(Beautiful July, beautiful holiday, Han Han sells cute little powder for love, (*^__^*) hee hee...... ）

We must distinguish between "love" and "desire." Although the word "love" is written in the dictionary, "love" and "desire" are two very different concepts. "Love" is selfless, while "desire" is selfish. "Love" is the willingness to make selfless offerings, and "desire" is the desire to obtain selfish gains. If someone says that he has developed a deep "love" for someone and that he cannot tolerate the loss of the object of his deep "love", then his so-called noble love is nothing more than a selfish*. Many so-called "love" between men and women is really just a hormonal - some fairly simple compound - that stimulates the commotion of the opposite sex in the human body and brain*. This is not much different from what people produce about certain substances. You have * for a certain food and you want to eat it in your mouth and swallow it in your stomach, you have * for a certain diamond ring and you want to have it and wear it on your own fingers, you have * for a certain man or woman and you want to have a relationship with him or her or even marry him or her so that he or she becomes your spouse who is bound by the law. Sometimes these* are so strong that people will even give up their own lives for them. Still, these *still*, not love. The key to testing whether "love" is true love or just "desire" is to see whether it is selfish or selfless. If you have * for someone, you want to be happy for yourself, and if you love someone, you want the person you love to be happy. Your relationship level to your loved one should be +100, while your relationship level to your desired person may be -100. Obviously this is not love at all. True love is selfless. A person with noble love wants the object of his affection to be happy and happy forever - no matter where the object of his affection goes. It's like the love of parents for their children.

"Ten years of repairing the same boat, and a hundred years of repairing to sleep together" love not only needs to be searched, but also needs to be guarded. True love is a career that is worth and requires two people to stick to with their lives.

In the rolling red dust, the two hearts interact and run in, from the initial Lingxi to the final integrated process. It is also a process in which two souls are constantly entangled in attraction and repulsion, alienation and intimacy. This is not only an easy, but also very arduous and long process.

All living beings, chaotic huā blind. After several vicissitudes and changes, how many people cry for the deceased and sigh for the old scene?

People who don't know love will treat love as a grass that can't be burned by fire and blown by the wind.

Love is actually as flexible as silk, and the blade is hard to break, but it can't resist dripping water. Love needs to be locked in the depths of your heart with all your mercy.

For its beautiful destination, why not look for her thousands of times in the crowd? Take only one scoop of drink? Pick a pinch alone. This is a superficial understanding of the nature of love. An in-depth interpretation of the meaning of love.

Zhao Gang thinks that he loves Ruhan, but his love is not a kind of selfish possession, just like what was written in the original prose, "If you can't put on a wedding dress for your beloved girl, stop unbuttoning her clothes." "At Hulin's house. The Ruhan he possessed made her complete the transformation from a girl to a woman, but she didn't plan their future well, which made her feel uneasy all day long, and even completely betrayed Ruhan's feelings for a girl who had just known her for two months and was not good-looking, his love can't be called love, at best it's just a liking for beautiful things.

Shen Ruhan. is known as the most beautiful and talented woman in Haicheng, but she lost to this little-known Feng Xue! It can be seen that for a man like Zhao Gang who thinks with his lower body, a bitch is more attractive than a lady!

Looking through the messages on the phone, every word. Every sentence makes Ruhan warm. Yixue: "Hanhan, are you busy these days? I have time to have a meal together, I miss you a lot." ”

Xiao Feng: "Hanhan, your leg is better, you won't answer your call, come back quickly, if you don't come back, I'll have to die in a hurry!"

"Two fools, why do you care so much about me, I'm not a good girl, I don't deserve you like this!" Thinking of the sadness, Ruhan cried again.

In this era, many girls don't take premarital sex seriously, and even some girls will go to court with men who have only known each other for a few days, but Ruhan is different, deep in her heart, she has a deep-rooted idea, that is, she can only give her body to her future husband, at the moment when she is integrated with Zhao Gang, she has never doubted the authenticity of Zhao Gang's oath, she firmly believes that he will marry her, but it will take some time. Now, even if Zhao Gang wants to marry her, she doesn't dare to marry him. Losing her innocent body, she also lost her self-confidence, and in the face of the love of other men, especially Yixue's, she didn't have the courage to face it, she just wanted to escape.

Yi Xue's message, Ruhan did not reply, but just sent a message back to Xiao Feng, telling him that he was okay and reassuring him, and there was nothing else.

Zhao Gang's words, Ruhan couldn't believe it, thinking back to the conversation with Liu Chunyan, recalling Zhao Gang's abnormal behavior, Ruhan still insisted on his judgment - Liu Chunyan was not in Hulin at all!

However, she was not completely sure, she could not break into the house to find out, she could only lie on the chuang and think nonsense.

"If Liu Chunyan hadn't come, who would he have been with these days? Is it Zhang Nan? Is it Yu Manli? Or is it Feng Xue? Who is it? Who is it, who is it, who is so charming, let him ignore my feelings, hurt me like this, and deceive me?!" Excited, Ruhan even wanted to stay downstairs at home to see who he entered the door with, but this thought was fleeting, she couldn't practice herself, the injury on her leg was not healed, why do that kind of sneaky thing for an unworthy man.

With Zhao Gang, she has lost a lot, and she can't lose the dignity she is proud of!

"Sleep, Shen Ruhan, nothing can break you, sleep well, tomorrow, you have to ask everything clearly, and finally make a decision." Ruhan comforted herself.

The wind of the air conditioner blew her back cold, Ruhan shivered, pulled the quilt over her body, she was so lonely, so lonely that she only used the quilt to wrap herself, and she would feel her own storage.

"Brother, Brother Yixue, I miss you so much, I really want to go home......" Ruhan's voice was low and hoarse, after such a heavy blow, she was still alive tenaciously, just because there was still hope in her heart......