Yun Shanshan looked at the title of the book, and for some reason, she had a strange feeling in her heart. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

Self-denial wins, using this word as the title of the book, it still really makes people feel indescribable. That is, it seems that this world is full of conspiracy, and if you want to achieve the final victory, you have to restrain yourself, and then, Yun Shanshan's brain was active, this Zhou Ruoran still seems to have the appearance of a city.

Yun Shanshan looked at the cover of the book with a somewhat complicated feeling, and then carefully turned the first page. On the first page, Yun Shanshan saw Zhou Ruoran's words. Delicate and handsome, it seems, just like his person, or, his temperament. Just when Yun Shanshan saw Zhou Ruoran's few lines, she suddenly felt a smell of books wafting out of the book. That feeling, Yun Shanshan likes it very much.

Zhou Ruoran didn't have many words, just a few, written and presented to Yun Shanshan, the following is Zhou Ruoran's signature, the name is the dragon flying phoenix dance, it seems that there is an indescribable free and easy, but in this kind of free and easy, Yun Shanshan also saw a sense of mystery. This is still just like Zhou Ruoran's person.

After pausing for a moment on the second page of paper with Zhou Ruoran's signature, Yun Shanshan carefully continued to flip down. After a cursory look like this, Yun Shanshan found that this is a psychological book, which is not as mysterious or conspiracy theories as the title says, in fact, when Yun Shanshan flipped through some texts and understood the contents, Yun Shanshan even thought that the translation of the book was not in place, or rather, the translation of the title was not in place. This gives a misunderstanding of the five rounds that shouldn't be there.

This is a psychology book, and after Yun Shanshan flipped through a few pages, she found that it was indeed very good. The main content is to study the structure of the human brain and thinking, as well as some normal psychological states, and secondly, to let people know how to build self-confidence to face the pressure of competition and other aspects of life.

When Yun Shanshan read some of the contents of this book, she felt that the writing was very good, and these things were exactly what she needed very much now.

Now, Yun Shanshan knows that she is already a senior in high school. When she entered the third year of high school, Yun Shanshan felt that her surroundings, in the classroom, or in the corridor of the school, or even in the dormitory of the school, in the cafeteria, every place she was used to was suddenly filled with an inexplicable sense of crisis, it seems that these places, every grass and tree in this school, are reminding herself all the time that she is now a student in the third year of high school, and she is in her third year of high school, and she will soon leave the school. It can affect a person's whole life. This kind of speech that affects a person's life is that teachers and parents often put it on their lips to tell students, as if they want to let them know their current situation, but Yun Shanshan feels that this kind of advice is actually full of a huge pressure for every student, in this kind of pressure, Yun Shanshan sometimes even feels that these things have affected the students' attitude towards learning and some normal work and normal life, it has brought an unprecedented huge pressure to students, even, Under this pressure, students may behave in the opposite direction that teachers and parents expect.

Yun Shanshan believes that there is something wrong with the psychological state of the students.

In fact, Yun Shanshan feels that a senior high school student is already a very sensible child, and he already has a view from his heart about the meaning of many things such as right and wrong, success and failure, and hard work. Most of the students are self-motivated. However, for these self-motivated children, teachers and parents give them some extra burden and psychological pressure, which will only backfire.

However, it seems that most teachers and parents do not realize this, in the mouths of teachers and parents, the third year of high school is nervous, and even Yun Shanshan knows that some parents, even more nervous than students, have often been unable to sleep since the third year of high school, resulting in a state of intermittent insomnia. Moreover, the pressure of these parents is often released by constantly nagging their children. And then the children are even more nervous. The funny thing is that when parents see their children more nervous, they become more and more relieved。。。。。。

This is a common misconception that occurs when schools and parents educate together. No one knows how to give psychological counseling to students, but blindly imposes pressure on them. In other words, even if there is some psychological counseling, they are all saying some high-sounding words, which are not practical, and make people feel like they are always writing essays, and they seem to be really brainwashing, in short, some remarks about psychological stress reduction from teachers or schools, Yun Shanshan's feeling about this is often that when listening to them, that is, when the teachers speak, they are enthusiastic when they listen, and feel that what they say is very reasonable, but after that, as long as a day or two passes, sometimes even half a day, These high-profile remarks immediately disappeared from Yun Shanshan's world. Moreover, Yun Shanshan also knows that this situation is the same for almost all students.

That is the disconnect between theory and practice.

School education always elevates some ideas to the height of a pure theory, and these things often sound exciting and reasonable, but once they come to reality, after some baptism of reality, they find that these purely theoretical things are so pale and powerless.

Yun Shanshan didn't like these things, although at that time, when Yun Shanshan listened to the blood boiling, she would also like it very much, and felt that she had benefited a lot, but every time after that, when she went to taste back, it was so pale that Yun Shanshan felt very speechless.

But at this moment, Yun Shanshan looked at the book in front of her, this book with Zhou Ruoran's signature, with a bookish taste, and saw the psychological words and inferences in it, these words really moved Yun Shanshan.

Moreover, when Yun Shanshan was moved, Yun Shanshan's heart was also full of gratitude. At this time, she felt that Zhou Ruoran was too good. Yes, Yun Shanshan didn't think that Zhou Ruoran was so careful at all, and she could even understand her own psychological state. However, when the book was delivered to her, Yun Shanshan found that her eyes were almost moist.

Unexpectedly, Zhou Ruoran was so heartfelt. Unexpectedly, a small and inconspicuous book gave herself such a big boost, and Yun Shanshan was full of emotion at this time. It's almost impossible to describe in words.