Yesterday I slept in a daze and heard a prompt sound.,I saw that it was the space you posted.,Like it and then fell asleep again.。 Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

I saw a lot of feelings when I brushed the space during the day, in fact, there were words that I shouldn't have said, and I didn't need to say it, but I couldn't help it, maybe this is the feeling for a person's heart!

I'm not confessing or anything like that, I just can't help but want to say it, and it's all the truth, and I understand that the truth hurts people, and it's good for action.

I see that you have a strong optimism in space, but under optimism, you are infinitely pessimistic, I don't know why you are so pessimistic? I don't know what you've been through. I wasn't qualified to ask, but there were some things I couldn't help but say.

People can live with an optimistic attitude, but they must not live too optimistically, because there are really not so many optimistic things happening in reality, otherwise there will not be so much chicken soup for the soul.

I know I'm talking about metaphysical things, and you don't like to hear them, but sometimes that's what happened!

We don't agree with metaphysical words, but the current situation of society is metaphysical, including marriage! Before marriage, people have to go through the metaphysical form, and then they can live that real life.

I don't know why I said this, I was going to say that it wasn't.

What I want to say is sister, if you still want to get married, then you have to go on a blind date, don't set up too many obstacles and temptations when you meet someone you like, you don't need to chase others, as long as you don't resist too much.

Maybe you will say that you can't control yourself, you have a love impotence disorder, you still want love, otherwise what if you are a scumbag? What if it hurts you again? I've already experienced one injury and I don't want to experience another one.

I can't help you like this, but what I can say is that the people who love you will not insist on chasing you with perseverance, chasing you without return, this is not possible.

The person who loves you is destined to only chase you for a while, because love will still appear, and the other party must still believe in love, and love is not something that can be chased for a long time.

Love happens in an instant, maybe we don't say it, but we don't say it for a long time, but love is where it is!

The love that can be caught up is not called love, then I like it, because I like each other, so we are together.

But if you like this thing, it will become, when the other party chases you for a long time before you get you, then when he gets it, he will inevitably ask for it even harder, and when the demand reaches a certain level, he will dump you. Because there is a better woman, a woman who is easier than chasing you, who has fallen in love with him.

In other words, a man who chases you for a long time without asking for anything in return, what does he want? Plato? There is only one possibility for a man who can escape Plato, and that is a married man.

A single man may be in love with a woman for several years without touching each other, but no man will spend years chasing a woman he can't catch up.

The second male on TV is all fantasized, and if there is, it is also one in a million, if you have him in your life, he must have appeared early, didn't he?

You can look at the people around you, and a few of them have been chased by their men for a long time before they catch up, most of them are you and me, come out to play, eat, watch movies, and then feel that it is okay to be together.

Instead of saying once and then not next time, oh! Of course, someone can pass it after meeting once, like me.

What I want to say is that if you meet someone you like, you can try to contact a few more times, the Internet, the phone is not able to communicate feelings, because they are virtual, only when you meet is real, can you collide with the spark of love.

Like the Internet and the phone, it will only deepen the relationship, turn the person you love into an online friend such as a girlfriend, and then a stranger, because we are a little unscrupulous in the virtual, and the consequence of being unscrupulous is that there is no feeling of love.

There may be pessimism under your cloak of optimism, but if you try to accept it, sit down and think quietly, or immerse yourself in it, you will find that optimism is everywhere.

Of course, you said that you are sensitive to blind dates, and I remember what you said to me, so let's find one myself!

People say that things gather like people in groups, and most of the friends around you are similar to you, you can find one according to their husband's appearance, of course, not randomly, at least both parties have feelings, and the other party has to take the initiative.

Maybe you will also say, I am too lazy to look for it, I want to sit back and wait for fate to come.

I have to say sister, do you know, you are spoiled by this society, they say that the rise of women's rights, we women don't have to rely on men, we women must find a man we love, we must be good to ourselves, we must be willing to spend money on ourselves.

I don't ask him to spend 10,000 yuan on me, but he has 100 and he has to spend 99 on me?

Scold! A man has a hundred dollars and must give you ninety-nine, so what will he take to marry you? Let all his parents out?

You said that you want your parents to hold their heads up in front of the neighbors, and the enviable man is your husband, then this man must at least have a suite in Puyang or Fan County! Gotta have a car! You have to have a decent job! Let's not talk about the bride price.

Are there many such people? Actually, it's a lot, but if you don't like to hear it, you don't think you're older. Oh! Of course, you can also find a divorced man.

It's not to curse you, but the reality is like this, if you want to find a rich and handsome, hehe! How many rich and handsome people are there in China, how many are rich and handsome at the right age, and how many can be liked by you, calculate this ratio, one in a million is not much. But are you one of the millions?

It's a bit pessimistic, but that's the reality!

Of course, you can also find a younger one, twenty years old.

My colleague too, your wife is five or six years older than him, the key is that his father ran away with someone, and his mother couldn't resist him, but after getting married, he was and Meimei.

Have you ever thought that when you are fifty years old, he is only forty years old, and forty years old men are when they are infinitely attractive, can you guarantee that you will still be so charming and moving when you are fifty years old? How can you make sure he doesn't mess with the flowers?

Twenty years, the children are older, and there is no scruple about divorce!

I'm so pessimistic, I'm sorry! Didn't you say these things on purpose, didn't hit you, didn't lead your pessimistic emotions to pop out, but just suddenly wanted to say them?

In fact, the most important thing is sister, find a man who is not bad, the most important thing is to marry a man who loves you!

If you really want to be celibate for the rest of your life, how can you go on a blind date? For so many nights, have you ever thought about being accompanied by someone?

Recently, I realized that people who like you see your strengths, people who love you see your shortcomings, people who love you will not leave because of your shortcomings, he will tolerate all your shortcomings, because you have shortcomings, he loves you so deeply.

Therefore, in ancient times, there was a saying that men love women, that is, men should like a woman, and women should love a man, so that life can be harmonious.

Nowadays, society is different, and it is going to be reversed.

A man loves a woman, and women only need to like this man, and their life is happy and perfect.

I'm sorry, I don't want to please people, let alone you, but I'm afraid that if I hold it in my heart for a long time, I won't even have a chance to say it.

Finally, I'm sorry to disturb your life again.

It's not what I want, I just can't control myself.

I'm not a flamboyant person, I just tried to be optimistic, but I failed.

I'm sorry.