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Nobody understands, no one really understands what love is.

There are many love experts, even love masters who are known as love mentors, and what they can do, what they can do their best can do, that is, try to make people suffer less misfortune in love and minimize the pain in love.

In fact, these so-called experts, the so-called masters, are more able to analyze what the causes of these things are through some things.

Even some people don't necessarily know what they do sometimes, and why they do it.

However, these experts or gurus will never be able to tell you how you should love and how to enjoy love.

Because, no one knows what kind of love is really comfortable for themselves.

We say that love is sweet and sour, and no one wants their love to be a taste. Unchanged love is not the ultimate goal that people pursue. Or, when you have your significant other, you shift your attention to another place where the more important aspects of your life are directed.

For example, career, for example, friendship, for example, wine, for example, social values, for example, for parenting, for example, for serving the elderly......

In short, love is no longer something in front of your eyes or eyes that is worth paying or thinking about.

However, you will never have sweetness anymore. Because of some practical reasons in life, you and your other half choose to bear silently, in the long run, you will feel that love does not exist in this world at all, otherwise, why in the middle of your life, why do you and your other half feel that life is so boring, love is so passionless.

Others say that love has turned into family affection.

The so-called experts and masters, of course, have to say something different, they say that it is you who have made it a habit to live like this with each other, that you have become accustomed to having each other, that you are used to living like this day in and day out.

It is because of habit, so, even if you have no love for each other, you will still continue to live according to your habits, it is because of habit, therefore, there is not so much passion in life, it is because of habit, therefore, there is no joy and anger, so life will become more and more like boiled water, thirst-quenching but boring.

Of course, there is some truth in what the master said, and it can make many people believe it.

As if that's exactly what our lives are. We seem to be used to each other's existence, so it's becoming more and more like boiled water.

Hehe, all I can say about this is hehe.

The two words hehe, for people who often chat, often use the Internet to chat, such as QQ, such as WeChat chat, will be very clear, the basic meaning of hehe, is not to agree, disagree, and even have the meaning of sneering.

If you really think that we are just used to each other, I can only use hehe to disagree.

Because if I say no, then what many experts, and even masters, say is it a lie? Of course, what can I say about this or that kind of questioning and strong disagreement, I can only say on one side.

Can you still chase after me, and I have to say that what you said is right, and then I say sorry to you, I was wrong.

However, in my heart, I will still say a hehe.

Love is the best thing in life.

Because it is not only able to bring you sweetness, but also a variety of different flavors. The biggest advantage of love is that it can make you always young and live in the most youthful moment.

An eternally young heart can increase a person's life expectancy by at least five to ten years.

Love can cure almost all diseases, and love can make people face all difficulties.

Love can fill you with power.

If you don't believe this, please recall, recall your first love, when you missed her or him, when you were about to meet him or her, when you met him or her alone for the first time, what kind of mood were you at that time, what was your state at that time, what was your physical state like, what was your mental strength at that time?

When you smile at you for the first time, do you immediately feel youthful, do you feel as excited and powerful as if you have been beaten with chicken blood?

Do you think that everything was so beautiful at that time, and all the friends were better. Even those who are always unhappy with you, do you also want to reconcile with them? Because your heart was filled with his or hers' smiling face.

You are full of passion for life, and you probably have never been so passionate in your life.

Passion, excitement, happiness, happiness, excitement, your body is full of positive energy, and even at that time you wanted to make the world a better place all the time.

Why, because your heart is full of love.

What is love, love is a longing, love is a sublime, love is an excitement that wants to give.

However, why did love turn into plain water?

It's not because of habit, of course, those experts or masters of love, there is also a saying, called love fatigue.

Because of aesthetics, you will express a kind of admiration for something that is very beautiful. However, let you face this beauty every day, after a long time, will you still admire?

Of course, you do, but what would that admiration look like?

You're like, ah, you're so beautiful, I really didn't think something so beautiful could be like this!

Such a beautiful thing turned out to be no different from garbage, you see, its value is actually the same as garbage, and I actually regarded it as a treasure at the beginning.

I'm rubbing, you actually compared the most beautiful things that made you marvel at what you saw to be garbage. I really don't know what's going on in your eyes in the first place, how you treat trash as a treasure.

In addition, if I want to think about it, I can't help but think about whether your current treasure, the things you are pursuing now, and the things that you think are precious now, are also garbage.

Or, you are not a piece of garbage, so as long as it is precious things once they are with you, they will be smoked by the smell of garbage on your body.

Therefore, you yourself are garbage, don't let the good be tainted.

What is a baby.

I have my own opinions, and I don't want you to make irresponsible comments.

Actually, you know very well what you are, and if you don't know, I'll ask you to think about it.

For example, if it is as beautiful, you can treat it as a treasure. Let's assume it's a beautiful painting.

Let's assume it's a Mona Lisa smile.

When you see her for the first time, when people tell you how this is such a beautiful picture, when people tell you that this is a priceless portrait, you will be very amazed.

However, when you look at the painting for a long time, it will be different.

The first one, you often look at it, thinks it's nothing more than that.

The first time you see it, you think it's a treasure, and later, you praise it, and every time you see her, you feel extremely precious. However, after a long time, it is like the period of love has passed, and you begin to be cold to her, and every time you look at her, her preciousness decreases by a few points.

Gradually, you think she's just that, and then later, you get tired of seeing her, and when you see her, it's like seeing a piece of garbage, and you actually think she's an eyesore.

You feel more and more that she is not pleasing to the eye. In the end, you equate her with garbage, and one day, you put her with garbage, and finally, you even abandon her.

The second type, you often look at it, and feel that she is still the original her, still precious, but this preciousness seems to have a dispensable appearance, as if without her, life is still no different.

You look at her, it's like the beginning, your life is still the same as it was at the beginning, after a lifetime, you feel as if nothing has changed in this life, as if this life is like living a day of life, but as you get older, the days repeat day by day.

The third type, you often look at her, feel that she is becoming more and more magical, you will learn more about her every day, and every time you know more about her, you will find that she is far from being as simple as you thought at first.

This is one of the greatest portraits in the world, and every stroke of her is so wonderful, and every part of the portrait is an incredible workmanship.

Because you have to understand this treasure, you keep learning, you keep improving yourself, every time you improve yourself, you will find that the magic and wonder of this treasure make you marvel and love.

Yes, you love her more and more, and the more you look at her every day, the more you will love her. Why, because you have improved yourself for her, and at the same time, your life has changed dramatically, because your vision, because your mind has changed completely, simply because you love your treasure more, and you are more and more proud and lucky that you have obtained this treasure.

Why is this so, because you are a person who is constantly enterprising.

And your treasures have become more and more valuable because of your progress, and your treasures have become more and more precious and beautiful because of the changes in your vision.

What love is, love is that feeling you have for your treasures.

The first kind of human love is garbage. Because he's garbage himself.

A character who is not enterprising in thought, and keeps dropping prices, gradually becoming more and more rubbish.

This kind of person will complain about all the objective reasons for everything that does not go well, and will never take the initiative to find his own reasons.

If you don't think of good as good, if you don't think of being full as being full, if you don't think of sleeping well as sleeping well, then who can make you eat well and sleep well?

A person who can't even eat and sleep well, you expect him to have a good life, that's a joke.

The second type of person is better than the first, he never loses the price, but he never grows.

This kind of person will never create, that is, the stone that belongs to it will always be just a stone, and it will never become a material, and it will never become a work of art.

Therefore, this kind of person will be immutable, everything is yesterday and today, and tomorrow, it will be completely the same.

Even if someone else has changed, however, his mind has not changed, so there is no difference between what he eats tomorrow and what he eats today and what he ate yesterday. The level of food is almost the same.

Then the life of this kind of person will be a life of boiled water. There is no smell at all.

There are many such people, in this world, this kind of person will say very simply, love can not be eaten, to find a partner, you must first ask about the house, car, savings, and family status, and whether there is a medical history in the family, you must check more than four generations. These are the guarantees of later life.

What is love, with these things, you can ensure that your life will be peaceful......

Hehe, love, for them, is not a thing, because they can't do anything because of love.

The third type of person is positive and enterprising, constantly improving one's own cognition of the world, constantly improving one's own quality, constantly improving one's self-cultivation, always being able to see the advantages of others, always being able to see the beauty of the future, and always being able to see the hope of the present.

There was once such a story.

There are two people who are in business, both buy shoes, and they are based on shoes.

The two came to a place where people don't wear shoes, they all walk barefoot. And everyone's feet are strong.

When the first person saw this, he covered his head and said, "Oh my God, these people don't wear shoes, and my shoes can't be sold here anymore."

And the second person, after seeing this phenomenon, jumped up happily, he said excitedly, great, I finally found a lot of big sales market, so many people here have no shoes, if a person only buys one pair of my shoes, I will make a fortune, and they are certainly not just a person wearing only one pair of shoes.

Everyone has to wear several pairs of shoes, rain wear, snow wear, winter wear, summer wear, and those children, their feet grow very fast, so that my factory doesn't have enough shoes to sell.

It's the same scenario, why are there different ways of thinking?

Because a person's mind is full of love, he wants to make these people who have not worn shoes wear shoes. If they are poor, then make some cheap shoes, we are so that their feet do not suffer, not so that they can wear luxury brand shoes, to compare who is richer, whose boots are more beautiful.

Because of love, your eyes will be completely different, and the feelings you get will be completely different.