Nowadays, people's work is getting busier and busier, and many times they can only choose to ignore the family and children, many times the parents work outside the home, and they can't take their children with them, so they can only put their children with their grandparents, and these children can now be called left-behind children. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoBecause left-behind children grow up with their grandparents all the year round, they often cannot feel the love of their parents, and some have to take on the responsibility of taking care of their grandparents early, so many of them become unusually precocious, and even more withdrawn, and may even embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes.

Xiaoda is a left-behind child. In order to improve the family's life, Xiaoda's parents went to the city to work, and there was no way to take Xiaoda with them. Xiaoda had to live with her grandparents and sister-in-law.

Not long after Xiaoda was born, he was found to have epilepsy. At that time, the countrymen did not know what this disease was, and they did not pay attention to it when the symptoms were mild at first, but they thought that the child was suddenly there, and that the child might have been attracted by something. Until the time of discovery, Xiaoda was already very serious, and at that time, the county hospital could not diagnose epilepsy as accurately as it is now, and only when the disease occurred, could it be detected that the specific area was abnormally discharged. At that time, in order to treat Xiaoda's illness, Xiaoda's parents, who had no savings, became even poorer. Especially at this time, Xiaoda's grandmother was not happy. Xiaoda's grandmother is a traditional country woman, she knows this, it is what the countrymen say is that the sheep is crazy, this is not saved, it is said that there is a brain problem, so she lobbied Xiaoda's parents every day to have another one. But how could Xiaoda's parents give up on their children? What's more, with the medical conditions at that time, although not all of them could be cured, they could be controlled. Grandma Xiaoda, who failed to persuade her, was helpless, so she chattered at home every day, pointing to Sang scolding Huai and saying: "Some people~ gave birth to a disabled child, and thought they were very powerful~" Sometimes she will say: "If you don't give birth to a child and don't go to confinement, you sit at home every day and eat empty mountains ~ The gold and silver mountains are all eaten~ and I also gave birth to a money-losing goods." Hearing this, Xiaoda's mother was not very happy, let alone happy, but she was not in the mood to argue, after all, her child had to take care of herself.

Xiaoda's grandmother found that this trick was useless, and began to do Xiaoda's father's work. At that time, Xiaoda's father opened a small bicycle repair stall on the side of the street, which did not make much money, but he was not impoverished. Xiaoda's father didn't say anything about his mother's lobbying at first, but later, every time he came home and saw that his wife was not in a very good mood, he knew what was going on. The next time Grandma Xiaoda said it, she replied: "My own child, even if it's a fool, I admit it." Xiaoda's father just thought, Xiaoda is so young, he got this problem, which is very unfortunate in itself, how can he leave him and give birth to another one? What's more, if you have a little ability and make a little more money, you can take Xiaoda to a big city to see a doctor, maybe you can be cured, but if you don't have to, how can you give up first?

Xiaoda's grandmother only heard that her grandson came to serve the confinement at that time, and when she saw Xiaoda's appearance, she didn't get better for a few months, and Xiaoda's parents didn't eat so much oil and salt, so they went back to the countryside angrily. When I went back, I told the villagers that my daughter-in-law had brought something wrong with her mother's family and gave birth to a sick child in her mother's womb, which harmed her precious son and was ready to harm her whole family. Those people in the countryside have been with Grandma Xiaoda for so many years, how can they not know Grandma Xiaoda's temper, they are perfunctory, thinking in their hearts that such a mother-in-law, it would be good for her son to marry such a good daughter-in-law, and she picks and chooses right and wrong every day.

When Xiaoda was one year old, at that time, because of Xiaoda's treatment, Xiaoda's parents were poor, and they took out all their money and reluctantly bought Xiaoda a palm-sized cake to pass his first birthday. Xiaoda's grandmother was suspicious, so she didn't come, she didn't call, and Xiaoda's parents didn't say anything.

When I was a child, it was a very hard thing to take Xiaoda, Xiaoda was weak and easy to get sick, and when he got sick, he had a fever, and if the fever passed 38 degrees, he was prone to get sick. At that time, Xiaoda was already teething, and every time he got sick, in order to prevent Xiaoda from biting his tongue, Xiaoda's parents had to put their fingers into Xiaoda's mouth and let him bite it, and every time he bit until he was drenched in blood. And in order to prevent the recurrence of the disease, the two husbands and wives can only take turns holding Xiaoda and staring at Xiaoda to prevent Xiaoda from getting sick.

In this way, the days of poverty reached Xiaoda's age of five, and at that time, Xiaoda's parents finally saved enough money and took Xiaoda to Beijing for treatment. At that time, there was no drug to treat this disease, the drugs were under development, and if Xiaoda was willing to participate in the drug trial, he could get the drug for free. At that time, Xiaoda's parents, who were about to despair, saw that there was medicine, so they had no choice but to become a live horse doctor and participated in the drug trial.

However, God still favored their family, although the drug was not completely successful, but Xiaoda was the successful one, and Xiaoda was cured.

At this time, Xiaoda's parents, who had lost all their family wealth, had to say goodbye to the child who had just been cured, and embarked on the life of working in the city, leaving Xiaoda at his grandmother's house. Xiaoda's grandmother doesn't like Xiaoda very much, but she is also very happy to see Xiaoda get better, so that she can urge Xiaoda's parents to have another child. And Xiaoda's sister-in-law is a huge wonder of this family. How strange is it...... It was when Xiaoda was born that the sister-in-law was on a blind date, thinking very highly of herself, picking and choosing, until Xiaoda was fifteen years old, she finally couldn't bear it anymore, married a second marriage with hepatitis and gave birth to a daughter, and then disrupted the relationship between her family and her in-laws...... Alas, this is not the point, so I won't talk about it......

When Xiaoda was six years old, Xiaoda's parents, who couldn't resist Xiaoda's grandmother, finally gave birth to a younger brother named Xiaoming. At that time, it was just in time for the census, and Xiao Ming's household registration fell like this. Since having Xiao Ming, Xiao Da's life has been even more difficult.

Xiaoda's parents work in the urban area, and the salary is not high, and the salary of two people is about 2,000 or 3,000, and they have no place to live, so they have to live in the workshop. And because Xiaoda's brothers are raised at grandma's house, they give Xiaoda's grandmother eight or nine hundred yuan for food every month. At that time, Xiaoda's sister-in-law opened a clothing store downstairs from Xiaoda's grandmother's house, the kind that makes clothes. In addition to taking care of this little grandson every day, Xiaoda's grandmother washes clothes and cooks for Xiaoda's sister-in-law, and looks at the store.

Xiaoda's sister-in-law is a very insecure person, and every day she is the kind of feeling that "there are always Diao people who want to harm me". At that time, Xiaoda's sister-in-law lived alone in a room, and there was no one in the room who was not locked from the door and window to the cabinet drawer, and even when she went to the toilet, she had to lock the door and go to the toilet with the key and money, not to mention the usual storefront, and a customer would settle the account and lock the drawer once. Xiaoda's sister-in-law didn't treat Xiaoda very well, because Xiaoda was very curious, and always wanted to get closer to her, but Xiaoda's sister-in-law didn't think so, she only felt that this child might not have clean hands and feet, and what kind of good child could the child's mother give birth to when she came out of the ravine.

At that time, Xiaoda's sister-in-law gave a subject, and the subject gave Xiaoda's sister-in-law a bouquet of roses. When Xiaoda's sister-in-law brought it back, Xiaoda saw it and thought, why is this man so stupid, you have to have a card to send women flowers~ It's all played like this on TV. So Xiaoda secretly used a piece of cardboard that he thought was the best-looking, wrote a sentence "I love you", and secretly put it in Xiaoda's sister-in-law's flowers. However, how can the child's handwriting not be read? was furious, but there was no excuse to say Xiaoda, so he had to endure it.

Until that night, Xiaoda's sister-in-law counted the money in her bag and found that there was a lack of ten yuan, thinking to herself, it must be this mentally retarded who got it, how could this mentally retarded be so kind, he just came in to steal the money. Xiaoda's sister-in-law told Xiaoda's grandmother overnight. Grandma Xiaoda didn't say a word, walked to Xiaoda's room, and directly dragged Xiaoda, who was sleeping soundly on the bed, and knelt in the hall. Forced to ask Xiaoda, how could Xiaoda admit it? How can you admit that you didn't do it yourself? When Xiaoda's grandmother saw that Xiaoda didn't admit it, she felt that the child not only stole money but also had a hard mouth, so she went to the kitchen and took a few glass milk bottles and a huge plastic bag. Walking in front of Xiaoda, Xiaoda didn't understand what his grandmother was going to do, and looked confused. Grandma Xiaoda ripped open the plastic bag, spread it on the ground, smashed several glass milk bottles, spilled glass slag on the plastic bag, and then forced Xiaoda to kneel on it. How could Xiaoda be willing? This kind of thing is very dangerous to look at, but Xiaoda's grandmother thought, this little intellectual retardation can't be rectified, and when he grows up to be the same as his mother, she forcibly holds down Xiaoda, and Xiaoda can only admit that when he feels that the glass ballast is about to pierce himself. Xiaoda's grandmother and Xiaoda's sister-in-law, like victorious generals, happily called Xiaoda's parents, reported their "achievements", and explained the process of Xiaoda's stealing money and spending money clearly, as if they had seen it with their own eyes.

So, as they wished, Xiaoda's parents rushed back to his grandmother's house and beat Xiaoda severely, regardless of Xiaoda's explanation.

It wasn't until a few days later that Xiaoda passed by the door of Xiaoda's store and heard that a customer had found an extra ten yuan that day and came back to return, that Xiaoda knew that he had been wronged. But what's the use? Their parents won't believe in themselves either, and if they believed in themselves, they wouldn't beat themselves up for nothing.

In Xiaoda's childhood life, since he was at his grandmother's house, he was often inexplicably beaten and scolded because of his sister-in-law's instigation. Xiaoda's sister-in-law and grandmother also told all the relatives about Xiaoda's stealing money, until Xiaoda grew up, every time he went to his relatives' house, he could see his relatives hiding the money for fear that he would see it.

Therefore, everyone only knows that Xiaoda and Xiaoyu are incompatible, but they don't know why. Until Xiaoda was in junior high school, Xiaoda's parents were okay in the city, bought a house, and took Xiaoda's brothers to study in the city. In one case, during a quarrel, Xiaoda's parents knew the truth about Xiaoda's stealing of money back then, when Xiaoda's grandmother happened to be at Xiaoda's house, and when she heard Xiaoda say what happened back then, she hurriedly rushed out of the room, just like rushing into Xiaoda's room and dragging Xiaoda out. He said angrily, "What if I misunderstood?" How about I just hit it on purpose? You have the ability to kill my old woman now! ”

Xiaoda's parents were helpless when they saw this, so they had no choice but to give up. Xiaoda was disheartened when he saw his parents like this, and felt that his parents didn't even have a basic attitude, even if they couldn't do anything to his grandmother, but such an attitude made Xiaoda feel cold directly.

It wasn't until Xiaoda grew up that I met Xiaoda, and Xiaoda had certain concerns about marriage and having children. Although he is not afraid of marriage, Xiaoda attaches great importance to money. Xiaoda told me that if he could have a little more money, he would not have to put his children in other people's homes, so that his children would not suffer so many grievances, and he would not be very indifferent to himself when he grew up. Later, Xiaoda got a chance and went abroad directly, but he has not come back, and I have not contacted him again, and I don't know the current situation of their family.