Love is inherently selfish. Le Wen Novel|

But this selfishness is because you have to pay for the other person, and you have to be sincere and honest between the other party and yourself, not to let the other party serve you, nor to possess the other party.

Love is originally selfish, and that's because of love, because you want to love each other, not just to let the other person love you, and everything is subject to your own arrangement.

Remember, the lover is an independent person, not a slave to love.

No one has any right to turn the other into a slave who has lost his autonomy, lost his self, and lost his freedom in any way.

Freedom is not about doing whatever you want without boundaries, freedom is about not doing what you don't want to do.

Many people don't understand a lot of these truths in their lives, and even if you tell him, he may not be able to understand them. Even if you say that you understand, when you do things, you still do your own thing.

Some boys and children just like to ask endlessly, there are countless boys and children like to limit each other, for example, the call can not be more than three must be answered, send WeChat must be immediately returned, every night to say good night, in the morning to say good morning, if I can't sleep, but also the other party to send a text message or chat with themselves in WeChat, until dawn, regardless of whether the other party is sleepy, whether there is something important tomorrow.

In short, it's a work.

It is because you want to care, and you want to make love for each other.

But can this be truly loved and cared for? It may be possible to get, however, it must be temporary.

Once the other party is tired of himself, then he will definitely leave you.

Moreover, you also helped someone else train a very good husband. When necessary, he will do a lot of things that others think are very touching.

No one is willing to help others train their husbands or wives, but this is often the result, and there is no way if you are unwilling to accept it. The other party doesn't accept you anymore, can't stand you anymore, or has no patience for you.

So, in the end, the other person will definitely leave you.

Therefore, love is actually a process of giving to each other, and it is also a process of shaping oneself.

In love, you should love each other seven points and love yourself three points. Even if you want to lose some dignity for love, you must have three points of reservation.

Keep a whole self, keep a self-respecting self.

If you don't love yourself, how can others love you?

If you don't understand this, or don't understand it thoroughly, then I have an example here.

For example, a person whose room is never cleaned up is a very sloppy one. Even if his family is very rich, everything is worth a fortune. Then, when his friends come to his house to visit, they will definitely not pay attention to anything, they will throw garbage in his room, and the bottles of wine they have drunk will be thrown under the bed at will, or somewhere at will, and even spit in his house at will.

And another friend's house, after you went there, found that it was very neat, clean as if you had just wiped every place with a towel ten times. Even if his family is a very ordinary family and the salary income is not very high, when you go to his house as a guest, you will still feel that there is no place to put your feet, and you dare not move at will when you sit there, because you are afraid that the clean and tidy cushions on the sofa will not be good.

That is to say, you respect yourself, you love yourself first, and others can respect you.

If you are very casual with yourself, others will be even more casual with you.

There are still many similarities in love.

When you behave very much in front of your lover, then you will not have a lover, because you don't need ego to love others.

There is nothing wrong with love being giving, but there is no self-giving, too much giving, and even giving is not for yourself, so what do you let the other party love you?

Do you want a lover or a slave owner?

There is a very interesting meaning in many words.

For example, when a man goes after a woman, someone will tell you that it is your goddess, that is your queen.

Yes, that's right, the other side is a goddess, the other side is a queen. This is to let you think of the other party very highly, and you need to treat it with high standards and hearts.

However, when you really regard the other party as a queen or a goddess, you must think about what kind of boy can be worthy of a queen or a goddess.

If you treat yourself as a slave, the other party will not see you as a human being, when you can really be by the other party's side, when you are really by the side of the so-called queen or goddess, do you really think that you are pursuing the other party, do you really think that a goddess or a queen will fall in love with a slave?

No, absolutely not, the goddess or the queen just needs a slave to work for her and let her enjoy it more.

No queen or goddess would ever fall in love with a slave.

Hehe, speaking of which, if you still don't know how to fall in love, you're really speechless.

Tell yourself, don't tell anyone, isn't it a king that a queen he should fall in love with? Even if she didn't fall in love with a king, would she fall in love with a prince?

If the queen really didn't fall in love, then may I ask you, a king, a prince, a slave, the queen has a higher chance of falling in love with that one?

Hehehe, if you haven't understood yet, please wake up quickly.

Even if you haven't become a king yet, please respect yourself as you respect a king.

Please let you be like a king, have your own business, have your own place where you can have the final say, and will never tolerate the encroachment of others.

For example, your personality, your credibility, your ability, your courage, your independence, your autonomy, your courtesy, your self-cleanliness, your neatness, your smile, your self-confidence, your belly, all your personality, and so on.

If you want to have a real relationship, and you want to have a real love with a queen, please make yourself more like a king.

At the very least, please don't make yourself like a slave or a beggar. No queen wants to fall in love with a slave or a beggar.

Love, the love of a girl, of course, wants to fall in love with a prince.

And this prince must be noble, he must be independent, he must be sunny, he must be confident.

Of course, when you make yourself more like a prince, many girls will already give you a good impression.

If you really want to have a relationship with a queen, it will be very difficult, but you will have a greater reward.

Because the queen needs, more, you need to do, more.

If you really have the quality and quality of a king that day, even if you don't succeed in love, then with such a mentality to engage in a career, you will definitely have a better mentality than others, because deep down in your heart, there is already a king.

I'm talking about the goddess.

Goddesses are those who are like gods, the kind of girls that many people can't reach.

Or because she's too pretty, or she's too confident, or she's too smart, or she's too capable.

Always, those are girls who are different from ordinary people.

These girls need more.

If you want to fall in love with such a girl, then you must at least become a male god.

The meaning of the male god is a boy that many girls can't reach.

It's not that you're handsome and beautiful, it's not that you're rich, but you have a lot of specialties that boys don't have.

For example, you sing very well, and you are so good that you are many levels higher than many people.

You just hum two lyrics softly, and no one will dare to open their mouths to sing in front of you.

Of course, it takes too much talent.

A lot of people don't have that talent. For example, being good looks is really part of talent.

Of course, many goddesses don't take a boy's appearance very seriously. No matter how beautiful a girl is, she is a very cheesy ordinary girl, and such a girl doesn't need a male god to take care of her.

Let's talk about male gods, in addition to singing, they can be in any aspect, as long as it is a specialty part, to the point where it is many levels higher than ordinary people, and let ordinary people say that it is really a god, then you are basically a male god in a certain aspect.

I already have the capital to pursue the goddess.

But, then again, a real male god disdains to pursue a goddess.

Any girl who can help him and look beautiful will do. The male god, that is the object that girls pursue and pursue.

What is a male god, for Yun Mengyu, Meng Tianhao is a male god, and he is definitely a male god.

In the past, when she was at home, although Yun Mengyu has always been a strange appearance, her beautiful face and rich father have created a brilliant image for her, so that many boys will be like flies around her, and later because of some of her strong actions, many boys feel scared, for example, this girl actually likes to crash.

Rub, how many boys would like such a girl, even a goddess.

Sometimes, you still don't say it, as long as you look really good-looking, in the hearts of some superficial boys, that is a goddess.

Although this goddess is a title that others insist on, or it is just a goddess in the eyes of a small number of people, it is enough to explain the beauty and beauty of Yun Mengyu.

Pride, self-confidence, and many other beautiful words, the words used on the goddess are all used on the goddess Yun Mengyu. She does have that quality.

However, in front of Meng Tianhao, Yun Mengyu never had the pride she had before, let alone that kind of self-confidence.

In front of Meng Tianhao, Yun Mengyu suddenly changed from a goddess to a little girl.

All the timidity, shyness, weakness, etc. appeared on Yun Mengyu's body.

For example, her mentality at this time is completely devoid of the pride of being the daughter of a rich family. She even forgot that she was a rich girl.

Because in front of Meng Tianhao, no matter how much money there is, there is no longer any meaning.

No matter how much money there is in the family, it is all floating clouds in front of Meng Tianhao, as long as he wants to get it, so many groups are in his hands, and at present, there are two listed companies that he knows.

In the eyes of the richer people, are you saying that you are rich, does it make sense?

It's just self-deception.

On the other hand, Meng Tianhao is actually a more successful person in Yun Mengyu's eyes.

Father Yun Hongyou has gone through many years of hard work to have the scale he has been, and he has lost too many things.

And Meng Tianhao is different, this is an absolutely different person.

He actually came out to go to college behind such a company.

What a self-motivated mind.

Many people don't know who it is because they have two stinky money, or because they have a little bit of achievement, and they don't even know what their surname is. And Meng Tianhao is different, he actually came to college.

Only people who are dissatisfied with themselves, who feel that they are insufficient, know to come to school, and know that they need to learn more.

Yun Mengyu knew that Meng Tianhao didn't come here to go to school to play, nor did he come to pursue some college students. Not for anything else, but to come to school.

In the classroom, Yun Mengyu peeked at Meng Tianhao countless times, knowing that he was really studying. 、

Meng Tianhao also often comes to the library, Yun Mengyu found that Meng Tianhao reads very fast, and unlike Yun Mengyu, Yun Mengyu has always been just in one place, holding a book and gnawing.

As for Meng Tianhao, he is different, he just stands and reads, rarely sits down, and he reads books very quickly, almost just flipping through them, and then starts looking for the next book.

And Meng Tianhao's time to find books is also very short, because he can have time to read them one by one.

Yun Mengyu found out that once, Meng Tianhao's fastest reading was one night, and he actually read more than 20 books in one night. ，

Moreover, each book is at least 300 pages long.

Of course, once, Yun Mengyu also saw Meng Tianhao sitting down with a thick book, his head had never looked at anything else, he had been immersed in the book, and he turned the book very quickly, but some parts were also relatively slow.

Because of curiosity, Yun Mengyu wanted to know what kind of book it was, so that people like Meng Tianhao actually began to sit down and read it slowly.

Therefore, she walked over secretly, quietly pretending to be very casual, however, these are all in vain, even if she really looks at it boldly, Meng Tianhao probably won't know.

for his heart is in the book.

Yun Mengyu finally saw the name of the book, but she didn't read it all, she knew that it was a medical book, and it was a book about the heart and brain.