3. Selfishness and cooperation

On the day of the welcome, like all the marriage families, and also the same as the previous ceremony, the Xu family set up a feast in the west of your temple to cloth the gods, and the west and the right few to show respect. In the room where the pen & fun & pavilion www.biquge.info worship ancestors, Xu Nu is dressed in silk clothes with silk as the edge, facing the south, and on the right is the nanny of the silk clothes, followed by the female servants of Xuanxuan, Xuxuan, and Xu.

Liu Ill has gotten off outside Xu's house, standing facing east, Xu Guanghan, who is dressed in Xuanduan, greets out of the temple gate, and has bowed to Liu Ill, and Liu Ill has also bowed. After that, Xu Guanghan invited Liu Zhi to enter, and Liu Zhi had already obeyed him. At the temple gate, Xu Guanghan asked again, and after three rounds and three concessions, the two of them climbed the steps and stood at the temple gate of the Xu family.

Xu Guanghan stood to the west, and his wife to the south. Liu Yi has stood to the north, and then laid the geese, and then worshiped the chief.

This time, Xu Guanghan did not reply.

- At the very least, he will send his daughter out of his house.

Looking at the daughter who was surrounded by Mu and the servants and walked out of the temple gate from the left side of his wife, for a while, Xu Guanghan didn't know what to say.

- He was disappointed in this daughter who came out after he was tortured.

- Because, he is so looking forward to having a son.

- However, this daughter is also the only blood and bone he has......

Xu Guanghan has always had very conflicting feelings about his daughter - he can't help but cherish it, and he is a little unhappy because of disappointment.

As his daughter grew older and no longer had a marriage with the Ling family, Xu Guanghan kept thinking that even if he got married, he would not let his daughter leave the house...... In that way, I always have grandchildren......

However, on the same day, Zhang He set up a banquet to treat each other, and when he was drunk, he proposed marriage for Liu Ai, and even said, "The great-grandson is close to the next person, and he is the marquis of Guannei, but his wife is also." So he answered.

- Not because of drunkenness, nor because Liu Yi is already the Marquis of Guannei.

- It's just a clan, what if there is a title of Marquis of Guannai?

- The Hou of Guannai, who does not have a food estate, cannot inherit it at all.

- Liu's condition is not bad, but in Chang'an City, it is just mediocre, so his wife was furious when she learned that he had promised such a marriage for her daughter.

However, even if his wife said that he would beg to go without breaking his promise, Xu Guanghan refused to change his mind, but instead found the matchmaker again and solemnly took the steps of the wedding. Eventually, his wife relented.

- If she really wants to go, why did she wait until now?

- At the beginning, she didn't leave when he was tortured, and later, he sat on the ghost salary, and she didn't ask to go...... Could it be that she really begged to go for the sake of her daughter's marriage?

Xu Guanghan didn't explain too much to his wife, but just told her - he has known Liu Yi for many years, and he knows very well the character of the emperor's great-grandson, and his daughter will definitely not be guilty if he marries him, and Liu Yi is already a clan, there is no burden of calculation, there is also a family income, and there is the care of the Zhang family, and life will definitely not be sad. Moreover, the marriage was mentioned by court order.

Xu Guanghan knew that his wife still listened, it was the scene that made trouble during the recruitment, and in fact, it was not his wife's greed for money - afterwards, his wife was very happy to put all the requested gifts into her daughter's marriage. - She just wanted to see how the court order had done to Liu's illness.

Xu Guanghan also knew that he had selfish intentions when he agreed to this marriage......

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Hearing his wife's whisper, Xu Guanghan suddenly came back to his senses - now is not the time to be cranky.

According to the rules, at this time, Xu Guanghan and his wife had to tell their daughter the way to be a woman, and then they watched the woman leave the Xu family's temple from the west steps behind Liu Ai - from then on, the daughter of the Xu family is the wife of the Liu family.

- And yet, he was distracted.

found that Xu Guanghan had not spoken, and Liu Ying could no longer turn back, so he could only slow down his pace, but there were only a few steps out of your temple...... Xu's wife could only remind her husband head-on.

Looking at his daughter who had already walked in front of him, Xu Guanghan took a deep breath, put aside all his thoughts, and solemnly instructed: "Respect the precepts, don't disobey the order at night." ”

Xu Yu stepped forward and tied a scarf to her daughter's clothes, and forced a smile and advised: "Respect for Mianzhi, there is no violation of the palace at night!" ”

Xu Nu was already in tears, and at this moment, seeing that she was about to leave her parents, she finally couldn't help crying, but because of the lessons she had received before, she didn't dare to say a word, so she could only be supported by two female servants, and followed Liu Ai down the steps step by step

The woman's parents cannot be demoted. Xu Guanghan and his wife could only support each other, standing in front of the temple gate, watching their daughter gradually walk away.

For folk marriage, the bride's car is prepared by the husband's family, but Liu Yi is already a clan after all, and the title of the marquis of the interior, therefore, the Xu family prepared a car for the daughter to marry.

At this time, the woman's car had not yet gone out, Liu Yi had already led the bride to the front of the car, sat in the position of the emperor, and handed the Sui to Xiang Xu, and the nanny of the Xu family humbly accepted it on behalf of her daughter: "Untaught, not enough and courteous." ”

After this reply, two female servants helped the bride to board the car. Subsequently, the nanny put on a blanket dress with a wide skirt and a long knee, which was different from the solemnity of the pure clothes, and the bright color of this dress was bright, in addition to avoiding the dust for the bride, it made the bride appear more gorgeous and dazzling.

When Xu sat down, Liu Yi had already driven the horse and started the car, let the wheels turn three times, and then got out of the car, and the emperor replaced him. He himself went out, re-boarded the ink cart in which he came, and led the bride's chariot back to Shangguanli.

When the car arrived in front of Liu's house, he didn't go directly to the door, but Liu got out of the car, walked to the bride's car, and asked his wife to get out of the car and enter the door.

The wife of the Xu family got out of the car from the bride who was wearing strict makeup, and followed Liu Yi into the door of the Liu family.

The couple went one after the other, and did not stop again until they walked outside the dormitory door, and Liu Yi had bowed to the bride again, and the bride took off her shoes and walked up the west steps and entered the dormitory.

The Xu family and the concubine walked into the inner room, and the concubine of the Xu family first set up a mat in the southwest corner of the inner room.

- The southwest corner of the house is called "Oku", and it is the place where the gods or Venerable Beings sit for worship.

This is just a formality, as early as before Liu Ai had gone to Xu's house, there was a meal in the room, so as soon as Liu Ai had entered the inner room, Xu's concubine retreated, and Liu Ai had already walked directly to the table and stand.

Xu did not stand on the seat, but on the west side of the throne placed in the room, facing south. Subsequently, Liu Aiji's maidservants presented the utensils of the Wo Xu, and the Xu family's maids served Liu Ai Zhi's Wo Xu, and they served the bride Wo Xu.

Next, the praiser removes the cloth placed on the deity under the north wall in the room. After the lifter washes, he walks out of the dormitory, takes off the power on the three tripods outside the dormitory, lifts the tripod from the north side, puts the tripod on the south side of the steps, and stands facing the west, and another person holds a dagger, and a person holds a sword, and follows the lifter to ascend the hall.

Liu Ai had the time to look at his wife seriously.

β€” no stranger.

- He also has several relationships with this girl, but it seems that every time, this girl is very embarrassed......

Thinking of this, and then looking at the woman in front of him who had beautiful makeup but was dressed as a woman, Liu Yi already felt a little incredulous, but the shyness on the woman's face could not be hidden, indicating that this woman was still the woman Liu Yi had seen who did not dare to speak after being frightened, but could also muster up courage for her family.

- Very good......

Liu Yi lowered his eyes and chuckled.

At this time, the praiser began to lay out the case for the couple, and the dagger and the dagger cooperated to divide the meat in the three tripods in turn.

In the room, there are two bean paste, four bean syrup, and four tun millet grass, and the praiser takes off the towel and the cover on the bean vessel in turn. Subsequently, first take a bean paste and put it on the table in front of Liu Aiji, and then in turn, put the two bean paste in the north of the sauce, place the two dun millet in the east of the sauce, place the two dun millet in the east of the millet sauce, and finally place a large soup just taken from the stove in the south of the sauce.

At the same time, the person who holds the dagger and the person who holds the dagger also divides the three Dingzhong pork meat, fish meat and cured rabbit meat properly, holds them with a figger, and puts them on the food table in front of Liu Aiji, and the pork meat is placed in the east of the mound, and the east is the fish meat and the cured rabbit meat in turn.

The bride's food table was laid out by the maidservant of the Liu family, and these things were placed on the table in the same order, but the position was different, because Liu Ai's food table was in front of his table, and although the Xu family was facing south, the food table was set in the opposite position to Liu Aiji's food table, so in order to facilitate the two of them to eat, it was natural to make some adjustments.

β€”β€”On Xu's food table, the sauce is in the east, the rice is in the south, the millet is placed on the north side of the cured rabbit meat, the west is the millet, and the soup is placed in the north of the sauce.

- exactly the opposite position.

Praise Qihui, but in the south of Dun, to Dun in the north. Afterwards, the praiser went west to proclaim, and the food was ready.

Liu Yi had bowed to Xu again, and the couple sat down in front of their respective food tables, first offering them a mound, then millet, millet, and lung. After that, the praiser moved the millet to the table, and awarded the middle lung ridge of the ding, and all of them were eaten. The same is true for the soup and sauce, first sacrifice, then food.

It was said to be food, but in fact it was only a symbolic three bites, and the praiser and the maidservant took the beans away.

Subsequently, praise and wash the jue, after drinking wine, presented to Liu Ai, not much, but let him drink to clean his mouth, Liu Ai has worshipped, and the praiser bowed in the north of the house. The same is true of the bride. Of course, the same must be sacrificed by the first knight.

Yijue wine was not drunk immediately, and the praiser sent the roasted liver, and the couple sipped the liver, all of which were in the beans. After that, the wine in the jue was drunk, and the two of them bowed again. The praiser bows, receives the knighthood, and then washes the knight into it.

After drinking, the third time I used it.

β€”β€”The scoop is the scoop, cutting one scoop into two scoops, and the newlyweds each hold a scoop and pour wine to drink.

β€”β€”Eat together, and eat together, so the unity and respect are also kissed.

- The righteousness of husband and wife.

β€”β€”Respect and prudence and kiss it, the general body of etiquette, and so it becomes the difference between men and women, and the righteousness of husband and wife. There is a difference between men and women, and then there is righteousness between husband and wife; Husband and wife are righteous, and then father and son are related; Father and son have relatives, and then monarchs and ministers have righteousness. Therefore, it is said: "Those who faint are also the foundation of etiquette." ”