Remarried November 2002

From 2001 to 2002, I was studying at the Sichuan Institute of Dermatology, and was recruited for one year until the end of 2002 because of my outstanding performance. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 infoIf there is no accident at the end of the year, I should go back to work in Rongchangyuan, and I can stay with you every day.

Fate is always playing tricks on people, and it often changes people's lives in an instant.

One night in July 2002, when I returned to Chengdu from visiting you in Rongchang, it was already past 12 o'clock in the evening. Because of the money-saving trucks, there is no bus back to the accommodation after arriving in Chengdu. When I was in a hurry, the plastic bag I was carrying broke again, and the thing fell to the ground. At this time, a taxi drove to the side, which was really timely. The driver is very young, just thirty years old. He got out of the car and handed me a bag and helped me pick up the books on the floor and put them in the bag. When I took the car back to the rental house, the taxi meter showed that it was "21" yuan, and I said casually: "It used to be more than 10 yuan, why is it so expensive today?" Are you taking a detour? ”

The driver didn't say anything, and said, "Then you can give 15 yuan." ”

And such a cheerful person? We talked. His name is "Lian X", a native of Luzhou, who studied hotel management in college. It was a whim that day, helping a friend drive for a while. No wonder he doesn't care about the fare.

That's how we became friends.

One day, he asked me to go to a party with two other friends. I can't remember where we had dinner, but I remember that it was only Duan Xyun when we arrived. After eating for a while, Qin X appeared--this is the man who later became your stepfather. His face was black and red, not very tall, and he was of medium height, and he said that he had just returned from a construction site in Qinghai. He wasn't at all conspicuous next to two handsome men, and I didn't really care about him at first. But as soon as he spoke, I was drawn in. His language is funny and he is very knowledgeable. It was a hot summer day, and he casually rolled up his trouser legs as he spoke, and his demeanor seemed very bold, giving me the impression that he had just arrived from Tibet. I was very impressed by the way he danced and spoke, but I never thought about it.

Later, Qin X took his son Coco to the Skin Research Institute to see the disease twice, Coco was only four years old, and as long as his skin was stained with water droplets, there would be large wheals, which were itchy and unbearable, which was "urticaria". I got a specialist for Cocoa. Because his disease is hereditary, he can only alleviate his symptoms and minimize exposure to water droplets. During this period, I learned that Qin X and his ex-wife had been divorced for two years because of personality differences, and his friends wanted to match us together, but I really didn't have any feelings for him at that time. Until one time when he went to sing with his friends and I was about to get out of the car, he looked at me and smiled and stretched out his hand. He was driving a jeep with a high chassis, so it was natural for me to give him my hand in high heels. The moment we shook hands, I felt that his hand was so warm and strong, and my mind became extremely clear, and I was sure that this person was the person I was looking for, and I could no longer escape his "palm". It wasn't long before we were in a relationship.

After two months of dating, I decided to take him back to Rongchang to meet his parents and you on National Day. If you don't have an opinion, especially you, if you can accept him, then I'm ready to marry him. Qin X has taken great care to choose a set of dark green military models for you, with tanks, chariots, soldiers, and so on. As soon as you see this model, you can't put it down, you like it very much, and you have a lot of fun with him. Grandpa and grandma were also very fond of him.

After dating him for more than two months, I never asked him about his occupation, but I heard from his friends that he was running a small factory, and I didn't ask what he produces. I have never met his family and have never been to his home in the unit. I didn't ask about his financial situation, and I didn't care about any of that. I only asked him to promise one thing: "If we get married, the first thing I will do is to transfer my son's hukou to Chengdu to join me, and he will also come to Chengdu to live with us." ”

He replied, "Yes." But I have to tell you, all I have now is only 7,000 yuan. Are you afraid of suffering in the future? "I don't care, as long as I can be with you, baby, I'm willing to suffer anything. Later, Qin X often made fun of me, saying that I was a stupid daughter-in-law, and I dared to marry him if I didn't know anything about him, and I was not afraid of being sold.

At around 8 p.m. on the day of the National Day, we discussed with our parents and decided to get married in November.

But that night, just over an hour after we had made our decision, your father sent me a text message: "Wait for me to remarry." "Do you say that in fate, your father and I were really enemies in our previous lives?

I was taken aback and immediately replied to him: "How long?" ”

To be honest, I didn't want a divorce at the time, although I still hated him, but the divorce brought you too much pain, and I would rather choose to endure it now, endure his spending and drinking, as long as I keep a complete home for you. Since he wants to remarry, then I also want to give him a chance.

He replied, "Give me a year." ”

"Is it okay for a month?"

He didn't answer.

I sent him one last text message: "If I don't answer for a month, I'll remarry." ”

That night and until that month, I spent it in a state of trepidation. I was both looking forward to it and scared, needless to say, what I was afraid of was that if I really remarried your father, it would be too unfair to Qin X. Will I really easily forgive your father for so many years of betrayal?

A month has passed, and your father has not been heard from, and I have not asked him why. Qin X and I got our marriage certificate at the end of November and lived together. Son, I have done my best, and I have given your father a chance to forgive me.

Later, your father refused to pay for his living expenses, so I refused to allow him to pick you up. He said, "If you don't let your son see me, you will kill your whole family." ”

I really didn't expect him to be such a cruel person, so I asked him, "Then why do you want to remarry me?" ”

"That's a joke on you, do you think you really want to remarry you? Stop dreaming! Is this the person I have known for more than 10 years and loved for 10 years? Is this the person who used to write a diary for me every day and play the guitar for me every day for the sake of pursuit? Is this the guy I've been sleeping with for ten years? Is this the one who has affection and righteousness? I don't believe it either. It's been two years since I got divorced, and he's still playing tricks on me, hurting me, and bullying me! Son, I was really forced by him to want to die with him! If it weren't for you, I would really be desperate for this world!

Fortunately, there is also Qin X, who took in my lonely heart. I heard that his family did not approve of his marriage to me, and he only informed his parents after stealing the household registration book and completing the marriage formalities with me. There were no proposals, no wedding dresses, no weddings, no blessings, and we lived an ordinary life. After I married him, I moved my hukou to his hukou through the talent introduction mechanism in Chengdu. He also kept his promise and asked me to transfer your household registration as soon as possible and let you enter the kindergarten in Chengdu before the start of school next year.

Son, writing this, I don't know if you understand anything. Men must have a sense of responsibility, and never hurt women, especially those who have loved each other, otherwise they will be no different from animals.

Daddy Qin (that's what you started calling him after we got married) - I didn't just choose him for myself, but more for you. I want you to have a complete home, I want you to feel fatherly love, and I want you to learn from him the qualities of integrity and bravery, to be a real man, not a playboy who does not show off his face. I want you to be a responsible man for your family, not a negative man who makes the people who love him sad.

Son, mom believes that you can be a man who stands up to the sky!