After drinking a glass of wine in one gulp, Zhu Yingying didn't feel anything bad.

How can there be no bad feeling when such a hard wine is drunk, and the wine is so strong?

That's the magic of love.

If you drink a hard drink, even if it's a glass of human liquid, as long as you drink it, you can get what you want most, such as the girl you have had a crush on for a long time.

If you really want her, then you will think that this glass of wine or drink or liquid discharged by the human body is very delicious.

Of course, if you are past this age, or you don't believe in the so-called love in your mind anymore, or you have already got the person you really love. You will say, this is impossible, a girl is only, how is it worth you to drink this kind of thing, this girl is more.

But what if this girl is a young model, if this woman is a singer, if this girl is a movie star, if this girl is ***, what if this girl is Fan Ye? What if this girl is the queen of a certain country, the princess of a certain country?

Would you say that just a glass of liquid might be really delicious?!

Well, if you exchange this girl's conditions for a sum of money.

If it was five dollars, you would say I was insulting you.

If it's fifty dollars, you'll be angry and want to beat me up.

If it's five hundred dollars, you'll say that I look down on you so much that I laugh at you with five hundred dollars.

If the price is reinstated, for example, 50,000 yuan, 500,000 yuan, 5 million yuan...... 500 million, when the price reaches a certain level, you will be happy.

In the past, many people knew a term called Jiangshan Beauty.

And now, under the general trend of economy and society, we like to talk more about money and beauty.

Love is priceless, but if you really don't have any financial security, you don't have any ability to be independent, you don't have any financial ability, you don't have any economy, please don't talk about love, even, you don't talk about feelings.

Because you're not eligible.

It's brutal and realistic.

A person who is not financially independent has no personality independence.

That is, you are not a whole body in this society.

Not to mention that you have no place to stand, you are not even a complete and independent person, why should you fall in love, why should you talk about feelings?

People who like to talk about their feelings, such as some minors. They have never been financially independent, they have never had an independent economy. I have to say how good buddies they are and who they are, or what brothers and sisters in life and death.

Hehe, adults look at them, it's completely naïve, just like you people look at three or five-year-old children and say that I want to be good to you for the rest of my life, and you will be my wife in the future.

Ignorant people, those children don't understand at all, and don't believe it. However, as time goes by, as they enter the society in the future, not to mention entering the society, it is now necessary to let them be financially independent and go out to earn money on their own.

In the face of hunger in the face of the economy, in the face of money, in the face of countless temptations in society, can their friendship, their feelings, really stand the test of money?

For example, your best friend will betray you in the face of the temptation of how much money, do you know this?

Don't say something childish and ridiculous, it will definitely not betray you.

So, well, I'll just tell you a little truth or fact, and let you figure it out for yourself.

Let's say your best friend meets a rich, very rich guy and says, just give me your friend's address and I'll give you the money you want. And I want to know your friend's address, just because your friend once saved my life, and I want to repay him, and I don't want him to know, I want to surprise him.

Hehehe, as long as the amount of money is enough, say 100,000, 1 million, not to mention so much money, it seems that your friend is stunned by so much money. Even for fifty dollars, your friend will probably sell you.

Of course, your friend may want to call you immediately after giving your address. But please think about it, since the person who can give money, can he let his money be thrown away in vain?

So, when your friend betrays you, he won't be able to give you a phone call to tell you about it.

Of course, you can say that your friend was cheated, or that you don't have anyone to go to such trouble looking for you, because you are not an important person.

Maybe any person, who doesn't need any money, just ask your friends directly, and you will be able to know your address.

But you better think about it carefully, you don't want people to know about it, and you don't want others to know about it, if your friends know about it, how much money will betray it.

You can also imagine how much money can make your friends do something sorry for you, this thing doesn't need to be a big thing, just a small thing.

Because, people fall into it step by step, and your friends also sell you little by little, or do things that are sorry and make you unforgivable.

There's no need to get too angry about it because you don't know what society is.

If you want to know, I can tell you very simply. Because you read such a boring book, it really tests your patience.

Whatever it is, there are two ways to think about it.

One is a very simple way to think about things, which is to think in a simple direction.

The second is to complicate things. Even if it's something very clear and simple, you want to think about it in the most complex direction.

After learning these two ways of thinking, any thing or problem you encounter in the future can be easily solved, at least you will not have the feeling of nowhere to start.

Like society, you don't understand it.

Let's start with the simplicity.

What is society?

First of all, it is people, how can no one have a society, this can be easily thought of.

And then, then, why are people connected?

Then, quite simply, for the sake of the material.

What is the reason why people can survive together, it is because of the material, and this material can also be said to be interests. To put it bluntly, it's money.

And finally, what?

Finally, in what form are human beings connected to each other for the sake of matter?

Finally, human beings are connected by the form of ruling and being ruled, or leading being led. That is, in layman's terms: rights!

You can also say that human beings and human beings are connected by equality and mutual assistance, and you can say that, because no matter what you say, these are your own perceptions, and they have nothing to do with anyone else.

To discuss this, you need to think very complicatedly.

In short, the simplest way to think about what society is, to put it simply, is people, money, power!

People, money, power!

Of course, you can also add a feeling, love!

It's just that human beings have recognized that love can only be produced on a material basis. The form of material distribution has been determined by leaders since ancient times. That is, it is determined by rights.

If you want to have your own love, then please be an independent person in society first.

No one is a naturally wise old man. Even if he is a wise old man, he only becomes a wise old man when he is old, so when the wise old man is young, his love is not necessarily perfect.

Perfect love must have gone through a lot of ups and downs. It is difficult to meet a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. Love that does not experience wind and rain will not have too much trust.

And trust is a necessary condition for love. You should never be in a relationship with someone you never trusted.

If that's really the case, and you fall in love with someone you don't trust and never trusted, then you must be a psychopath.

Or that you are a genius because you are too smart for the average person to suit your appetite. So, you're a weird genius. And a real genius generally doesn't fall in love, he just knows who he likes.

Why is this so? Because geniuses are very conceited, they absolutely believe that their judgment has been in the power of their brother.

Therefore, a genius does not need others to pay too much for him.

And love, and love, is to give and be given. A person who can't give, a person who can't accept someone else's pay, is a loser in love.

And often some persistent fools, they are indeed winners in love.

Because they are so stupid, they really need someone to do something for him. And because of their persistence, they will also focus on a person from the beginning.

It is that they have the ability to love, and they also have the need or ability to be loved. And in love, it is not necessarily only to be paid to be happy, sometimes, pay and don't pay are equal, you don't give the other party the opportunity or right to pay, you don't give the other party happiness in love.

Therefore, it is very difficult for a genius, a genius with an extremely smart brain, to have perfect love.

Genius, sometimes, is on the same level as the rich.

Just like a real young rich man, it is difficult to have a perfect love. Because he is so rich, many of his things can only be brought to him by money.

And in our society, it is easy for a truly rich person to put their own money first. Because he is used to doing things for him with money.

For example, a rich person in the family, a real rich man, can easily find a nanny to do a lot of things for him, even the matter of driving, there will be a special driver to do it.

And a luxury car is basically bought for the driver, because the rich themselves have basically degraded the instinct to do these things.

Even if he drives, excuse me, will he maintain the car, will he go and clean the car?

Of course, these are very rare phenomena that I am talking about, and there are many people who have been rich and powerful for several lifetimes, not only do many things, but many things are much better than ordinary people.

Because they know more about the importance of doing things, and they know that cultivating their own abilities is a very, very important thing.

Even some capable men, his son has a mentality that he must sit better than his father.

If my father can do it, he will sit better than my father, and if my father will not do it, he will also learn to do it, and he will do it much better than ordinary people.

Why, because he knows that he is a rich man.

A truly rich person is deep in his heart, not by looking at how much money he has on his bank card.

Starting a business to earn money is to show his personal ability, and earning money can also help him earn respect. In the hearts of many people, being respected by others has become a very important thing.

However, is it really that important to be respected?

For some, it's like.

Because of the loss of face in one sentence or two, many people will do something drastic about it.

And for the sake of this face, for example, in order to save face, many people will take money out and dump it.

Because I have money, you have to give me face.

And many rich second generations do this, and even he doesn't know how difficult it is to earn a hundred yuan.

Yes, many people have given him face, however, everyone knows in their hearts, but no one wants to say it.

Others are not giving him face, so who are they giving face, they are giving money and face.

That's really for the sake of money, so he was given face.

Whether a person is respected by others or not depends on what others think in their hearts. It is to see if other people's hearts really respect you.

However, is it really that you are very successful as a person that can make everyone respect you?

I don't think so, and it must not be.

Many leaders can make many people respect him and respect him, but that is only in person, and he is really valued and respected in person.

However, behind his back, not many people respect him, and they all take him as a joke, and even countless scoldings behind his back.

Because others respect the power in your hands, not the person you are.

starving to death and not eating the food that comes to him, he looks very backbone and admires him, but it is unknown how many people say that he is a fool and a second shortage.

Maybe there are many people who say that he is a backbone person in front of people, but behind the scenes they say that he is a real fool?

Who knows. In short, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, and no one knows so clearly.

As a human being, what really matters is not how much others respect you, but whether you respect yourself.

If you learn to respect yourself, whether you are standing in society or standing in front of nature, you are an independent and powerful man, who can conquer many things, and must know how to get along with others, how to respect others in the same way, just like you respect yourself, then the word respect is really very important.

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