After a pause, Yun Lan's gaze swept over every woman present, and admonished in a serious tone: "The name of that virtuous and virtuous lady is just a fictitious one, just a little better on the face." Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 🔥 What about actually? You know that you should know it in your own hearts! If you want me to say, the inside is much more important than the face! If you just want to have a good reputation, you don't dare to resist if you are wantonly humiliated and bullied by your husband and mother-in-law, then you don't want that good reputation! ”

Peach Blossom looked shocked and confused: "Huh? Is that okay too?

Yun Lan nodded firmly: "Just imagine, when your second uncle's family abused your eldest mother, when did you bully your family, when did you have a human touch?" When did your subordinates show mercy? ”

With a scumbag who has no moral bottom line and doesn't recognize his six relatives, it's just stupid, it's a brain kicked by a donkey, okay?

Hearing this, the layer of paste in Peach Blossom's brain suddenly scattered in all directions, and her thinking gradually became clearer. It's like the dark and dreary sky, the clouds open and the fog disperses, and the clouds see the sun.

From childhood to adulthood, Peach Blossom was instilled with the idea of three obedience and four virtues, and was told by the elders to be unconditionally filial to her elders and unconditionally listen to the words of elders and men.

A woman is a loser and does not give birth to a son, she is a sinner in her mother-in-law's family. Being humiliated or hurt by others cannot have the slightest thoughts and actions of resistance. Otherwise, it is not as good as pigs and dogs, it is a white-eyed wolf, and it is a scourge! This idea has long been ingrained in the hearts of Peach Blossom and her mother.

There are many such women in this era.

I have to say that this is the sorrow of a woman. Especially in those remote and impoverished places, a woman who has no son to rely on, and her daughter, can't see a little sunshine at all, and there is no hope for the future.

Generations of women have struggled for thousands of years in such shackles. Men use invisible blades to trap women in that small back house, and over time, even if they are naturally intelligent, they will gradually become "long hair and short knowledge", becoming a frog at the bottom of the well who will only fight with the concubine, and become an object for men's pastime and venting.

For example, turning a woman's beautiful heavenly feet into an ugly three-inch golden lotus, so that the woman has no ability to escape from the cage. Even if you have enough money in your hand, you can't travel far alone, even if there is no one to guard it. From the bedroom to the courtyard, you need to be supported.

Now, Yun Lan has been born in this world, bringing new ideas and concepts.

Yun Lan was a human being in two lives, and he saw it very clearly, and his eyes swept over the women who made the most trouble: "Women, why bother women?" As a woman, scolding her granddaughter for being a money-loser is simply stupid and ridiculous! I really can't imagine what is going on in the mind of such a woman? Could it be that grass has grown? ”

Several of the people present bowed their heads weakly.

Peach Blossom looked at Yun Lan, her eyes full of stars.

Queen Niangniang, thank you for your guidance and guidance, from now on, Peach Blossom must take good care of herself, no longer blindly obey, no longer foolish, no longer so inferior. Peach Blossom will live well, live with dignity, no longer be wantonly bullied, and don't know how to resist!

From then on, Qi had a strong woman Peach Blossom.

Among the people who are familiar with Peach Blossom, there are more and more people who are influenced by her. Peach Blossom carefully relayed what Yun Lan had said to her to other poor women. Under the teaching of words and deeds, a large number of women were awakened.

All over the country, women who bravely stood up and fought for a dignified life for themselves sprung up like mushrooms after a rain.

******

Another case of elder abuse.

The old man, forced by his daughter-in-law, carried a torn cotton jacket on his back and went away on a snowy day----- and his daughter-in-law said, get away, don't let your son and grandson be ashamed!

Fortunately, he was found by a neighbor on the way to the county seat, and he tried to persuade him to no avail, so he had to quickly inform the old man's son, who was the husband of the vicious daughter-in-law.

When Yun Lan received the report, she was immediately furious and personally led someone to rush over.

The queen mother came in person, but the village chief, Li Zheng and the patriarch were frightened, and hurriedly brought the people of the whole village to greet her.

Yun Lan nodded with satisfaction, which was exactly what she wanted. More weighty witnesses would be a good thing for the elderly.

"Parents' inconsistent words and deeds will affect their children's worldview and outlook on life." Yun Lan's words seemed to be bubbling with ice ballast.

The daughter-in-law made good food, took the child to hide from it, and did not give it to the old man. When the old man suddenly returned home, his grandson was so frightened that he choked on the meatballs and almost lost his life.

For this reason, the daughter-in-law is angry with the old man, curses viciously every day, and even throws the old man with a wooden spoon, a wooden shovel, a small pebble, etc. Or, pour a basin of water in front of the old man's door, and the old man gets up in the morning, and as soon as he goes out, he is thrown and gnawed on the mud.

******

The grandson said to the old man, "Grandparents, don't lose that bowl of chopsticks." When I grow up and my father and mother are old, this bowl of chopsticks will be passed to my father and mother and let them ask for food! ”

Qian listened to his son's words, and his heart thundered.

"Dead old woman, you instigated it, didn't you?!" She looked at her mother-in-law, her eyes were full of resentment, and her eyes were as cold as ice.

Why is her life so miserable?

When she meets such a son, she won't be able to live!

******

The second girl gave birth to a child, and like Yun Lan's first child, she is also a twin son. It has only been thirteen months since they got married, and they gave birth to two big fat boys, and their position in the in-laws' family has become more stable.

Mother Qi took a long sigh of relief, and said with great emotion: "In this way, I am relieved!" Otherwise, even if the second child is forty years old and has no son, we don't dare to let him take a concubine! There is a queen mother, if the second child dares to take a concubine, it is estimated that the people of our Qi family will have to go back to their hometown to plant sweet potatoes! ”

Father Qi shook his head: "This is impossible, the queen will not declare her personal vendetta, but will only resolutely let the second daughter-in-law reconcile and leave the Qi family." If the second daughter-in-law gives birth to a daughter, the daughter will definitely be taken away, and the mother will not allow the child to stay in the Qi family, and will be tortured and oppressed by the stepmother or concubine in the future! ”

Mother Qi sighed deeply: "Alas, Niangniang is good at everything, but on the issue of concubines, there is no room for people." After so many years, there is no other woman in the king, and I always feel that there is a little bit of nonsense, which seems too much! Your Majesty, that is the king of a kingdom! ”

The king of a country has only one woman, which is really unusual!

Mother, it's too much! Really, the number one jealous woman in the world!

Father Qi's heart couldn't help but be happy, and he glanced at his wife with a smile: "Yo, I really can't imagine that you are so generous!" In that case, why don't I go to the grange and pick up the Li family and the Xu family after tomorrow? ”

The Li family and the Xu family are the concubines that the old man took more than ten years ago, and they are in their twenties younger than the old man, just about the same age as Qi Rui. Back then, these two concubines were given by the old man's grandmother.

Mother Qi was stunned!

******

Yun Lan went back to Dongfeng Village to visit her family, and found that her sister-in-law Luluo was a little sullen, no matter how she looked at her smile, she was a little sad.

Yun Lan hurriedly asked with concern: "Sister-in-law, what's wrong?" What's going on? Or, someone is bullying you and your family? ”

The sister-in-law has always had a very good impression on her, she is sincere to her eldest brother, very filial to her father, and very loving and caring for her nephews and nieces. For her and several younger siblings, she has also fulfilled the responsibility of being a sister-in-law, although it is not perfect, but compared to other people's sisters-in-law, it is still a big realm higher.

Luluo hesitated for a moment, but still said what was in her heart: "Suda's wife is too unreasonable, I really can't bear it anymore, I don't want to have anything to do with her!" However, in the end, she is Suda's wife, and it seems inappropriate to say that if she doesn't come and go, she won't come and go. However, if I continue to associate with her, I guess I will hold myself out of a serious illness! ”

"Suda's wife, it's really not a good one, if you don't come and go, you won't be in a relationship!" Yun Lan didn't think about it, so she expressed her resolute support for her sister-in-law and supported her. She knew that her sister-in-law was just worried that her mother would be angry.

Suda's wife, the woman nicknamed Yizhihua, is like her mother, very snobbish. When I can use you, it's not enough to run ten times a day to your house, a basket of good words, and a sweet mouth. If you feel that your next days may not be useful to you, you will ignore it. If you have any difficulties, ask her for help, even if it is a small favor, she will resolutely refuse. If you borrow money from her, not only will she not borrow, but she will say a lot of cynicism, schadenfreude, and then avoid you like a femme fatale.

Yun Lan pondered, what can be done to completely let the people of the Su family get rid of this kraft candy?

******

In this world, poor women can be seen everywhere.

The civil affairs department of the household department is busy day by day. For this reason, Yun Lan specially expanded this department, and recruited thirty more capable cadres, but they were still too busy to drink water.

On this day, the Civil Affairs Bureau ushered in a poor woman again, the situation was very serious, and the right-hand men were all out on duty again, leaving only three new young people. Obviously, these three recruits don't have the ability to settle that matter.

The person who came was a woman named Gu Yu.

This is another very tragic story.

Yun Lan couldn't help but sigh very emotionally.

Women, you can't care too much about men, then you are destined to lose more and fall into a catastrophe from which you will never recover.

Lang has a concubine intentional, fanatical love, so that the other party is happy. Otherwise, fanatical love will be a great burden for the other party, and over time, it will lead to disgust with the other party.

The shaving of the head is hot, and the infatuated woman is negative, which will make the woman completely lose herself and be tragic for a lifetime.

No matter how much a woman loves a man, she can't be humble in love, and she can't have no bottom line. If the other party is ruthless and unrighteous, if the other party is not sincere, then even if you love this person again, you must grit your teeth and endure the pain, and you must have the courage to swing a sword and cut the love thread!

Long pain is better than short pain!

You are loving with your heart, burning love with your life, but the other party regards this love as a burden, even humiliation, with carelessness, indifference, disdain, contempt, hatred, ridicule and other unspeakable attitudes to "respond", if you can still love, and can pay unilaterally regardless of everything, then it is not persistence, but stupidity!

If you don't swing your sword and cut the love thread, one day, you will be stupid to death!

Girl, love yourself a little more, if you don't love yourself, if you don't know how to respect yourself, then how can outsiders love you, and how can they give you the dignity you deserve?

A person with ego, a person who knows how to cherish himself, can attract the attention of men, especially those who are really excellent and truly worthy of love!

The above is Yun Lan's exhortation to Gu Yu.

******

These words, for Gu Yu, are deafening, like a slap in the head, and they are empowered!

She knelt on the ground, extremely reverent: "Thank you, Niangniang!" The women understand that the women will work hard to be themselves and cherish themselves! ”

You don't have to worry, I'll never look for a scumbag again! I will try to live well, live happily, and try to find a good man worthy of being entrusted for life!

Yun Lan nodded with satisfaction: "Okay, I believe in you!" In the future, if there is any difficulty that cannot be solved, I will go to the household department to find me, or go to Shazao Academy to find my sister Yunhe. Don't have too much pressure, don't rush everything, be calm, come step by step, be down-to-earth, and lay a good foundation. With your intelligence, you don't have to worry about the day when you don't get ahead! ”

"Yes, thank you for the reminder." Gu Yu kowtowed again, smiled with tears, and felt a lot more settled.

Sending Yun Lan away, the people of the in-laws immediately appeared.

More than a dozen people surrounded her at once.

Gu Yu smiled coldly, with a mocking smile on the corner of his lips, and was silent.

In the past, in order to make her husband look down on her, and in order for her husband to be kind to her, she worked hard, worked hard, took care of the overall situation, and almost said that she was obedient to her husband and in-laws. However, how did her husband and in-laws treat her?

In their hearts, she is probably not as good as a dog raised by her mother-in-law, right?

*******

How many unfortunate women are there in this world?

Most of these unfortunate women have one thing in common: they have a wicked mother-in-law! A nature is actually not much bad, and he gets along well with outsiders, but he likes to grind his daughter-in-law, and he can't see his son and daughter-in-law and harmony.

Mrs. Qian was so angry that she jumped to her feet, and immediately pointed her finger at her daughter-in-law and scolded angrily: "You can't be on the table, your heart is so small!" The second child just took in a maid and didn't give her a name, so you are jealous of being like this, and you can't tolerate anyone at all! If you are a good person, if you are sincere to the second child and think about the second child, you should keep this matter airtight and not let other people know, and you will lose the face of the second child! ”

The eldest daughter-in-law gloated with a face: "That's right, what my mother said is very right!" Brother and sister, it's not me saying you, you don't have the ability to manage the second child well, and you don't have the ability to restrain your own dowry An Ya, if I were you, I would definitely have no face to see people, and I would be ashamed to death, where would I dare to shout out, where would I dare to worry about my husband, where could I still feel that I had suffered great humiliation? ! ”

Old woman: "Yes, yes! Everyone is sensible, what I said is so good, exactly what I want to say, it is so much to my heart! Such a daughter-in-law is sensible and virtuous! ”

Everyone was stunned, looking at the eyes of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, like looking at a madman, their faces were full of disbelief.

Yun Lan smiled coldly and waved her hand vigorously, and the scene suddenly fell silent.

Yun Lan's fierce and mocking gaze, Zi'ah's mother-in-law's face swept over: "Today, this palace is an eye-opener!" Very well, since this is the case, since you are so virtuous and virtuous, then this palace will make an exception and reward your husbands with two beautiful concubines! You are so virtuous and virtuous, so open-minded, you should be happy for your husband, and you are so touched, right? ”

"Don't, mother, please let go, please!"

Wails, one after another.

Yun Lan smiled mockingly: "This palace is still the same sentence, why should women be embarrassed by women?" Being born as a woman is not easy to live than a man, and it is hard to live. Why, the same woman, as a mother-in-law, doesn't know how much to pity her daughter-in-law? Because of this, even women have to join forces to help men bully women. Therefore, men will become more and more arrogant, and women's status will become lower and lower! The time spent in the back house will get longer and longer, and the IQ will get lower and lower! ”

Her words soon spread throughout the capital and caused a huge sensation. These words are thought-provoking.

******

Time flies, and two years have passed in a blink of an eye.

My nephew, Yun Hao, is already twelve years old.

Twelve-year-olds are rebellious.

The eldest brother Mu came to the household to find Yun Lan, and when he mentioned Yun Hao, he couldn't help but sigh: "Alas, this stinky boy is really good, he actually said that he was born in a family like ours, and he was very troubled." In the future, if you have the opportunity to get ahead, you will have to be talked about by the world, saying that you have to borrow the light of the queen's aunt to have today! He said that he went incognito, went to remote places, and took the imperial examination as a poor child! ”

Speaking of this, Wood couldn't help but feel bitter on his face, and his heart was indescribably sad and angry. Anger is naturally aimed at his son Yun Hao.

Yun Lan was taken aback and was very anxious: "Big brother, don't worry, I'll go back to Dongfeng Village with you and persuade this kid!" ”

******

"Xiao Hao, you have this idea, which shows that you are a good boy with ambition, and my aunt is very pleased. However, you are overkill! ”

"How?" Yun Hao's face was full of curiosity.

Yun Lan: "In life, it can't be smooth sailing, and it's impossible that no one gossips about you. You are not gold or silver, and it is impossible for everyone to like you and speak of you well. I know that there must be someone behind the scenes, gossiping and gossiping about our family. I don't think it's necessary for you to take it to heart and be yourself, that's the right thing to do. ”

"In this world, there is no absolute fairness, you are fortunate to be born in the Yun family, and with an aunt like me, who is the mother of a country, this is the greatest resource and guarantee for you to settle down, you shouldn't feel that this is a burden."

"There are a lot of people in this world who want to get ahead. However, some people are so poor that they have no money to study or practice martial arts; Some people are not short of money, but they do not have enough contacts and backers, even if they are in the jinshi, they can't soar to the sky. How many Jinshi masters, in the position of county order, have struggled for ten years, or even twenty years! ”

"You have a queen's aunt, the starting point is much higher than others, whether you are from literature or martial arts in the future, as long as you are admitted to the Jinshi, and do not violate the law and discipline, the career will be bright! This is what the world often says, you can work hard for ten years less. In the past ten years, you don't have to go around camping like other people, in order to get a better position, drink with your boss every once in a while, and don't have to grieve yourself to please or endure your boss. ”

"In the past ten years, you can use your power position, as well as money and connections, to calmly do more beneficial things for the country, the people, and your family! You can focus on doing it without distractions, without worrying about your boss or subordinates stumbling over you and setting up all kinds of obstacles for you! ”

Yun Hao listened thoughtfully.

Yun Lan: "In short, as long as you don't bully others, don't do things that violate laws and disciplines, don't do things that bury your conscience and are ungrateful, loyal to the country and the people, and worthy of your father and relatives, then you can take advantage of your aunt, the mother of a country, to rise to the top, maximize your talents, and realize the ambitions in your heart!" ”

Just one word is better than reading a book for ten years!

Yun Hao listened to his aunt's words, and only felt that in an instant, he was like an empowerment, and he suddenly became enlightened!

My aunt was right, he was really too extreme in the past!

There is nothing wrong with relying on his own ability to get ahead, but since there is a queen aunt at home, and the aunt is so good to him, why should he be so awkward and regard those jealous eyes as so important?