Everyone will always encounter some harmful things in the name of goodwill in life, for example, I revisited "Forensic Pioneer" a few days ago, in which Gao Yanbo's wife Gu Zeyao was poisoned by cantharids because she believed in Sister Yu and drank the so-called home remedies given by Sister Yu. Obviously, everyone in my hometown eats this good, why does it kill people?

Because of kindness, the so-called home remedies that have not been verified are fed to a terminally ill patient, is this really kindness? Some people say that a dead horse should be a live horse doctor, and you should try your luck. But this kind of behavior itself is very irresponsible, and the so-called home remedies originally refer to recipes that have not been scientifically verified. Moreover, many home remedies in China have a lot of toxins, such as the so-called "Jindan" that the emperor was obsessed with in the past, and there are many emperors who died after eating "Jindan". Now, many people are doing this kind of stupid good deed.

Every year, there are so-called "animal lovers" who buy tortoises and put them in the water, or go to buy birds from many flower and bird markets, go to the mountains and forests to release them, and even buy poisonous snakes, rabbits, and the like, these behaviors are actually very stupid. These people under the banner of "protecting animals" are also doing the same thing as Sister Yu, doing a stupid good deed. Tortoises will only drown if they are placed in the water; After the domestication of humans, many of the birds in the flower and bird market have long lost their ability to survive and are released into the mountains and forests, unable to hunt, and finally unable to escape from starvation; Poisonous snakes, rabbits and other creatures are released at will not choose the location, which will not only hurt the local residents of the release site, but also destroy the original food chain and ecosystem of the release site, which is a matter that outweighs the loss.

Every time something unfortunate happens, some people comment on some rich people's Weibo, why don't you donate money, why don't you donate materials, why do you donate so much as the richest man. However, does it have anything to do with how much people donate? Did you donate money again? A rich man has money, it is not a waste of money, but also a drop of blood and sweat, you have not witnessed their hard work in making money, how can you decide how much money people donate? What does it have to do with you whether people donate or not? Do you remember the great benevolent Cong Fei back then? Cong Fei funded so many people back then, what was the final end? Everyone said that Cong Fei funded a bunch of white-eyed wolves! After some people grew up with funding, they felt that they were embarrassed by funding, cut off all relations with Cong Fei, and even called Cong Fei to delete their name from the article interviewed by reporters. Some even went so far as to say that Cong Fei funded himself for a purpose, a hype, and a different purpose. Even when Cong Fei was seriously ill in bed, he even called to ask Cong Fei when he would recover and make money? Is this something you're supposed to do as a funded person? Yes, funding is a good deed, an act that does not ask for anything in return, but as a sponsor, you enjoy the kindness of others, even if you are not grateful, you don't have to hurt the heart of a person who has helped you like this, right?

Do you think these people still need to do these good deeds in this situation? What's more, these so-called acts of kindness are not coercive acts, so what right do you have to impose on others whether or not to donate money and how much money to donate?

I often see some people on the Internet sighing that now that the Internet is developed, cats and dogs can access the Internet, and in a word, being a keyboard warrior is a very easy thing. Especially in the name of goodwill, the whole world seems to be on his side, and even doesn't care who is right and who is wrong in the matter itself. Everyone just thought, I did a good deed, I did it because I was kind, you don't need to praise me, my name is Lei Feng.

These so-called "Lei Feng", have you really thought about whether what you are doing is right? When you help a murderer to complain about grievances and ask the victim to forgive, do you still think that this is a good deed, is this right? On the show, the host can forcefully force a child who was abandoned to forgive his mother, and if he doesn't forgive everyone, he will say that she is wrong, but who is wrong first? While you are helping this mother speak, do you think about what kind of life this child lived without a mother? In this case, do you still think that you are doing a good deed, right?

In the face of domestic violence, some people do not condemn the party who is domestic violence, but instead persuade the person who is being abused by the domestic violence. You are a husband and wife, and you can forgive him for a hundred days of husband and wife in one night. In the face of robbery, some people do not condemn the robbery, but persuade the robbed. He must have had a last resort to rob, so be kind and forgive him. In the face of being slandered, some people feel that this slanderous person is really pitiful, she must be forced to take slander, you should be kind, forgive her, it is best to fund a little, arouse her conscience, and build a harmonious society.

Do you really feel that what you are doing is well-intentioned? Do you really think you're doing the right thing for heaven, Lei Feng? Can these people really be forgiven? If there is no money, can there be unavoidable hardships, can you commit domestic violence, you can rob, you can slander people? Aren't the victims the most sympathetic?

Every time, everyone feels that they are kind and persuades the victim to forgive, but is this really good intentions? Why should there be a law, the law is to punish some illegal behaviors, why don't people think that these illegal behaviors are wrong, but feel that the parties do not forgive is wrong and unkind? What's the difference between this stupid kindness and putting a tortoise in the water? Do you think it's a good thing, but what is the end result?

Some programs are full of thinking that swapping the children in the mountains and the city can change the stubborn children in the city. I feel that I have done what I should do, but have you ever thought about these children who were inexplicably transferred from the countryside to the city, and then you inexplicably threw them back to the countryside, what changes will the whole person's growth make? You think you've done something kind, but have you ever thought about being kind to this rural child? You think you've changed the bad kids who were stubborn in the city, but what do you think about the good kids who were in the countryside? You feel like you've changed those bad kids and turned them into good kids, and you've done the right thing, but what is the outcome? Those so-called children who were transformed by the show became famous one by one, and finally became the so-called "Internet celebrity", and finally became good children? Not really, right? And what about the so-called good boys? Can you finally rest on your laurels? It's not all, is it? You have changed innocent families in a show, do you still think what you are doing is kind?

Many people feel that what they do is good, giving money to beggars and giving them alms. Many beggars have hands and feet and are intellectually sound, but they live by begging. Some people, although their families are poor, live on their own hands. You fight with the petty trader over the five cents, and then turn around and give the beggar a dollar out of so-called kindness. What do you make this man who makes money with his hands think?

Many people think that China's urban management is unreasonable, and why should they violently drive out some people who do small businesses, and those people are not easy. But many times, the truth of the matter is that many hawkers have repeatedly taught and taken advantage of everyone's prejudice against the chengguan to do whatever they want, and some even deliberately slandered the chengguan, but what about everyone? Everyone doesn't care about the real situation, and when they see the chengguan, they will only insult them, thinking that the chengguan is wrong, that is, they are oppressing the people, and they are a legitimate underworld. But have you ever wondered what the truth of the matter is? Do you think your kindness is really normal?

Some celebrities take drugs, and those fans feel that it is not easy to be their idols, I hope everyone can understand. Do you know how many police officers die in China every year for anti-drug activities? Those policemen, in order to facilitate their actions, many of them even died, there are no positive photos, every commendation, every press conference, there will be no figure of these policemen, these policemen, for this glorious cause, how much, and even their own lives. These celebrities, relying on having their own fans, can still wash their hands after taking drugs, continue their acting careers in the entertainment industry, make money everywhere, and have fans everywhere calling for understanding. Then I was found to be taking drugs, and I began to talk about how difficult it was for me and how much pressure I was on. Is drug use the right thing to do? Is drug use excusable? Everyone says to forgive, to be kind. And what about the policemen who sacrificed their lives for the anti-drug cause? What about the families that have been ruined by drugs? Who will be pitiful? Who can be kind to them?

Everyone says to be kind, to forgive, to forgive, these things, one by one, one by one, what can be forgiven? Under the umbrella of your stupid goodwill, how much is hidden to do whatever you want? Could it be that in this society, you are weak and you are justified? Do you feel like you're doing the right thing? Do you feel that you are standing on the commanding heights of morality, you hoe the strong and help the weak, you do the right thing for heaven, you do what everyone can't do, you are a hero, you are Lei Feng, do you think you are doing the right thing? Isn't goodness based on right? Is kindness that doesn't ask anything really kindness? When you are doing so-called "kind" things, do you really feel that you are hoeing the strong and helping the weak, and you are doing the right thing for heaven? Is the story of the farmer and the snake really true? Should we call on the farmer to have mercy on the snake? A group of people who forget to turn off the lights when they leave the classroom during the day hold a banner that says "Turn off the lights for an hour" and feel that they have saved nature and the world?

Many times, stupid kindness is more terrible and hurtful than direct malice.