to sit for a while." Huang Fei explained to Murong Xianglong why he was with his father.
"What are you all talking about?" Murong Xianglong asked with some vigilance.
"I didn't talk about anything else, he asked me what kind of qualities I should have as a leader, I just talked to him casually, and then he asked me what I was doing with you in the South China Sea, and I said to help on the dock, and he said let me come back and follow him, and then you came." Huang Fei didn't hide it at all, he didn't need to hide anything from these things, it was better to tell the truth.
"Hmph, he can do this kind of thing." Murong Xianglong said indignantly.
"Then what do you think, do you want to do it with him?" Murong Xianglong asked, staring at Huang Fei's eyes.
"Brother Long, are you laughing at me? Although I, Huang Fei, don't have any great skills, I still know how to write a righteous word. Huang Fei's face changed, and he said a little angrily.
"I believe in you." Murong nodded to Long and didn't ask anything more.
"Brother Long, what are you going to do next?" Huang Fei saw that Murong Xianglong was fine, and asked him about his next plans.
"It's hard to say now, I didn't have a sneak attack at all." As soon as he said this, Murong Xianglong's tone became helpless.