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The newlywed Tang Xiaowu is a queen who is favored by the emperor who speaks his word.

Especially on the days of "bad luck" every month, Tang Xiaowu can fully demonstrate the pain, anxiety and anger.

Most men can't understand women's postmenstrual hysteria, and some men even insist that if women demand gender equality every day, they should not use menstrual holidays to play the weak in order to win sympathy.

When he heard Chang Chang's fallacy for the first time, Tang Xiaowu told Chang Chang delicately:

"Hey, big man, my good husband, think about it, if you try to spread a bundle of wet toilet paper between your shorts for 5~7 days, and be careful, change it every 1~3 hours to avoid overflow, even if an adult woman has been with menstruation for more than ten years, she still can't calculate exactly when to take the first drop of blood very accurately.

Sometimes, when the cycle comes, it is natural to take a precautionary pad first, who knows that the pad for 4 or 5 days is empty, just when you are ready to give up and pull out the tampon, the cold rain falls from the sky, you have to pray that you are not in the field or just not white pants, do not have to be embarrassed and embarrassed.

You say, how uncomfortable it would be if you had a wet piece of tissue paper between the straddles? What's more, sometimes it's hard to tell if it's full just by feeling.

If you're a busy homemaker, cleaning out the kitchen or garden or entertaining guests, or you're just a female artist who is about to release a record, and today MTV is going to wear super shorts or go into the water to perform some kind of sadness, can you not be annoyed and anxious?

Sometimes, you think it's overflowing, and when you rush to the toilet to take a look, you only take a little bit, do you want to replace it with a new one?

Sometimes, you just sit and drink coffee, your legs are clamped tightly, and the warmth in your mouth diverts the temperature sensation of your lower body, and when you come back to your senses, you go into the toilet to check, only to find that your menstruation has overflowed in waves, which makes you naturally in a hurry again, can you not be emotional?"

Chang Chang didn't think of such a question at all, he would make the sensitive Tang Xiaowu vent and say so many words, so he immediately nodded and said yes again and again: "Understand and understand, it is not easy for women, I will take special care and pay special attention in the future!"

Tang Xiaowu did not give up, she continued to say softly and weakly:

"I believe you, like every boy, most of you have the experience of dreams! Are you bothered to wash the sheets? Think about it, you wash transparent, but we wash blood, is it difficult?

Menstruation is no better than tap water, the switch is operated by yourself, and you want to stop or come as you like.

In the last 1 or 2 days, menstrual blood became significantly less, and sometimes, when there was only one drop throughout the day, and when he felt that he should no longer need a tampon, he spit out again in the middle of the night, no more, no less, like the one that a weak scholar vomited before he died.

At this point, I had to wash my underwear, the sheets, and the quilt under the sheets.

You say, don't you get tired of it? Ah Chang, if you marry me, it's time to start understanding women and understanding women's premenstrual syndrome, isn't it? Don't get dirty when you see blood, don't forget, you are all born from women, next time, help wash sheets, shorts or something!"

Chang Chang had no choice but to say yes.

Tang Xiaowu thinks back to his first marriage, and there is really a lot to be nostalgic for.

For example, Tang Xiaowu asked Chang Chang to give her a hug every day when he was about to go out.

"You know? Many women complain that they tend to feel lonely after marriage because their husbands fall asleep without even saying 'good night,'" she said.

Where would such a rough man understand that women need romantic feelings?

In everyday life, they crave hugs and kisses from their husbands. But many men often don't do enough in this area, and usually have little intimacy with their wives, or they are not as intimate as they were before marriage, which often makes their wives unhappy.

Women are sensitive, whether she is independent or not, when she falls into a relationship, she will become more hearty and vulnerable.

At this time, men's understanding and concern are most needed, and blaming is not the solution to the problem.

Just as a woman understands a man's carelessness, so a man should be considerate of a woman's needs and sensitivities.

Many times the same words are said in different tones, and the meaning may be completely opposite. Isn't it?"

So, Chang Chang would find Tang Xiaowu to give her a hug, a kiss, and a sentence before leaving home every day: "Good girl, wait for me to go home!"

Tang Xiaowu understands that a woman who loves a man will do a lot of things for him, but few men know how to be grateful, they will all think that these are what women should do!

Chang Chang is the same.

Gradually, a few years have passed, and the marriage of two people is like a left hand touching a right hand, even if they hug and kiss, it is like chewing wax.

Tang Xiaowu thought hatefully: It's okay, so that you men don't know how to cherish it.

Tang Xiaowu has also hinted or said many times:

"Ah Chang, men must know how to cherish women, don't always know that the best is always by your side after losing.

You must know that any woman is emotionally selfish, and a man's fraternity will hurt a woman in many cases.

Women want a secure marriage, and if you are sure that you are not suitable for marriage or that the woman is not the person you want to marry, it is better to leave the other person early.

The longer it drags on, the less good it will be for both of you!

What woman doesn't need security?

Whether a man is a career or a family, stability and a sense of responsibility are necessary qualities. ”

However, Chang Chang, who was at the end, had already changed completely, and he could no longer listen to Tang Xiaowu's bitter words.

As a result, Tang Xiaowu was too lazy to train an uneducated, uninteresting and unmotivated fisherman, and his heart was not full of regret and sorrow.

Think about your life journey, isn't it often that you try different emotions again and again, and at the same time constantly improve yourself and enrich your life?

Tang Xiaowu has always flaunted the affection and love of his married life in the past, and he is happy, but he just doesn't enjoy the love and love outside of marriage. Because she is so clear in her heart, a man like Chang Chang, who came out of the traditional society of a Chinese fishing village, will never let her go to her own devices.

She must be left and right, like a fish in water, Chang Chang will be a backer, paradoxically showing her loyalty and purity. She's been doing a good job all along.

Now, with Tu Die, although I don't know if I will continue to date in the future, I must think about how to face Chang Chang when I see Chang Chang again?

As soon as Tang Xiaowu thought of this, he felt a little weak, and his face became very gloomy and heavy.

She really didn't want to continue to close herself off like this, but if she wanted to break this relatively comfortable, peaceful and comfortable life, why didn't she need strength and courage?

In the past, Tang Xiaowu really didn't have any motivation, thinking that she didn't have external stimulation and desire.

Now, it's completely different, she has a lover, and this lover makes her so satisfied.

Thinking of this, Tang Xiaowu felt a little beginning to forgive Tu Die's words and actions just now.

After all, a man who violates a friend's wife will regret and be apprehensive, right?

However, within a few years of marriage, Chang Chang didn't care about her good intentions at all, and was completely in his own flowers and wine, and he couldn't think about it.

Tang Xiaowu hopes that he can treat his life well and pursue a love life that is not in vain in the afterlife.