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The construction of the high-rise apartment building downstairs is in full swing, and the second batch of high-rise buildings called "fund-raising housing" in the hospital are also under construction. www.biquge.info There is no purchase agreement, no contract, let alone a real estate certificate.

However, in line with the consistent thinking of cheap and Chinese, I feel that having my own house is the concept of having my own home, despite the disadvantages of not having a real estate certificate, Gu Haiping and Shandan still discussed asking for a set, how many people are not qualified to ask for it.

The house is already under construction, and the purchase price is paid in several installments, the first payment is to be paid when the foundation stone is laid, the second batch is to be paid when half of it is seen, and the last batch is to be paid when the cap is made. A 140-square-meter house costs four or five hundred thousand yuan, which is a lot of pressure for them to settle down in life.

However, Gu Haiping is confident, and he is happy all day long, and he doesn't take it seriously at all.

The wages of the two people can pay off about half of the house money in a year, plus Shandan has accumulated in the past few years, that is, the "pocket money" that Gu Haiping left to Shandan, although Gu Haiping insisted on not using this "pocket money" that he "carefully left her", but Shandan thought: When it comes to a critical moment, she must take it out, how can she put the money and embarrass him?

After lunch that day, Shandan and a few colleagues took a walk around the office building to digest their food. I don't know who brought up the topic of contraception and sterilization for men and women.

A female colleague seemed to be angry and said, "Why should women bear the burden of contraception? Why can't men get sterilized?"

"In my opinion. Because intrauterine IUD placement is the simplest and most effective method, it has no health effects on 99% of women, and it is ok to remove it after menopause. If men have vasectomy, one is a blow to their habitual thinking that there is no manhood after ligation, and the other is that the surgery is traumatic, and there may be complications. It is also possible to get pregnant due to one or another factor that leads to the failure of the surgery. Shandan said simply in line with professional and traditional thinking.

"Why should a woman have another baby and another ring, and why can't a man make some sacrifices?" the colleague was still emotional.

"What is the basis for this? Because you need a man who stands up to the sky, because you love him and don't want him to be hurt, because he has made outstanding contributions to the family, why? I don't agree with your idea anyway, and I won't do it. Shandan said.

"The problem is that after a woman puts the ring, the menstrual flow will increase, which will cause anemia and harm the body!"

"The problem is: not everyone is like this! Most people don't have much feeling and reaction, it's the same as not putting it in, I've been putting it for a few years and I haven't had anything abnormal. Don't listen to the rumors on the Internet, there is a very small part of the bleeding in the serious clinical cause of birth control rings. The female ring is just a small thing in the body, which does not do much harm to the body, while the male sterilization is surgery, which is harm. Besides, I think that two people who love each other and a family should be humble to each other, and they should find the most reasonable and effective way to do things, rather than calculating. Isn't it?"

"I don't agree with you. Women have already made great sacrifices, and when they give birth to a child, men refuse to go for a minor operation, and what kind of love is there to talk about? The colleague was indignant.

"Let me tell you this, the traditional education and thinking concept of the Chinese believe that a man without fertility has no dignity of a man, and such thinking directly affects the sexual function of men, and the operation itself may not have any effect, but do you know how important it is to suggest in your heart? When the other party becomes sexual-incompetent, it is not a matter of selfishness or selfishness. Shandan said bluntly.

"In my opinion, I don't want to give my loved ones any mental blow and physical harm, I would rather make my own efforts. Shandan continued.

"That's because you have a good relationship, but I think it's because of a good relationship that men should be more sympathetic to their wives and choose to have their own sterilization. Hahaha!" the colleague laughed.

"Then you should also be considerate of your husband and just put a ring!" Shandan also smiled.

On this matter, Shandan went home to discuss with Gu Haiping, and Gu Haiping's performance was beyond Shandan's expectations.

"I don't think it's anything, anyone can do it," he said. If you ask me to get sterilized, I'll do it, but it won't hurt my body much. ”

"You're a person who does traditional culture research, but you can see it like this?" Shandan squinted his eyes and expressed doubt.

"This has no conflict with traditional culture, if you do not tolerate the IUD, I will consider sterilization, you can also consider other contraceptive methods, besides, to keep up with the pace of the times, but also to believe in the progress of science, many men in the West do sterilization, but the Chinese man's machismo idea will require women to be sterilized. Logically speaking, your colleague is also right, a woman has already made such a great contribution to giving birth to a child, she should not have an open abdomen and sterilization, and vasectomy is much simpler and less harmful. Gu Haiping spoke in a calm tone.

"What do you really think? But I don't want you to do it, and I think that even if it doesn't hurt the body, it still has an effect on the subconscious. Shandan said.

"That's true, after all, a lot of people don't understand the details and don't have medical knowledge. Of course I don't want to do it, we have to have a younger brother if we have a chance!" Gu Haiping said, already bullying forward.

"Think beautifully, do you want me to work hard, you are really selfish!" Shandan covered Gu Haiping's mouth with his hand, trying his best to break free.

"You've always wanted a son, haven't you?" Gu Haiping had no intention of stopping.

"I hope that Xiaoyu is a son at that time, where do you want it?" you take it out of context!" Shandan was powerless to parry Gu Haiping's attack.

"Then what's the matter? Let's have another son, and we will make a good word, do you say it is good? Gu Haiping couldn't wait, panting and not stopping the movements of his hands.

"Where could it be? Tell me about it. Shandan had no power to fight back, so he had to be "bullied".

"Hahaha! When my wings are stiff, I leave the hospital, and I have my own piece of heaven, and we will create another person. Gu Haiping was highly motivated.

"When it comes to human life, you really say it lightly. I'll be aging very quickly!" said Shandan, in pain.

"No, everything has me! I want to make up for the deficit that you didn't take good care of when you gave birth to Xiaoyu, and adjust your body to the best, when the time comes, we will invite a confinement sister-in-law, one is not enough to invite two, anyway, you just have to give birth, and then I will ask a nanny to take care of the child." Your burden won't be too heavy, you just have to 'point fingers', eat and sleep well. When the time comes, I will have my son inherit my mantle, and I will also have an ancestral medicine, which will be passed on from generation to generation. Gu Haiping had already invaded the secret realm while planning for the future, excited and excited. (To be continued.) )