This year, the Jia family has been extremely busy.

After the end of the first month, Rongguofu began to start three marriages.

In February, Li Kun first passed through the door and married Jia Zhu. Mrs. Wang finally has a helper.

In March, Wang Xifeng passed the door, and Lian's second grandmother was freshly baked. Wang Xifeng is very familiar with the affairs of the Jia family, and after she passed the door, Mrs. Wang handed over many things to her. I was finally able to spare a little time to conduct a pre-marital education for Yuanchun.

The wedding date of Yuan Chun and Shui Xiao was set for late April. The wedding date is a bit urgent, after all, Shui Xiao is twenty-one years old. Under normal circumstances, when the royal children reach the age of twenty-one, the children can make soy sauce!

The focus of Mrs. Wang's premarital education is how to choose a bride girl.

The undercurrent of the girl's mother-in-law and the housekeeper has been surging for a few months, and they have been washed by the two happy events of Jia Zhu and Jia Lian, and the undercurrent has gradually eased. Now, all the tongues that should be laid have been laid, and those who should be reported and exposed have also been reported and exposed.

Mrs. Wang has listened to small words and black materials for several months, and she already knows who to choose as a dowry.

But Mrs. Wang did not directly determine the list of dowries, but avoided everyone and had a secret conversation with Yuan Chun alone.

"The people who accompany the room are mainly to help you take care of the property of the dowry, usher in the delivery, and do all kinds of errands outside. How to pick this kind of person, you know better than me, I won't say more. ”

Mrs. Wang brought over the criteria for selecting a companion room, and focused on the criteria for selecting a bride girl: "What really matters is what kind of bride girl to choose!" The girl who marries is going to serve your aunt with you. It's too glamorous! If she puts such a little goblin by her side to serve, she will go around in front of her uncle all day long, and it is difficult to ensure that her uncle will not be seduced. At that time, if you want to deal with these little goblins, your uncle will be anxious with you. Even if the appearance is too inferior, it will not work. Men like beautiful girls, if the girl around you is full of crooked melons and cracked dates, he looks unsightly, he won't want to come to the main house, and he may even look at you and feel that it is an eyesore. If you need a marrying girl to win your uncle's heart, there is no suitable candidate. Therefore, the appearance of this dowry girl is better to be a little above average. ”

Yuan Chun nodded: It makes sense!

Mrs. Wang took a sip of tea and said, "In terms of temperament, the dowry girl can't be strong and sharp." This kind of girl will be restless when she puts her around. If you exalt her, she will be triumphant and think that she is superior. When her wings are stiff in the future, she may want to say goodbye to you and compete for the level. If you exalt someone else, she will be angry in her heart, sowing discord and causing trouble. The dowry girl can't pick the city too deeply, or be too outspoken. People who are too deep in the city are afraid that you will not be able to control it, and you will be troubled by raising tigers. People who are too outspoken and fast-talking are easy to offend people, and they may invite you to cause trouble at any time, and you don't know why......"

After summarizing the N temperaments that cannot be used as a dowry girl, Mrs. Wang said that there are other N types that cannot be used as a dowry girl.

Yuan Chun listened with relish: her job as a dowry girl is not only highly competitive, but also very demanding! She was very suspicious, in such a big place as Jiafu, she could find a few dowry girls who matched Mrs. Wang?

Sure enough, the more promising the job, the harder it is to get started!

After Mrs. Wang finished speaking, she leaned into Yuan Chun's ear again and asked in a low voice: "With your medical skills, you may be able to see which girls can have children and which girls can't naturally have children?" ”

Yuan Chun nodded: "Yes!" ”

"That's good!" A smile appeared on the corner of Mrs. Wang's mouth, "I have already selected more than a dozen girls to come out." Wait a minute, you can see if any of these girls can't have children. If there is, it will be selected first as a dowry girl; If not, two or three places will be vacated, just saying that the girls in the house are useless, let's buy them outside...... After you pass the door, let these wedding girls who can't have children make a room for their uncle! ”

Yuan Chun opened his mouth wide and looked at Mrs. Wang: Wow...... This trick is really amazing! Choosing infertility to do intercourse is simply a salary draw from the bottom of the kettle!

"Don't look at me like that!" Mrs. Wang glared at her, "We don't harm anyone, we just make good use of your medical skills, what's wrong?!" Those girls who can't naturally give birth to children are married to be a husband and wife, and they also have to worry about their heirs. It's better to let them go with you to have a room, one is to reward them with a wealth and the other to solve your worries. After you pass through the door, when you are young or when you are pregnant and cannot serve, you will ask them to wait for your aunt. In this way, you can buy time, don't let the concubine be born in front of the concubine. ”

Yuan Chun was a little embarrassed in his heart: Okay! It seems that she hasn't told Mrs. Wang about her "master rules"?

What to do? The cheap lady is now racking her brains to help her calculate the matter of the concubine's intercourse, not to mention that she seems to be a little sorry for her......

However, the emperor had clearly asked for secrecy! If she told the cheap lady about it, would her psychological pressure be even greater?

When Yuan Chun pondered this in his heart, Mrs. Wang said again: "For those aunts who have a room, you have to set the rules at the beginning. and he that is honest and obedient to thee, thou shalt be generous to him; If you pinch the tip to be strong, and your eyes only look at your uncle, you will find an opportunity to knock it and put on small shoes for her for a few days. That way, it won't be long before those aunts will know what kind of person you like. Even if they are not like that, they will slowly learn to be like that, or try to pretend to be like that, and you will be clearer under your nose.

"If there is one who disobeys the discipline, you cannot stay, as long as you find her short child, you can take the opportunity to send it away. If this disobedient person is very pleasing to your uncle for a while, you don't have to rush to start, just endure it first, or support someone to fight with her. When she doesn't please her uncle so much, you will find an opportunity to attack, or sow discord, or borrow a knife to kill people, or drive tigers and wolves, or invite you into the urn...... If you can't deal with her like this, then she is your great enemy in life, and you can only endure it to the death, and then slowly figure it out. I don't know exactly how to do it......"

Yuan Chun, who was still thinking about "whether to say it", couldn't help but listen to it, and had a strange feeling in his heart.

Although Mrs. Wang may not understand many theories, her method of exploring from practice, although it is still a little rough, has won the essence of dog training and the essence of the art of war!

Her method of teaching her aunt to have sex is like training a dog!

When Mrs. Wang saw that she listened carefully, she was happy in her heart, and deeply felt that her son could be taught! He poured out his heart and lungs more and more, and said nothing: "For these people who have sex with your aunt, you can use any means, but there is a bottom line that must not be broken!" The bottom line is: don't hurt people's lives, and don't murder your children. One: harming people's lives and plotting to kill their heirs hurts the yin owl, and I am afraid that there will be retribution after all; Second: Can you do such a thing yourself? He must command men to do it. How do you know if the person you are directing is reliable or not? Will he take this handle and bite you back? Besides, there is no impermeable wall in this world, and it is only a matter of time before the wind leaks. If the truth is found out, you will never turn over! ”

Yuan Chun couldn't help sighing, thinking of Wang Xifeng in the original book.

Mrs. Wang's house fighting skills, Wang Xifeng almost used them in the original book. They are worthy of being aunts and nephews, and their house fighting skills are in the same line. And Wang Xifeng will end up being suspended, I'm afraid it's because he crossed the bottom line that Mrs. Wang said and was caught!

"You can marry a prince to be a concubine, and the prince is such a character, your fortune is really great!" Mrs. Wang touched Yuan Chun's hair and said lovingly, "But things in this world have always had gains and losses, and it is difficult to have the best of both worlds." If you marry high into the royal family and enjoy the honor and wealth that ordinary people rarely have, you will also have to endure the corresponding disadvantages. No mother's family can protect the daughter who marries into the royal family, and the Jia family can't protect you. The only thing that can protect you is your character, your popularity, and your reputation. Therefore, after you pass the door, the most important thing is to manage your virtuous reputation with your heart; The second important thing is to make a good relationship among the royal family, and someone must speak for you at a critical moment! In this way, there will be capital for self-protection in the future. ”

"What do you mean by that?"

"Silly boy! Are there really so many virtuous ladies in this world? Many women pretend to be virtuous and famous, not just for a false name, it is actually a way to survive! Do you understand? Mrs. Wang sighed, some wanted to laugh and some sour, "Men all see one and love the other, but when they see the newcomer laughing, how can they hear the old man crying!" Once they become obsessed with women, who will tell you about their old love?! At that time, all you can rely on is etiquette and rules! ”

At that time, all you can rely on is etiquette and rules!

This sentence made Yuan Chun suddenly feel sad.

These feudal rules and regulations, while oppressing women, have also become the protective umbrella of some women.

Therefore, it is not only men who have vested interests who are upholding such etiquette and rules, but also many women who have to survive on these etiquette rules, who have become accustomed to these etiquette rules, and who have been brainwashed, are also firmly defending these rules. They would put these shackles on their bodies, tighten them tighter, and wrap them tighter. Not only pestering oneself, but also pestering the next generation, passing on this tragedy from generation to generation, making these rituals and rules more and more unbreakable and indestructible.

She was still thinking just now: The wife is teaching the concubine, which is a bit similar to dog training. In fact, now think about it: for thousands of years, men have been teaching women, why aren't they training dogs?

For those women who are honest and obedient and loyal to men, the men will lift them up and reward them with meat and bones. For those women who are not honest and obedient enough, who do not obey the discipline of men, and who are not virtuous and virtuous enough, of course, men should beat them and put on some small shoes.

Over time, women will know what kind of women men like! Even if you are not that kind of woman, you will slowly learn to be that kind of woman, or try to pretend to be like that. That's why Mrs. Wang said: Many women pretend to be virtuous and famous, which is actually a way to survive!

After countless years and generations of men's training and selection of women, now, men no longer need to personally "train dogs"!

Now, the older generation of "dogs" will tell the younger generation of "dogs": what kind of woman can survive and live well in a patriarchal society. After countless generations of "survival of the fittest", this "dog nature" will slowly integrate into the blood and genes of some women. These women are basically no different from men's "domestic dogs"! Seeing Tian'er wagging his tail at his master and begging for mercy, and occasionally being rewarded with a meat and bone, he looked at other women with a sense of superiority.

Thinking about it like this, she couldn't help but feel proud, and felt that everything in this world was very boring! The anticipation for the upcoming wedding has also been diluted a lot.

Mrs. Wang was still saying: "If the wife is not at fault, no matter how much the master dotes on those little goblins, he will not dare to spoil his concubine and kill his wife easily." After all, there is a royal history in the court, there are patriarchal rules in the clan, and the wife's maiden family cannot let her daughter be bullied at will. But if you commit the sin of the seven, then you are handing the handle to someone else, and people are holding your life at any time! When you are young, it is just that the husband and wife have a good relationship. Once the relationship between husband and wife is thin, the word 'jealousy' alone is a deadly handle! You, a child, have always been unable to rub sand in your eyes, this is not the truth of life! ”

She looked at Yuan Chun's eyes, and there was some faint worry: "In the past, Prince Zhaohui was in poor health, and there has never been a concubine to have a room. But now that the prince is well, after you pass the door, how can there be no concubine? The imperial court has always had a rule, and the prince will have his own concubines, wives, and rooms. Even if he doesn't have it now, the emperor and the queen will reward him, can he still not accept it? Can you still say no?

"You've always been a smart boy, but you can't be fooled around with this! Don't fall into the shoes of others and get a reputation for jealousy! I have lived for so many years, and I have seen and heard some of the jealous women. But these women are either in a difficult situation, or they don't end well. The relationship between you and the prince is extraordinary, and you should cherish it even more, don't waste all the past feelings! ”

Hearing this, Yuan Chun felt that he couldn't help but tell Mrs. Wang about the "rules of the master"! lest Mrs. Wang worry in vain and add chaos to herself.

"Madame has a point! But there is one thing that my wife still doesn't know: My teacher has a rule, the husbands of our disciples are not allowed to take concubines, they are not allowed to accept intercourse, and they are not allowed to prostitute themselves, and they are not allowed to hand over prostitutes, and so on. My husband and I must guard each other like jade! If anyone dares to disobey the rules and defile the honor of the Lotus Realm with an unclean body, he will be damned! Yuan Chun's face did not change and said the lie that he had repeated countless times, "I told my grandfather about this back then, and my grandfather told me to keep it secret. Later, my grandfather told the emperor about it, and the emperor told me not to leak it. So no one in the family knew about it except for me and my grandfather. ”

Mrs. Wang looked at her dumbfounded, completely looking like her three views had collapsed.

Yuan Chun's mood was a little complicated: "My wife is close to me today and has nothing to say. The matter ...... I can't hide it from my wife anymore! But my wife must never tell anyone about it again! Otherwise...... It's a disobedience to the order! ”

In this matter, the emperor Lao'er once clearly asked her to keep it secret. Now, except for a limited number of insiders in the royal family, there is no rumor. If the Jia family leaked the news first, the emperor would probably be very unhappy! Once the emperor is unhappy, even if he doesn't give himself small shoes to wear, he will definitely not be soft when he takes the rest of the Jia family or a relative or friend of the Jia family to get angry!

Mrs. Wang still looked at Yuan Chun as if she was stupid.

"Ma'am?" Yuan Chun waved his hand in front of her.

Madame Wang came back to her senses, gasped, closed her eyes and rubbed the corners of her forehead, as if digesting this thing that was incomprehensible to her.

"Does Prince Zhaohui know about this?" After a long while, Mrs. Wang asked with her eyes closed while rubbing the corners of her forehead.

"Know! The emperor has already informed the prince of Zhaohui about this, and I have also told the prince in person. The prince is willing to marry me, and he takes the initiative to enter the palace to ask for marriage, and the emperor will give me the marriage. ”

Mrs. Wang's eyes were still closed, and after a long while, she waved her hand at Yuan Chun: "You go!" I'm going to be quiet and think about it. Let's pick the wedding girl another day. ”

Yuan Chun said goodbye and let the candidates for the dowry girl who had been waiting outside disperse. Said that the wife was too tired, and I would pick it another day.

When he walked to Rongqing Hall, Yuan Chun was thinking about one thing: "Master's Rules" and "Heavenly Punishment", and he had already told Mrs. Wang today. When she officially gets married, there must be more people staring at her husband's inner courtyard and back house, how to deal with it then?

Do you want to publicize the "rules of the teacher" publicly? Will the emperor agree to preach the matter himself? If it is preached, will anyone believe it? Will it cause some new gossip?

If it is not publicized, then as time goes by, when those long-tongued women find that the backyard of Prince Zhaohui is always deserted, how can there be anyone who does not chew their tongues? When the time comes, a black cauldron of "good jealousy" will be firmly buckled on his head.

Belch...... It seems like...... It's not a black pot to say that you're jealous, right?! I am indeed quite jealous!

I'll go!

She despised herself in her heart: really...... I've been lying for a long time, and even I've believed it myself!

She thought of another question: Mrs. Wang's house fighting experience is very rich!

Why did she lose so ugly to Aunt Zhao in the end in the original book?! Her son was almost killed by Aunt Zhao's mother, and she didn't find the murderer, so she didn't do anything about the murderer! Could it be that Aunt Zhao is Mrs. Wang's life enemy? Hehehehe...... Losing to such an unobtrusive person is really a capsized boat in the gutter, ironic enough!

Mrs. Wang will lose so ugly, in the final analysis, the reason is still on the man, right?

It's like some men she heard of in her previous life, obviously the family has a good wife, but they just don't have a common topic with their wives, they just love a hair salon lady and a nightclub warbler so much that they can't give up, and they are dead and alive, so what can they do?

After a few days, Mrs. Wang talked to Yuan Chun again.

"If you don't follow the rules of your teacher, you will be damned...... You're not lying, are you? Mrs. Wang said with some uncertainty.

Yuan Chun looked at her with great sincerity: "No! Both my grandfather and the emperor know about this, if I lie, can I still deceive them? It has long been debunked by them! ”

Mrs. Wang nodded, recognized her answer, and asked, "Prince Zhaohui knows this rule of your master, and dares to ask you to marry, and the emperor also agreed...... Did they acquiesce? ”

Yuan Chun continued to look at her with great sincerity: "That's right! ”

Mrs. Wang breathed a sigh of relief, and a strange smile appeared on her face: "I just feel strange!" Even if Prince Zhaohui is in poor health and can't get close to women for the time being, but in the inner house, there are one or two people who know the heat to take care of their diet and daily life, that's good! Reward two people first, set the name, and wait for the prince to get better and then round the room, this is the proper rule! Why is it that after so many years, the queen mother didn't even reward a palace maid to the seventeenth prince? Aren't you afraid that people will say that her mother-in-law is unkind? That's why! ”

Yuan Chun wiped a sweat in his heart: This is really ...... It's dangerous! Fortunately, she had a plan and a premeditated plan!

After smiling faintly, Mrs. Wang's face appeared worriedly: "Since the emperor does not allow you to divulge the rules of the master, I'm afraid you will have to carry the reputation of a 'jealous woman'!" How good is that? ”

Yuan Chun sighed slightly: This is also a matter of no way! Besides, if I say that I am a jealous woman, I am not wronged!

"Madame need not worry about this. As long as the emperor, the queen and the prince understand me, it is enough! Yuan Chun said calmly, "Don't take the nonsense of those people outside to heart!" ”

But in fact, as long as she thinks about that kind of scene in the future, she feels a little embarrassed in her heart: the whole world is the truth, and only the closest people are kept in the dark! How does it feel...... She's climbing a wall?!

"In that case, then I won't worry about that heart in vain!" There was a hint of melancholy in Madame Wang's tone.

She still had worries in her heart. But thinking that it would be useless to say those things, he did not say anything, lest his daughter be upset.

After talking to Yuan Chun about some private words, Mrs. Wang called the candidates for the marriage girl to come in and continue the interview that was temporarily canceled last time: "These girls were selected by me in the first place." Since you don't need what I'm talking about, you can pick eight of them out of them as you wish! ”

When a young lady from a wealthy family marries, there are usually four or six bridesmaids. And Yuan Chun is married to the palace, and the princess is married to the girl, according to the convention, it is eight.

Yuan Chun personally interviewed these girls who passed the test and entered the final link.

Most of these girls Yuan Chun knew, and when she interviewed the servants in the family a few years ago, she interviewed some of them. She took a look at their personnel files and had a general understanding of the backgrounds and specialties of these girls. They don't all meet Mrs. Wang's N conditions for marrying girls, but Mrs. Wang appropriately relaxed the conditions and singled out these candidates.

She asked these girls one by one: Do you want to be my dowry girl? Why do you want to do it? I thought about a few psychological test questions that I had seen in my previous life, tested the psychology of these girls, and then circled eight girls.

Mrs. Wang kept watching coldly, and after the girls retreated, she asked with some curiosity: "What do you mean by those strange questions just now?" ”

Yuan Chun smiled: "It doesn't mean anything special. It's just to see how they answer these kinds of weird questions, and then see if their answers are to my liking. "Psychology is a miracle, she is also a layman's level of excitement, and she can't explain it clearly to Mrs. Wang.

Mrs. Wang didn't ask any more questions.

In the following days, Mrs. Wang would take a little time out almost every day to teach Yuanchun some ways to get along with husband and wife.

Like what:

"Whatever your uncle says, even if you don't agree, you have to follow it. Don't talk to your uncle! Men are all strong and good-looking, and if you refute him speechless, he just thinks that you are reasonable, and he will not be able to get over his face. If you do this more often, you will be dissatisfied...... You just want to persuade your uncle to do something, and you have to speak softly......"

"What my uncle likes to eat, what he doesn't love, and what his likes and taboos are, you have to find out as soon as possible, and then do what he likes......"

"Everything else is false, after passing the door, the most important thing is to give birth to a son quickly. With a son, you can be considered to have a foothold...... How to have a son as soon as possible, you know better than me, right? ”

Son...... Yuan Chun is embarrassed again.