(PS: On this day, I was so moved, thank you Brother Long for your attention and support to Hanhan, thank you for Brother Qingling, Brother Xuehuā's little fans, and Brother Yixue's evaluation vote.) Thanks to Brother Qingling's He's Bi, He's Bi is valuable, and the friendship is priceless. Thank you to Sister County Lord, Bengong, Brother Poison, Brother Superman, Mu Mu Gezi, Moon Shadow, Sister Rice Worm, Sister Yezi, thank you!In addition, Hanhan's book review has won the award, and the support of his relatives is inseparable, thank you to Sister-in-law Xiaoniao and Jiuxing's book friends! With your support, Hanhan is very warm!)

If he had seen his son like this before, Zhao Gang didn't know what to do, but at this time, his son's words made him extremely sad.

He couldn't imagine how much a divorce would hurt his children.

The father and son were lying on the bed, Zhao Gang told Wenwen a few stories, and when he saw that he was a little sleepy, he helped him cover the quilt, picked up the iPod next to him, looked at it on the Internet, and typed these words into the Baidu search bar: "The impact of parental divorce on children" immediately popped up many small articles, one of which aroused his interest. As he watched, he recorded that from this day on, he was determined to give his son more love, so that he would not experience the pain of his parents' separation.

More often than not, children are often the biggest victims of their parents' divorce, and every aspect of them is greatly affected. Not only will it affect their academics, grades, and social skills, but it will also greatly affect their emotional psychology.

This is one of the deepest feelings of a child growing up in a single-parent environment, and the child is especially sensitive to rejection. As single parents have to cope with the burdens of life independently, may be away from home most of the time, and may be absent from some important holidays or occasions, the feeling of rejection may persist despite knowing that the parent is doing his or her best. Children may feel deceived and deprived of the support and love of their parents, especially those who hate to leave.

Children from single-parent families may feel alienated from their parents and suddenly alienated from their friends, even though their relatives, friends, classmates, and teachers do not look at and judge them differently. They will feel that their fate is unfair, that they will feel lonely in their self-withdrawn behavior, that they have no friends, that they are helpless. Therefore, it may be melancholy on the love xù.

After their parents divorced, some children were very painful, unable to extricate themselves for a long time, depressed, sad, and depressed, and even felt very uncomfortable when they saw other classmates very happy in front of their parents. They dare not talk about their parents, they are self-isolated, they go their own way, they are "self-centered" and indifferent to the people around them, and even they are indifferent, disgusted, hostile, and the strictest guide is not in harmony with the collective.

Some children are full of hatred for the divorce of their parents, and this hatred has a negative impact on their psychological development over time, and then extends to disinterest in school and social life, dissatisfaction and indifference to other people, and even to society. The family is broken, and the child's depressed mood has nowhere to vent, and he will also be irritable, impulsive, aggressive, and even fight, scold, brawl and other behaviors.

Changes in the economic situation of single-parent families, as well as the mutual blame of divorced parents towards their children, and long-term cold wars or quarrels in the family are all important reasons for children's inferiority complex. Some children feel that they can't do anything well, and they are getting worse and worse, and some children will often languish and break the jar. I don't dare to interact with people, I dare not speak, I dare not answer questions, I always hide alone, and even because I am too nervous to speak, my face is red, and I am sweating all over.

No matter what the relationship with Liu Chunyan is, Zhao Gang has always been fond of his son Zhao Wenjun. Looking at the sleeping little man beside him, he vowed to accompany him often, redouble his kindness, and make him happier than the children of a normal family.

"Dad, I miss you, I want to play with you......" Zhao Gang thought that his son was talking to him, but just about to talk, he found that Zhao Wenjun did not open his eyes, and seemed to be talking in his sleep.

"Okay, Dad promised you that he would always play with you, and you would be on call. Knowing that Wenwen couldn't hear it, Zhao Gang couldn't help but answer.

After kissing his son's little cheek, Zhao Gang put the iPod aside and turned off the light.

Hugging Zhao Wenjun's small body, he slept very soundly, and his son's position in his heart could not be replaced by anyone. When Zhao Wenjun was three years old, Zhao Gang wrote a poem for him, full of emotion, showing his fatherly nature, and also published in the Tianya Weekly Emotional Station column, which was talked about, the content of the poem, Zhao Gang still remembers: Child, when your parents first held your soft body and crying in their arms, they swore that they would want to flow the years into your time, and your parents should not be like your parents' parents, always complaining that you can't make enough money and never finish writing reports, leaving you alone in the night, let "Harry Potter" The demons and monsters crawl into your dreamland, no, Mom and Dad let you sleep sweetly in the warm arms every night, the dream is Mom's kiss and Dad's strong arms lift you high, so you bravely fly like a kite in the sky, your little hands pull Mom and Dad from the glitzy world back to the true heavenly cry and laughter, more charming than wealth and honor, your young life broke into the adult world of your parents' declining bones, added the colorful lines that belong to the child and you stacked the blocks, with the innocent imagination to build our dream home and you swing, swing happy wings and Mom and Dad have withered into the autumn dream and you draw crayons, you pull Mom and Dad into another world: the forest, Little Rabbit and Mother Bunny, and the little black bear mother who opened her eyes wide, want to use tenderness to build a castle for you, where there is only a breeze, The story of the brook and Snow White, Daddy wants to use strength to hold up a blue sky for you, under the sky is a warlike lion and an undefeated prince, the story of the castle and the blue sky belongs to the fairy tale, there are more plots than fairy tales, life has sunshine and wind and rain, just like you love to laugh and cry, your parents have bought you a room of toys, some children don't have a baby bear in their arms, tired of eating McDonald's, you lose your temper, poor children have never tasted the sweet taste of Coca-Cola, there is a sad wasteland outside the happy paradise, parents take you don't know how to be melancholy through the land, water the dry trees, your remote control train to the mountain children who have never seen the train, for the injured lamb mimI look for my mother to hold the hand of the child in a wheelchair to encourage the sad he has seen more than his own shadow in his eyes since he was a child, a child who knows how to shed tears for others grows up to dare to sail on the bosom of the sea, mother wants to use love to build a house for you, which is full of sympathy, pity and help, dad wants to use sincerity to build a city wall for you, the wall is full of kindness, kindness and generosity, grandpa said to dad to run to the front, grandma told mom to take the first exam, and mom and dad let you in the snow war, sand, Hide and seek to grow up happily, your parents don't force you to learn the piano, but prefer to take you to see the moonlight in the suburbs, the moonlight hut and the people in the hut, who have seen the moon crawling over the branches playing the "Moonlight Sonata" played by the children Not only with your fingers, but also with your heart, do not force you to memorize Tang poems, children who have not seen mountains and rivers will never be able to read the magnificent Tang poems, parents want to give you a pair of eyes and a grateful heart, with these eyes and this sincere heart, you can paint the child's smiling face more beautiful than an angel, you can see the blessings of the years from the wrinkles of the elderly, you will use poetry to sing about the sun and children under the sun, your song floats out of the heavenly melody, you will see laughter through tears, parents want to use gratitude to build a home for you, the family is full of countless gifts, and you――

It is the best and most beautiful gift God has given to parentsAnother song, which I read in a mother's blog, is also very good.

Baby, I have always believed that you are a gift from God, although I have no way of knowing what kind of blessings you have given you on the way you came, but you have woken up the long-awaited love around you with the cry of no one else, this winter is very warm, the sun is your windbreaker, the bagpipes are your arms, your dancing melody pours out the song that Mom has been brewing for a long time, dear baby, as long as you see your sweet smile, Mom is willing to bend the crescent moon for you, count every night until dawn baby, Every bit of change in you has accumulated our expectations, Dad has long been impatient, and wants to take you to play ball, and then teach you kung fu, your details of the growth of joy has become the most important topic in the family, and at this time, if you add a hu-ah-ya-ah, our laughter will immediately penetrate the clouds, diffuse everywhere, baby, you must know that we are willing to give you a light in our eyes such as huā youth, willing to give you a good temperament and a healthy physique, all we can give, all the love is fully abbreviated in your eyes to see the world, baby, you will understand when you grow up, if all hope is crystal, then dear baby come, Let's kiss this light on your forehead early and shine, may our blessing be a kind of shelter to open an auspicious and splendid lotus huā and huā in you, must be happy, healthy, happy baby, I have always believed that you are a gift from God branded, although I have no way of knowing the way you came, huā fairy gave you what kind of blessing, but you woke up the long-awaited love around with the cry of no one else, this winter is very warm, the sun is your windbreaker, the bagpipes are your arms, your dancing melody pours out the song that mom has been brewing for a long time, dear baby, as long as you see your sweet smile, mom is willing to bend the crescent moon for you, count every night until dawn baby, Every bit of your change has accumulated our expectations, Dad has long been impatient, and he wants to take you to play ball, and then teach you kung fu, the growth of your details has become the most important topic in the family, and at this time, if you add a huh, our laughter will immediately penetrate the clouds, scatter everywhere, baby, you must know that we are willing to give you a light in our eyes, such as huā youth, willing to give you a good temperament and a healthy physique, all we can give, all the love is abbreviated in the eyes of you to see the world, baby, you will understand when you grow up, if all hope is crystal, then dear baby comeLet us kiss and imprint this light on your forehead early and shine brightly, may our blessing be a kind of shelter to open an auspicious and splendid lotus huā and huā in you, you must be happy, healthy and happy. (To be continued.)