Chapter 197

Now, sitting beside the woman, Yun Shanshan felt as if she was a little distracted. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 Info was like this because she wasn't used to sitting like that. In the past, Yun Shanshan always felt that she belonged to the kind of character who was managed. From kindergarten to high school, isn't it? As a student, you have to be managed.

The kindergarten is relatively free, and you can walk around as you like. And once I go to elementary school and sit in the classroom, everything becomes a kind of disciplined program. Every day, I need to sit in the classroom class by class, only after class is the time to let go, any bit of my own thing, Yun Shanshan feels that almost any bit of detail is arranged, it seems that her whole person is not her own, nor does it belong to herself, it just belongs to something called society.

Although in the school, whether it is the teachers or students of the school, or even the employees who sweep the floor and wipe the desks in it, they will always unconsciously draw a clear line between the campus and the society when they speak. In speech, in words, it often appears, what is going on in school, and what is going on in society. It seems that the water, soil and wind of this school, blowing out and growing, are all clear wind and clear water. And in society, it is all turbidity and mud. However, in fact, Yun Shanshan feels that the school and society cannot be separated at all, in fact, the school is one of the places in society, and it is not a juxtaposition with society, but a relationship with society.

Therefore, since Yun Shanshan entered the school, or in her own life experience, she thinks that she has always been in a position of being controlled. Even in normal times, I just sit in my seat, and then raise my head, look up, and look at the explanations of all kinds of high-ranking teachers with serious expressions, or seriousness, or so on. And only those who listen carefully are considered good students.

All along, Yun Shanshan and almost all the students in the class have been trying to make themselves a good student, even those who seem to be a little stubborn or rebellious, the kind of subconscious things in their bones, Yu Shanshan thinks is the same as herself.

People who have always been in a position of discipline are nervous and uneasy when they are given freedom, or rather, when they are allowed to stand on the podium and face something, to face something that looks up at them.

Since ancient times, people have had a saying, and this saying is that they are very disgusted with the kind of people who have servility in their character. People hate slaves, hate slaves, and always feel that slaves are the kind of villains who want their own interests, and then they don't even want self-esteem and dignity. This is what people say about the slave, or rather, the servility of the slave.

But Yun Shanshan thinks that this seems to be a bit unreasonable, in fact, since ancient times, people have a very strong emotion in the concept of slave, and the so-called emotional, that is, what you think is good, like, it is right, what you think is bad, what you don't like, what you hate, what you hate, it is bad. Any characterization of external things depends on the speaker's personal preferences and emotions. The concept of the so-called slave and the speech, or definition, should correct this.

Servility has long been nailed into the bone marrow in people's character, and when people characterize any thing, according to their own preferences, their own faction, and whether others are good or bad to themselves, they can slander or elevate a thing that is actually the same in their bones.

When servility is still servile, the object of rebuke is a slave, a mercenary villain. When servility is recognized and loved, it is defined as heartfelt or loyal, or even old-fashioned. Everything is based on the speaker's personal preferences, personal feelings, personal feelings, and the root of this feeling is often whether you are good to me or bad to me. You, are you good for me or bad for me. In the end, the root of any emotional discourse is often a word, personal feelings, and the root of personal feelings is often a word, which is selfishness.

Therefore, there are some things that Yun Shanshan has seen very thoroughly.

For example, when a person's mouth is splashed and he is emotionally confused about others, these words may sound very reasonable, as if the sparrow who can call is very aggrieved, and the stupid person generally pursues the principle that the birds that can cry have food, and the stupid leader generally satisfies the birds that can call first, thinking that they are very hurt, and listens to their words, and increases the blow to the side they say.

But Yun Shanshan thinks that it is the behavior of a stupid leader who does bad things and does wrong things. The more you can scream as a really smart leader, it means that the more arrogant you are, the more you value your own interests, the more you are unwilling to pay, and the more you are wronged, it also shows that you are a narrow-minded person who can't tolerate others. And the one that has been said by you and has not fought back against you is often not because they are at a loss, but because they are generous. However, people who have been silent seem to be just told by others, and there are generally two kinds of people, one of whom is a hermit who is really generous, looks down on you in his heart, and directly lets you say it, and puts everything aside. This kind of hermit naturally has to suffer a lot of losses in reality, but it is a small loss, and they will not take it to heart, and their life will still be stable. The second is that if you don't care about it in person, you will also try to win over this kind of character behind your back, and when the time comes, I will show you who is powerful. This is the second way of life for people who are very sharp in officialdom and interpersonal relationships. And the third kind is the kind of straightforward people who don't have enough IQ, but they are not open-minded enough, they know that they can't talk about you, so they directly do something bad for you behind your back, but these are simple and straightforward things that are easy to understand, and in the end, will make you more straightforward to scold the street, for example, pour dung on your door, poke off the tires of your bicycle, etc., etc., when the time comes, when you scold the street again, he will still be silent, and he will do it when he has time in the future.

Therefore, Yun Shanshan feels that there are all kinds of people in this world. Many things, many things, are not as simple and straightforward as they seem on the surface, and many gains and losses are not what they seem on the surface. Many people's good or bad is definitely not what they appear to be.

But there is one sentence that will never be wrong, that is, the road knows the horsepower and sees the hearts of the people over time.