Now that I think about it, I may have subconsciously thought that my brother should be with my sister-in-law, and that girl should not appear. Pen ~ fun ~ Ge www.biquge.info I subconsciously rejected her, so I didn't want to know anything about her. So I didn't ask about her all the time. In fact, after careful analysis, due to the cultural differences between the north and the south, the contradiction between my brother and sister-in-law should still be very big, but it didn't break out, and my brother is quite pitiful. The elder brother later said: When he first arrived at HN, he was lonely, and he couldn't understand HN, he once met a big brother in the Northeast, he felt that he had finally found a soulmate, and pulled the eldest brother to talk all night, the big brother didn't say anything, just listened to him quietly all night, and then asked him, haven't you spoken to others for a long time? My brother said he hadn't spoken for a month. The combination of my brother and sister-in-law was also a misunderstanding, and my brother finally found a job in a foreign-funded electronics factory after wandering around HN for more than two months. My brother thinks that my sister-in-law is a very casual woman. Every time his sister-in-law asked him out, he refused with all kinds of excuses. Later, one day my brother experienced something in the factory (I don't remember what he told me, anyway, I don't remember), my brother was very depressed, and then my sister-in-law came to comfort him, washed him and delivered food, which made him feel very warm. In this way, this warmth has enveloped him for the rest of his life. Whenever I talked about it, my brother said earnestly: When girls are depressed, stay away from boys, because you are the most vulnerable and prone to problems at that time. I didn't think so, huh! He himself is a psychologically fragile boy who also educates others. The girlfriend he later found was not as beautiful as my sister-in-law, but according to him, it was his love. Once during a chat, he said that he leaked his mouth and said: My love is gone------

My sister-in-law is actually not a casual woman, but she is more outgoing, likes all kinds of sports, and likes to walk. After my brother and sister-in-law were together, I realized that she was a very traditional woman, satisfying my brother's virgin complex. HN has a very serious patriarchal phenomenon, her father is the director of the institute, and the girls in their family have to pay for food when they go home for dinner, but the boys can eat and drink, and all the property in the family belongs to the boys. His father took his younger brother back to his hometown every year to worship his ancestors, but his sister-in-law never went back once when she was so old. Children who have grown up in such a family environment are probably deformed in their hearts, so many things they think are normal, we think they are perverted. What we think should be shared, they think we are very unqualified. It is estimated that my sister-in-law also tried her best to suppress herself at that time, and she may have long been unaccustomed to me. However, for me, who has a very low emotional intelligence, the expression of patience and the implicit hints will not touch me in any way.

Our family is just the opposite of my sister-in-law's house, my parents like girls the most, they think girls should be intensively cultivated and pampered. Boys should be raised extensively and in a free-range manner. So when my brother went to HN, his parents only gave him 3,000 yuan and asked him to work hard by himself, telling him that he couldn't come back until he was really good. When I left my hometown, my parents gave me 20,000 yuan and told me to go and come back after a trip, 20,000 yuan was still a lot in the 90s, and I could buy a suite in SH. But I didn't have much concept of money at that time, and I never thought about it, what if I tossed it away. In fact, my parents didn't have much money at that time, my father was laid off, and my mother made clothes for others to make some money. When my father went to work, his monthly basic salary was only more than 300 yuan, and 20,000 yuan may be the old capital they have saved for an unknown number of years. But every time they showed me the optimistic side, they made me go further and further down the road of ignorance. Later, I learned about the importance of money after I arrived in Guangzhou, and I will explain this in detail in the following chapters.

Let's talk about the characteristics of HN in my personal eyes

1. At that time, the HN locals, in the winter, wore the clothes and pants tightly, but wore a pair of slippers barefoot. It's a bit like the GD people.

2. In the 90s, the local people of HN chatted very loudly, like quarrelling, one day I was taking a nap, I was awakened by the sound of the quarrel outside, I went out to see, two HN grandmothers stood at the door of my store. I asked, "Grandma, why are you arguing?" "No, we're chatting."

3. In the 90s, the men of HN, whether rich or not, had a big spectrum, their women and children were struggling to live at home, men were squandering outside, and those who had no money could only pretend to be face and drink daddy tea.

4. In the 90s, HN, men liked to buy horses, which was a kind of private color, and there were horse newspapers to buy at roadside street stalls. At that time, the phenomenon of private color was very serious,The risk of the boss of the private color is also quite large,There are bosses who get rich overnight,There are also bankrupt overnight。

5. Most HN people don't eat breakfast at home, I think the most distinctive, the best is HN's soup powder. The white rice noodles are scalded in the soup pot, and the boss scoops two spoonfuls of milky white soup with 2 slices of small green vegetables. One breakfast is all it takes. I can't get tired of eating this kind of soup every day.

6. A major feature of HN supper - refreshing and cool

Most of HN's Qingbuliang stalls are located on the side of the road, and the stall owners put a small window next to it, next to a thermos ice bucket, several sets of plastic tables and chairs, and the window is full of plastic bowls, which are filled with red beans (mung beans), barley, peanuts, hollow flour, coconut meat, red dates, watermelon grains, pineapple grains, quail eggs, cold powder, coconut milk and other raw materials. In this way, a stall attracts a group of customers. When the guests come, they can add which ingredients they want, then pour ice brown sugar water on top, add a few ice cubes, and make it in a bowl of refreshing coolness. Most of the stalls in HN do not have a "name", if the Qingbu Liang is delicious, most of the citizens recommend it to their friends with the name of the road. Many citizens living in Haikou know that in Haikou, the "time-honored" stall on Xinhua South Road in Haikou is getting bigger and bigger. On early summer nights, when you are tired of shopping with friends or walking with your family, someone will come to the Qingbu Liang stall and order a bowl of sweet and refreshing Qingbuliang.

In fact, at that time, HN was not prosperous in tourism, not in real estate, not in the economy, but in pornography, gambling and drugs. I remember that Longkun South Road is close to Binhai Avenue where there is a Chinatown, which is said to be the largest nightclub in Haikou, and it is famous at that time and has a fight with the current heaven and earth.