Chapter 15 Learning Attitudes

Learning Attitudes 2007

My dear baby, this year is your third grade. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info You are growing up gradually, and your mother is getting old day by day, this is the natural law of life, and I am very pleased to be able to grow up with you.

You continue to study and take exams, and you passed the third level for the first time in the bamboo flute exam, and your mother is proud of you.

In your studies, you are especially good at writing essays. Your homeroom teacher, Mr. Xiao, has published your essay in every issue of the class newspaper. From your article, it can be seen that you are a simple, kind, and lovely boy, as well as a sensitive and emotionally delicate boy. For example, you will pray for a wounded pigeon, and you will cry for the abused little flower cat. In the essay, you still imagine lying on the prairie with your mother counting the stars and singing. My dear darling, how I love you!

In the third grade, in addition to composition, you have begun to study the Analects. You have to recite one of these passages almost every day. But my mother found that you seemed to be completing the task assigned by the teacher, and you didn't want to understand the meaning at all. Take "Reviewing the old and learning the new, you can be a teacher." "Let's talk about this sentence, before you do your homework every day, your mother tells you to review the day's homework first, and then preview tomorrow's homework after completing your homework, and write down any questions in the notebook to ask the teacher. But you never listened. Every day, I do my homework according to what I remember that day, and I don't care about it if I can't afford it, and sometimes I write a wrong answer there. This phenomenon is particularly prominent in math homework. Your teacher's mother has heard it in her open class, and indeed, Mr. Xiao is very knowledgeable and witty, and he is indeed very popular with students, so you have to be more relaxed in linguistics. And the math teacher Zhang's lectures are relatively boring, which makes people want to sleep. Mom understands you, but she can't agree with your attitude towards learning. You are a student who is too emotional, and if you pin all your studies on your likes and dislikes of teachers, it is impossible for every teacher to satisfy you. It's safe to say that most teachers won't be happy with you in the future, so why should you give up studying? Originally, studying was hard, and we all came through like this. Since ancient times, where has there been such a saying that it is easy to learn? Mom told you the story of "the head hangs over the beam, the cone pierces the stock" in ancient times, isn't it the best illustration?

When you are studying, you have to go to the bathroom two or three times an hour and drink water once or twice. You run from the study to the living room, pretending to drink water, wanting to see what we're doing. After saying a few times and not listening, we made a rule for you: before you finish your homework, you can only go to the bathroom once and drink water once. Since then, the situation has changed slightly. This is my mother's only regret, that is, I didn't urge you to form a good study habit, and we are all responsible.

Baby, Mom wants you to not only memorize, but also appreciate the truth of the Analects. "Forget to eat with anger, forget to worry with pleasure, and don't know that old age is coming." "I don't get tired of eating, and I don't get tired of eating." "A gentleman is a gentleman, and he is born from the beginning." "I have three times a day, and I have to save my body." "See the virtuous and think together, see the unvirtuous and introspect." "Learn and learn, don't you say." "If you want to do a good job, you must first sharpen your tools." "If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan." "The gentleman is frank, and the villain is a relative." "If you don't learn poetry, you can't speak." "Sensitive and studious, not ashamed to ask." "If you want to hurry, you can't reach it, and if you see small profits, you can't do big things." There are too many, and every sentence contains the great truth of life. Mom wants you to be a kind person, but also to learn more and become a person who contributes to society!

I hope you will always keep the habit of reading the Analects! I also hope that you will change your bad study habits, "be a gentleman", and be a man who "knows and is not confused, benevolent is not worried, and the brave are not afraid"!

P.S. Your Essay - Dad, Mom, I want to say to you

Mom, Dad, I want to say to you

Mom and Dad, I want to say something to you.

Thank you so much for raising me for so many years. Maybe Mom, you were worried about how your divorce from my dad would affect me, but it wasn't. I think it makes me stronger and more fearless. In fact, when I first came to Chengdu when I was 4 years old, I still remember that night because I touched the DVD player at home, Qin's father came out with a clothes pole and beat my hand. I chased after Qin's father and hit him in the stomach, I really used all my strength to fight at that time, and I really wanted to hit this "demon" into the sky. But my father's strength was so great that he pushed me to the ground and pushed the door away. At the time, I hated my mom so much. I wonder why my mother found me such a father, and I really wanted to chase him out with a knife or shoot him with an Ultraman laser. At that time, I was really powerless and helpless. Later, what my dad did was even more incomprehensible to me. When I was 4 years old, of course, I couldn't take a shower, and I was afraid of water getting into my nose when I washed my hair. Every time I wash my hair, I also need the help of my grandparents. I still remember the first time my dad helped me take a bath, I asked him not to rush, he promised well, but suddenly he took a shower and rushed it in my face. At that time, the strong momentum made me dizzy, and I couldn't move around in the toilet, I hated my mother at that time, why did you hand me over to such a "demon" father? At that time, I was so scared and helpless.

However, I did not fall into the clutches of the devil, but I was a life coach who benefited me for the rest of my life. The second time I took a bath, I found that the water rushing to my head had become less scary. The third time, the fourth time, and again and again, I was not afraid of bathing. After a few months, I was able to go into battle on my own and clean myself. This was the first thing my dad taught me to go from dependence to independence. Mom and Dad, you also taught me how to serve food, how to be polite to my family properly, and how to eat. Although my father's "pineapple hand" would still teach me a lesson from time to time, and I would cry bitterly, before I knew it, I was already growing.

Dad, I want to say to you, what I loved most at that time was to get in my father's jeep, watching my father drive through an intersection, and the clutch and accelerator on his feet changed again and again, and the sound seemed to be wonderful when I think about it now. Since then, cars have become an indispensable hobby in my life. Ha ha! Recently, I've been working on horsepower and power, but it's a bit difficult for the time being. However, I believe that soon I will figure out the relationship between them. Thanks to my father's strict family education, otherwise how could I be like this?

Thank you mom and dad, I love you!