Chapter 30: Deadly Serial Call (1)
In these years, everyone is more open, now walking on the street, calling a beauty, no matter the aunt and aunt, up to the eighty-year-old lady, down to the three-year-old girl, hearing a beautiful woman will turn around, if in the past, not to mention what kind of people turned back, you can see the girl who has not been out of the cabinet is very rare. Not to mention any acquaintances. But it's different now, everyone is equal, at least you don't have to bind your feet and don't have to be locked in the boudoir and don't go out, right? Don't be bound by what kind of woman is not talented, don't be too out of line, there are no big restrictions, but if you want to run naked on the street, you definitely can't. You say that men and women are not very equal in this society, then I say you have to see what you think. If you think that equality between men and women means that a certain gender can do whatever it wants, it is definitely impossible, and if you think that this equality between men and women means that women are the disadvantaged group, that is, you are weak and you are reasonable, then it is definitely impossible to be equal in any case.
Now everyone is not as interactive as back then, neither of them has seen each other, and the words of the matchmaker of their parents got married, gave birth to children, and raised their eyebrows until they were old. Although there are blind dates, there are also parents to introduce, but compared to the beginning, it is still much better, you said that now, not only can you fall in love, you can have a secret love, you can fall in love, you can also love online, if you can accept it, you can still fall in love. Like my friend An An, and her boyfriend Monkey is puppy love.
For this, I went to Baidu specifically, and Baidu Encyclopedia told me that "puppy love refers to adolescent teenagers establishing romantic relationships." The term "early love" is only widely used in Chinese mainland. Puppy love generally refers to the love that occurs between teenagers who have not entered the university stage, especially among elementary and middle school students in school. After 20 years of surveys in China, it has been shown that many people have had feelings in middle school. And most of them are crushes, unrequited love (unrequited love). Only by having a good feeling for each other can it develop into early love. Puppy love behavior is based on the sexual and physiological development of adolescents, and it is also the practice of psychological transformation into behavior. It turns out that this is the case, I understand it at once, which shows that the age limit of this early love refers to before college, but I think this is a very vague concept, such as how old to go to college, for example, if this person repeats a grade, twenty years old is still in high school, is this considered early love? I think this should be calculated like this, for example, when the two are together, the lowest age is still not in adolescence, to define whether it is early love. For example, An An and Monkey, this is a proper early love.
An An and the monkey are childhood sweethearts who grew up together, growing up in a yard, parents know each other, neighbors, and kisses are not only An An and the monkey This pair, everyone did not interfere too much with the children's early love in this compound, just said not to affect the learning. But the teacher at school doesn't think so, this monkey, his real name is not called Monkey, the monkey's real name is Hou Ziwen, this listen, Ziwen Ziwen, more quiet, but the monkey is not, the monkey has been since he was a child, and his surname is the same, it is simply a splash monkey. At the age of three, he went to the house to remove tiles, at the age of five, he went to the tree to dig out the bird's nest, at the age of seven, he pulled the girl's braids, and at the age of eight, he kicked the teacher's buttocks, and he never stopped. Especially after entering junior high school, it was even more of a demon king of the mixed world, lawless and making trouble everywhere. Forget it, the monkey also publicly announced An An at school that he was his girlfriend, and whoever dared to talk to An An would hit him. How can this teacher stand it, and immediately talked to An An and the monkey's parents.
The parents of An An and the monkey are also big-hearted, so they think that these two children are okay now, they haven't grown up, they are playing, how can there be so many early loves or something, and the hair has not grown. What's more, this An An and the monkey grew up together, and the two families also got along well, and it was not bad to kiss and kiss in the end. This time the heart-to-heart conversation didn't pose much of a threat to the monkey, but instead made the teacher depressed.
This An An and the monkey were together in their third year of junior high school.
An An said to me like this: "At that time, at the door of my classroom, he hit a boy who gave me chocolates to confess, kissed me in the middle, kissed me for the first time, and then dropped a sentence, I will be responsible for you, and ran away." I asked An An, "Then you are with him like this?" An An smiled and said, "Yes, I think he's very cool, and he beat that strong Duan Ba down with three strikes and five divided by two." ”
After An An and the monkey were together, the two did not affect their studies, to be exact, there should be no change in their grades, the monkey's grades have always been so bad, and An An's grades have always been so good. Seeing this, the teacher didn't say anything, this is the critical time for the third year of junior high school, it is good that there is no impact, don't affect the mood of the two of them to prepare for the exam.
However, An An and Monkey definitely couldn't get into the test together, so when they got to high school, An An and Monkey were divided into two different high schools, in fact, strictly speaking, it should be that Monkey was not admitted to the high school that An An attended.
The two who went to high school, although they met on the weekend every week, did not affect the relationship between the two at all, the two were at school, they called whenever they had time, chatted on the Internet or something, and the relationship was not only not weak, but deepened. At that time, if An An called him or took the initiative to send a message, even if he was in the bath, he would dry his hands and reply to the message.
The two soon arrived at college, and the monkey reached high school, and he worked hard, and under the continuous make-up classes and An An's constant supervision, the monkey was finally admitted to the university that An An was admitted to, of course, the major with the lowest score. But the monkey doesn't care, as long as he can be in the same school as An An, what does it matter what major?
As soon as the two entered the university, they were like canaries flying out of the cage, and they were basically tired of being together except for classes.
Everyone sometimes began to ridicule them, saying that they were basically conjoined babies, except that they couldn't take a bath and go to the toilet together, everything else wanted to be together, and even the monkey's roommates began to complain and live together, but they didn't see each other a few times a day, and their girlfriend made a phone call and went out immediately.
In the first year, the two of them didn't have a lot of classes, and because they were both basic classes, everyone's schedules were similar, so Monkey and An An were basically dating conjoined baby mode. In the second year, it's not right, An An's major sophomore class has a lot, but the monkey major, there are fewer classes, plus the monkey is a boy, everyone is lazy and skips class to do everything, so it's very leisurely, plus there is nothing to do, so I often play games with my roommates in the dormitory, open the black.
Sometimes An An has to make a lot of calls to find a monkey, and every time he has to carry out a deadly chain call mode, he may not be able to find someone after making a dozen or twenty phone calls. An An was very distressed by this, but the monkey didn't think so, everyone was at school, and they wouldn't lose it, so why be so nervous? What's more, calling in the middle of the night is all chatting and talking on the phone, which not only wastes money, but also affects rest, so you really shouldn't do such a boring thing.
For this reason, An An often had small quarrels with the monkeys. But neither of them had any major problems, so they stayed together like this. It was safe and quiet until An An and Monkey graduated, and An An's job was easy to find, so he quickly found it, 9 to 5 close to home, with a stable salary and little work. But Monkey's major was not so easy to find a job, and after graduation, he couldn't find it, so he had to start a sales job in a company. There are a lot of things, and I am very tired, and every day when I get home, I am so tired that I don't even have the strength to take off my clothes, so I just fall asleep.
An An has an easy time at work, and he is still in the state of being in college, so he calls the monkey if he has nothing to do, and if he can't get through, he keeps calling. But what about monkeys? Newcomers in the workplace, running business outside every day, basking in the sun and sweating profusely, how can they have any energy to deal with An An's call that has nothing to do? Sometimes, An An calls too much, and the monkey is busy to death, so sometimes An An calls too much, and the monkey simply turns off the phone. But An An will not stop obediently, one after another, one after another, and when the monkey remembers to open the mobile phone, he finds that An An has made at least a few hundred calls to himself, and his inbox is full of reminder text messages from the operator.
At this time, the monkey began to calm down and coax An An. An An made so many phone calls, how could it be so easy to coax? Sometimes, in order to coax An An, the monkey has to run to An An's house in the middle of the night to beg for forgiveness. At that time, An An and the monkey did not live in the original compound, they were all shared with colleagues, and it took more than an hour for the monkey to drive without a red light to An An's house.
However, there are too many times, and the monkey doesn't want to coax An An anymore, plus he is also in the stage of year-end evaluation, when he is about to rush sales, how can he have so much time and energy to deal with An An's unreasonable trouble? In the monkey's view, every time An An calls him, he wants to talk to himself, which is nothing more than getting up by himself, what he ate today, and what fun he has at work today. But the monkey was so busy that he didn't want to say a word, he forgot his parents' birthdays, how could he have the energy to care if An An ate rape or Chinese cabbage today, broccoli or purple cabbage?
In the end, An An once, for a month in a row, did not contact the monkey, An An finally couldn't bear it, killed the monkey's dormitory, saw the monkey in the dormitory and roommates drinking drunk, An An opened the door and went in, the skyrocketing wine rushed An An frowned, seeing that the person he had been worried about for a month was so drunk that An An was so angry that he slapped the monkey, left a sentence to break up, and turned to leave. "Fellow Daoists,