Chapter 260: The First Time
After thinking about Sun Penghai's words carefully, Zhu Yingying nodded to show that she understood, and Sun Penghai continued: "I don't want to be looked down on like this, and I don't want to be fired by the boss I just found because of this matter or have a bad impression of myself because of this, plus, in fact, you also understand, I am also a person who pursues and yearns for freedom." ”
Zhu Yingying understands this better, human nature is her compulsory subject, in order to make money, so, she has studied, thought, and people live a little bit of pursuit.
The problem of food and clothing, the problem of face, that is, the problem of being respected, and the problem of freedom.
Some people will work hard for money all their lives, and they can do without the rest, in fact, there is also a matter of dignity in this face. They feel that with money, they can have dignity, they will be looked up to, and with money, they can have a greater degree of freedom, such as not having to be squeezed by the boss to go to work due to time constraints.
One of the songs is called Lao Tzu will not go to work tomorrow, and the meaning is obvious, that is, he has a greater degree of freedom.
However, some people may spend their whole lives earning money for this goal, and they will never get this so-called freedom and name, that is, dignity.
Some bosses, if you ask him, what is the biggest gain he gets, he will say that he has been respected by more people, but there are also more people who scold him.
In fact, dignity is not something you can get with money or power.
So, many people are wrong in the first place, they are wrong and persistent in the pursuit of money, but they will never get the dignity they really want.
Dignity is to be preserved by the individual.
For example, self-esteem and respect for others.
Of course, it is only effective to respect those who deserve respect. For example, people who are educated and can respect you with respect.
In fact, the owner of power can only be feared, but not truly respected.
If you use your rights correctly, you will be loved and respected by many people, but you will also be hated and hated by many people, such as peers, such as those in power who are not right-minded.
"Yes, the pursuit of freedom is the most beautiful term. Freedom is more important than all food and clothing, dignity and face. Zhu Yingying said such a sentence from the bottom of her heart.
In fact, the problem of food and clothing is very important in the eyes of many people, but, in fact, if you think about it carefully, you will understand that as long as you don't want to starve to death and don't want the whole family to starve, in fact, this simple condition is easy to meet, and it doesn't even take much effort to meet it.
What kind of society is it now, even if it encounters natural disasters in five or ten years, people will not starve to death.
Go out for a walk a little, you will appear, solve the problem of food and clothing, as long as you are willing to use your hands and use your brain a little, it is not a problem at all.
Some people's ultimate goal is money, but in fact, it is very sad, the purpose of money is only to be able to solve the problem of food and clothing, but in terms of using money to improve the quality of life, it is actually not so easy.
Rich people are not necessarily able to improve their quality of life, and even some rich people will bring home a lot of unhealthy things, such as mineral things that have radiation to the human body, such as marble slabs, and will also bring home a lot of unhealthy food, such as all kinds of pit food, wild birds and beasts with infectious diseases.
Rich people will play late at night every day, or drink until they get drunk, find many sexual partners, and live some erosive lives, which is spending a lot of money, but does their quality of life really improve?
They have eaten and used a lot of things from people who don't have money, but has their quality of life really improved?
At that time, it was not necessary to pay and manage to improve the quality of life, such as doing healthy exercise every day. For example, eat healthy food and eat food reasonably, instead of drinking and drinking meat every day. For example, eat and sleep regularly on time, instead of staying in a nightclub late at night.
Sun Penghai didn't know that his few words made Zhu Yingying think about so many things, and he thought of how he should tell Zhu Yingying, after all, she is now his girlfriend.
For this girlfriend, he is actually very sorry for her.
Although she came to him for money by a dishonorable means. However, after all, he did that kind of thing, that kind of thing is actually illegal, and forcibly had that kind of relationship with Zhu Yingying, originally he was just a kind of vent, but if he was forced, he was forced.
In fact, many people have no burden in their hearts about forcibly doing this kind of thing with a woman. Because that's what they earn.
However, when you suddenly realize that the other party is not a pure yellow flower girl who is not what you imagined, it is completely different.
Some people will give more money as compensation, and some people even have no conscience and say that you are unlucky, and whoever made you misunderstand me can only blame you, not me. But have you ever thought that at that time you were forced, the other party did not agree, and even did a lot of struggles.
Especially the miserable scream, which was mistaken by herself as a benefit she gave herself.
Sun Penghai, who has never done this with a pure girl, is even more upset in his heart that Zhu Yingying's eyes are very similar to Yun Mengyu's, which is exactly the same, which makes him feel even more guilty, as if he has done something great to his first lover Yun Mengyu.
In the end, Sun Penghai chose to be honest. For Yun Mengyu's betrayal, it is actually a manifestation of dishonesty now, if he was honest, he should have said to Yun Mengyu earlier, in fact, we are not suitable, you should find a better man, a man who can really be good to you and suitable for you, what have I done, and what's wrong with me, I have become a flowery man, maybe my essence is like this, I'm sorry. Bye-bye, goodbye.
But he didn't, and he didn't want to tell any more lies to this lover and this girlfriend. So, she said: "She was very chic, I didn't let her help me fix the car, I let her go with a big belly, and I praised her from the bottom of my heart." For these rich girls, in fact, I don't know very much, I thought she would just leave, because in the past, in the newspaper or in the news or in the mobile phone in various messages, all the news was that the son and daughter of the rich man were unreasonable, how arrogant and unreasonable, how to bully the rich and so on, so I thought she would leave, and no longer care about me, an ordinary driver.
"Actually, when I faced her at that time, I had some inferiority complex, although I had 10 million and still drove a luxury car, but in the face of her freedom, and her courage, I was nothing. Originally, she and poor people like me wouldn't say much, because the unreasonableness in my mind was what I thought about the children of the rich people.
"The exhibition of things was as I expected, she left me my phone number, and asked for my phone number, to invite me to dinner, and the next morning called me to text me, but I fell asleep, did not receive, she called me again in the morning, to invite me to dinner, in fact, I was still saying that I wanted to invite her to dinner for my face. I bought new clothes, but because I was in a hurry, I didn't remove the tags and went to meet her in a five-star hotel.
"You don't know, she dressed up very beautiful and innocent to see me, completely different from the night before. It took my heart away at once. However, she is a rich second generation, which is not within the reach of people of my level, so I didn't think about it that way. But later, by chance, she actually wanted to be my girlfriend, and in order to show that I could be worthy of her, I tried my best to do something to help her father meet the boss, and that's it. Later, she became my girlfriend, but I didn't know at that time that I didn't deserve her, and I could only bury her in my heart forever to like it, and I couldn't touch it.
"This is what my boss told me, it's like a beggar, he's a beggar in his bones, and when a beggar is used to it, if you give him the best diamond in the world, what will happen to you, you think about it, it's not appropriate at all. Even if you force it on your body, isn't it ruining the diamond? ”
Listening to Sun Penghai's words, Zhu Yingying didn't know what kind of feeling she had, but she just felt that there was a big gap between people in this world, why couldn't a beggar wear a high-grade precious diamond?
But imagine a beggar who is covered in tatters and walks lazily to the extreme, wearing an unusually brilliant diamond, how many people will think that the diamond is ruined.
How many people would want to grab that diamond and want that beggar's life?
In the real society, the fate of the beggar will definitely change because of that diamond, but it is difficult to say whether it will change for better or worse. Maybe he will become a celebrity because of that diamond, but if a person's fame is so great that he can afford it, it must be a sad thing, and his life may be destroyed at any time.
Thinking about the scene where Sun Penghai will be destroyed and devoured at any time because he is with a beautiful woman, Zhu Yingying is a little unbearable, after all, this is her first man, and he is also very conscientious, very good to people, loving, responsible, and now he is his boyfriend again.
"It's a bit of a ruin, I don't know if if I put on a big diamond, will some people think it's a ruin of that diamond." When Zhu Yingying said this, she was actually in a very bad mood, after all, she was also a person from a poor place, and her life may be worse than that of beggars in some places.
Sun Penghai was stunned for a moment, at this time a Didi car came, Zhu Yingying got off her back and got into the car, Sun Penghai didn't drive, because he was afraid of being seen by Hu Miaojing and Meng Tianhao, his ridiculous ideas, of course, had already been seen through by the two of them.
Sun Penghai sat next to Zhu Yingying and said, "You won't, you are so smart, and you are already a city person, and you are still my girlfriend, who dares to look at you like this?" ”
said, and then said to the driver: "Go to the airport Chinese University." ”
The driver looked back at them, didn't speak, started the car, drove to the other side of the road, walked more than ten meters, and said, "It's here." ”
Zhu Yingying looked at Sun Penghai laughing for a while, released all the unhappiness just now, laughed so hard that Sun Penghai actually didn't feel embarrassed, and said to the driver: "Oh, I said wrong, it's not the Airport Chinese University, but the café near the Airport Chinese University." ”
The driver glanced at him again, didn't speak, then turned around and drove the car to the place where they got on just now, Sun Penghai looked out the window, I damn it, they got on the car at the door of the coffee shop, and there was another forest coffee house behind the place where they got into the car.
Zhu Yingying smiled even more happily, holding her stomach and barely laughing. Sun Penghai was not embarrassed, and said to the driver while taking out the money: "Look, how smart I am, if I want to make a woman happy, especially the woman you love deeply, just do something stupid." ”
The driver took the money, gave Sun Penghai a thumbs up, and said, "You really have a heart, you must be very happy to be your girlfriend." ”
After getting out of the car, Zhu Yingying said to Sun Penghai: "Did you really mean it just now?" ”
Sun Penghai shrugged his shoulders and said, "Yes, I deliberately got in the car just now, but I didn't mean to know the road, I really didn't know how to go on the road, and I didn't mean not to see that this was a coffee house." ”
At this moment, Zhu Yingying laughed again, and when the two of them walked into the coffee house, Zhu Yingying kept laughing.
Sun Penghai looked at Zhu Yingying and smiled, Zhu Yingying showed his expression, gradually suppressed his smile, and said, "My dear, I haven't laughed so happily for a long time, thank you." ”
Taking out the phone, Sun Penghai asked Zhu Yingying, "Is it me calling, or are you calling?" ”
Zhu Yingying naturally stretched out her hand and said, "Since I want to be your girlfriend, I have to drive away all the women around you one by one, let me come, don't worry, I won't make the other party feel uncomfortable, I will minimize the damage." ”
Sun Penghai chose to believe her, and immediately dialed the phone and handed the phone to Zhu Yingying.
Zhu Yingying received the call, and she was also a little nervous. After all, the other party is a beauty, and she is also a rich second generation. A person who drove a luxury car and hit a luxury car is not something that a girl from a poor family can offend.
It's not a good call, is it?
Just thinking about it, a very gentle voice came from the phone: "Hey, Brother Hai, do you miss me, do you want me to fly back to accompany you?" ”
Zhu Yingying immediately said the opening words she had come up with: "Hey, I'm Brother Hai's new girlfriend, and I gave him my first time last night." ”
(End of chapter)