Chapter 24: Courtship for Newcomers in the Workplace (2)
Xiaoliang is a newcomer to the workplace, the kind that just graduated from college, you say how new she is, I think it's not much better than a blank piece of paper. Xiaoliang is a native of Shenzhen, the kind of urban hukou, although Shenzhen is not as good as BJ, but it is not easy to buy a house in Shenzhen and settle an account, after all, the housing prices are there. Xiaoliang's home is in the urban area of SZ, and it is the kind in the city center, Shenzhen was not as expensive as it is now, the housing prices were not so expensive, and the old people did not draw a circle in the South China Sea. At that time, Xiaoliang's family lived in the city center.
Xiao Liang's parents have loved this child since he was a child, an only daughter, plus Xiao Liang's parents are also only children, these six people are just one child, they are really afraid of falling in their hands, and they are afraid of melting in their mouths. Not to mention going to and from school, washing clothes and cooking, that's basically not touched. In addition, Xiaoliang is a girl, and the family is afraid of learning bad and falling in love or something, since childhood, six old people have taken turns to pick up Xiaoliang "closely". How "close-fitting"? Let's put it this way, if Xiao Liang leaves school at half past five, then the parents, they will start waiting at the school gate at four o'clock, for fear that if they are not careful, Xiao Liang will run away by himself or be taken away. Not to mention contact with men, Xiao Liang said one more word to boys at school, and the parents would know in the next second. Why so fast, you ask? That's because Xiao Liang was born in a family of teachers, not to mention that so many old people in the family are teachers, and even all kinds of relatives who can't hit the edge are teachers, basically, these relatives contracted Xiao Liang from nursery school to university, not to mention anything else, Xiao Liang just blink more in class, and it will become the main topic of family meetings at night. Talking to guys? AY!
Xiao Liang graduated from college in this way, and Xiao Liang, who listened to his parents' "advice", naturally chose one of the majors required by his parents in college. Of course, it can't be a teacher~ Xiao Liang has had a shadow on the teacher since he was a child.
Just said that Xiao Liang chose one of the majors required by his parents, what major did Xiao Liang's parents let Xiao Liang choose? I think everyone should go through this period, what industry will each parent propose? Xiao Liang's parents gave Xiao Liang the choice of a doctor, a teacher and an accountant. His whole family is a teacher, and it is impossible for him to choose a teacher, so Xiaoliang became an accountant.
Xiaoliang's university, yes, you guessed it right, it's a women's college...... finally arrived at Xiaoliang who graduated, thinking that he could find a job he liked. But that's definitely not the case, how could Xiao Liang's parents let it? Soon, Xiao Liang's parents found a cousin of Xiao Liang, who was a leader in a branch of a company in Shenzhen and could arrange a position for Xiao Liang.
Xiao Liang's resistance is naturally useless, so he can only go to work. Xiao Liang's distant cousin arranged a job for Xiao Liang as a general ledger accountant, in fact, strictly speaking, for this company, Xiao Liang's qualifications are not to mention general ledger accounting, even a cashier is not qualified. But Xiao Liang's distant cousin is the direct leader of the branch, and she arranged it directly, and no one else had anything to do.
After finishing Xiaoliang's work, Xiaoliang's parents should worry about something else. For example, the object, such as getting married, such as having a child~
As a white-collar worker, with a stable job and a Shenzhen hukou, it is naturally impossible to find a bad one. In addition, Xiaoliang usually has little contact with the opposite sex, and he has no friends of the opposite sex, so he can only rely on blind dates.
No, Xiao Liang's parents began to introduce Xiao Liang to the object. The first object, of course, is in the same industry, Xiaoliang's mother thinks that in the same industry, there is a common language, and the working hours can be matched, and it is rare to be considerate of each other when it comes to year-end overtime. In addition, as an accountant, there is no entertainment, and he will not go home drunk every day, let alone wronged his daughter.
So when Xiao Liang went home once, he found that there was suddenly one more person in his family, and he was still a man. Xiao Liang was surprised, but also felt faintly uneasy.
Xiao Liang's mother told Xiao Liang that this man's name is Xiao A, he is the accounting supervisor of a unit, with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, a house in Shenzhen, a car bought with a loan, and his family is also in SZ City. Xiao Liang's mother also told Xiao Liang that although this man is twenty-seven years old, he has a good temper and cares about people, and hopes that Xiao Liang can get along with him.
That Xiao Liang must not want to do it in his heart, you didn't let your early love be close to protect you before, but now as soon as you start working, you start to give me a blind date to marry and have children? The robot I grew up with this night, I can do whatever you want me to do. Xiao Liang must not have a good face, but after so many years of "good" education, Xiao Liang naturally couldn't put it on his face, so he began to perfunctory.
This meal is eaten, I picked up Xiao Liang by accident later, Xiao Liang and I said, Xiao Da, you don't know, I am embarrassed to have cancer, this meal, my favorite ribs I am not embarrassed to clip.
Naturally, I said, this is eating at your house, you are not shy or can't do anything, you are embarrassed, you can eat if you like.
Xiao Liang said, don't you know, have a meal, and explain the eighteen generations of his ancestors, I even know that the golden retriever next door to his house pulled a few bubbles of today, what time did the little couple upstairs snap last night! Do you think I can eat this meal? In the end, I left a WeChat, which was inked that day...... I can't bear to turn off my phone!
I looked at this anxious Xiaoliang, I smiled, I said, you are so annoying that you can turn off WeChat, what are you doing with the shutdown, you can't find it, the work **** still has to be found by your unit, if you don't come often before, I can't get in.
Xiao Liang looked at me and said, Xiaoda, you don't know, I turned off WeChat and he sent me QQ, I turned off QQ and he sent me a text message, I don't reply to the text message to call me, this is not knowing my unit phone, otherwise you can call the unit number! Who wants to know what he ate today, whether the next-door neighbor bought a barbecue grill! That's what it's sick about.
I looked at Xiao Liang, who was quiet and quiet, and now in front of me, it's like complaining about the upper body of a star, I can't say anything, I said, Xiao Liang, I think this man is good, you said that since you met him, there have been more words, and I couldn't make a fart before, but now I haven't said a few words, and you can't finish talking.
Xiao Liang glanced at me and said, just like you, I really don't know why I know people like you.
I don't know how Xiao Liang rejected this Xiao A in the end, but when I saw Xiao Liang again, Xiao Liang was already on a blind date with Xiao C.
On this day, I asked Xiao Liang to go to Starbucks, sat in it, looked at the people around me who were drinking a cup of coffee and taking a selfie in Starbucks for a long time, shook my head, looked at Xiao Liang in a goose yellow dress in front of me, and said, let's say, what's wrong recently, I don't even dare to stay in the unit?
Xiao Liang took a sip of his drink and said, "You don't know, I went back to that little A last time, and as a result, I went home this month, and there was an extra little C at home!" ”
I laughed, "Well, C is better than A, everyone wants it." ”
"P, let me tell you, that little C, it's awesome, turtle, now doing finance, earning tens of thousands of dollars a month, having a house, a car and savings, no worries about the death of both parents, high income and high grade, you can take a long vacation casually."
"That's really better than A, haha~"
"What a thing! Don't you know, this income is high, and the matter of socializing minutes is a matter of minutes, do you know how to change your face? ”
"I know, it's just a Sichuan opera that changes its face...... Will he too? ”
"Yes! is more awesome than a Sichuan opera actor, this is the phone call, he was still talking to me one second ago, and he began to pretend to be poor when he answered the phone the next second, and he was still telling me that the stock market was not good recently, and the next second he began to fool others to invest in the stock market, this face has changed, you haven't seen it, if he goes to be an actor, let alone the Oscar statuette, whatever award he wants, he gets a soft hand, and the actor is not as good as him! This speed of changing face, if I didn't know when I cried poor, I would have thought he was dead. ”
"What's this, it's like this in this industry, how can you make money if you don't take the test like this."
Xiao Liang lowered his head and took a sip of the drink, swallowed it, and said, "But he is so good at lying, if we are together in the future, what can I do if he lied to me." ”
"Xiao Liang, I think that people who can lie to you don't need to be eloquent, they don't need to change their faces, as long as they want to lie to you, they will cheat."
"But that's not all, he has so many female customers, he goes to three halls, two bedrooms and two bars at every turn, and from time to time he has to send female customers home."
"Poof, three halls, two rooms, two children, do you think it's the school's holiday notice? What's so strange about going to those places now, talking about business......"
"Anyway, I can't stand it, this kind of man is too insecure."
I looked at Xiao Liang, I smiled, and I said, "Liang, you dislike it, so what's the matter, ordinary office workers, it's good for you, do you have the economic conditions, can your parents take a fancy to it?" You can't move the star dad McDonald's every day, and you have to Haagen-Dazs to eat an ice cream, and such office workers can't afford it. As far as you like, can your parents rest assured, the housing prices in Shenzhen are so expensive now, and if you have a child in the future, you can't even afford milk powder diapers. ”
"Eh, why are you so superficial...... The two of them are together, and it's a feeling to watch......"
"Eh, my eldest lady, this feeling can't be eaten, just you, the only child, you still have to be supported by your parents when you get married?"
"But I don't feel like I'm going to get married......
"You can't just think about it...... My eldest lady, just your consumption, you find an ordinary office worker, I feel that there is, you follow him to eat fast food every day to live in a rental house, share a house with others, a common bathroom, Grandma Dior Xiang has no money, and she will use Dabao in the future, can you? ”
"This ...... I spend the money I earn......"
"You marry an ordinary office worker, you are the same age, do you still expect him to be able to support the family? Is the money enough? Every day, what I am worried about is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and what I think about is rent, water, electricity, and transportation expenses. Do you think that people who may not be able to eat enough tomorrow after today's end can talk to you about the philosophy of life from watching the snow and the moon from poetry and songs? ”
"Anyway, I don't want to go on a blind date, the two of them stand on the scales, and they are the same as selling cabbage, and they are the same, what's the point......"
"Then you look for it yourself, and you don't look for it, do you?"
"Oh, you don't know, I look at the male ** stream, my legs are shaking, I can't do it......"
I looked at Xiao Liang and listened to Xiao Liang's concept of love and mate selection, if she hadn't had good family conditions and her parents were so strict, she might be like other college students now, living a life of squeezing the bus and eating a boxed lunch every day, and she wouldn't use brand-name skin care products to drive a car to eat a meal, and she would have to pay so much attention to nutritional matching. Maybe Xiaoliang's parents are really in a hurry, but there is no way. I thought about the first time Xiao Liang saw me, when Xiao Liang's legs were shaking and her speech was trembling, if she hadn't communicated on the Internet beforehand, I thought she would have turned around and run away. Not to mention anything else. It wasn't until I met many times that the situation improved slightly and I was able to communicate normally. In the current state of communication, it took more than a year or two to achieve it, and I think it's basically impossible for Xiaoliang to take the initiative to meet the opposite sex, communicate, and date. No matter how much you introduce Little A, Little B, Little C, Xiao Liang can't pass his own level, and it's useless to introduce Xiao and Xiao Z.
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