One, three, four, family affection is also selfish

Just a few days after Gu Haiping arrived at the school, one day suddenly his sister appeared in front of him, Gu Haiping was surprised for a moment, and asked, "Why are you here?"

His mind immediately thought if something had happened to his parents?

But in an instant, he realized that the arrival of his sister would definitely not be his parents' business, and he could find out his business with a phone call, and it was impossible for his sister to run away.

My sister laughed when she heard it: "Wei Shun (Gu Haiping's brother-in-law) drove the bus to run the Beijing line, I stopped by to see you, nothing happened." ”

"Oh," Gu Haiping saw that his sister was very kind, although this sister who brought to someone else's house was willful, but since she got married, she has grown up a lot, and she has taken more care of her parents, and he is grateful. "Then I'll take you to eat, can Wei Shun come?"

"He can't do without the car, he has to wait for the passengers at the station. I'll go to him later, don't eat, second brother, I want to borrow some money from you, I buy a house and a car, and I don't have enough money in my hands. My sister spoke.

Gu Haiping has been accustomed to the work habits of all his family, since he graduated from college, no matter what his work and life are, his family has never been left behind to ask for money or borrow money, he is very unbalanced: when he pedals a tricycle on the streets of Hohshi to earn money, when he gets married, when he is in a hurry, when the child is born in Yongcheng, no one has a relative to ask and care, as long as there is a little thing at home, he will definitely sue him thousands of miles away and ask him to find a way.

I remember that when he was in graduate school, he only had a subsidy of 263 yuan a month, his younger brother was going to get married, his father called to ask for money, and said that his younger brother wanted to pay the bride price; and once the local road was repaired and half of the courtyard wall of his hometown was demolished, and his father called again to ask for money to build the wall; his nephew was admitted to college, and his father still called to ask for money....... but he himself wanted Shandan to live a stretched life with him.

My father has a teacher's pension, and his monthly income is not low in the local area. And he also has to support his family, although Shandan didn't say anything, he still didn't feel good in his heart. His father seemed to want a kind of security and sustenance from him, and he always told him about some messy things in the house, and although sometimes he could not quench his thirst, he never thought that these would increase his troubles and do nothing.

He can understand his father's actions, because his father is the only child after his grandmother remarries, and since he was a child, he has to compete with several brothers across the mountain for survival capital, he has formed a worried character, he has to hold all the money he can win in the palm of his hand to be sure, maybe it is not solid in the palm of his hand, and he is worried that everyone is worried about his money.

An excessive sense of self-protection made his father an extremely selfish person, which he felt since he was a child, and his father never gave a penny to his mother, and always kept the money firmly in his hands. There is also the concept of "raising children to prevent old age" for several children, Lao Tzu raises you young, you have to raise the old children to be old, even if your stomach is not full, you must repay Lao Tzu's nurturing grace.

Gu Haiping was determined to leave home far away from home, and he couldn't stand his father's ego and his selfish temperament.

In fact, he has more or less inherited his father's selfishness, but since he met Shandan, her generosity, generosity and Shandan's family are happy, and the atmosphere of mutual care and tolerance between people has slowly changed some of his habits, and he began to care about relatives and friends, especially Xiaoyu's birth and Shandan's accommodation made him realize the beauty of life and full of hope for the future.

His understanding of his father and as he grew older, he slowly let go of it a little.

Now my sister has come to borrow money again, what should I do?

To say that after working for a few years, he has a little savings in his hands, Shandan has never interrogated him about the whereabouts of his salary and the cost of money, such relaxation and trust make him cherish this affection even more, he can no longer ask her to pay hard, he hopes to give her a good life. Therefore, every time his father asked for something inconsequential, he was not satisfied, but he only gave it when he thought he should help, and Shandan never intervened in his and the family's affairs.

But under the supervision of Shandan, he will send his parents' pension to his parents on time every year. Although he once said to Shandan about this expense: "We are not rich now, their lives are not bad, maybe better than us, when we are rich, or when they are old, we will take care of them, I think this is better." ”

Shandan persuaded him: "I don't think so, while my parents are healthy, we can eat and drink, and give them some money when we go for a walk, so that they can live a better life, and we are happy in our hearts, aren't we? Besides, there are not many examples of 'children who want to raise but don't treat their relatives', our lives will definitely get better, and I don't want to leave irreparable regrets in our lives." ”

Gu Haiping didn't argue, he could feel Shandan's intentions and affection, she didn't want him to be distracted by family affairs, and it also reduced some of his mental burden. But his heart was guilty—to her.

He knows that it is not enough to take care of such a woman with his whole life, and it is not enough to repay her with all his love, he can only use a hundred times the effort to make her life rich and happy.

My sister has already bought a house and a car, but she has come to borrow money from him, but she never thinks that her second brother is still a three-nil person with no house, no car and no deposit.

He was a little unhappy, for all his relatives had not been able to ask him in the most difficult time, and when he had just settled down and solved the problem of food and clothing, they all came to exploit him, what kind of affection was this?

He suppressed his unhappiness and said reluctantly, "How much do you want to borrow?"

"If you want to have it, borrow more, and if you don't have it, borrow less. "My sister is a little embarrassed.

"How much, how much, how much is less?" Gu Haiping's sharp gaze hit his sister's eyes.

"Then look wow, how many do you have?" whispered timidly.

"How much do I want, don't I have to eat? Don't you want to raise Xiaoyu?" Gu Haiping was completely angry.

Seeing Gu Haiping's angry face, my sister was a little snorting: "No!"

"I don't have any money, I can't get any money out of the stock market, you can figure it out yourself. Gu Haiping said with a pulled face.

"That'...... I'm leaving. My sister's tears were in her eyes, and the second brother had never spoken to her so bluntly, and she felt very wronged. She couldn't understand what kind of psychological and life difficulties Gu Haiping had experienced in the past few years.

Gu Haiping didn't speak, he was still annoyed.

Gu Haiping looked at his sister who was far away angrily, and his heart was more or less filled with sadness. For many years, he has been trying his best to meet the family's requirements, understanding their difficulties, and he can even delay his future to relieve his father's survival pressure, but he has never been forgiven and blessed by his relatives, even a little care and warmth.

Only his mother, who has been in a nest all his life, will soothe his spine with his chapped palm when he is in distress and sadness, and tell him: You don't need to take care of everyone, but you have suffered yourself, and you must take good care of yourself.

The mother has not read, but the mother's heart is painful for her son, looking at the emaciated and tired son, the mother often burst into tears, she understands that only this son is her only support, only he knows how to understand her pain, and only he is the pillar and comfort of her spirit. However, her love for him was so insignificant, so powerless, and so powerless.

Every time Gu Haiping came home, his mother would think of Fa'er to cook all kinds of delicious food for him. Gu Haiping followed behind his mother, looking at his mother's happy and enjoyable smiling face while being busy, his heart was mixed, his mother was getting old and weak year by year, and he knew that he couldn't let go of it and wanted to give his mother a happy old age.

When he was at home, Gu Hai usually accompanied his mother and listened to her tell "those past stories".

Every time I go home, I want to visit my mother and spend time with her.

Now that he has his own home, he hopes that one day he will have the conditions to take his mother to his side and let her spend a happy old age.

He believed that Shandan would understand and support, and that she was so understanding and so dedicated to living with him.

Once, after the two of them were fighting, he once tentatively asked Shandan: "If Grandma Xiaoyu comes to live with us, do you think it will be troublesome?"

"Of course not! If she wants to come, I'll get along with her. Honor her well, you can rest assured, I know your thoughts, and I will do a good job for you. And for the sake of the fact that you have gone all the way to get my parents here, I must be patient and patient with her like I did to Xiaoyu, okay? Shandan said as he winced his eyebrows.

"Hehe, I'm just saying, the old man doesn't necessarily want to come? The golden nest and silver nest are not as good as her own kennel, and she will be more comfortable in her own home. When she can't take care of herself, we'll pick her up again. Gu Haiping rubbed Shandan's hair and said.

"Hehe, are you tempting me or are you real?

"Hehe, it's true, when the time comes, I'll serve and urine, you don't need it! You just swore that you would honor my mother for me, and it changed in a blink of an eye?" Gu Haiping wrapped Shandan tightly and clenched his arms.

"Ahh

"I said honor her, but I really can't send and pee, I declare it in advance. I'm willing to do everything else, except this one. Shandan said seriously.

"No need, I'll tease you!" Gu Haiping held Shandan tightly in his arms.

Gu Haiping shook his head and eased his anger.

What is playing on the radio of the academy is Man Wenjun's "Understanding You":

You leave quietly

Step by step lonely back

I want to be with you

Sue you how much I love you in my heart

Flowers bloom quietly

In the night when I suddenly thought of you

I want to sue you

Actually, you've always been a miracle to me

Year after year, the wind and frost covered the smile

Who can still understand your lonely heart?

Is it the spring flowers and autumn moon ruthless

Spring goes to autumn, and your love is silent

Give me all the love and give me the world

From now on, I don't know the bitterness and joy in your heart

I want to be close to you

Snuggle up in your warm, lonely arms

Sue sù you and I have always understood how much you want to sue you

Your loneliness hurts my heart together

Accompanied by the sad and vicissitudes of Manchu Wenjun's songs, Gu Haiping suddenly felt very homesick and wanted his aging mother.

After a few days, he had to go to the hospital where his mentor was studying with him, and with two days to spare, he decided to go home to see his mother.