87 Raising a baby
Yelena is useless to blame the bull's nose at this time, she can only raise the fetus with peace of mind, Lilia and Dara are very worried, but seeing Yelena eat so much, her stomach is the same as blowing up a balloon, she is really a little scared, if Yelena is also fat, then forget it, but only fat belly, Yelena herself did not say anything, as a mother, when making a choice in the face of her own and her child's physical condition, Yelena also chose the child like most women. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info Yelena knows very well that the congenital physical conditions and the acquired ones, the gap is very large, and there are some problems, if it is not raised well in the mother's womb, it is not good, then it will not be made up, even if Yelena has the pill in her hand, but the pill is limited, and you can't take the medicine whenever you feel uncomfortable.
Volkov is blonde with brown eyes, Yelena with black hair, plus purple eyes, so what will the child look like? If you are Chinese, you don't think about skin color and hair at all, right? Also, his mother and brother are blonde and blue-eyed, although my father's hair is darker, and his eyes are not light blue, but blue-green. The genes are different, and it is likely to be inherited from one generation to the next, but fortunately, there is no need to worry about the race, it is always white.
Idle and bored, and put down work to raise a baby with peace of mind, Yelena's mind is wondering what this son looks like, I don't know if it is an identical twin, or a fraternal twin, whether it will look like Volkov, you must know that Volkov has a family, it seems that he also has children, and they all say that children cannot be born secretly, and if this child is born like Volkov in the future, then this adultery is confirmed. And everyone is rumoring that the relationship between the two is very close, fortunately it is not at some special time in China, otherwise, they will be in big trouble.
The house is warm, the fire wall is much better than the fireplace, Yelena can't stand the smoke and fire the most, Yelena is sitting on the chaise longue, still holding fragrant milk tea in her hand, this is a good thing in her space, even Lada and Lilia like it, Yelena's good things, there are more strange things, they are used to it. And the Chekin sisters went hunting in this cold weather. She said that she planned to come back with a few hairy ones, make mattresses and clothes for the children, and preferably be able to hit a white bear, which Yelena was very supportive, although the possibility of hitting a white bear here is very small.
"Yelena, didn't you tell Volkov about this?" Radha also endured it for a long time, not only her, but several other women were also very curious,
Yelena took a sip of milk tea and said, "Why do you want to tell him, child...... Perhaps only in the hearts of Chinese is the most important, there is no incomplete life. You have also been with me in China for a long time, and you have been influenced by them. Blood doesn't mean anything. Speaking of this, Yelena also thought of her attachment to the child, her stomach churned, obviously the two children were somewhat affected by her emotions, Yelena immediately put all her troubles behind, and said,
"Why do you ask this?"
Lilia was a little more steady, and when she saw that Rada had stopped the fire, she said, "Yelena, do you know about Volkov's situation?" ”
Radha came to his senses at this time and said, "If Yelena wants to inquire about a person's situation, isn't it still an easy matter?" I must have known it for a long time. Isn't it, Yelena? ”
"You're wrong, I really don't know about him, I haven't inquired, I haven't investigated, and I don't want to know."
"Why?" Lilia asked, "Don't you love him?" ”
This is difficult to explain, love is not necessarily together, there is no fate, or it is a bad fate, smart, don't ask too much, the more you know, the more detailed you know, the more you will think, the more you think, and you will be distracted, so it is inevitable that a sadness, children like her have been born to others, it is inevitable that there will be more expectations, and then it will be more sad and embarrassing, why bother? Seeing that the two women didn't understand, Yelena didn't plan to explain too much, and said,
"Love or not, what's the difference, do I let him divorce? Even if it's not a problem, he and I can grow old together from now on, and we will love each other? I know his personality well enough that I can't stand it. I don't have that long-term plan, and so do you, I don't care, so why do you bother? Besides, in this world now, I don't know how long I can live, or if I live for a day, I can relax for a day, why force that? ”
Lilia and Rada agree with Yelena's statement, they are very clear about Volkov's temper, and even know better than Yelena, as his subordinates, it is absolutely convincing, Volkov's military command ability can be said to be a genius, but the strictness of his subordinates is also incomparable to ordinary people, it is simply a devil. Yelena's harsh side of Volkov was nothing compared to Lilia and her subordinates. And Lilia they are just members of the medical team, or tank regiments, if they are really subordinates of the regular Soviet army, it is conceivable that they will be even more miserable.
Radha obviously agreed, but he still couldn't help gossiping, and said, "Actually, even if it wasn't for you, Volkov and his wife were going to divorce, this is not the first time that divorce has been rumored, but they have all been pressed down from above, his wife is not ordinary, very capable of making trouble, life and death do not divorce, the relationship between the two is not good, Volkov rarely goes home, in the army, there is no shortage of women, everyone knows this." ”
Yelena frowned when she heard this, she didn't expect it, but if the woman didn't divorce, she would cry, make trouble and hang herself to find an organization or something, and there was really no way, no matter how capable Volkov was, he couldn't help it, Volkov was already and had an identity and a very high status, the higher his status, not only did he get a higher salary, but he also got treatment that ordinary people can't get. Not only can you have a villa, but also your own group of service staff, drivers, cooks, guards, nannies, and even high-end clothes, jewelry and various imported goods that ordinary people can't think of, and you don't have to worry about food. But Yelena also understands the kind of people who are Volkov's wives, they love their husbands, but because of their strong personalities, they will never allow themselves to be abandoned, even if the other party does not love them. Of course, it is not excluded that the other party is due to material reasons. In fact, it's a bit similar to myself, if Yelena was so ordinary when she was still in her first life, she would have scruples and do it when she had nothing to do!
Lilia glared at Rada fiercely, obviously, seeing Yelena stunned, she began to worry, Lilia quickly said, "Yelena, are you okay?" ”
Yelena put down her cup and said, "Since you've said it all, let's tell me what you know!" If you do encounter it in the future, you should also be prepared. Although this is not very likely. ”
Lilia didn't let Rada speak, and said to herself, "I heard that they were twenty years old, and they got married almost in 1920, and their daughter Alina Aleksandevich Volkana is 16 years old this year, her birthday is January, and the mother and daughter have been living in Moscow, and Volkov's wife Lyudmila was also born in 1894, she has no job, and she has always been at home to take care of the children, and when she was young, she was also ...... Looks OK. And Volkov has always been in the Belarusian Military District, for a year, they are all gathering less and leaving more, Volkov is very valued, has a good relationship with the above, and is also very prestigious in the army, the relationship between the husband and wife broke down seems to be because of a woman, and Volkov also used to have a great relationship with a military doctor, and was sued by his wife, so that the organization arranged to marry a very ordinary man, I heard that he seems to have an illegitimate daughter, this is just a legend, there is no evidence for the time being. After Lilia finished speaking, she looked at Yelena a timidly, afraid that she would be upset,
Yelena picked up the cup, took a sip of milk tea at the right temperature, and said, "Hearing these news, the guilt in my heart is gone, and the illusion about him is broken, which strengthens my heart even more, hehe...... Man! After that, he said no more, as if relieved,
Rada saw that there was nothing bad about Yelena, so he dared to speak, and said, "This man is too careful, it's not good, I don't think it's as good as that Shilov!" ”
Lilia scoffed and said, "Shilov? That's a well-known handsome guy in the army, and he has more girlfriends, but he can be a man and do things, and he handles interpersonal relationships very well, not only does he not have a mistress or girlfriend to sue him, and he has bad bad words, but the wives at home are quiet, and someone specially told her about her husband, and she didn't make any remarks, which shows Shilov's ability. Counting up, he will only have more women than Volkov, and definitely not less than him. Needless to say, who makes the parents handsome?! ”
In this way, even Rada has nothing to say, as Yelena said, man......
Even for true friends, you can't have unrealistic illusions. It must be known that every country has its own independent strategic interests, and it decides its issues from the perspective of its own nation, state, and interests, and no one will set himself on fire for the sake of others. Axioms and justices have different contents in different countries and nations, and each country and nation always proceeds from its own interests to understand and interpret axioms and justice. We should not expect too much from our friends, even if they are true friends, and still less should we bet the "treasure" of the fate of our own army and people on others. Use other people's likes and dislikes to determine or change your own battle plan. Only oneself can save oneself in the world, others can never replace oneself, others are always unreliable, and relying on others is also doomed to suffer. History has proved that the idea of independence is glorious and unbreakable.
This is still true for "friends", let alone enemies? It is all the more necessary to have unrealistic illusions about the enemy and opponent, still less to have a fluke mentality. The fundamental reason why Chiang Kai-shek was passive everywhere in commanding Japan and clinging to the idea of "seeking peace through war" was a fundamental reason. The fundamental reason for such a major misunderstanding is that there is a lack of understanding of the ambitions and appetites of the Japanese warlords. As a matter of fact, Japan not only no longer regarded the Nanjing government as an object of goodwill, but also wanted to annex all of China. Not only to annex all of China, but also to seize Asia and the Pacific from Britain and the United States, the appetite is astonishing, and the ambition is inflated to the point beyond imagination.
It was precisely because of the lack of sufficient understanding of Japan's ambitions that Chiang Kai-shek still tried to force Japan to make peace with a campaign counterattack after Japan had set up its strategic plan to capture Nanking and cut off China along the Yangtze River, and even until the Japanese army had landed in Hangzhou Bay, he made the ridiculous judgment that it was a small detachment and no more than one and a half brigades. The root cause of all this political and military wishful thinking is an illusion about the ambitions of Japanese imperialism against China. Experience has proven that against one's main opponent and enemy, it is necessary to throw away illusions and prepare for a struggle. Only by discarding illusions can the mind be opened, the mind can be emancipated, and the initiative in war can be gained.
Under the condition that there is no sea and air supremacy, the surrender of more than 700,000 troops to such a peninsula with a narrow area, dense water networks, and swamps can only be passively beaten, and there is no room for maneuver, which is precisely in line with the strategic plan of Japanese militarism to achieve a quick victory and gather together to annihilate it. The Songhu battlefield was flat and undefendable, and it was not easy to construct ground fortifications, which increased the difficulty of defensive operations. Under these conditions, China's hundreds of thousands of troops did not make a deep echelon deployment or carry out campaign maneuvers, and in addition, the front-line troops were too close to the coast and river banks, and were attacked by Japanese ships and artillery for a long time, which increased the casualties in vain. After 23 August, China's various units were tightly bitten by the Japanese army and could not get out, often fighting bloody battles for the gains and losses of one city and one place, and their own subjective initiative was greatly restricted, and they were powerless to change the situation on the battlefield. The only active attack was also lost due to poor organization and command, and there was no turnaround after that.
In the whole battle, Chiang Kai-shek adopted the tactics of adding fuel one after another, only counterattacks in campaigns and battles without strategic offensives, and the battles were mostly carried out in the form of short and sudden attacks. And how can an army that has lost the initiative in passive defense not fail? After all, some of the initiatives of the Chinese army in the campaign could not make up for Chiang Kai-shek's passivity in strategic guidance, and thus inevitably led to defeat.
During the three-month battle of Songhu, a small number of troops or staff supervisors were not sent to seriously and practically inspect the defense fortifications in the Yangtze River Delta, to organize and prepare the necessary before the battle, and to plan the overall defense. As a result, it was not until the Chinese army retreated from the Shanghai area to the defensive line that it found that it could not smoothly enter the position to meet the battle, and there was no support or response, and the troops could not use these defense lines to fight at all.