When it comes to love, no one can think holistically.

Because love is emotional, not completely rational.

If you are willing to use reason to fall in love, then do you have to think about material issues, social status issues, birth issues, and future prospects?

After you have considered all this, you finally found an object of the opposite sex that you are satisfied with, but in the process of contact, if you encounter something, for example, the other party wants you to help him or her buy a popsicle, please ask, do you have to think rationally, I bought him or her a popsicle for free, then, should my behavior get a good impression from him or her, so should he or she buy me something more valuable?

If you consider this question directly and rationally, then your love seems to have directly added a price code, may I ask if this kind of love is love?

How do I feel like I'm selling meat?

It's not just about selling meat, it's like selling your soul, selling your soul directly to a devil called a trade.

Of course, some people are not rational people, but for some reason, they directly hide the emotional things, a thing called feelings, in the depths of their hearts, and directly choose material things for the sake of material life.

Notice that they have hidden the sensibility in the depths of their hearts, not without the sensibility, they have chosen the material, not because they are rational.

Therefore, rational things will rarely make mistakes, but they use rational things to fall in love, which in itself is the biggest mistake.

No one can use reason to talk about a real relationship.

Love is emotional, therefore, you will do a lot of wrong things because of emotion, because you lose the ability to judge.

Judging things is generally rational, you can't judge with emotion, just like if you go to do a multiple-choice question, you can't judge directly with an emotional gaze, you can't say which answer has more words or more strokes, you choose which.

If that's the case, I don't know how many you can choose.

The teacher will definitely praise you and say that you are a very smart person, and you can't answer the teacher directly, saying, "Teacher, I didn't make a mistake, my answers are all right, because I use emotion to judge questions, I am a very emotional person."

When the teacher hears such an answer, he will definitely praise you, saying, you are right, you should use emotion, not reason, and you don't need a rational way of thinking to do it.

Oh my God, who can use reason to fall in love, who can use emotion to make multiple choice questions, these are very wrong things.

However, doing anything with emotional things will cause a lot of problems that should not have arisen.

For example, misunderstandings.

When your partner is laughing with another person of the opposite sex, because you are emotional, not rational, you will easily feel jealous, feel that the other person seems to have betrayed you, feel that you trust him or her, like a fool, and you feel very intolerable. 、

In fact, if you use your reason to judge at this time, it will soon appear, there is a misunderstanding in this, the object may just be doing something else, or that person is his or her relative, or some other reason, in short, it is not necessarily that he has betrayed you, it is not necessarily that he and she have something, but emotional things, this is the case, it will not think rationally.

However, once you focus on rationality, then what has become of your relationship? A love that has no misunderstanding and no mistakes, is that love?

Therefore, many people know that love is actually packed with various tastes of sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty.

Love that doesn't make mistakes, love that doesn't have jealousy, love that doesn't hurt for some reason, you can imagine what kind of love it is, but it's definitely not the love that many people want to have.

Therefore, everyone who wants to fall in love, please have the courage to face a series of difficulties in love.

Sun Penghai is in love, Sun Penghai's first love is Yun Mengyu, but Yun Mengyu is not suitable for being with Sun Penghai.

This problem, under the role of Hu Miaojing, Sun Penghai walked out of the middle.

Compared with Yun Mengyu, it doesn't matter what kind of person Sun Penghai is, because under the same effect of Hu Miaojing, Yun Mengyu has devoted himself to Meng Tianhao's arms.

At today's engagement ceremony, Sun Penghai did not tell Zhu Yingying before that the woman Yun Mengyu, who came here, was his first love.

Because Meng Tianhao and Hu Miaojing are really characters that Zhu Yingying already feels very important and must devote all her energy to deal with. Therefore, for Yun Mengyu, Zhu Yingying didn't think too much.

Even when she first introduced it, she didn't say much, and Zhu Yingying still paid great attention to Yun Mengyu.

Because she is also a beauty, and Yun Mengyu's beauty is still above herself, there is also a very important factor, which is that Zhu Yingying consciously has no way to compare herself with Meng Tianhao's girlfriend Hu Miaojing, so she compared herself with Yun Mengyu, who seems to be the weakest person among the three people, and put Yun Mengyu and herself in the same position.

Although Yun Mengyu is still a girl of Meng Tianhao, it is obvious that Yun Mengyu is not as important as Hu Miaojing's status.

Because of this, Zhu Yingying sympathized with Yun Mengyu, and Yun Mengyu also made an action of lighting with her mobile phone, like a lowly person.

Therefore, after the dialogue ceremony, Zhu Yingying took the initiative to come to Yun Mengyu's side first, helped her get off the chair, and then thanked her for lighting herself.

Yun Mengyu is the same, paying attention to Sun Penghai's engaged girl.

Originally, the person who should be engaged to Sun Penghai is himself, this world is so crazy, originally the first day, he was still thinking about what kind of expression Sun Penghai would be when he saw Sun Penghai again, although he didn't think about asking Sun Penghai to give himself an explanation, after all, the other party had already withdrawn from love, and it didn't make much sense to ask for another explanation.

But, after all, this is a first love, and it ended in a daze, Yun Mengyu always had an unrealistic idea, thinking of giving her first love a perfect end.

However, when she approached Meng Tianhao, Yun Mengyu immediately sobered up, in fact, deep in her heart, she did not agree with Sun Penghai.

In other words, in the depths of Yun Mengyu's heart, there is no place for Sun Penghai, she may have praised Sun Penghai and admitted that Sun Penghai is a fairly smart man, but he is definitely not a good match for herself.

Compared with Meng Tianhao, Sun Penghai can't even compare to a toe.

Women are like this, they like the new and hate the old.

Once a woman falls in love with a new person, she will feel disgusted with the previous person.

However, Yun Mengyu can't say anything disgusted with Sun Penghai, but she feels that she was so ridiculous before, and she actually felt that she was in love with a driver like Sun Penghai.

He's just a driver, how can I equate him with a character like Hu Miaojing.

He is not qualified to be with Hu Miaojing at all, let alone with Meng Tianhao.

Love, have we ever had love between us?

Now Yun Mengyu is a little suspicious.

Even, Yun Mengyu dared to say that he didn't love Sun Penghai at all, but he was too young at that time and didn't experience it, so he was ignorant of love, so he thought it was love, but in fact, it wasn't at all, he just had some good feelings for Sun Penghai at that time, and now, he didn't even have the least good impression of Sun Penghai, and some just knew him in the past.

In this way, for Yun Mengyu, 2 is actually not excessively verbal, in fact, these are some real thoughts in Yun Mengyu's heart, perhaps the first love is the most unforgettable.

But that's mostly for boys. For girls, if she doesn't find her true love after her first love, then she will miss her first love, and even miss her first love, but once a girl finds her true beloved man, then her first love is not so important, but at that time, she met such a man, that's all.

If you insist on saying something more in it, then it is at a certain period of a girl's life, she has experienced some times that may be happy, maybe painful, and maybe have a lot of tastes, at most.

Girl, that's it, if you find the man you really love, then the first love will be very far away from her, and the first love is even a sin for her.

She will never allow that first love to destroy her existing happiness, the man she now loves.

If her current man is not her true love, then she will think of his first love, of her first love.

That's the reality, it's brutal, but it's also very good.

If you are a man, a real man, then, will your wife think of her first love, not to see how your wife is, but to see if you, a man, really make your wife fall in love with you.

We say that women are sensual animals. If you can't get your wife to love you deeply. Then it can only be said that you are not good enough.

There is no woman who does not want her man to be the person she loves deeply.

Why don't some women love their men anymore and don't love their pillow people?

Some people say it's because love is tired.

It's visual fatigue, it's life fatigue, it's habit fatigue, it's boring life.

So why do you make your wife tired?

We say that women are to men what men are to women.

Most have some of the opposite.

For example, most men and women are in the beginning, it is men who pursue women, and men love women more, but later, women love men more.

As we grow older, in fact, it is the charm of men that is constantly breeding, and the charm of men is constantly growing.

For example, they have become more calm, more sophisticated, more responsible, more unfazed, more charismatic, more manly, more powerful, richer, more experienced, and more able to make women rely on ......

These changes in men, each of which will make women more fascinated and crazy, and correspondingly, women are gradually getting older, gradually declining, and people are old, that is, what women look like after that.

Under such changes, the contrast is getting bigger and bigger, then, in such a situation, your woman actually doesn't love you more and more, and misses her first love more and more.

Why is that? Is it all the woman's fault?

Men, should you reflect on whether you have done something bad in terms of men, and what aspects have not become more men?

"Zhu Yingying, I can see that you are not only beautiful, but also very kind at heart, I believe that you are a very good girl, I wish you happiness." Yun Mengyu stared at Zhu Yingying's eyes, and at this time, she realized that this girl's eyes were very similar to her own, they were exactly the same.

Tonight, Yun Mengyu's eyes, in addition to the back and forth strafing between Meng Tianhao and Hu Miaojing, have been paying attention to Zhu Yingying.

For Sun Penghai, Yun Mengyu didn't look at him at all.

It's not that I disdain to look at him, but I'm too familiar with him, and the other main reason is that Yun Mengyu probably won't pay too much attention to other boys from now on, especially boys who are not married, and boys who have had other relationships with him can't help but contact and pay attention.

Because, Yun Mengyu, like Hu Miaojing, wants to avoid suspicion, and definitely can't make Meng Tianhao angry about it.

They are not afraid of Meng Tianhao being jealous, the more Meng Tianhao is jealous, the happier they are in their hearts, but Meng Tianhao has too many women, in case he is not only jealous, but he is angry for this and doesn't want to see himself again, then it doesn't matter where they go to cry.

A man is too good, too attractive to a girl, and that's the result.

Zhu Yingying smiled and said: "This sister, you are polite, where am I a beauty, in front of you, I am an ugly duckling." However, I thank you for your blessings, just now, let you see the joke. ”

Of course, Yun Mengyu knew what she said, but this time, Yun Mengyu really didn't mean to look at the joke, she explained directly: "What you said is very good, although it is relatively short, but every word is incisive." Women, sometimes we should cherish words like gold, only in this way, we will not become chattering mothers, so that those men are annoyed when they look at it. ”

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