298. Discussion of human nature

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Shandan never thought that Gu Haiping would leave her, as Gu Haiping said, "It's that I can't do without you, it's not that you can't do without me." ”

Once a master's classmate of Gu Haiping, the two divorced, and when it came to getting along with husband and wife, Gu Haiping said a very classic sentence:

The more a woman has a self, the more self-reliant and self-reliant she is, the more she will be respected by the society, and the more she will be respected and cherished by her husband. In fact, what is terrible about a woman is not that she has no ability and poor income, but that she is afraid of psychological overdependence and self-loss.

Think about it, isn't life just that? What kind of wealth and nobility can you use to get by? Ordinary days, ordinary people, don't they just live in peace and harmony? Both husband and wife have their own careers, and if they don't talk about their careers, they just talk about things, they have their own income, their own ideas, not to mention their thoughts, where can they get to the step of divorce?

Besides, whoever leaves who is not the same life? At no time should we give up our own progress, especially our ideological progress. No matter how much you love and how deeply you love, you must maintain your own integrity and humanity, and don't abandon and lose yourself. You can be nice to him, but you can't be bad to yourself. Extending to parents, siblings, and relatives, it is the same truth: people must first be good to themselves, and then to others, and no one can be above themselves. The so-called heroism that persuades people to sacrifice themselves to achieve others, I completely disagree, is bullshit.

People are equal, and this equality is based on human nature, and any equality that is mixed with social philistines is hypocritical and unfair.

If one day, you lose me, I believe you will be able to live well. I have full confidence in this, maybe without my income, you will be a little financially poor, but you will definitely live a good life and will not collapse.

"What do you mean? Vaccination? What new ideas do you have?" Although Shandan knew Gu Haiping's intentions, she had to interrupt him and stir things up.

"Of course not! I know you understand what I mean, don't interrupt me, I suddenly have some thoughts about Liu Xing's divorce today, and I will nag you about it. Gu Haiping continued:

Of course, it's not okay to be too self-conscious. You see that Liu Xing is a more macho person, his daughter-in-law and children are married on a blind date, and there is no emotional foundation on the one hand, but the key problem is not here, it is that both of them are very selfish, this self is not the macro self I said, it is the narrow sense of the self, and they are unwilling to take the initiative to communicate and communicate, as if whoever takes the initiative loses. Liu Xing is a person who will never lower his arrogant head, and his daughter-in-law is also a person who does not understand amorous feelings, so it is inevitable that the two of them will divorce. People can't do without ego, and they can't do it if they are too selfish, that is, it's not good to be too much.

I think that the way for husband and wife to get along is not who conquers whom, but two people who understand each other, tolerate each other, and sometimes pretend to be deaf and dumb. Of course, we don't need to pretend to be deaf and dumb.

Seeing that Shandan's eyes widened and he expressed dissatisfaction, Gu Haiping immediately flattered.

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Since we come together, we must strive to do our best regardless of whether we have deep feelings or not, of course, both parties need to work hard, not one side accommodating, and one side has to make inch, and this model will sooner or later come to the point of exhaustion. We must cherish blessings, but we must also know how to accumulate blessings.

"I know what you mean. Listening to Zhang Ying say that she didn't know what Liu Xing was doing, Liu Xing's outing, she didn't tell her where she was going and the time, she just left, and she came back when she came back, all without saying a word, and going home was like staying in a hotel. She doesn't know what Liu Xing's salary is, she is given living expenses every month, and nothing else is counted. The two of them rarely talk at home, let alone chat like us, how do you think this kind of relationship can last a lifetime?" Shandan also sighed.

"Liu Xing is a very conceited and stubborn person, don't look at him with the problem of squeezing his eyebrows, he is actually very high, his daughter-in-law graduated from a college entrance examination, although he earns more money in the financial system, he still doesn't look down on her, and the two have no common language. Look at that Zhang Ying again, she looks okay, but when she speaks, she has a crooked mouth, and her tall figure is stiff and slumped. These two people are quite compatible on the outside, but it makes sense that they are born from the heart, and it is understandable that the hearts of the two people do not match. "Gu Haiping is on the matter.

"You're not kind like this, your looks are given by your parents, you can't judge the length of it. Moreover, a man shall not be a man, nor shall the sea be measured. You are lying nonsense, take it back quickly. Shandan retorted.

"It's not about kindness, I'm telling the truth. It's true that the appearance is given by the parents, and the heredity accounts for a certain percentage, but it makes sense that the appearance is born from the heart, and the facial features and body shape are necessary. You will slowly find that most of those people with crooked mouths and slanted eyes are not pure enough. It is a video left by the habits of this life and past lives. You will say that those children who are born with defects are not their fault, but when you study Buddhism and cause and effect, you will also find that it is their fault, but it is the fault of the previous life. Gu Haiping raised his eyebrows and said.

"This makes sense, I believe that in the underworld is not only the world that we can see and touch, but also the six realms of reincarnation, cause and effect are certain, and you have experienced it yourself, right? We can't be blindly greedy, like the current society's morality is weak and values are distorted. If everyone was in awe and knew the cause and effect, there might not be so many things that are unreasonable, unscrupulous, unscrupulous, unscrupulous. Shandan agreed with Gu Haiping's view.

If everyone understands that all deeds are to give back to themselves, and all sins are to dig a pit for themselves, and they will eventually have to jump into it, then it is estimated that they will not be so unscrupulous. What Sudan dyes, melamine, rotten shoe capsules, clenbuterol, contraceptive fish, etc., may be gone. It's a pity that we are a nation without faith, and we were born to be the first in the world, and we are not afraid of heaven and earth, so it will be difficult. Gu Haiping sighed.

"Yes, we can only start from ourselves, influence the people we can influence, do what we think is right, treat the world well, hope that our good will be exchanged for the good of the world, and let us be happy for a lifetime. Shandan reveled and made a wish affectionately.

But life is impermanent, and you need to be aware of it. It is that no matter what happens in this world, we must live and be a good person. It is also important to understand that the disappearance of the physical body is not a real death, but a transformation of a state. That way we will be hopeful and not despairing. Live the present moment, cherish every day of our lives, and when we leave this world, we will not waste our time and will not be ashamed of our mistakes. It's good to live every day with your heart, and to live it in a down-to-earth and serious way. It is not difficult to do the best for yourself. Gu Haiping suddenly sighed.

Shandan grew up slowly from a little girl who did not know the world, and the maturity of his thinking lies in Gu Haiping's subtlety over the years, he can just explain the profound and difficult truths and concepts in simple terms, so that Shandan can grow up step by step.

Shandan also often thinks that her spiritual growth and growth in the true sense are mature under the influence and care of Gu Haiping.