Three, six, six, each with a heart

Three, six, six, each with a heart

Grandma Tie Dan'er's condition has not been relieved much, but she has been awake a few times, and then she can't feed her a mouthful of food, she can't even swallow it, and she wastes her days. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info

A month later, only a handful of bones remained, and bedsores developed on the joints, but fortunately, it was late autumn on the Mongolian plateau, and the temperature dropped to a few degrees, and there was no inflammation and stench.

Tie Dan'er's mother has been serving by her side, and when she arrives, there are few children who take turns to serve, or Tie Dan'er's mother and the second daughter, the third daughter-in-law, and the three daughters-in-law serve together. It is said to be serving, that is, to help turn over, wipe the body, and help the elderly massage their increasingly stiff limbs.

If you don't eat for a month, your gastrointestinal tract is already empty, and there is no excrement at all. Tie Dan'er's grandmother is a big man, and then shrunk to only such a small lump, Tie Dan'er's mother's heart is distressed and painful, and she keeps chanting "Amitabha" every day to pray for her mother to be happy and free from suffering as soon as possible, and not to suffer like this again.

It was more than 40 days after the last moment of his life.

People from all walks of life gathered to discuss the future of the old man's family.

The old man is still placed on the big kang, the ancestor of this family has passed away, and the offspring she gave birth to are crowded in her earthen house that gave them life. Eighty years of life -- difficult, difficult, and gone, the great mother who raised ten children is gone.

The old man curled up in a ball was covered with a red forging quilt and his face was covered with white linen paper, no matter whether it was good or bad, this life could be regarded as an explanation.

And her children and grandchildren were already arguing before she was buried.

These sons, daughters-in-law, daughters, and uncles are divided into two factions, one is to insist on doing a big job and make a lot of fun, anyway, it is the last old man to be sent away;

Tie Dan'er's mother has worked hard for more than 40 days, she has lost a lot of weight, and the old man has ascended to heaven, she helps to put on the old man's clothes and bedding, and dock well. Alone she hid in Sanwa's house to sleep, and she could finally relax and rest.

She knows that there will be a lot of trouble in the old man's future, and now that the old man is gone, she has nothing to worry about, if anyone dares to be a demon at this time, she will not show mercy.

She was lying on the big kang of Sanwa's house, thinking about her thoughts, thinking of her mother's life, thinking of her childhood, growing up, getting married, having children, thinking of Xiaoyu's birth, and then thinking of the long-ago picture that seemed not very clear, she slowly fell asleep.

In a trance, she came to Hu Lubao, who lived when she was a child, and saw that her parents were busy in the yard, and there was still no food at home, so she had to go to the field to dig wild vegetables, her stomach was so hungry that she couldn't care so much, so she still dug more wild vegetables and went home, so that her mother could cook and eat.

She thought: This year's harvest is good, the ration should be enough, not far away her mother is pulling wheat, she still mutters in her heart: This wheat seems to be not fully ripe, why did mother pull it? She walked to her mother and wanted to ask the reason, but as soon as she turned around, her mother disappeared, and she was anxious to call: "Mom, Mom!"

I woke myself up in my sleep, and when I opened my eyes, I saw that it was getting late, and I slept all afternoon.

Feeling dry, she sat up and wanted to find water to drink, when she saw the third daughter-in-law and the second daughter-in-law walk in.

I heard the daughter-in-law of the third baby say: "These black bones! You said that a mother in her eighties, the last old man who was in our hands to support her for the rest of her life, could it be that she was quietly dismissed? If no one of them is willing to pay, I will send it away with my family." ”

When I entered the door and saw Tie Dan'er's mother just waking up, the third daughter-in-law said: "The eldest sister is still smart, don't talk nonsense with this group of half-people, you are not present, you have to be there, you have to be angry." ”

"It's time to put on the lights, and it's time for Mom to be buried, have they all been arranged?" Tie Dan'er's mother didn't answer the words of the third daughter-in-law, and asked.

"It's arranged, just wait for you and your eldest brother to help your mother bury. The second girl replied.

"Okay, let's go. Tiedan'er mother went to the ground, picked up the water scoop in front of the water tank and scooped half a scoop of water to drink, feeling that her body suddenly stretched out and relaxed, and for more than a month, she was as heavy as being tied by a rope. Now, her mother is gone, and she doesn't care about the rest of these wolves eating ghosts and ghosts eating wolves.

When the three of them arrived in the east courtyard, the mourning shed had been erected, the soul-attracting banner had been hung high, and the coffin had been parked.

Dressing and covering should be arranged by the eldest daughter. Tie Dan'er's mother laid out the futon prepared for her mother and put on her clothes.

Yuan Qing hugged his mother: "Mom, I will carry you to your new home, you come with me." The children and grandchildren wept and wept, and everyone settled the old lady in the coffin of the old elm.

Tie Dan'er's mother put a "Yuan Datou" for the old lady to make money, put the finished pancakes into the old lady's old clothes with wide sleeves, tidy up the remains, put away the stunned items, and the old lady's life will be closed.

Then there was the first burning of paper, crying and mourning, and all the children and grandchildren were crying, although there were some connections, resentment, dissatisfaction, and hypocrisy...... But as soon as I saw that the person was gone, the long-lost warmth in my heart was touched, and I let go of all grievances, let go of my sorrows, and let go of the bad luck that had accumulated for a long time.

Tiedan's mother is not so sad, secretly she seems to feel that she is relieved, the old mother is relieved, she is also liberated, she can do her best to support her parents in the old age, she can not violate her conscience and human ethics, she has done it.

From now on, it is time for her to live out her old age in peace. In front of her mother's coffin, she even unconsciously planned her plans for her later life.

Dozens of people wept and wept all over the world, which was touching and deafening.

After arranging everything, Tie Dan'er's mother wanted to leave this messy environment and return to Sanwa's house to rest.

The second daughter accompanied Tiedan's mother and slowly returned to the third baby's house.

"Sister, what do you say should be done after my mother's funeral?" The second daughter wanted to hear what the eldest sister meant.

"These are not things we should worry about, what to do depends on the meaning of other people's sons, let's follow the old rules of drummaker money, paper money, and clothing money. Anything else, they want to do whatever they want. "Tie Dan'er's mother clearly doesn't want to get involved.

"The eldest brother means that he doesn't care, the third baby and the daughter-in-law want to do it, and the fourth baby and the tenth baby don't agree to the third baby's family. The three daughters, the fourth daughter, and the fifth daughters did not agree to pay or agree to make a big deal. The second daughter told the eldest sister everyone's opinions in the afternoon.

"Why don't you pay for it? Don't talk about the rules left by the ancestors?"

"They said that if the five of us girls paid for it, whoever ran it would make money. The second daughter repeated the meaning of the younger sisters in the afternoon.

"Oh, even if our sons make money, we won't pay it?"

"The money we paid for being a girl was that the old mother gave birth to us once, and when we came, we sent her away and sent her away. If people lose money, will they help them out? Words have to be talked back and forth, things have to be reversed, do you understand?"

"I think if you don't care, you'll have to fight your brain and make a mess desperately. You have to come out to preside over the scene to stop these monkeys, or you look wow, I guess you'll have a few heads. The second girl said.

While the two sisters were talking, they saw Tie Dan'er and a few brothers-in-law come in, and everyone began to gossip: "Why do you ask us to pay for being daughters and sons-in-law? Make money for our sons? The old lady gave birth to a daughter, but did not give birth to a son? Why? We are just not convinced. ”

The lying iron egg mother sat up, her majestic gaze swept over everyone's face, and everyone's eyes flickered and they didn't dare to greet her. (To be continued.) )