Chapter 297: Wisdom Comes Through
This tearing war disturbed many people, because the onlookers took pictures with their mobile phones, and it quickly spread through campus forums, mobile phones, and some people used mobile phones to broadcast live......
So, the counselor Lin Nan rushed over, and the leaders of the hospital also rushed over, and the matter became a big problem. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
Because of the high degree of attention, the school leaders also solved it quickly: after investigation, the new students of the School of Physics violated the dormitory management regulations and made meatloaf in the dormitory, which affected the sanitary environment of the dormitory, and must be stopped immediately; However, in order to encourage the work-study behavior of poor students, an operation room is set aside in the first canteen of the School of Physics for poor students to carry out work-study practice. Wei Shufen, the dormitory administrator, was not at fault for her management behavior in accordance with the dormitory management regulations, but her words were inappropriate and she made inappropriate remarks in communication, reflecting her lack of professional quality and was transferred from her original post......
The result of the resolution of this matter is the result of Wang Yan's counselor Lin Nan's arguments. Because Wei Shufen, the school worker who was dealt with, was a relative of a middle-level cadre of the college, she took the opportunity to vent her grievances because her child was not admitted to Hanhua University by two points, which caused a bad impact......
As the initiator of this incident, the leaders of the hospital were very dissatisfied with Wang Yan, and their impression could be said to be very bad.
However, Lin Nan strongly supported Wang Yan. Walking out of the office of the hospital, Lin Nan said to Wang Yan respectfully: "Classmate Wang Yan, as the big brother of the class, it is right for you to help the younger brothers and sisters, I support you!" ”
Lin Nan left, but Wang Yan was miserable. I owe Lin Nan a favor to Boss, and I will help Lin Nan solve the problems in the class more in the future!
Three days after the military training, Wang Yan took leave and flew to Myanmar. Because the leaders of the hospital did not have a good impression of Wang Yan, or even too bad, it took some trouble for Wang Yan to ask for leave, and it was Lin Nan who came forward to pass the test.
Seeing Du Yanji and Ma Minsu, Wang Yan was comforted by sweet words.
Du Yanji had a big belly and wanted to report to Wang Yan about the business in Myanmar, but Wang Yan stopped her: "Don't worry about it, our children are more important than anything else!" ”
This kind of happiness is only valid on the same day, and the next day Ma Minsu arranged for the project leaders of Du Yanji's family to report the situation directly to Wang Yan, and Du Yanji listened on the sidelines.
Wang Yan knew that it was Du Yanji and Ma Minsu who established his authority in the Du Yanji family, so that these people always understood that Wang Yan was the financier and boss of these projects!
At noon, I naturally wanted to visit my father-in-law, Wu Jinggang. Wu Jinggang is also a character, and his communication with Wang Yan is limited to family affection, and he never mentions business, which makes Wang Yan take a look.
Wang Yan's second son was finally born.
Looking at the newborn baby with folds piled up on his face, Wang Yan was very happy but not too excited, but secretly made up his mind that this child's upbringing and education would not let the elderly interfere, and put an end to the intervention of the elderly from the beginning!
Looking at the happiness on Du Yanji's face, Wang Yan also accompanied sincere happiness.
Although Myanmar is not very developed, the nurses in the top hospitals do a good job, and the midwives take the baby away, clean it and bring it back.
Du Tanji took the child to feed, but the little guy was very violent, but Du Tanji frowned.
Wang Yan understood, this is not milk yet.
Wang Yan had already prepared, and personally used thick rice soup with soybeans, black beans, and fish to boil the lactation soup, and at this time let the maid serve it and let Du Yanji drink it. Then, Wang Yanping retired from irrelevant people and gave Du Yanji a lactation massage.
Wang Yan penetrated the meridians and qi and blood, and did not massage directly *** as usual, but rubbed his hands and warmed the ovaries on both sides of the midline of Du Ji's lower abdomen with his palms to stimulate Du Ji's hormone secretion.
Ma Minsu looked at it from the side and grinned: "You're not taking the opportunity to take advantage, are you?" ”
Wang Yan cheekily said, "Where is this?" I also have the Claw of Lushan stunt! ”
After speaking, he gently rubbed and squeezed slowly along the direction of the breast lobules and milk ducts, and after only a few clicks, I saw ** come out.
Du Yanji hurriedly asked Ma Minsu to bring the child over and feed the child the first milk, her face was full of maternal brilliance.
During his stay in the hospital, Wang Yan had a small unpleasant quarrel with the nurse.
The child was distressed from time to time, and the conscientious nurse, Du Yanji, and Ma Minsu all hurried to check. Sometimes the child is hungry, just feed it for a while, and sometimes it pulls and pees, just change the diaper and diaper pad, and sometimes there is nothing, so Du Yanji, Ma Minsu, and the nurse take turns to hold and coax the child.
Wang Yan reminded: "As long as the child is not hungry, does not urinate, let him cry for a while!" ”
"How can you make a child cry?" Du Yanji didn't speak, and the nurse stopped first.
Wang Yan explained slowly: "Such a big child can't move, crying is a kind of exercise for children, which can exercise children's respiratory muscles, improve children's cardiopulmonary function, and avoid children's dependence on arms and cultivate children's independence!" ”
"But you can't let your child cry like this, right?" The nurse was a little angry, she didn't understand how she could have such a cruel father.
Wang Yan shook his head secretly: Strong habits, although they don't make much sense, but people just maintain them firmly.
Du Yanji reconciled from it: "Nilan, I have to thank you for being so responsible and dedicated, but my husband is a very knowledgeable person, he naturally has his reasoning, please do what he says!" ”
"Alright, Du Tanji!" The nurse reluctantly complied with Du Yanji's instructions.
In fact, children don't always cry, in addition to normal feeding and peeing, they also cry two or three times a day, 3, 5 minutes to 10 minutes each time.
Wang Yan instructed not to ignore the child's crying every time, but to wait for him to cry for a while before picking him up and comforting him, and at least once a day to let him cry and not to comfort him.
This is the common sense that Wang Yan remembered when he watched lectures by parenting experts on TV before, but these scientific and reasonable common senses have not been popularized even in relatively developed countries, but they are quite common in the West. Of course, this also has something to do with the traditional habits of Western history. Westerners don't care much about children's living habits, and it's rough to take care of children, so most of the children in the West are very solid and independent.
Du Yanji was in very good health and returned to her small western-style building three days later.
Three days later, when Du Yanji was discharged from the hospital, the child was the loudest crying in the obstetric ward, and occasionally brought other children to cry with him.
Nurse Nilan also admired Wang Yan: "Sir, you are right, the healthy development of the child in the past few days is very good!" ”
Wang Yan also thanked Nilan with a smile: "Thank you Nilan, you have bothered you a lot in the past few days!" Then hand over the $1,000 green ticket. People do their best, and Wang Yan wants to give back to others to show gratitude.
Back at home, Du Yanji began to discuss with Wang Yan the name of the child: "Don't you Han people have a family tree? Will you name your child according to your family tree?"
Wang Yan smiled bitterly: "My father didn't arrange my name according to the family tree, I don't know how the family tree is arranged!" ”
"Then you can make your own family tree! In the future, our family will be inherited according to your family tree! Du Yanji proposed to Wang Yan.
"Don't mess around! In our country, only those who have to be prominent are eligible to be genealogized! Wang Yan was startled.
Du Yanji and Wang Yan coquettishly: "Your identity is not prominent enough? ”
"Far from it! Our Great Heavenly Dynasty Hidden Dragon and Crouching Tiger, capable people don't know how many, just my little wealth is difficult to get! Wang Yan knows that there are countless geniuses, elites, and rich people from all walks of life in China, and he can't be ranked at all.
"You're just too low-key!" Ma Minsu followed Du Yanji to coax Wang Yan sweetly.
Wang Yan picked Ma Minsu's chin with an index finger: "Aren't you also very low-key?" Low-key is a blessing! What's so good about showing off in a high profile? That thing is very empty, except for some illusory satisfaction, all that remains is to cause trouble! ”
"Let's just make a family tree for our own family, it's not high-profile, right?" Du Yanji is very obsessed with pai family tree.
"Even if I don't publicize it, I feel a little arrogant!" Wang Yan still disagreed.
"You're not presumptuous, are you? Although you feel that your identity is not enough, you can continue to work hard! Genealogy is the inheritance of a family's cultural heritage, there are too many prominent families in the history of your Celestial Empire, inheriting the culture of the Celestial Empire, such as the Kong family, the Meng family, the Zeng family, ......, in fact, there are many prominent families overseas, the Morgan family, the Rockefeller family in the United States, the Habsburg family, the Bourbon family, the Stuart family, the Tudor family, the Hohenzollern family, ...... why can't you Wang Yan create your own family? Wang Yan discovered that Du Yanji was usually obedient to herself, but she dared to be surprisingly stubborn at a critical moment.
Wang Yan smiled bitterly: "Founded a family? In addition to having enough influence, there must also be enough descendants of the clan to spread the branches, I don't want to be famous and high-profile, our country is the practice of family planning, how to spread the branches? ”
"Cut, you haven't thought about it in depth!" Du Yanji blamed Wang Yan for not thinking about his own thoughts, but quickly adjusted his attitude, put himself in the right position, and put a high hat on Wang Yan: "Otherwise, how can you not solve it with your mind?" Influence is not for the public to see, as long as you grasp the power of a certain aspect, it is enough to have influence in a certain circle, and you still use the public to be exposed? It's simpler to spread the branches, I'm not your nationality, I don't have to abide by family planning, give you 10 or 8 children, spread the branches, don't be too simple! ”
"I protest!" Ma Minsu objected, "You are looking for a reason to dominate your husband!" ”
Looking at Ma Minsu's mischievous smile, Wang Yan couldn't imagine that Ma Minsu, who is usually low-eyed and meek and virtuous, also had such a naughty and lively side, and Wang Yan was a little obsessed.
"Hey, hey!" Du Yanji shook her hand in front of Wang Yan's eyes a few times, "I'm down to business!" ”
Wang Yan relieved himself and smiled embarrassedly: "Yes, this is a big matter, I have to think about it!" ”
Wang Yan realized that what Du Yanji said was indeed a big deal, so he went to the study alone, calmed down and clarified his thoughts: due to the casualness of his parents, the family style was sluggish, although it did not endanger the society, and he cared for each other and had a harmonious family, but he did not want to forge ahead, the whole family had no goals, no plans, and the whole family had no future plans and could not see the prospects. Although under his own leadership, the brothers worked together to make the family better, but they did not consider inheriting this spirit, so they should really write a family tree and set up family rules to make the family strong.
After a few hours of thinking, Wang Yan decided to compile a lineage according to his own life perceptions, reflecting the family spiritual inheritance: diligent self-cultivation, respectful and harmonious, graceful and disciplined, wisdom and wisdom, and universal help to all sentient beings.
Wang Yan walked out of the study and gave Du Yanji and Ma Minsu an errand.
The son is a diligent generation and named Wang Qinxue.
But Du Yanji and Ma Minsu did not give up and asked Wang Yan to explain the meaning of seniority.
Wang Yan had no choice but to further explain: "In fact, it is the criterion and realm of being a person, diligent self-cultivation, that is, as an ordinary person, you must work hard, restrain your self-desires, gain skills, and establish yourself in a small way, and benefit others in a big way, have moral character, and do not lose your rationality and conscience due to selfish desires; To treat others and do things, we must know how to respect others, not to be willful, to benefit others and ourselves, to be kind to others, win-win or win-win cooperation, know how to respect others, treat others well, unite and cooperate in order to get more support and make contributions; To achieve a career, you can't rely on yourself, you must be able to organize and manage the team, and you must adopt the principles and means of both grace and power; With a certain strength, to surpass mediocrity, you must have enough knowledge, common sense, and be familiar with the logical relationship between various knowledge and common sense, know how to adapt the application, try to solve the problem with peaceful means, and then give you a word to explain, wisdom, is knowledge, common sense, accumulated to a certain extent, you have a certain ability, wisdom, is flexible, is the application of the situation, this is a greater and stronger ability, wisdom without wisdom is rigid dogma, wisdom without wisdom is impetuous; Yuantong, round, on behalf of mildness, on behalf of solving problems, we should try to use gentle methods to solve problems, try to avoid excesses, conflicts; With the great ability of wisdom, we must not only be strong ourselves, but also lead everyone to be strong, rich and happy! ”
As soon as Wang Yan came down, the two little women fainted directly, and the four eyes came out with little stars of worship!
Wang Yan was enjoying the feeling of being worshiped with satisfaction, and his mother called: "Your aunt is going to die, I want to see you for the last time!" ”
Wang Yan immediately became anxious: when he was a child, the family conditions were poor, and his aunt helped his family a lot, and he never repaid his aunt for so many years, how could he just let the old man die with regret?
Wang Yan explained the situation to Du Yanji and Ma Minsu and asked them to understand.
Du Yanji immediately decided: "Anyway, my body is fine, so I'll go back with you!" ”
Ma Minsu also looked at Wang Yan with anticipation on the side, she also wanted to follow Wang Yan and enjoy the happiness of the family......
On the plane, Wang Yan apologized and explained to Du Yanji and Ma Minsu that his ex-wife Zhang Hong was still serving his parents, and at the same time, the old man was not mentally prepared for Du Yanji and them, and at the same time, he did not plan to let his parents contact the children, so as not to interfere with the children's education in the future......
Du Yanji, who has always been obedient to Wang Yan, groaned uncharacteristically for a long time this time, and finally whispered: "I listen to your arrangement!" ”
Wang Yan suddenly felt that he owed a lot to Du Yanji, as well as Ma Minsu!