Chapter 268: The Essence of a Man's Heart
[Chapter 2, Volume 2]
Chapter 269 Chapter 268 The essence of a man's heart
It's definitely a temptation! Although today's society can see it, how can anyone be generous enough to be willing to set up two or three rooms for her husband, at most, she chooses to turn a blind eye and turn a blind eye, not to mention Lu Qing, who is still so conservative!
Facing his trance, she seemed to see his psychological changes, but she didn't rush to answer his urgent question, but said with a smile: "Look at you pretending here, do you still want me to explain the meaning of the big house?" Don't you even want to give me the place in the big house? ā
"No, no, no! Qing'er! What are you talking about? He grabbed her hand, "I'll marry you in my life, why do you even doubt me about this?" ā
"Hehe", she laughed, but quickly revealed a trace of sadness from her eyes: "Actually, I sometimes wonder if my mother chose to take me away from my father resolutely, is it because my mother is too strong in her bones, if it is not so absolute, just turn a blind eye to my father, will the result be better!" ā
"Why do you think that?" His heart fluttered, but he didn't dare to show his true emotions, but frowned: "Do you think that there will not be a single-minded man in this world?" ā
She smiled suddenly, but slightly bitter: "I really don't believe what you said!" Actually, I believed it at first, I thought that even if other men couldn't do it wholeheartedly, my beloved dad would definitely be able to do it! As a result, my father's empathy and love caused this belief of mine to collapse completely! Later, the ideas that my mother instilled in me every day confirmed this. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć infoThere is no cat in this world that does not steal fishy children, and men are expected not to pay attention, unless the sun hits the west and comes out! Even after reconciling with my father, I asked him this question, and he did not deny it. Before coming to you, he also told me to support your work in an all-round way, and don't worry too much about some small problems in life! As long as a man has a family in his heart, being too demanding can only backfire! ā
"That's what the old man said?" When he heard this, his hands trembled.
Ah! Or how can I say that Mr. Lu chose himself as the ultimate successor, he really cherishes each other, and he thinks the same thing.
She blinked, "Yes! That's what Dad said! So, I thought, don't you care too much about you. You men are all flowery turnips, for you can only be sparse, not blocked, just like Dayu to control the water, let it be, maybe better. Blindly forced to press, but instead become a flood beast, it must collapse! ā
When he heard this, he wanted to jump up and shout, "Oops! Qing'er! You're so sensible! That's it, if women were as sensible as you, there wouldn't be so many family conflicts! ā
However, he only thought so, but did not dare to do it. He had a faint feeling that the reason why Lu Qing said this was because she was still relatively innocent, and she wanted to prevent herself from becoming her father in the future, and to put it bluntly, she still wanted to maintain the family she was about to form with herself, which was just a better wish.
But if she really reveals her true thoughts in this regard, once she knows, she, who has hated flowery men since she was a child, really finds out that she has had affairs with many women, which makes her good wishes come to naught, then this marriage is on the verge of despair, and she will do something more decisive than her mother.
So, he slowed down his tone and said softly: "Qing'er! You may be right about one thing, which is that some things don't need to be absolute! For example, what you said about sparseness and blockage, it is very wise. But I think there is no need to be so absolute, even men are not attentive and do not go out to stick flowers and grass! Or even if every man is attentive, he must have strong self-control ability to always be family-oriented and single-minded! ā
There was a gleam in her eyes: "Is this what you really think?" Do you really think so? ā
"That's right! That's what I think! He nodded, but quickly shifted the subject, "Of course! To be able to do this, in addition to requiring men to have enough concentration, they also have very high requirements for women! ā
"Oh?" Her face no longer had the sad look just now, although there were still some doubts, but there was already a lot of joy: "There are still requirements for us women, you can talk about it, as long as it is not too much, it is no problem to promise you!" ā
He smiled lightly: "Actually, it's very simple, home is very important, what is needed is not only the steadfastness of men, but also the understanding and support of women." Because home is shared by two people, both need to pay and manage, right? ā
"Hmmm! That's a good point! She deeply agreed: "Sometimes I also think that the separation of my parents and not necessarily my father's responsibility to get to this point. Maybe my mother's character is too strong, and she doesn't give her father a chance to make up for it, which will lead to such a regretful ending! ā
"yes!" He hugged her lightly: "You don't have to blame the past too much! It is possible that your mother later wanted to forgive your father, but things changed and it was difficult to turn back, so she could only end up depressed. In fact, it may not be the previous mistakes that may be difficult to let go of in the end, but the difficulty of letting go of the feelings itself! ā
"Hey, hey!" She tapped his forehead with her fingertips: "I can't see it, you actually realized a philosophy!" This should be something that only people who have been married for many years can experience! Are you hiding that I've been married to someone else for many years? ā
"Oh?" In the face of her questioning, he neither evaded nor denied it, but chose another very clever way: "Are you talking about the marriage between the two of us in our last life?" If it were to be reincarnated until now, it would have been nearly a hundred years, right? ā
"Phew!" Her face turned red all of a sudden: "Who was the same as you in the last life?" ā
"What? Don't you want to be with me in your last life? He deliberately laughed wickedly: "Oh! That's right! I remember when we grew old together in the last life, your head seemed to be caught in the door, so you forgot all about the previous life! ā
"Your head just got caught in the door!" She laughed, "By the way, not only did you get your head caught in the door, but you were kicked by a donkey!" ā
He deliberately pretended to be stupid: "It's really! I also forgot, when we were together in our last life, were you a man or am I a man, did you chase me or did I chase you? ā
"Flutter!" She couldn't help laughing: "Of course you're chasing me!" Whether I'm a man or a woman, it's you who chase me! ā
"Okay!" He nodded helplessly: "It seems that those men and women just said in vain!" ā
"That's not for nothing!" She shook her head desperately: "The last life is the thing of the previous life, and this life is the thing of this life." Men and women in this life are still clearly divided, so ah, I still have to abide by the requirements you just said for women, in addition to the joint operation of the two, is there anything special for me? ā
He deliberately made a straight face: "Hmm! That's pretty much it! I was only halfway through what I said before you interrupted me! ā
"Haha!" She smiled brightly: "Then you can say it quickly!" As long as you are reasonable and say that Miss Ben is happy, you will be allowed to marry a two-bedroom and three-bedroom person! ā
"Really?" His eyes widened, and he almost couldn't believe his ears, but only in a blink of an eye, he still straightened his expression and continued to play a serious role: "Actually, the most important thing for you is to understand and trust me!" As you know, in our business, many times you can't help yourself. It's not an excuse to be a big carrot, but it's true! For me, what is needed is trust that comes from the deepest part of your heart, because you may face a lot of illusions. For example, which female colleague I am with, or which female friend I am with, but as soon as someone else says it, it becomes me sticking flowers and grass outside. Another example is that some people who have a good idea of what to do find a way to take pictures, and even synthesize some imaginary photos and videos to show you, the purpose is to provoke you. If you get angry or even angry, then the two of us will fall for their tricks! ā
"That won't be! I'm not that stupid! She waved her hand again and again: "Don't worry! If I hadn't seen it with my own eyes, I wouldn't have believed it......"
"Even if you see it with your own eyes, can you guarantee that it must be true?" He sneered: "Someone has set up a game, just waiting for you to drill in, you don't know how dark it is, how many calculations are unguardable!" Let me tell you this, you have been in Beijing for a long time, relatively formal, and you may not understand the reality of our cities and counties. A few years ago, in Qingshui City, next to Xijing City, there was a county called Luohe, and the new secretary of the county party committee had just arrived. This secretary is also young, and he didn't think too much about it, and he wanted to leave everyone with the impression of being admonished, so he politely let her into the house. And guess what, as soon as the female cadre entered the house, she locked the door from the inside, then tore her clothes and began to scream 'indecent manners'! ā
"Oh my God! And such a thing? She was stunned, her eyes widening.
"Humph!" He remained silent and squeezed a smile out of his nose: "What do you think? This is the real thing! ā
She hurriedly asked, "Then what happened to this secretary?" ā
He sighed: "How's it going! On the third day, he rolled up and went home, although the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee finally considered that he must have been framed and did not punish him, but so what, on the ground of Luohe, he was a stinky street anyway! I don't think he will ever set foot on this land again in another ten years! ā
"Oops!" She also sighed: "This power field you are engaged in is really a veritable place of right and wrong!" ā
He blinked his eyes and released the killer plan that he had planned a long time ago: "You said, if you are the daughter-in-law of the county party secretary, you happened to be arranged in front of the locked office door at this time. As soon as the door opens, even if you see it with your own eyes, what about it? ā