Chapter 241

However, now, when the weather gradually became colder, thinking of her mother's purchase of clothes for herself, Yun Shanshan's heart immediately gave birth to countless indescribable warmth. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 Not long ago, my mother called and said that she had bought a down jacket for her. Yun Shanshan was a little worried that the style would be too flashy or different. However, because it is a senior year of high school and it is also a very busy day, it is obviously not time to buy clothes by yourself. Moreover, Yun Shanshan sometimes feels very strange, it seems that her mother does not realize that she has grown up. Growing up, it seemed to be the task of parents to feed you, and until you had no financial income, even your people were theirs, and they had the power to decide everything, including clothing.

Yun Shanshan is not a person who is picky about clothes, and she is not the kind of person who is picky about clothes as the elders say in legend. According to the traditional view, it seems that children who go to school should not be picky about clothing, but should be what their parents buy and wear. This is the traditional model, the elders for the younger generation. It seems that those who are picky about clothing are the kind of people who like to eat and drink all day long, and are bad children in the eyes of their elders. It seems that those who are picky about clothing are people who have a strong sense of vanity and like to compare beauty with others. But Yun Shanshan felt that this was not the case.

Yun Shanshan feels that qualified parents are not only the kind of parents who meet the children's food needs, but sometimes, they should also pay attention to the psychological state of some children. For example, for girls, when it comes to getting dressed, buying clothes, you have to respect their ideas when they are old enough to disagree with you. Sometimes, children are either too vain, or you are too vain. Many things, difficult to say, put in the relationship between the elders and the juniors, it seems that the domineering elders, in a word, the elders for your good, don't pick fat and thin before you can be independent in front of such high-sounding words, how the juniors suffer are speechless, and finally have to praise the love of the great elders.

Yun Shanshan thinks that if she becomes an elder, she will definitely pay attention to the child's thoughts, if it is a child's business, she must learn to let the child make his own decisions, if the child grows up in an atmosphere that has no right to decide anything, such a child, you are harming him. However, many elders are always ignorant and ignorant, and using a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, honoring the elders, and not disobeying can completely deprive the younger generations of any power in front of them spiritually. Yun Shanshan felt that this theory was very harmful.

However, parents are always innocent.

Yun Shanshan doesn't like this kind of ignorant parents, this kind of parents who are often moved to tears every time they think of their children, that is a failed parent. Yun Shanshan believes that when she grows up, she should let her children not be moved to tears when they think of themselves and any care they have paid, not like Zhu Ziqing's back and cry in the face of her father's old back. Yun Shanshan felt that when she grew up, she must let her children not cry, but laugh when they think of themselves.

Parents should give their children a strong, optimistic, and independent character, give them upward motivation, and give them the habit of smiling on any occasion in life. Don't be that moved, too heavy, too heavy。。。。。。

But now, the weather is getting colder, Yun Shanshan thinks of the time when her mother bought a down jacket for herself, her heart is full of indescribable feelings, she feels very warm, but she also feels embarrassed about her rebellious thoughts about her mother, almost in an instant, Yun Shanshan's eyes blurred. To be honest, Yun Shanshan herself doesn't know why her eyes are blurry, many things, many feelings, if expressed in words, may be a long story, and there may be too many things in it.

Exploring a little, the root cause of Yun Shanshan's blurred tears depends on, one is moved, the second is self-blame, and the third is completely compromised in front of the love of her parents. In this kind of touching, Yun Shanshan felt that she had given up the instinctive power that she wanted because she had grown up, that is, the right to decorate for herself. At this moment, when her heart warmed, Yun Shanshan gave up all the power she wanted. And all this, Yun Shanshan didn't even realize it so clearly. She only knew that she was in tears, that she was moved, and that she blamed herself.

Isn't it? Mother has done so many things for herself and paid so much, deep down in Yun Shanshan's heart, what qualifications does she have to rebel. She needs to accept it, because her parents have given too much for herself.

And all this seems to be doomed, Yun Shanshan will forever give up the power to take the initiative to decorate herself in this life. However, Yun Shanshan didn't understand this at that time, and she didn't realize what she would do in the future. Now, she's just moved。。。。。。。

Walking on the road of the campus, the weather that was getting colder and colder made Yun Shanshan speed up her pace, however, it seemed that this day would never be quiet. Just when Yun Shanshan was just moved by the down jacket that her mother bought for herself, she heard another person's voice not far behind her, and almost didn't have to look back, Yun Shanshan heard it, the person who spoke was Li Jie.

To be honest, Yun Shanshan doesn't want to meet anyone now, and on this day, Yun Shanshan feels that she has experienced too much, and it seems that she can cover the story of the next year. However, a lot of times, that's how things tend to be. Either it's okay, it's been a long time since there was a thing. Either something happens, or something comes on the same day. Just like today, Yun Shanshan feels that she has experienced too much, from Zhou Ruoran, to the proprietress and sister in the shop, as well as Liu Ban and Zhang Ban and their own grievances, and now, Li Jie has appeared again.

To be honest, what Yun Shanshan wants to do most now is not to talk to anyone, but to go back to the dormitory, cover her head and sleep. However, Li Jie chased after him from behind like this, calling his name like this, and Yun Shanshan had a very good impression of Li Jie, she didn't want Li Jie to have some bad thoughts, so she turned around, looked at Li Jie and asked, "Li Jie, it's you, is there something wrong?" ”

"No, I just wanted to walk with you." Li Jie said simply.

"Oh, that's right." Yun Shanshan responded, "It's not too early now, I really want to go back to the dormitory soon." ”