(ps: Thank you to Brother Yijie, Jiangnan Prodigal's cute little fan!It's really timely rain!Hanhan is very grateful!It's already ranked second on the monthly ticket list, I came back from shopping, bought a birthday gift for Dabi, and continued to sell cute pink, Hanhan flashed big eyes, very loved, oh, pink tickets, pink Hanhan, let the little powder come more violently o(n_n)o haha~)

Divorce should be to broaden their own life path, but also light up the other party's life road, and at the same time let the child breathe more fresh air, feel the sunshine and rain, as long as the divorce parties have the right mentality, generous and open-minded, let the divorce become a beautiful turn, in the corner to meet love at the same time, but also to pass on the love to the child, so that the child can get double father's love and mother's love, so that the child can grow better under the appropriate care and love!

If the relationship is in existence and divorce is inevitable, it is better to consider the various issues of divorce rationally, and let the child understand the truth of the matter within the scope that the child can accept, and give the child enough psychological preparation, and at the same time, the divorced parties try to break up amicably and do not become enemies. Because of the children, there will be such and such a connection after the divorce, in this case, you might as well be like relatives and friends, take a step back and open the sky, divorce is for the future life to be more sunny and easier, not to make yourself one more enemy and one more fetters, relax your heart, and the road will be wider and wider in the future.

Divorce is not to shirk the responsibility, so as a father or mother, the other party should unconditionally give support and approval, so that the child will not be missing because of the departure of the father or mother, on the contrary, due to the divorce, the bumps between the two parties are gone, and there are dreams and hopes for the future, the mood is good, the smile is more, and the child will be relaxed and lively.

In the days after the divorce. Although she often washes her face with tears, Liu Chunyan has been persuading herself and has also gone to Shen Mei's psychological counseling room. After doing psychological counseling, the psychologist's words deeply touched her: "Divorce itself is not terrible. Divorce itself will not bring harm to the children, but a series of actions after the divorce will affect the children's thinking and attitude. Children need to be guided, and they also need to learn to face it correctly! Short-term painful experiences and small life setbacks are not necessarily negative, and the words, deeds and feelings of adults affect the most sensitive nerves of children, so it is not necessary to give children happiness at the expense of their own happiness, change a way of thinking, and change a life mentality. Treat others with a generous heart, love others with a benevolent heart, and believe that your turn will bring you and your children a double harvest, and this win-win situation. It will let you experience the comfort and joy of the new life after correction! Correct your position in life, do not ignore the position of others, and pay more rational attention to the position of the child and the long-term development of his body and mind, you will have a breeze on your face and a warm heart with sunshine. The feeling of relaxation in the sea and sky!"

Before the dead of night and when she was able to calm down and examine her heart, Liu Chunyan clearly knew that she still had a love for Zhao Gang, and women were old animals. Separated from a man who has lived together for ten years, for a moment and a half, it is difficult to accept.

But she also clearly knows that he is only attached to Zhao Gang, and it is impossible to have love and deep feelings anymore. Several betrayals have broken her heart, and her heart is like ashes, and she will not love anymore. For the rest of her life, her greatest wish is to take good care of her son, let him grow up healthily, and not be affected by the divorce of his parents.

Love is drifting away, and there is not much left of hate. As the psychiatrist said, only when the child feels the harmony and happiness of the family, the child will understand your divorce behavior, and will be able to adjust himself as much as possible, get out of the more or less shadow brought by the divorce to his psychology, and will not cause harm to his soul.

For Zhao Gang to visit her son, Liu Chunyan did not set a fixed time, as long as he wanted to see Zhao Wenjun, if conditions permitted, she would let them see father and son.

This morning, Zhao Wenjun had a lot of fun, took the merry-go-round, Ferris wheel, pirate ship, and drove a small train, until Zhao Gang said that he was going to deliver food to Liu Chunyan, he was reluctant to leave.

In the past few days when Liu Chunyan was sick, Zhao Wenjun was very happy, he was only four and a half years old, and he didn't know how serious his mother's illness was, he only knew that when his mother was hospitalized, his father would not leave, and he had been with them all the time, just like in the past.

In front of his son, Zhao Gang is a father who keeps his promises, and on this day, he did everything he promised Zhao Wenjun. Seeing his son's happy face blooming like a flower, he was very relieved, after all, his efforts were not in vain, and he more or less compensated his son.

For a whole day, Zhao Gang was with his son, and it wasn't until he went home with his son after dinner, and his son leaned on the sofa watching TV, that he remembered to call Ruhan.

Thinking that her father's birthday was coming and she got off work, Ruhan asked her friends to go shopping and was going to buy a birthday gift for her father. When Zhao Gang called, Ruhan was concentrating on choosing clothes in Ferre and didn't hear the call. Seeing a gray suit, she couldn't help but stop searching around. Thinking that Zhao Gang had a straight figure and was the most suitable for a suit, she wanted to buy this dress for him, imagining Zhao Gang's handsome appearance in this dress, Ruhan actually smiled stupidly.

"Hanhan, you don't want to buy this dress for your uncle, it's too young, it's not suitable for him. Guo Bo, who was by his side, said bluntly.

"Well, this one doesn't fit my dad, it's good for a friend to wear, and I want to buy it for him. Ruhan fiddled with his clothes and said while admiring.

"Friend, it's not an ordinary friend, it must be a boyfriend!" Guo Bo laughed gossipily.

Ruhan smiled and remained silent.

"Haha, if you don't speak, it's a tacit approval. Our Hanhan beauty has a boyfriend, and if I release this news, the boys in our weekly are probably going to die of sadness. Guo Bo was very excited, and his expression was exaggerated, as if he had discovered some shocking secret.

"My good sister, don't gossip. I'm not a star, what is there to promote if I have a boyfriend. Ruhan ignored her, and then fiddled with her clothes, the more she looked at it, the more she liked it. asked the clerk to find a number that Zhao Gang could wear and wrapped it. Immediately walked around the store and took a fancy to another piece of clothing, ready to give it to Shen Feng. After paying, holding two paper bags, she walked out of the store, and Guo Bo followed behind her, still asking with interest.

"Okay, my gossip queen, I'll invite you to the western restaurant next to you for dinner, I won't believe it, I can't stop your mouth!" Ruhan took Guo Bo's hand and walked in the direction of the restaurant.

Guo Bo knew that she didn't want to say it, so he didn't insist anymore, followed her to the Western restaurant, ordered her favorite food on weekdays, and chatted while eating.

Guo Bo is Ruhan's best friend in Tianya Weekly, Ruhan is three years older, married for four years, and is already the mother of a two-year-old boy. Thinking that Ruhan is twenty-five and has no boyfriend yet, I can't help but feel anxious for her.

"Hanhan, you said that you are so beautiful, so talented, and there are so many people who like you, why do you keep being single. Say something you don't like to hear, Huang Shangwen was very good before, I really can't figure it out, why did you break it up?"

Hearing Guo Bo mention Huang Shangwen, Ruhan's heart trembled, and the water cup in his hand almost fell to the ground.

"Yes, he's good, he's good to me, but ...... We really don't fit, maybe, we don't have fate. Ruhan thought for a moment and said slowly.

"Hanhan, listen to me, I sue you as a person who has come over. Fate is a lie, nothing is as important as a person who loves you, marriage is not the same as falling in love, when you fall in love, you pay attention to romance and feeling, once you decide to get married, you must find someone who loves you, his love for you must be more than your love for him, so that you will be happy. After getting married, he will feel sorry for you and be good to you. Just like my husband, he looks average, not the person I love the most, but he is very good to me, three meals a day, I cook in a different way, the housework is all included, and he takes care of the children. I just go shopping when I want to, and I don't have to worry about my family at all. You say, how good a day like this is. Nothing is perfect, if you find a rich second generation with a lot of wealth, will you have the heart to take care of you?" After taking a sip of juice, Guo Bo said to Ruhan earnestly.

Guo Bo's words caused an uproar in Ruhan's heart, Guo Bo's thoughts were completely different from hers. The person she wants to marry is a person she loves and loves her deeply, love is like air and life for her, and she will never accept a marriage without love. In her opinion, the joy of the two is the premise of a happy marriage.

By her side, there is no shortage of people who love her, Cui Zhihao, Chen Yixue, Liu Mingyu...... But she only loves Zhao Gang. In June of that year, when she knew that Zhao Gang also loved her, that kind of happiness almost suffocated her, the most rare thing in the world was that the two were happy, and the person she loved deeply also loved her, what a wonderful thing! From that moment on, she made up her mind, no matter what, she would never leave Zhao Gang, she would guard him and be his woman for the rest of her life!

Marriage is the sublimation of love, but if there is no love, there is no marriage, she would rather not. has been with Zhao Gang for almost a year, Zhao Gang has never allowed her to marry, and she doesn't want to ask for extravagance. Being together is her best wish.

One of the signs of maturity is to be able to distinguish who is someone who truly loves herself and is good to herself, Ruhan believes that she is mature enough and her choice is right. RP