Chapter 345 The heart sprouts
(ps: Hanhan is still not feeling well, only updated, no return visits to friends, thank you for your support!) )
"Okay, let's go, I'll send Ziyan home." Yixue responded.
"You're in for a treat? Xiaoxue huā! Zhuo Jun gave Yixue a look and said evilly.
"Of course, I also have to invite my old classmates!" Yixue replied with a smile.
Seeing that Yixue was very intimate with the woman named Ziyan next to her, Ruhan's uncomfortable feeling became even heavier. After saying hello to them, he followed Zhuo Jun and left.
"What's wrong? My good sister, with a sad face, you are not very happy to eat this meal! After getting into the car, Zhuo Jun said.
"No, why am I unhappy, I'm a snacker, how can I be unhappy when I eat." Ruhan said embarrassedly.
"Haha, I know my sister best, let me guess oh I know, it must be because of Ziyan, right, seeing her sitting next to your brother Yixue, and chatting about school from time to time, you feel uncomfortable, aren't you jealous?" Zhuo Jun still had that expression, and his tone was full of affirmation.
"Brother, what are you talking nonsense, how can I eat Brother Yixue's vinegar, he is just an elder brother." While speaking, Ruhan blushed unconsciously, fortunately the light in the car was dim, otherwise, I don't know what Zhuo Jun would say about her!
"Haha, I won't say more, let's ride a donkey and read the record book - we'll see, I don't believe it, I'm not right." Zhuo Jun restrained his smile and started the car, extremely confident.
It didn't take long for Ruhan's house to fall, Zhuo Jun took out the things he bought from the supermarket, sent Ruhan upstairs, and left.
When I got home, I lay on the bed and stroked Yixue and sent it to Katie. Thinking about Chen Ziyan who she saw tonight, Ruhan's heart was in turmoil.
"What's wrong with me, it's weird. How can it be uncomfortable, don't I treat Brother Yixue as an elder brother? Why are there other girls around him? I'm going to feel uncomfortable! Ruhan began to question herself.
Helplessly, she picked up a book on the bed cabinet, which was given to her by her aunt, and flipped through one of the chapters, and she tried to find the answer: When you fall in love with someone, you should have these nine emotions in order to be considered a true love. At the very least, you should ask yourself if it is possible to develop such emotions in the future to ensure that you have a true love.
One is the physiological impulse: when we become interested in or fall in love with someone of the opposite sex. Expect physical contact with each other. In a true love life, this desire is always there. It involves many other intimate physical touches, such as holding hands, hugging, etc., and this emotion will always remain in the heart of the lover.
The second is the feeling of beauty: when there is love, we will think that the other person is the best-looking. Even if there is someone of the opposite sex who is better looking than the object you love, he or she is the most beautiful person for you, and it is incomparable to others.
The third is the feeling of dearness: when you really fall in love with someone, you will have a very intimate feeling. He makes you feel comfortable, you can trust him and rely on him. He is like a close family, one can even say closer than a family, it is intimacy plus a warm feeling, that is, the feeling of dearness. In this kingdom of love, he will not find fault with your flaws, because he is willing to tolerate all your flaws.
Fourth, the feeling of envy and respect: a healthy love relationship should have a sense of pride in the other person, and we will appreciate the internal and external conditions and advantages of the other party. And the other side is proud of us everywhere. If we can feel this way, whether he succeeds or fails, it will make us appreciate his talent.
Fifth, the love of approval: when we fall in love, we like to praise each other, and not only appreciation, but also like to praise each other, from the enthusiasm of praising each other, we can feel extremely happy.
Sixth, self-esteem to be respected: A healthy love relationship can improve a person's self-esteem. It makes you feel more worthwhile in life, because love makes you feel that you have unparalleled uniqueness, although you have advantages and disadvantages, but your uniqueness makes you extremely respected, and life is therefore valuable.
Seventh, possessiveness: love is absolutely exclusive, and intimate relationships between men and women cannot be shared with others. Therefore, it is necessary to continue a love by getting married, and make promises to each other when they get married. Therefore, in true love, it is necessary to promise loyalty to each other.
Eighth, the freedom of action: if the individual has a legitimate reason, his freedom of action must be respected, so as not to destroy the love relationship between the two.
Nine is deep compassion: we often have feelings of pity for the person we love deeply, we often think about the other person, if the other person is frustrated, we will be very willing to share the pain and frustration with him, and treat the other person's suffering as our own, or better than our own suffering, because we are willing to sacrifice our own interests for the other person If so, I am sure that I have fallen in love with someone
If Han didn't look at it, she scared herself one by one, and for Yixue, she hit four of them! She admires him very much, thinks he is perfect, respects him very much, even gets drunk in the bar, the first thing she thinks of is to find him to pick her up, and even the female classmates next to him will be uncomfortable, this is not possessive!!
"Shen Ruhan, Shen Ruhan, how can you be like this, here with Zhao Gang, and over there still thinking about Yixue, isn't this the rhythm of stepping on two boats? What are you like that, typical bad girl idea! Ruhan meditated while blaming herself.
"Okay, don't want to, sleep!"
But the more I didn't want to think about it, the more I thought about it, this night, Ruhan tossed and turned for a long time before falling asleep, and when she got up the next day, she couldn't help but be listless, and she couldn't even take care of breakfast.
finally got to noon, Ruhan ran downstairs early and went to the restaurant to eat. After finishing the meal, she felt a little uncomfortable in her stomach, and the ribs in her mouth tasted like chewing wax, and the chopsticks were holding the rice little by little and sending it to her mouth, she had to put down the tableware in her hand, and it seemed that the interest in dining today was gone.
"Ruhan, what's wrong with you, why don't you eat so many meals?" Cui Zhihao had noticed her coming, and seeing her painful expression, he couldn't help but come over and ask.
"Nothing, a little upset in my stomach"
"If your stomach is upset, how can you eat some if your stomach is upset, I'll go and help you make some porridge, and then have some light dishes, just eat it." Without allowing Ruhan to say anything, Cui Zhihao walked away, and after a while, he came back with a dinner plate, on which was placed a big bowl of rice and red date porridge, a plate of fried lettuce, and a plate of celery and shrimp.
"Obedient, eat this, it's good to eat something soft for stomach pain. But Hanhan, you are really a little gluttonous cat, and you have an upset stomach and ordered braised pork ribs. If you can't eat this, you can eat it when you're better. Cui Zhihao had a loving expression on his face.
Ruhan smiled embarrassedly and said, "Thank you, Mr. Cui, the porridge looks delicious." ”
"What's polite, you eat, I'll go first, Mr. Xia is still waiting for me over there!"
Ruhan smiled and said goodbye.
Ruhan secretly rejoiced, fortunately she came early, otherwise there would be more people after a while, and her colleagues couldn't say anything when they saw the boss ordering food for her in person.
After eating, I returned to the office, and just wanted to lie down on the sofa to sleep, the phone on the table rang, it was an internal line, Cui Zhihao's secretary called.
"Miss Shen, the president asked you to go to his office."
"Oh" Ruhan stood up, sorted out her clothes, and went upstairs.
"Tuk Tuk Tuk" Ruhan politely knocked on the heavy wooden door.
"Please come in" came Cui Zhihao's extremely magnetic words.
Ruhan pressed the doorknob, gently pushed the door, and then carefully slammed the door shut. I saw him sitting at his desk, typing on the keyboard seriously. The way he works hard is really attractive.
Ruhan didn't look back when he entered, he was still so serious.
Seeing his serious work, Ruhan felt a feeling of not wanting to disturb. Finally I took a breath and asked with a calm face. "Mr. Cui, do you have something to do with me?"
"Oh, then you sit down first!" Cui Zhihao raised his head slightly, smiled, and then pointed to the sofa against the wall opposite, motioning for her to sit there.
Ruhan sat down on the sofa with some trepidation.
Cui Zhihao then stood up from his desk, then took a cardboard box in his hand and walked towards her with a glass of water.
"Take this medicine!" He handed the boiling water to Ruhan, then took the pill from the carton and placed it in the palm of her hand.
"This is" Ruhan looked at him with a puzzled expression.
"Don't you have stomach pain? I had someone buy you stomach pain medicine. Cui Zhihao sat down next to Ruhan, his eyes full of tenderness.
"Why is he so nice to me? I just said that my stomach hurts, so I asked people to buy me medicine! Ruhan sighed secretly.
"Thank you, Mr. Cui, I didn't expect it, I just said stomach pain, you" Ruhan Hui looked as calm as possible.
"Your every move, every smile and smile I can feel with my eyes closed. Even if you don't say it, I know you're uncomfortable. Aimei in his tone.
Ruhan took the pill he handed over, slowly put it in his mouth, then took a sip of boiling water and swallowed it vigorously.
"Thank you!" Ruhan took the pill, turned around and thanked him sincerely.
"Didn't I tell you, fool? There is no zài thank you between us, you are the one I love, and I should take care of you. Cui Zhihao turned to him and pressed his forehead against her forehead.
When Ruhan heard his gentle words, his heart was instantly moved.
But this was only a short-lived feeling, and soon she woke up like a dream.
She couldn't love anyone anymore, even if she was tempted by Yixue, it already made her blame herself.
"No matter what, I have to thank you, Brother Zhihao" Ruhan curled her lips slightly. There is a feeling of helplessness, but in fact, what makes Ruhan at a loss is his gentle eyes.