(Thank you Brother Ganlu for Brother He's Bi and cute little fans, Brother is back, Hanhan is very happy, thank you Brother Poison, Brother Superman, Brother Xunjun, Sister Xiaoyu, and Brother Dusty for their gifts.) O(∩_∩)O haha~, slept so late)

When they arrived at her aunt's house, Shen Mei, Qin Lang, and Zhuo Jun were eating, and when they saw Yixue and Ruhan coming, Shen Mei was surprised and delighted.

"Happy Mother's Day, Auntie!"

"Aunt Shen, Happy Holidays!"

Listening to the well-behaved greetings of the two children, Shen Mei smiled in her heart.

"Aunt Shen, this is what Hanhan and I sent you." Yi Xue said as she handed the huā to Shen Mei, and Shen Mei happily took it. Listening to his tone, Zhuo Jun couldn't help but laugh.

"Xiaoxue huā, why are you with Hanhan, and send huā to my mother together." When saying the word "together", Zhuo Jun bit extraordinarily hard.

"I went to Hanhan's house to pick her up, and then went to my side together and had dinner with my family." When she said these words, Yixue's happiness was overflowing.

"Well, I see, I said it!" This is all Zhuo Jun's idea for him, but he has to pretend that he just knew, it is really not easy, Yi Xue couldn't help laughing, followed Ruhan, entered the house, greeted Qin Lang, and sat down on the sofa.

Qin Lang had eaten and also came over to chat with Yixue. Everyone talked casually for a while, and Yixue said goodbye and went home. Thinking that it was Mother's Day, Ruhan stayed with her aunt.

When I returned to the room, I fiddled with my mobile phone casually, only to see a message that I had received a long time ago, Ruhan never thought that this message was actually sent by Yang Danfeng, the content was very short, only a dozen words: "Han, this weekend on the 20th, I will go back to Haicheng, the plane at 11 o'clock in the morning." ”

Seeing the message sent by Xiao Feng, Ruhan's heart suddenly brightened, Xiao Feng is one of the men she cares about in the world, although she is far away, although she is not often contacted, she has always been in her heart, it has nothing to do with Fengyue, nothing to do with love, just because he is her only confidant.

A person will have many friends, but there are few true confidants;

A confidant is one who can communicate spiritually and understand each other; A true confidant is not necessarily a husband and wife, nor is it someone who can stay with each other all day; They may be far away, they may be close at hand;

They can read each other's every look and understand the meaning of each other's words.

Boya is good at the piano and good at listening in the sub-period. Boya is determined to be in the high mountains, and the child period said: "Good, like Mount Tai." Aiming at flowing water, the sub-period said: "Good, like a river." "When the child dies, Boya will never play the piano again for life. Mountains and rivers, soulmates through the ages - they are friends!

Guan Bao is a poor friend, the two do business together, Guan Zhong takes the big head unceremoniously, Uncle Bao doesn't think he is greedy, because he knows that Guan Zhong is poorer than himself. Guan Zhong was a deserter on the battlefield, and Uncle Bao didn't think he was cowardly, because he knew that he had his mother in the hall. Guan Zhong assisted Gongzi Jiao and became a prisoner under the stairs, and Uncle Bao assisted Gongzi Xiaobai for Gong Qi Huan. Uncle Bao strongly recommended it, and Guan Zhong became the minister of Qi with this, and his status was higher than Uncle Bao, and Uncle Bao didn't mind. Guan Zhong said: "The parents who gave birth to me, and Uncle Bao who knows me." ”

Understanding, tolerance, mutual fulfillment - they are friends!

It's easy to get money, but it's hard to find a confidant! So Li Bai chanted: "The water of Taohuā Lake is thousands of feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun to send me love." Wang Wei chanted: "Persuade you to drink a glass of wine, and there is no one in Yangguan in the west." Li Bai also chanted: "The lonely sail is far away and the blue sky is endless, but I can see the Yangtze River skyline." ”

Whether it is ancient or modern, they all yearn for a confidant. Those who know me say that I am worried, and those who do not know me say what I want, and sigh that it is difficult to find a bosom friend in the mountains and rivers! So there is Cui Yu's: five tones on seven strings, this art bosom friend has been difficult since ancient times. With Yue Fei's: "If you want to put your heart into Yaoqin, there are few bosom friends, who will listen to the broken strings?" "With Jia Island's: "If the bosom friend is not rewarded, return to the hometown of the mountain and autumn." ”

The love of a confidant is very special, it can withstand the wind and rain, can withstand the test of time and communication, not many words, a lot of happiness, do not seek to cross the same boat, but have anxiety, it is a habit and concern from the bottom of the heart.

It is as plain as water, so that you do not feel it, but it is accompanied by a shadow, lingering around you. It is a kind of pure love, without the slightest selfishness and demand, it is different from love, there is no heart and heart collide with the four of the fire, even if there is it is fleeting, he is just a confidant, a word, a smile, an expression can let himself give up the distractions in his heart, a happy confidant together.

Habits can be changed, but the heart of concern is difficult to wash, if you want to give a definition of this concern, it does not belong to family affection, nor to friendship, but also does not belong to love, it only belongs to the unique heart of attachment and concern between confidants. Maybe an word can make people fall asleep, maybe a vulgar admonition can no longer be vulgar, but it can ripple in the heart.

I miss you, miss you, love you, and happiness is in my heart, and time has never forgotten you! This special feeling will make each other the special "only" of the other, and will make each other want to tell each other their inner thoughts or their own special experiences, so that the other party can answer the gap between men and women with their own gender.

Confidant love is also called the third type of emotion. It is the pure affection that has no physical relationship under the lover and above the friend, but is better than the relationship with the flesh. Confidant can be a general term, regardless of the same sex or the opposite sex.

Love is selfless dedication, there are many kinds of love, the love of a confidant can not be compared with the love between men and women, in fact, the friendship between men and women is a noble feeling of people, is an emotion between love and friendship. This kind of feeling is not a lover herself, not a lover, but it is beyond ordinary friends, this kind of feeling is not love, let alone sex. But it will make you feel excited, but it will not be emotional; It makes you warm, but there will be no passion, there is sweetness in purity, and there is longevity in plainness. There is a metaphor that is most appropriate, and that is: stand not far away and not close to admire each other.

This kind of feeling lies in the understanding of the heart, the blending of the spirit, the hearts of the two are very close, but the body is "far away", this is a spiritual level of "Plato", only rational people can make it.

Only a sane person can get it.

When two people are together, they have a tacit understanding of the spirit and the unity of the heart, they can talk about love, marriage, and the future, and they can talk about all the problems of life without taking care of it.

Support each other and respect each other.

I feel like a lover, but I don't have the greasy smell of the merciless world;

Feel like brother and sister, but not as solemn as brother and sister, casual but solemn, intimate but rational, knowing each other and selfless, two people who have this kind of feeling, will not think of themselves as the opposite sex, they can shake hands tightly, and may also have a strong hug, but that has nothing to do with sex, is friendship is appreciation, is innocent, and never desire, not possession.

They would appreciate Nietzsche together, they would discuss Byron together, but they would never give each other a small huā.

They can go on an outing together, they can go to drink together, and when they arrive at the station, they can say goodbye and go their separate ways, without having to meet, without staying together, without being tired and crooked and pretending that they can't part ways, and easily walk their way home with dignity.

The feeling is wonderful, the taste is indescribable.

Of course, the attraction of the opposite sex is not denied, and occasionally there will be a few moments that make people can't help it, quietly revealing a little admiration, and it is inevitable, he feels it, she also feels it, it is a slight feeling at the moment of shaking hands, it is a hazy urge to hug, but when they look up at the clear sky and look at each other's selfless eyes, they will know: there are things that are more lasting and worth pursuing than love.

With this kind of feeling, there will also be pain, helplessness, but also happiness, and endless enjoyment that you can't explain.

Because after all, this kind of relationship exists between men and women of the opposite sex, not love, but close to love, but can surpass love, this kind of relationship is very variable, the most difficult to grasp, what is relied on is the reserve and respect between each other, and the last line of defense is to be guarded.

Because of this kind of feeling, only those who are most affectionate and sexual, those who are wise and wise, and those who are ice and snow smart.

Because they must understand that love is extravagant, as beautiful and fragile as a glass bottle, and to have this affection, one must stay away from love and sex.

Therefore, it is tacitly understood and known.

A thin layer of paper gives this relationship charm and vitality.

There is distance to be beautiful;

There is a distance to appreciate;

There is distance to be forever.

There are only rational men; Only a smart woman deserves to have this affection, and can maintain this affection, red men and green women, vulgar men and women do not, and do not deserve to have this kind of affection.

This kind of true and pure relationship that belongs to the private relationship between men and women, which is difficult to find and difficult to find, and needs to be deliberately alienated and carefully cared for is a feeling.

This is a wonderful feeling, naturally frank and chic, and it is also the indifference of the highest and most beautiful realm.

At this time, Xiao Feng suddenly said that it was undoubtedly the best comfort for Ruhan, these days, she has hidden too many things in her heart, it is not good to tell her parents, it is not good to tell her friends, only Xiao Feng can make her open her heart.

Because she had to admit that with Yixue, the balance of her emotions had begun to change, Zhao Gang, that slightly heart-warming feeling, made her afraid, she loved Zhao Gang and couldn't allow her heart, even if there was a trace of it to others, not to mention, she was already his woman.

Seeing that the time was not too late, Ruhan dialed Xiaofeng, she hadn't been in touch for a while, and she really wanted to hear his voice.

Xiaofeng quickly picked it up, and on the other end of the phone, a familiar voice came, and Ruhan's heart warmed.

"You little girl, why haven't you called me for so long, look for a beating!" This is Xiaofeng's usual way of greeting, and it is a patent for Ruhan. (To be continued.)