What is love?

For many adults, they don't believe much, so they believe more in more practical things, such as houses, cars, money.

Compared with the ideas of these older generations, many young people are not very willing to believe it, but when they have fallen in love once or twice, after falling in love because of the collapse of love, they believe more or are more willing to accept the words of the older generation.

Because they were already injured by that time.

For young people who are hurt in the face of love, some of them will even be too practical, and even go to the point of only recognizing money.

Therefore, many young people who have reached the age will be much more direct and practical. For example, if a girl asks directly: do you have a house, a car, a deposit? And when a boy sees a beautiful woman, he will say, I have a luxury car, I have a few villas, what is my father......

Love, in their eyes, is even more like a transaction.

Love has completely deteriorated with them.

Why is this happening?

Many people will ask this question, seeing this is definitely not a very healthy love problem, they also want to find the reason, and they will think like this in their hearts, she is so beautiful, how can she think like this, only thinking about money, is she selling herself?

Why is this happening?

There are only a few reasons, and now I will talk about my thoughts, just for your reference.

First, because they fell in love prematurely. Moreover, they fell in love with their extremely incorrect way and incorrect ideas.

It is said that some people fall in love too early, so what is premature love?

It's about falling in love before you have complete independence.

What is Independence Competence? It is easy to understand that there is no independence in thought, no personality of one's own, and no ability to survive in the face of society.

completely relies on the money given by the family, and a large part of falling in love with such a state has to look at the faces of the family.

For example, if a family member says something bad about the other party, he has no power to refute it at all. Of course, in such a state, it is difficult to talk about free love.

In the end, under a lot of pressure, when going to the trough of love, when going to the strange road of love, there must be a lot of pain, and they don't understand the end of love.

If you don't understand it, you don't agree, your family or society is saying that some love is illusory, and the actual thing is valuable, if you don't work once, you will fall in love twice, you will fail in love three times, you will experience love hurt again and again, and you will experience too many tears, so that innocent people don't believe in love at all.

In the end, flaunt love entirely with price.

However, this can't be done for girls of the rich second generation.

Rich second-generation girls, they will not easily fall in love with anyone, they have to be careful to watch those people get close to them or even pursue them, because of her family's money, or because of her alone.

Therefore, they are more cautious when they are in love.

It's even hard to really be emotionally engaged. And their family's recognition of their love can only be that of the right rich people.

Their parents live in an environment that can only approve of such rich people. And those poor people, no matter how hard they try, will not be able to catch up with the living conditions of their families in this life.

Therefore, even if they know that their daughter will not be emotionally happy, and even very likely to divorce, they still decide to let their daughter find the sons of those rich people, those playboys who only know how to eat, drink and have fun.

However, this is also a kind of helplessness, because they are businessmen, and they have become accustomed to only looking at money and not talking about feelings.

There is also the limitation of the national situation, that is, the national situation is actually restricting many talented and capable people, making it difficult for them to climb the peak of wealth.

However, love is a great thing after all, and it has an absolute bar appeal.

In my country, in the face of love, although there are too many obstacles and resistance, there are still many people who go forward to pursue this love.

Yun Mengyu is a veritable rich second generation, she grew up to be in her twenties, and she still never fell in love, and even refused to be pursued by others.

Because of the family's money, because she is an only daughter, and because her mother is just a shallow woman who only recognizes money, Yun Mengyu has been sad since she was a child, and she can't trust many partners and friends.

Compared with Hu Miaojing's loneliness, Yun Mengyu is actually a very lonely girl, even more lonely than Hu Miaojing, at least, Hu Miaojing has Meng Tianhao in her heart, she can think about him, she can go to him, she can go to see him, she can wait for him.

And Yun Mengyu has nothing.

What if you have endless money to spend? A little girl, she actually learned to crash.

What kind of mood is that, what kind of mentality can be done?

There are many people who say that rich people are desperate for their lives because they have too much money to spend, and if they die, their money will be gone.

Therefore, they are not like those poor people, who have a rotten life, and when they die, they die, and they have nothing to live for.

As for Yun Mengyu, she has money, but she doesn't hesitate to die, because in addition to money, she actually has very few things, even less than some poor people.

Therefore, for Hu Miaojing, a girl who only has Meng Tianhao, in fact, Yun Mengyu is quite similar to her in some places. There is also a point, Yun Mengyu still has a lot of family property from his father to inherit, and now, there is already a boy in his mother's belly.

This means that Yun Mengyu will lose more things, so at this time, Yun Mengyu actually wants to grab some of her own things, things that belong to her.

For example, the last time you fell in love, the love with Sun Penghai, although Sun Penghai was just a small driver, Yun Mengyu still wanted to fall in love with him, and she was rushing to get married and entrust her lifelong ideals to talk about this love.

Therefore, last time, Yun Mengyu gave everything she had almost once, even for the sake of the other party, for Sun Penghai, Yun Mengyu actually had to go to school, for the sake of her future life, for the future, and even for their children.

But the truth is cruel, Sun Penghai had a new love in less than a month, so he dumped himself.

No matter what the reason is, in fact, what the reason is is no longer important to Yun Mengyu, the important thing is that Yun Mengyu is even more sad, and there are even fewer things that belong to her.

When she met Hu Miaojing and Meng Tianhao, when she saw these two people for the first time, Yun Mengyu was already indescribably envious in her heart, how much she wanted them to live like this, with ability and love, and even seemed so sweet and happy.

At that time, Yun Mengyu actually knew Sun Penghai and had the idea of falling in love with him, and how many factors in this idea were because Sun Penghai was Hu Miaojing's driver, Yun Mengyu actually didn't have much bottom in his heart, but there must be a lot of connections between them, which can be said to be one of the reasons.

Now, Sun Penghai and Yun Mengyu have been shaken off, so Yun Mengyu at this time is actually very complicated.

In fact, after such a long period of calmness, and moreover, Meng Tianhao still came here and entered the same class with himself, in fact, Yun Mengyu at this time had inadvertently compared Meng Tianhao and Sun Penghai countless times.

is a girl, she will do this, and Yun Mengyu is still a beautiful beauty with no way.

Beautiful women are all proud of themselves, and beautiful women have their own pride, just like handsome men, they all have their own confidence.

Of course, society has also given them too many superior conditions.

Therefore, unconsciously, Meng Tianhao has already occupied too many positions in Yun Mengyu's heart, and it just so happens that Meng Tianhao has done Yun Mengyu a lot of favors, and he has also shown a great degree of his strength.

This man's power is inexplicably very attractive to any girl.

It's like a strong boy, a boy who is good at sports, must be able to attract girls than those who are sickly thin. This is a fact that cannot be changed.

Why many bosses, or officials, have a great attraction, some girls are still willing to fight Wushan with them not for their money and rights, it is because they themselves have too much ability, and these energies are very attractive to girls.

is because of many of these reasons, including Sun Penghai's kind of rejection of Yun Mengyu. Although Sun Penghai behaved very unmanly, which made many people look down on Yun Mengyu to get rid of Yun Mengyu, however, Yun Mengyu was still very painful, this is true, although there are not many contacts between the two people, and the time they have known each other is not very long, however, this is still his first love.

No matter whose first love it is, it is hard to forget. What's more, Yun Mengyu's situation is even more special, and the ideal of lifelong reliance was immediately shattered.

Many people have the kind of behavior of breaking the jar after their hopes and ideals are shattered, but Yun Mengyu has never thought of this kind of practice. Yun Mengyu already has too much of this behavior, including her alternative hairstyle, including her previous actions, including her previous lifestyle and attitude to life.

I don't know why, Yun Mengyu came out of her previous life, and this feeling of coming out made her feel so gratified, as if the previous kind was not called life.

Although she has always had a lot of money to spend before, Yun Mengyu still feels that the previous life was not popular, or it can be said that it was just spending money.

Spending money is something that many people want to do, but spending money is really not a life and not a life, now in the days, looking at very difficult books every day, and getting the knowledge obtained through hardship, Yun Mengyu feels very relieved, she can finally live like a person.

However, in such a life, how much was brought to her by Sun Penghai, and how much was because of Meng Tianhao, Yun Mengyu herself couldn't tell.

However, since Hu Miaojing introduced her to Meng Tianhao, Yun Mengyu seemed to be transparent about everything all of a sudden, it turned out that what she wanted was such a man.

Immediately, Yun Mengyu didn't know what to face Meng Tianhao, and she didn't know how to face her life and face her future self.

However, sometimes, there are many things in life that you can't control, such as the burst of feelings, having a feeling is having a feeling, being electrocuted is being electrocuted, facing others, you can lie, but, in the face of yourself, Yun Mengyu can't lie, and besides, she has been facing herself all the time.

Therefore, Yun Mengyu is actually a girl who is very independent and very free in her heart.

Some people say that Yun Mengyu's income is not independent, and she is not an independent personality.

Wrong, really wrong.

Although Yun Mengyu has no extra ability to earn money, because she has real estate in her hands, Yun Mengyu's money is independent, and no one can control her rent.

Therefore, Yun Mengyu can definitely dispense with her parents' opinions in terms of feelings.

Because even if the parents are against it, they actually have no way to control their son. So, in the last step, human money is independent, so everything can be independent.

Although Yun Mengyu's house was not obtained by her own labor, Yun Mengyu also collected the rent by herself, and the ownership of these houses had already been given to Yun Mengyu, it can be said that these were all given to her by Yun Mengyu before she had a younger brother, that is, these houses were all given to Yun Mengyu by Yun Hongyou prematurely to Yun Mengyu's life guarantee and freedom.

To tell the truth, although Yun Mengyu is not Yun Hongyou's son, Yun Mengyu is beautiful, and every time Yun Hongyou sees Yun Mengyu, he will feel very disappointed and very heartbroken.

We say that the poor raise their sons and the rich raise their daughters, of course Yun Hongyou also knows such a sentence, and Yun Hongyou has no shortage of money at all.

So, Yun Hongyou gave his daughter these properties too early, and he wanted his daughter to really have her own money, and this money could accompany her through the rest of her life.

Then Yun Mengyu became more free because of this property.

All along, although Yun Mengyu has a lot of things missing, she has the greatest freedom that others don't have.

Because of this freedom, Yun Mengyu followed in the footsteps of Meng Tianhao today, endured her pain, and walked out of the ladder, and she loved herself confidently and smiled with Hu Miaojing and the others over there.

Yun Mengyu's smile was not much of a fake, but it was a little cramped that she had never had.

Because, at a very young age, Yun Mengyu told herself that she must be a good citizen who supports monogamy and never follow the path of her mother.

However, today, for what, she resolutely followed Meng Tianhao's footsteps and walked out.