In fact, at this time, it is the time when children need parents and teachers to help deal with it, because this kind of thing is beyond the ability of a thirteen or fourteen-year-old child. However, the teacher did not understand the specific situation, and only criticized Guo Wen all day long because of the decline in Guo Wen's academic performance; The father took it for granted that the child should grow up and be sensible as soon as he entered junior high school, and he should not fight anymore, so he didn't pay more attention to it.

Parents don't realize that their child's growth is a gradual process and not an overnight success. It's not that you are naturally sensible when you get older, but you need the cultivation of your parents and teachers and experience the world.

Guo's father listened to the advice of the teacher and others, and thought that the child had become bad because he gave too much pocket money, so he reduced Guo Wen's expenses. In this way, Guo Wen has no money to find helpers, so he will naturally suffer more and more in the fight, and will be more and more insulted and bullied.

The angry Guo Wen took advantage of the other party's sleep one night to smash the other party's head with a brick. As a result, there was a big problem, not only did Guo's father come forward to pay a large amount of medical expenses, but Guo Wen was also placed on probation by the school.

Under the internal and external difficulties, Guo Wen, who has been pampered since childhood, finally had mental problems.

Because of the lack of knowledge about mental illness, and because of the fear of losing face, the correct treatment and resolution were not carried out in time, and this matter has been concealed by the old uncle and his aunt.

However, the "official farmer" is the "official farmer", and when the matter was almost impossible to hide, the uncle opened up the relationship and sent his son to the army in time. Half a year later, the disease broke out in full force, and the troops had to send him back to the rear for treatment, and a year later he had to send him home again, and bear the medical and living expenses of Guo Wen's life.

Because of his uncle's wisdom and wisdom, he solved the problem of food and clothing in Guo Wen's life in one fell swoop.

However, because the treatment of mental illness in China is relatively backward, in addition to injections, medicines, and anesthetized nerves, there is no in-depth analysis and guidance from the psyche and hypnotherapy from the psychological aspect. As a result, the more you rule, the more you are naïve, and in the end, the whole person becomes stupid and stupid.

Seeing Guo Wen laughing alone from time to time, Li Bayi was even more determined to send him abroad for treatment.

At dinner, Li Bayi's family went.

Originally, my father was reluctant to go, so Li Bayi said: "Relatives are relatives only if they move around more, and if they don't interact with each other all the time, then the people who are close will become more and more estranged." ”

My father said, "You always go to eat other people's food, and you can't make it yourself and invite others to eat, why are you embarrassed?" ”

This is my father's inherent concept, thinking that if someone invites someone to eat, he has to invite someone back. But it is very troublesome to invite guests to dinner, in this case, it is better not to eat other people's food, and you don't have to invite people back, so it saves more trouble.

In fact, this is a wrong point of view, the Chinese people are very particular about eating, deepening their feelings in the process of inviting food, and discussing things in the staggered cups. Strangers will become good friends when they eat together more often, and relatives will become strangers if they don't eat together for a long time.

In his previous life, because Li Bayi was admitted to university, his uncle had to call him to eat when he went home every holiday, but his father always objected, which made it difficult for his mother to be a person, and his uncle and aunt also had very opinions, thinking that the Li family looked down on the back family.

This situation was realized after Li Bayi worked for more than ten years, plus he had been honed outside and experienced in the world. It's a pity that at that time, the uncle and the aunt were hit hard because of the two children, and the family had lost their laughter. Later, the old uncle and the old aunt passed away one after another, and every time Li Bayi went home, he would buy something and go to his uncle's house to visit the two children of the junior Guo Wu, and he would also accompany Guo Wen and Guo Wu to talk for a while.

If Guo Chen, the second son of the policeman, has a day off, he will come back once and invite Li Bayi to have a meal.

Without his uncle and aunt, Guo Wen's family really doesn't even have a place to sit, there is dust, flies, and garbage everywhere.

The old uncle's house is very extensive, not only building a two-courtyard house covering an area of several acres on the old bag, but also buying four or five acres of land in the supply and marketing cooperative.

The place where I live on weekdays is at home on the old bag, and the supply and marketing cooperatives are mainly places to buy things and do business.

Seeing the two families eating together lively, Li Bayi was in a trance, and he felt a little deeper about family affection.

When leaving, Li Bayi gave each of his uncle's three sons 200 yuan, which was a blessing red envelope. In his previous life, he had been poor and almost never rich, so he often didn't go home for several years, not because he didn't want to visit his parents and respect filial piety, but because he was really shy in his pocket.

Looking at the eleven-year-old junior Guo Wu's "big old watch" and "big old watch" shouting extremely enthusiastically, that smart and clever appearance, Li Bayi really couldn't match the person in front of him with the mentally ill who would be lazy and lazy seven or eight years later.

Because of his unexpected rebirth, can he change the fate of his relatives and friends around him, let's start with the eldest son of my aunt's family.

The next day, my uncle contacted two Jiefang trucks, which were the cars that came to his supply and marketing cooperative.

I haven't sat in this kind of car for many years, and Li Bayi feels very novel. It's a pity that the road to Menglian is really difficult to walk, the road is bumpy and shaky, the fifteen-kilometer dirt road actually walked for two hours, and when I got off the bus, my head and face were dusty.

However, it was not as motion sickness as expected, and it seems that the motion sickness has been alleviated after rebirth.

Fifteen years later, Yelisheng became the director of the Provincial Department of Civil Affairs, and under his push, this hometown road finally became a cement road 3.5 meters wide, which was praised by everyone for a while.

The house of the eldest aunt's house was really dilapidated, and as soon as you entered the door, there was a stinky pool, and everyone was almost not overwhelmed by the pungent stench.

"Hey! Why do you keep such a cow rolling pond at home? How can people live! It's really unhygienic. The father nagged, hurriedly covered his nose, walked around the side in one step, and jumped onto the building, because the movement was too violent, causing the flies and mosquitoes in the stinky pond to "buzz" and fly up.

Li Bayi came once in his previous life, that is, when he was in college, and as for whether he came when he was a child, he couldn't remember.

This "Niu Rolling Pond" occupies almost half of the courtyard dam, the water is green, it is the height of summer in July, and the village is located in a valley surrounded by mountains, closed and unventilated, and it is very hot. There is such a pond at home, which makes people really unable to stay.

The door was unlocked, and there was no one in the house.

After inquiring with the next-door neighbor, the sheep were grazing on the Big Hadron Mountain. The eldest aunt and the eldest aunt went to work in the fields.

Knowing that it was a relative from Banbe, some neighbors immediately enthusiastically went to the field to help call people.