Chapter 141: Principles
Although what Xiaoxiao said was reasonable, it was extremely twisted to Su Qing's ears, the confirmation of this theory should not happen to her, and what she couldn't figure out the most was why Xiaoxiao did this, she couldn't bear the doubts in her heart, Su Qing stopped Xiaoxiao's words that she was going to continue, and said: "Xiaoxiao, I ask you a question, you can't perfunctory me!"
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"Why are you doing this, I can understand Xiaoyi, but only you do this makes me feel very puzzled, even if we may not be able to be together like before, then there is no need to convince me to accept Ye Xun, don't you feel twisted by doing this?"
Xiaoxiao smiled when she heard this, "You want to know?"
"Of course, I don't believe it's because this is the most suitable, in fact, you also understand that this is not suitable for me, I am a person who strives for perfection in some things, so I can't do what other girls would do in this state!" Su Qing looked at Xiaoxiao and said.
Xiaoxiao was still smiling, sipping melon seeds slowly, and said, "Why do you want to do this, one day you will know!"
"Xiaoxiao, are you angry with me, I know that the decision you made you sad, but I'm afraid that going your own way will make it difficult for you to face it, if you feel angry, it's okay to scold me and beat me, but don't do this!" Su Qing's tone softened a lot, "Since you went to Guangzhou, I feel that you have really changed a lot, and now you are sitting in front of me, are you still the Xiaoxiao I am familiar with?"
Xiaoxiao shook her head, "I may have been angry before, but that is already in the past, people will change, not in a circle, they will become estranged after a long time, and the same is true between men and women, and now I still regard you as a lover, what do you doubt about me?"
"I don't know, but this feeling is very uncomfortable, many things are kept in the dark, can't you just say it clearly? Or do you think I can't accept it? You tell me the reason, if this is the best result for you, I can promise you!" Su Qing said.
Xiaoxiao glanced at her and chuckled, "Including me asking you to be Ye Xun's girlfriend?"
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Su Qing put his hand on his side and clenched it unconsciously, his eyes were low, and he said: "Tell me the reason, maybe I will agree, but even if I force myself, I don't want to do something that wrongs others, if you think this is fair to Ye Xun!"
"Qingqing, you're so stupid!"
Xiaoxiao put down the melon seeds in her hand, grabbed Su Qing's clenched right hand and spread it out, "Why do you care so much about other people's feelings? Do you know that a woman, especially a woman with the same external conditions as you, is an object of psychological and physical desire for many men, maybe the inner is sometimes very important, but are there so many people in this world who blindly pursue perfection? No." You chose to go against your own principles and agree, maybe for you this is not equal to Ye Xun's pay, but in fact it is not!"
"I can't tell what other women will be like, just talk about me, I'm a woman, married to a very good man, then I will live in peace and stability, and satisfy material vanity when conditions permit, as for feelings? Two people help each other together, live under the same roof together, how long can the relationship last? Two people who love each other too much can't be together, that will only make them unable to live!" Xiaoxiao said.
"You haven't been married, how can you know so much?" Su Qing was puzzled.
Xiaoxiao smiled when she heard this: "This is what my mother told me, and I won't tell you, in fact, my dad has never been my mother's favorite man, but she married my dad because she is the most suitable for me compared to my dad!" Love is something that can only be pursued in the case of material balance, otherwise there are very few things that can be persevered, just like glass that will be broken when it falls, and its shelf life is not as long as imagined, two people have been together for a long time, and feelings have become a familiar habit, a responsibility, of course, this is not absolute, but a universal phenomenon!"
"Material foundation, you think so too?" Su Qing said.
"I know what you're thinking, when my mom met my dad, he was just a worker working on the factory floor, but not as glamorous as he looks now!" Xiaoxiao said, "Some women pay attention to the present, and some women see the potential, but one thing is the same, no one will make a choice without seeing hope, even if this hope is only a small point, of course, there is a difference in purpose!"
Su Qing listened carefully, and said, "What does this have to do with me?"
"Don't you understand? I mean to tell you that it is you who feel guilty for your choice, but in fact it is not like that, and do you really know Ye Xun? He doesn't like you to make you pay the same affection in return, if you are with him, I don't believe he will feel that excited!"
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Xiaoxiao saw Su Qing's strange expression and chuckled: " Because in Ye Xun's opinion, this is what he needs to do, after all, seeing those people in the dream who passed is not just you, men always have some machismo, in his opinion, the death of the eldest grandson Siqing is Ye Guxun's fault, although it was her father who killed the eldest grandson Siqing by mistake, but in the final analysis, it is because of Ye Guxun, if you are Su Yang in this life and have not experienced this, then the two of you will live according to the original trajectory, maybe there will be no intersection in your life, but in fact it is not like that, you became Su Qing, recalling the past memories that belong to the eldest grandson Siqing, and he also saw Ye Guxun's past, which is also a dream memory, the difference is that you are the eldest grandson Siqing, and he is Ye Guxun!, so after he overcomes the twist in his heart, he is even more sure of what he needs to do, especially after falling in love with you!"
"I very much doubt that you arranged all this, and what you said made me think that you had thought it would be like this a long time ago!" Su Qing looked at Xiaoxiao, "Xiaoxiao, you make me feel strange!"
Xiaoxiao was stunned when she heard this, and then said with a smile: "I'm just stating a fact, bystander Qing, although I can't be regarded as a bystander strictly speaking, but after I went to Guangzhou, I almost left this circle, you are the person I care about, Ye Xun is my godbrother, what happens between you, even if it is in Guangzhou, I will care very much!"
"Ye Xun told you, right? I believe he is in contact with you a lot!"
Xiaoxiao didn't answer, because this was an obvious thing, she had already thought that Su Qing would guess it wouldn't be long before she could, because Su Qing had always been a sharp-minded person, not to mention that after all this, she would only be more frequent than before in terms of observing words and feelings.
"Of course I won't force you to do what you feel twisted, but I don't want to hide it from you, indeed, I hope you can be with Ye Xun, not only Ye Guxun and Eldest Sun Siqing, you two are really quite contradictory, that is, the most suitable and the most inappropriate!" Xiaoxiao said.
Su Qing understood what she meant, she and Ye Xun were indeed the most suitable and most inappropriate two people, suitable because they both knew what the other party's situation was, once they decided to be together, they would inevitably be more compatible with the men and women under normal circumstances, and it would be better to understand if it was not suitable, but for now, this is only for Su Qing, because she can't forget her twenty years of memory, maybe other men can be reluctant without knowing, but Ye Xun knows it, and knows it extremely clearly, if Su Qing can't let go in this case, the two of them are the most inappropriate!
"Since you don't want me to agree, then how can you tell me the reason? I don't think it's that complicated, we've known each other for so long, and we've been in love for three years, do we still have to hide anything from each other?" Su Qing said.
Xiaoxiao said: "It's not that I don't want to tell you, it's not the time yet, Qingqing, I don't want you to force yourself, but I hope you can live happily and let Ye Xun stay by your side, even if you don't like him, this is also a good thing for you, even for Ye Xun, it will be what he wants, after all, in his opinion, you can be with him and already fulfill his wish!"
"You're not Ye Xun, so I'm so sure what Ye Xun thinks, I can't tell what he thinks in my twenty years of memory!"
Xiaoxiao smiled and said: "This is the difference between me and you, you are the person Ye Xun likes, so before you become a couple, many words are not suitable to be revealed, but I am different, since he came to our house as a guest and called me sister when he was a child, a lot of things will be said to me, and I will often give him advice and some help! You do know how to observe a person, but this doesn't mean that you can see through, right?" There are too many differences between men and the same, if you really see through it, then you can understand why other people think completely different from you? Why don't others observe so carefully? People are different, everyone has their own unknown side, even if they are absolutely trusting, there will be little secrets hidden in their hearts!"
"So you understand what Ye Xun thinks, thinking that it is most appropriate for me to follow him, so he tries to let me lean in that direction?"
"Although this seems a bit self-righteous, but with your character, if you want to make your life easier and happier in this capacity, Ye Xun is the most suitable!" Xiaoxiao paused, and then said: "But I don't think saying this will make you change your mind and let go of your principles!"
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"We're back, sister, what are you talking about?"
The door opened from the outside, Su Yi walked in with a bag of things, and after she came in to take a look, she shouted outside, and then Lin Han also walked in with a bag, in the end, where girls live, if you walk in recklessly, you may encounter a more embarrassing situation.