After breakfast, I proposed to go home again, and my father said, "Take the children back today, let's go to your uncle's house to play today, and you don't have to worry about us." Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo”

I persuaded my father: "This is the New Year, so many of you go to other people's houses, don't make trouble, hurry up and go home with me."

Dad said: "It's because of the Chinese New Year that we have time to go out to play, usually take your children every day, do you have a little free time?"

My face was so ashamed that I didn't dare to say anything more, so I took my child home.

Not long after arriving home, Bao Xin played with enough toys, and lay by the window and looked at the children playing with snowballs in the community outside the window.

I picked up Bao Xin and asked, "Does Bao Xin want to go out too?"

Bao Xin replied in a milky voice: "Grandpa said that those are boys, and you can't play with them."

I couldn't help but think: "How young is the child, just instill this kind of thinking, do parents want to train me to be a lady?"

I hurriedly said to Bao Xin: "It's okay, mom will follow you, you see there are girls playing there."

Bao Xin was very happy to hear it, and he didn't have time to wear his shoes, so he wanted to run out.

Bao Xin may have never played with other children, I don't know how to get along with other children, when I see other children running, she runs along, watching other children throw snowballs, she also learns to catch snow, those children don't seem to know how to play games together, how to play together, running around the slide in the community feels very happy. I found a stick, drew a circle, and organized them to play eagle and catch chickens, Bao Xin was like a little tail, running around behind, playing for a long time, she began to want to be an eagle, other children were older than her and did not want her to be an eagle, Bao Xin got angry and said: "This is my mother, not your mother, I won't let her play with you." It was the first time I heard Bao Xin express his opinions so assertively, and I really didn't know whether to criticize her or praise her. In the end, I didn't say anything, but discussed with the children and said, "I think everyone wants to be eagles, so let's all take turns, okay?"

The children are actually very sensible, but there is a lack of effective management, and they are all happy to take turns to be eagles, and they had a lot of fun that day.

In the second year of junior high school, the neighborhood committee organized a community activity, and I took the children to participate, and there was a link in which parents crossed the river with their children on their backs, and several of the children I brought also wanted to participate, so I told them: "You go home and call your parents and ask them to take you to participate."

One child said, "My dad is at home looking at the computer and doesn't have time."

Another child said, "My mom went to play mahjong."

Another child said, "My mom and dad went out to talk about business, so they left me at home alone."

One child even told me, "My mom and dad are at home, and they don't have time to pay attention to me."

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Every child's parents didn't have time, and I crossed the river one by one, and my waist was bent when I was tired.

The children had enough of playing the game of crossing the river, and they were fascinated by the game of two children holding balloons, I helped Bao Xin find a child who was about the same age as her to play with, Bao Xin walked slowly, the child was very sensible to take care of her, the two of them worked together to slowly reach the end, at this time a group of children next to them quarreled together, a fat boy, pushed the children who cooperated with him and said: "It's all because you are stupid, the balloons are burst."

The child who cooperated with him didn't speak, the child's father came over and hugged him, comforted him, and the parents of the fat child didn't feel that their child was at a loss, and pulled their child with their head high, muttering in their mouths: "Don't play with such a stupid child in the future."

God, I kind of know how the bad boys came to be. A child is like a blank piece of paper, an adult has a red line on him, he is red, and when he draws a black line, he is black, and if you don't tell him what is good and what is evil, what is good and what is bad, he will always feel that he is right.

I thought to myself: "It seems that I will not only teach my children well in the future, but also help my children choose their own friends, my parents' views may be a bit extreme, but to a certain extent, the possibility of Bao Xin being taken by bad children is eliminated."

Bao Xin had a very happy time that day, and said to me at night: "Mom, will you play with me like this in the future?" That's how other people's mothers take them out to play. ”

I really want to say, "I want to play with you at home every day, but I still have to make money to support my family and house."

Looking at the child's longing eyes, I couldn't say anything, and after weighing it for a long time, I said, "In the future, my mother will accompany you as long as she has time, okay?"

As soon as the child heard that I could play with her in the future, the smile on her face suddenly brightened, and she took out her picture book and taught me to draw and teach me very seriously

Write and do her best to be nice to me. This made my heart sour and soft, and it quickly turned into a puddle of water.

Bao Xin fell asleep at night, my parents have not come back, which makes me worry a lot, usually I go home late and my parents always say that I don't call home, now they go out by themselves and are not the same and do not call home!

I called my father, but my father didn't answer, which made my heart hang all of a sudden, and I quickly called Uncle Shen: "Uncle Shen, are my parents still with you?"

Uncle Shen said, "They went back early, why haven't they arrived home yet?" Uncle Shin's words made my whole body cold. I began to think crankily in my heart: "They can't be going the wrong way, right?" Dad hasn't slept well in the past few days, so his blood pressure won't be high, right? Mom's body shouldn't be fine. ”

I picked up my clothes and wanted to go out to find them, but I didn't worry about Bao Xin, I went back to the house and blocked all the quilts on the edge of the bed, closed the doors and windows, turned off the water, electricity and gas, I picked up the key and prepared to go out, when there was a knock on the door, I heard the sound and my heart was relieved of most of it, and I quickly opened the door, and my mother helped my father to come in.

"What's going on?" I don't think it's right for my dad to limp down.

"I just let a cyclist hit me on the road, and your dad's foot twisted a little." Mom replied.

"Then why don't you go to the hospital?" I was in a hurry, and my tone was a little rushed.

Dad was upset and said, "What are you doing with such a rush?" Do you need to go to the hospital with a small injury? Just come back and apply some medicinal wine. ”

I defended myself by saying, "It's okay to just twist it, I'm not afraid you'll break your bones."

"The cyclist didn't say to take you there? You just leave without caring about anything?" I asked again.

"People didn't mean it, how do you look at such a small injury?" Mom replied.

"Then at least I have to help you get my dad back?" I say

Dad gave me a blank look: "You don't want to rely on others."

If I continued to talk about it, it would be a bit of an upline, and I quickly said, "No, I definitely didn't mean that."