Chapter 337: Emotional Counselor
The sun is shining brightly, and it is another common holiday for mom and dad. On this holiday, our family of three, together with a few friends from my parents who were on vacation, went camping in the mountain scenic area outside the city.
Uncle Edward, who was always too free-spirited in my mother's eyes, but Uncle Edward, who seemed to me to be a big boy who was very much in tune with the sun, the dog, and the green grass, has been my good companion since the day I can remember.
Uncle Edward likes Aunt Meng Chunfei, and as a good partner of Uncle Edward, I naturally know about this.
According to Uncle Edward's own words, in order to pursue Aunt Meng Chunfei, he tried all the ways he could think of to pursue it.
She would accept the rose with a smile on her face, then take it home, insert it into a vase in the living room, and carefully trim it until it withers and withers.
Invite Aunt Chunfei to watch a play, she will not hesitate to agree, and then dress up on the agreed night, appear in front of him dignified and beautiful, and then take his arm and enter the theater with him.
Invite Aunt Chunfei to go out to play, she will hand over her work as much as possible, arrange the holidays, make all the preparations, and then pack her bags and meet him at the appointed place.
"Tianyu, you said, if your Aunt Chunfei doesn't like me, then it is impossible for her to accept the flowers I sent, and it is impossible for her to go to the theater with me, or go on a trip. But if she likes me, then why does she shake her head and refuse every time I propose to her? ”
In the valley and by the stream, our group of people who came to camp had no way to synthesize light at night, so we had to eat organic matter to replenish energy.
The barbecue grill has been set up by my father, and the tent needed for camping has also been set up by Uncle Ling Yi and Uncle Tang Mo.
Glancing at my mother and Aunt Chunfei who were busy next to the barbecue, I turned my head to look at Uncle Edward, who was depressed and unhappy in front of me, with the expression of an abandoned dog, and I couldn't bear to continue like this, so I decided to act as his emotional advisor.
"Uncle Edward, do you know what was wrong about you when my mother first met you?"
"Huh? Did your mother ever think that way about me? I don't know! ”
"That's not the point." In the face of Uncle Edward's escape, I almost felt that the conversation could not continue. "The point is, the things in you that my mother can't accept happen to be the reason why Aunt Chunfei says that she is not willing to accept your marriage proposal."
"Huh?!" Uncle Edward's eyes widened for a moment, urging me to hurry up and continue.
"My mother, like Aunt Chunfei, is the kind of person who is more reserved and introverted. They who don't casually talk about the praise of the opposite sex, and don't easily say the word 'love', the most unacceptable thing is your enthusiasm and unrestrainedness. ”
"I'm not saying that Uncle Edward's romantic and uninhibited personality is bad, but I believe that in the eyes of my mother and Aunt Chunfei, your style will inevitably be regarded as frivolous and debauched by them sometimes."
"Aunt Chunfei is the kind of person who can't rub sand in her eyes, and he hopes that she is the most important woman in your uncle's mind besides your mother."
"But Uncle Edward, in everyday life, when faced with a woman in need, you will always not hesitate to come forward enthusiastically to help. You have eyes that are good at spotting the brilliance of others, so even if you don't mean to flatter, praise for the opposite sex can come out of your mouth without any sense of disobedience. ”
"I don't think it's wrong for you to be enthusiastic about helping people in need, and I don't think there's anything wrong with you actively praising others for building confidence in others, but I believe that when the recipient of these things is not a passionate person like you, they are likely to have the illusion in their hearts whether you like them or not."
"Unconsciously caused a lot of romantic debts, and in the process of dating Aunt Chunfei, I couldn't make her feel that she was the most special existence for you, in such a situation, how do you want her to make up your mind to agree to your marriage proposal?"
"Being attentive and thoughtful to other ladies will definitely make the things you do for Aunt Chunfei greatly reduce the results you can achieve. For example, my mother bought me a gift, and even if it is not expensive, because my mother did not give gifts to other children, I am the special one in her heart, so I still feel very happy. ”
"But if my mom gives one gift to each of my friends, then even if she buys me five gifts at once, I will only think that these gifts are not carefully selected for me, but are wholesaled along with the gifts of the other children, and then randomly picked out and sent to me."
"When it comes to treating my lover, I'm more supportive of my dad's approach. In my father's eyes, unless I have a sister in the future, no woman in the world can meet his eyes except my mother, and no one can enter his heart. ”
"And such a feeling of being valued wholeheartedly is something that you have been able to bring to Aunt Chunfei for several years."
"Uncle Edward was silent for a long time when he heard my words, and he could not utter a word. It wasn't until I got tired of waiting and wanted to turn back to my mother that Uncle Edward raised his hand and patted me on the shoulder very solemnly. "Tianyu, thank you, you are really not an ordinary child."
After this, Uncle Edward no longer regarded me as his little friend, but as a little adult on his footing.
"Aoba, Aoba, your son is going to become a sperm! Tell me how old he is, and he has become like this! I've lived for more than twenty years, and I haven't seen through his little fart child in the matter of feelings, why are you embarrassing me?! ”
"Hehe, in my opinion, it's not that my son is too smart, but that you're too slow, you know?"
"No, no, no, it's definitely not that I'm too slow. I think that's it, when I have a child in the future, let him follow your family Tianyu, your child is so smart, not letting him take other people's children is simply a waste of resources. ”
So, because of this conversation between Uncle Edward and my father, no matter how old I grew up in the future, there would be younger siblings who would follow me. And these younger siblings who revere me are not just from Uncle Edward's house.
By the murmuring stream, the night falls with the sound of crickets.
The sporadic fireflies fluttering around under the flapping of small wings, and I ran around on the stall by the stream with a lit fairy stick, and I noticed Aunt Renhua who was holding a brilliant firework in her hand but with a lonely smile on her face.
"Aunt Renhua, the sparks splashed down from the fairy stick, a hole in your skirt!" I deliberately stepped forward and woke up Aunt Renhua, who was out of my mind, and then I couldn't help but laugh out loud when I saw her hurriedly throwing away the fairy stick and fumbling around on her skirt.
"Okay, you little ghost, lie to me, don't you?" Aunt Renhua, who learned that she had been deceived, immediately took the burned fairy stick from my hand, and then put it into the garbage bag she had prepared in advance, along with the one she had just thrown on the ground.
"Isn't it fun to entertain your aunt? Tianyu. "After handling the fairy stick in my hand, I squatted down, and the thumb and index finger of both hands pinched one side of my face and rubbed and dragged Aunt Renhua, who was quite annoyed and angry after being deceived.
"Aunt Renhua, since you like Uncle Tang Mo so much, why do you never confess your heart to him?" I saved my red face from Aunt Renhua's clutches, and every time I saw her looking at Uncle Tang Mo's distracted appearance, I would feel: "Ah, it's really a rush to death!" ”
"Sure enough, as Edward said, you kid, you're really a big man." I was slightly stunned because of my question, and then I reacted, with my observation ability, even if others didn't say anything, I could see Aunt Renhua, and accepted the fact that my secret was known without any obstacles.
"Tianyu, since you can see that Aunt Renhua likes your Uncle Tang Mo, can you tell who your Uncle Tang Mo likes?"
"Of course I know! You are holding a fairy stick in your hand and watching Uncle Tang Mo distracted, Uncle Tang Mo is standing by the stream, looking at my mother who is admiring the fireflies. So it's obvious that Uncle Tang Mo's favorite person is my mother. ”
"Moreover, just like my aunt doesn't like me who looks very similar to my mother because she likes my father, Uncle Tang Mo will always show extraordinary closeness and affection when facing me who looks like my mother. He's a love house, I know. ”
"Looks like you're really good." Aunt Renhua smiled and rubbed my head, and then showed Fang Cai's lonely expression: "Tianyu, you said that you are already so old, and your Uncle Tang Mo still likes your mother, so even if Auntie I tell him my intentions, what use can it be?" ”
"He already has a person in his heart, and there is no extra space for others, so instead of letting me say my heart and make it embarrassing for the two of us to meet in the future, it is better for me not to say anything and just watch him silently from a distance."
"What a negative idea this is!" Once again, I felt "really anxious" for Aunt Renhua's affairs, and I raised my hand to give her a flick of the brain.
"My mom and dad have been married for several years and have always had a pretty good relationship. Although Uncle Tang Mo likes my mother, he has never thought of destroying my family. So the facts are clear, sooner or later, Uncle Tang Mo will forget my mother one day, and then come together with others. ”
"Then in that case, Aunt Renhua, why don't you dare to fight for it? Mom told me, Auntie, your character is the kind of self-restraint of 'not daring to take a step forward', if you keep so closed yourself and don't dare to go out, let alone make Uncle Tang Mo like you, whether he can remember you is a question. ”
"Tianyu, you speak so mercilessly, Auntie, my heart is broken."
Looking at the painful expression made by Aunt Renhua covering her heart, I knew that she was joking, but I didn't want to start the conversation, so I was forced to cut it in half.
"I asked my dad before how he liked his mother, and my father told me that he just had a deep impression of his mother at first, and then as he got along, he became more and more impressed, and at the same time, he came up with the idea of wanting to see his mother more, talk to his mother more, and stay with his mother for a minute longer."
It was these accumulated and deepened thoughts that made him finally find that his mother had become an irreplaceable person in his life, so he had to come together with his mother no matter what he said. It can be seen that the basis for falling in love with someone is to first have a clear and deep impression of that person. ”
"The more Aunt Renhua thinks it's good to look at Uncle Tang Mo from afar, and the more she hides her mind and doesn't dare to tell him, the more he won't be impressed by you."
"If you want Uncle Tang Mo to notice that you are not only his comrades-in-arms and colleagues, but also an ordinary woman who can be associated with and is definitely worth associating, taking the initiative to confess is definitely the easiest and fastest way."
"I know very well what Uncle Tang Mo's character is, in the face of you who suddenly confessed to him, he will be startled at first, and at the same time suddenly realize that Aunt Renhua, you can also be his love object."
"Of course, because you were caught off guard by surprise, Uncle Tang Mo couldn't have promised you the first time. However, he will definitely make a very strong impression on you. ”
"Respect and thank the other party for liking their hearts, as long as the other party doesn't do as much as Aunt Anne, Uncle Tang Mo will never have any negative emotions and perceptions of you because of your active confession."
"Next, Aunt Renhua, all you need to do is to do your best to obey the fate of heaven, and use the way of women chasing men to constantly deepen the deep impression you left on Uncle Tang Mo, so that he will take his eyes away from my mother little by little, and stop at you. As for the final result, I can't say clearly, it can only depend on the fate of the two of you. ”
Seeing that Aunt Renhua was still biting her lower lip with hesitation, I decided to add a fire at the end, and I said: "The failure of trying to pursue happiness but not being able to ask for it is much better than not daring to act, and then the regret and remorse that arise after the opportunity has passed." ”
"At least that's what I think, Aunt Renhua, what about you?"