Looking at Zhou Ruofeng's clumsy steps slowly walking away, Zhou Ruoran's heart was empty. www.biquge.info Although the younger brother in front of him looks so stupid, it seems that many people will bully him, or perhaps, it is not safe for him to walk alone, but Zhou Ruoran knows that he doesn't have to worry about his younger brother because of this.

Because, the reason has been repeated countless times, Zhou Ruoran's younger brother's appearance is really ugly, because his appearance is very sinister, therefore, no one wants to get close to him, even those who may do bad things. Zhou Ruofeng's face, which makes people feel disgusted now, has also become Zhou Ruofeng's protective color.

Just looking at his younger brother and finally walking away, Zhou Ruoran's heart was full of an indescribable taste, and in the end, he shook his head and walked in the direction of his dormitory. It seems that Zhou Ruoran is not in the mood to prepare for class this day, and to prepare for the physical education class students in the first grade of junior high school, for some reason, Zhou Ruoran always feels that he lacks a little motivation.

In this way, Zhou Ruoran quickly returned to his dormitory.

Zhou Ruoran's home is actually not far from the school, or in other words, it is in the teacher's dormitory building not far from the campus. Zhou Ruoran's father lives in it, and it is only natural that the principal lives in this house.

Zhou Ruoran still has feelings for that place, from childhood to adulthood, Zhou Ruoran almost grew up in it, but, for some reason, as he grows older, Zhou Ruoran feels that although feelings are feelings, he also has an urgent instinct, that is, to leave there, it seems that the outside world is a kind of calling for him, or maybe in his subconscious, he is trying to find an independent place for himself, everything is for his future.

For this, that is, his own mentality, Zhou Ruoran often feels guilty.

Zhou Ruoran feels that he is not the kind of person who is not a descendant of the legend, but Zhou Ruoran sometimes thinks that he urgently wants to leave the place where he was born and raised, and wants to leave the world of his parents, which can be said to be embraced or controlled, which is almost an instinct, an instinct that seems to outsiders and even looks a little ruthless.

Zhou Ruoran often listens to some people talk about some stories about children and grandchildren who are not good for their parents, and what is not good for children is almost what Zhou Ruoran has seen in the relationship between parents and children in this world or novels or in the people and things around him since he can remember. Whenever there is a problem in the relationship between parents and children, the public opinion of the world is almost all blamed on the children. It seems that in the relationship between people, the relationship between parents and children, the position of parents is absolute hegemony.

Sometimes, Zhou Ruoran feels that this view is not too correct. Isn't it? There is a good saying, pity the hearts of parents all over the world. The hearts of parents all over the world are really very pitiful. After having a child, I have worked hard for my child all my life. However, even then, children grow up and parents grow old. Older parents, on the other hand, are never willing to admit or recognize that they are getting old in front of their children. They are accustomed to always use their love to interfere with everything in their children, everything in life. In the eyes of parents, children will always be children, because they are children, with their parents' absolute selfless hearts, and they are often worried about their children, they are always unconsciously habitually paying for their children, until they are old, until the last moment of life. However, despite this, children often do not appreciate it. In a child's world, as they grow up day by day, they need to move towards independence day by day. To deal with one's own problems independently, to be independent, not to be controlled by anyone, even with 100% love, is the greatest burden to a person with an independent and complete personality, and can even turn into harm in the end.

Therefore, the relationship between parents and children often becomes very tangled as the child grows up.

In fact, when it comes to love, Zhou Ruoran feels that children's love for their parents is actually no less than their parents' love for their children. Moreover, Zhou Ruoran feels that this kind of love is even more thorough and strong than the love of parents for their children. Because, the love for parents is the first love in a child's life, and it is unforgettable and difficult to give up for a lifetime.

Nowadays, many people like to raise dogs, because, people think that dogs are heartfelt, you have raised it, and it will shake its head in front of you all its life, but it will obey you and regard you as the master. However, people never will. When a child is getting older and older, when he needs to enter the big human society to face everything independently, any kind of overhead control, even if it is a form of love, will become a huge stumbling block for them to move forward in life. Therefore, it is precisely because of these reasons that as the child grows older, as the child enters the ranks of his own adults, the parents' desire to control the child with the purest love, and the child's desire to get rid of control and act independently with an instinct for survival, has become a huge contradiction. And some parents and children eventually reach a point where it is difficult to reconcile, and this is often the root cause.

The ancient Chinese view is that the younger generation is required to be filial piety, so that the younger generation will completely and unconditionally obey their parents out of selfless love. This is advantageous for parents. However, for a person with a complete personality, it is often a disaster that is almost devastating.

Zhou Ruoran doesn't like one thing, that is, there is a essence of the Chinese people, that is, bonsai.

The so-called bonsai is to use the action of external forces to make them become all kinds of what others want them to be during the period when a small seedling that could have grown into a thriving tree. Ultimately, the role of bonsai is to be appreciated by others. As a precious thing, put it in a greenhouse, let the world visit, sigh. Bonsai uses its own completely distorted form to evoke all kinds of beautiful visual effects and reverie of others. But for the bonsai itself, it is already a plant that has been destroyed. Its only soil is no longer nature, but an exhibition hall. Only when the exhibition hall exists, bonsai has the value and meaning of existence, and its life can shine, but once the exhibition hall no longer exists, once the outside world has undergone any slight changes, its ending is often very sad.

For people, if a system distorts human nature, only when this system or environment exists, the person can survive, and once the environment changes, it will be difficult for people who have been restricted by various rules to adapt to the general environment of this world, so it is easy to be eliminated.

And then there is something in human nature that is almost self-helping, that is, independent, uncontrolled.